Her 12-year-old daughter was sexually assaulted by a man who posed as a high school student on social media.
But before Arik Jeppsen was sentenced through videoconference, the girl and her mother wanted to meet with him in person.
“He knew she was 12 years old. We wanted to see him face-to-face. Arik, I wanted to look you in your eyes and I wanted to see you tell me that you were sorry for doing what you did to my daughter,” said the mother, whose name is not being published to protect the identity of her daughter.
“He took her innocence. He destroyed her life. But he didn’t destroy her,” the mother said during Jeppsen’s original sentencing hearing on Jan. 27.
On Thursday, 3rd District Judge Matthew Bates included as part of Jeppsen’s sentence that a meeting between Jeppsen and the family be arranged should the family request it.
“I have never ordered something like that before,” the judge said.
That was just one unusual element in a two-part sentencing hearing that saw tempers flare from the mother and the judge over frustrations connected with online court hearings, which are being held over video because of the pandemic.
Jeppsen was 19 when he posed as a 16-year-old boy on Snapchat last year and began talking with the 12-year-old girl. Those conversations led to him picking up the girl and driving her to his house, where he sexually assaulted her.
Jeppsen
was charged in March with eight felonies. The event was traumatic for the girl and her family. Her
mother thought she was doing all she needed to protect her daughter.
But the mother also says her daughter should not be called a “victim,” but rather a “hero” for what she has done since that day, for being directly involved in Jeppsen’s case and for having the courage to face the man who assaulted her.
As part of a plea deal, Jeppsen pleaded guilty to two counts of sexual abuse of a child, a second-degree felony, in exchange for the other charges being dropped.
On Thursday, Jeppsen was sentenced to four years of probation. He was also given a suspended one-to-15-year sentence in the Utah State Prison and was given credit for the nearly one year he has spent in jail since his arrest. Jeppsen was ordered to complete sex offender therapy, register as a sex offender in Utah, and write a letter of apology to the girl.
During sentencing on Thursday, Jeppsen told the girl and her family that he was sorry.
“No parent should have to go through what you had to go through for the past 11, nearly 12 months,” he said. “You deserve a nice and prosperous life.”
Jeppsen actually thanked the family for reporting his actions to police.
“I honestly believe that you helped save my life,” he said.
A note that the girl had written to the judge was also read into the record. In it, she talked about her innocence and how she didn't think anyone on Snapchat would be there to hurt her.
“This has been a process ... and I’m sure down the road there will be more to get through,” she stated in the letter. “I feel like I’m coming out of this a stronger person. He didn’t break me.”