Geno
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Hello Everyone,
My best friend was killed in an auto accident in December of 2014. It was obviously a crushing blow and a very tragic event to experience. Since that time things have only gotten worse. He was a young father of two baby girls. He was 24 at the time of his death. We were confused from the beginning because he was going the opposite way from his home. He had been at an informal class reunion at a local bar, so we knew that he had alcohol in his system.
The original story was that he and his wife were at the bar and the babysitter called stating that their 2 year old daughter was sick so they needed to come home. She said that when he took her home he said that he wanted to go back to spend more time with his friends. She told us that she was okay with that. Only later did we find out that they were actually fighting and she told him if he went back that he had better not come home. According to his friends he left the bar for the last time at approx 12:15-12:30. He never made it home. His wife then called his mother at 3 am and said that he hadn't made it home. The wife also said that she had called another friend to try to help find him. The "friend" supposedly said to his wife, "I can't be the one to find his body". It wasn't until 5 am that his wife called his mother again and asked if she could come and sit with the children so that she was able to go search for him. So she left the house around 5:30 to search for him, but didn't return back to the house until 8 am.
After the wife returned home, his mother left his house to return to her home. As she was driving down the road she drove past the accident site and by this time police and fire crews were on scene. He was then pronounced dead. The police theory is that he had crashed at approx 1 am and was not discovered until 8-830. So his father left the accident scene to return to his home to notify his wife of his death. Before he was able to even tell her that he had passed away, she had a friend already at her house and her mother had called Chuck's mother wanting to know what happened to him, but this was before anyone else knew, except those at the accident site.
There was no skid marks or brake marks at the accident site. It literally appeared as though he had just driven off the road with no attempts to swerve or avoid the crash. As time had been passing, the wife shed not one tear. She would make the motions as though she was grieving, but never shed one actual tear.
Ok so now some more time passes and we continue to ask his wife if she had talked to the local police or coroners office to find out the toxicology report or accident report. She stated multiple times that she called every day and nobody would return her call. I finally had had enough and I placed the call for his mother and they returned her call withing one business day.
The very important thing to know about Chuck is that he may have been a drinker, however he NEVER did drugs. When we received the toxicology report his alcohol level was high at 0.2, but he also tested positive for barbiturates. This is when we as family and friends became very suspicious. He was the type of person that did not ever take even a Tylenol or Advil. Now as a little more time passes we find out that she was cheating on him and the youngest baby is not his. And the boyfriend that she was cheating with was at the bar with them that night. His wife profited massively off of his death because the local community donated tens of thousands of dollars to her before any of this information came to light.
Now the problem is that there was never an autopsy done because they assume that he was just a young man who died because he was drunk driving. Nobody believes that he did not use drugs. We can not even get the blood tested by a private lab because she is the executor of his estate and has to sign paperwork okaying that process. She was seen with the boyfriend within 2 weeks of his death. My problem is: am I just reading too much into all of these circumstances because of my love for my friend. Or does this look suspicious to the outside world as well? And if it does how do we as people who love him go about getting local officials to believe that his accident may have not been just an accident??
Sorry this post is so long. It is a very difficult time for everyone who loves him and even more frustrating thinking that we can't get anyone to do any type of investigation due to the alcohol level that was in his system. Money is not an issue. We will pay whatever it is that we have to pay for private testing. It just seems as though the police have tunnel vision only looking at the alcohol level and do not believe us when we say he would never ever take a barbiturate. He was a frequent drinker and did have a pretty high tolerance for alcohol. And his wife even lied to the police about that saying that he never drank a drop of alcohol. Which is a complete lie. He drank quite a bit so I know he had a tolerance level built. I just need to know what step can I take to prove that somebody possibly spiked his drink. And perhaps his accident wasn't just an accident and somebody murdered my best friend. How do I get someone to listen to my pleas for help??
Please let me know any thoughts that you may have. If I am looking at this with blinders of suspicion I would like to know that too.
My best friend was killed in an auto accident in December of 2014. It was obviously a crushing blow and a very tragic event to experience. Since that time things have only gotten worse. He was a young father of two baby girls. He was 24 at the time of his death. We were confused from the beginning because he was going the opposite way from his home. He had been at an informal class reunion at a local bar, so we knew that he had alcohol in his system.
The original story was that he and his wife were at the bar and the babysitter called stating that their 2 year old daughter was sick so they needed to come home. She said that when he took her home he said that he wanted to go back to spend more time with his friends. She told us that she was okay with that. Only later did we find out that they were actually fighting and she told him if he went back that he had better not come home. According to his friends he left the bar for the last time at approx 12:15-12:30. He never made it home. His wife then called his mother at 3 am and said that he hadn't made it home. The wife also said that she had called another friend to try to help find him. The "friend" supposedly said to his wife, "I can't be the one to find his body". It wasn't until 5 am that his wife called his mother again and asked if she could come and sit with the children so that she was able to go search for him. So she left the house around 5:30 to search for him, but didn't return back to the house until 8 am.
After the wife returned home, his mother left his house to return to her home. As she was driving down the road she drove past the accident site and by this time police and fire crews were on scene. He was then pronounced dead. The police theory is that he had crashed at approx 1 am and was not discovered until 8-830. So his father left the accident scene to return to his home to notify his wife of his death. Before he was able to even tell her that he had passed away, she had a friend already at her house and her mother had called Chuck's mother wanting to know what happened to him, but this was before anyone else knew, except those at the accident site.
There was no skid marks or brake marks at the accident site. It literally appeared as though he had just driven off the road with no attempts to swerve or avoid the crash. As time had been passing, the wife shed not one tear. She would make the motions as though she was grieving, but never shed one actual tear.
Ok so now some more time passes and we continue to ask his wife if she had talked to the local police or coroners office to find out the toxicology report or accident report. She stated multiple times that she called every day and nobody would return her call. I finally had had enough and I placed the call for his mother and they returned her call withing one business day.
The very important thing to know about Chuck is that he may have been a drinker, however he NEVER did drugs. When we received the toxicology report his alcohol level was high at 0.2, but he also tested positive for barbiturates. This is when we as family and friends became very suspicious. He was the type of person that did not ever take even a Tylenol or Advil. Now as a little more time passes we find out that she was cheating on him and the youngest baby is not his. And the boyfriend that she was cheating with was at the bar with them that night. His wife profited massively off of his death because the local community donated tens of thousands of dollars to her before any of this information came to light.
Now the problem is that there was never an autopsy done because they assume that he was just a young man who died because he was drunk driving. Nobody believes that he did not use drugs. We can not even get the blood tested by a private lab because she is the executor of his estate and has to sign paperwork okaying that process. She was seen with the boyfriend within 2 weeks of his death. My problem is: am I just reading too much into all of these circumstances because of my love for my friend. Or does this look suspicious to the outside world as well? And if it does how do we as people who love him go about getting local officials to believe that his accident may have not been just an accident??
Sorry this post is so long. It is a very difficult time for everyone who loves him and even more frustrating thinking that we can't get anyone to do any type of investigation due to the alcohol level that was in his system. Money is not an issue. We will pay whatever it is that we have to pay for private testing. It just seems as though the police have tunnel vision only looking at the alcohol level and do not believe us when we say he would never ever take a barbiturate. He was a frequent drinker and did have a pretty high tolerance for alcohol. And his wife even lied to the police about that saying that he never drank a drop of alcohol. Which is a complete lie. He drank quite a bit so I know he had a tolerance level built. I just need to know what step can I take to prove that somebody possibly spiked his drink. And perhaps his accident wasn't just an accident and somebody murdered my best friend. How do I get someone to listen to my pleas for help??
Please let me know any thoughts that you may have. If I am looking at this with blinders of suspicion I would like to know that too.