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    The Good, The Bad and Ugly.



    Yeah, but what have you done for me lately?

    A “kind and generous’’ Long Island mom donated a kidney to save the life of her boss — who then turned around after she got what she wanted and helped fire the poor woman, according to an explosive new legal complaint.

    “I decided to become a kidney donor to my boss, and she took my heart,’’ Debbie Stevens, a 47-year-old divorced mother of two, sobbed to The Post.

    “I feel very betrayed. This has been a very hurtful and horrible experience for me. She just took this gift and put it on the ground and kicked it.’’


    Most Ungrateful Bitch In the World

    SHE ‘MEANS’ BUSINESS: Jackie Brucia allegedly fired Debbie Stevens from the car dealership where they worked in West Islip.

    In papers filed Friday with the state Human Rights commission, Stevens charges that she was clearly set up by Jackie Brucia, 61, her once-ailing boss at the billion-dollar Atlantic Automotive Group, which operates several new-car dealerships.

    Stevens said she first got to know Brucia, one of the West Islip company’s controllers, while toiling as a clerical worker for the firm starting in January 2009.

    Stevens then left the company in June 2010 to move to Florida. But when she returned to Long Island for a visit that September, she stopped by the office and talked with Brucia, a discussion that included Brucia’s health problems and “her need for a kidney transplant,’’ the papers state.

    Stevens told The Post that Brucia told her she’d located a possible donor, a family friend.

    But “because she was naturally a kind and generous person, Stevens told Brucia that, if necessary, she would be willing to donate a kidney,’’ the document says.

    “Brucia . . . told her, ‘You never know, I may have to take you up on that offer one day,’ ” the papers say.

    Soon after, Stevens decided to move back to Long Island for good and asked Brucia if she could return to work there. She had a job with the company again within weeks.

    Then, two months later, in January 2011, Stevens told The Post, Brucia “called me into her office and said, ‘My donor was denied. Were you serious when you said that?’ I said, ‘Sure, yeah.’ She was my boss, I respected her. It’s just who I am. I didn’t want her to die.’’

    Brucia had been “apparently grooming her to be her ‘backup plan,’ ” according to the papers. But while Stevens was a close health match for Brucia, she wasn’t a perfect one. So the doctors agreed to allow Stevens to donate her left kidney to someone else in the transplant group so that Brucia could move up the waiting list and get her organ from someone else.

    “I felt I was giving her life back,’’ Stevens told The Post. “My kidney ended up going to St. Louis, Missouri, and hers came from San Francisco.”

    Stevens said she did not realize that she was in for serious pain, discomfort in her legs and digestive problems after the surgery on Aug. 10, 2011. She said she felt pressured to return to work Sept. 6, before she was ready — even while her boss was still recovering at home. When Stevens went home sick three days after her return, she said, Brucia actually called her from home to berate her.

    “She . . . said, ‘What are you doing? Why aren’t you at work?’ I told her I didn’t feel good,’’ Stevens told The Post. “She said, ‘You can’t come and go as you please. People are going to think you’re getting special treatment.’ ”

    After Brucia returned to work, she’d yell at Stevens in front of co-workers over alleged mistakes, Stevens said.

    Stevens said that her office and overtime were eventually taken away and that she was demoted to a dealership 50 miles from her home in a high-crime neighborhood that co-workers jokingly called “Siberia.’’ Experiencing mental anguish, she consulted a psychiatrist. and her lawyers wrote a letter to the company — after which Stevens was quickly fired, the papers state.

    Brucia did not return phone calls from The Post. She was spotted outside her Babylon home Friday getting into a limo with plastic cups and what appeared to be a bottle of pink champagne.

    Yesterday, her husband, James, told a reporter the claims were “far from the truth’’ but declined to say how. “She didn’t fire anybody,’’ he only said.

    AAG also did not return a request for comment.

    Stevens’ lawyer, Lenard Leeds, said he plans to file a discrimination lawsuit against AAG, and would likely seek millions of dollars in compensation.

    Another lawyer for Stevens, Jason Barbara, added, “[Brucia] turns on her, and she should have been kissing her feet.’’

    Still, Stevens said, “I have no regrets [that] I donated a kidney because it saved the life of a man in Missouri.’’
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    JackieBrucia.
    Sounds like a dirty word.

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    But “because she was naturally a kind and generous person, Stevens told Brucia that, if necessary, she would be willing to donate a kidney,’’ the document says.
    Who just offers up a kidney to someone they have only known a little over two years ?

    Then, two months later, in January 2011, Stevens told The Post, Brucia “called me into her office and said, ‘My donor was denied. Were you serious when you said that?’ I said, ‘Sure, yeah.’ She was my boss, I respected her. It’s just who I am. I didn’t want her to die.’’

    Brucia had been “apparently grooming her to be her ‘backup plan,’ ” according to the papers. But while Stevens was a close health match for Brucia, she wasn’t a perfect one. So the doctors agreed to allow Stevens to donate her left kidney to someone else in the transplant group so that Brucia could move up the waiting list and get her organ from someone else.
    Grooming her at 47 years old .
    Stevens said she did not realize that she was in for serious pain, discomfort in her legs and digestive problems after the surgery on Aug. 10, 2011. She said she felt pressured to return to work Sept. 6, before she was ready — even while her boss was still recovering at home. When Stevens went home sick three days after her return, she said, Brucia actually called her from home to berate her.
    Did she ( Stevens ) not research the surgery at all ?


    Stevens’ lawyer, Lenard Leeds, said he plans to file a discrimination lawsuit against AAG, and would likely seek millions of dollars in compensation.

    Another lawyer for Stevens, Jason Barbara, added, “[Brucia] turns on her, and she should have been kissing her feet.’’

    Still, Stevens said, “I have no regrets [that] I donated a kidney because it saved the life of a man in Missouri.’’
    Sounds like Stevens had some pretty big strings attached to that gift kidney . I'm not saying Brucia is a kind , or unkind person . It just seems more like a money grab on Stevens' part to me .
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    Sounds like Stevens had some pretty big strings attached to that gift kidney . I'm not saying Brucia is a kind , or unkind person . It just seems more like a money grab on Stevens' part to me .
    I have to agree. I don't think the kidney was just given out of the kindness of Stevens heart. Sounds like she thought she was gonna be getting a free pass at the dealership forever.
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    Seems we've been getting a lot of one sided stories lately
    Guess the golden kidney didn't pan out for her
    Dam boss still expected her to do the job

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    We usually do get one sided stories, thats the way they are reported. Any good writer can write a story about the same sugject and have people thinking two different ways. The power of words. What I thought was rather mean is that she expected her to go back to work before she herself was ready to go back and how Brucia responded to it, losing a kidney does take a lot of a persons energy and she could have been a little more understanding, didnt expect her to guarantee a job forever or give her special treatment.

    Addition: Raise your hand if youd be willing to donate a kidney to your boss just so you could keep a job... Im unemployed myself but even in these times of uncertainty and hard to find employment, I dont think we will see too many hands raised, now offer me a few million bucks, I'd think about it. But probobly would still say no and remain in my poverty stricken semi healthy body...
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    They may be more to the story, but it doesn't sound like she wanted special treatment. Enough time to recover is now considered a privilege? Especially when the boss herself is still off?
    I gotta go with Silva, Jackie Brucia does sound like a dirty word.
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    Bicth would have repoed that kidney. Fuck you Jackie Brucia
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    I dont know about anyone else here but only one Id be willing to donate a kidney to would be one of my children or relatives. It doesnt always work out well for the donor and sometimes they get ill and die. (ie. the asian boy that traded his kidney for an ipad.)
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    To me it sounds like the boss was more concerned about "not showing special treatment" then she was about her employees health. I think she made it a point to be hard on her to prove that she wasn't getting special treatment. I mean they wanted her to return to work less than a month after surgery. Below is something I found on recovery for this procedure (kidney donation). Now we don't know if it was open or laparoscoptic surgery but either way they say 4-6 weeks to recover. They even go as far to recommend 8 weeks before returning to work maybe longer if the job is streneous. Her employer didn't want to give her 4 weeks. Then when she does drag her ass back to work in less than a month and goes home early after day 3 because she doesn't feel well she gets yelled at. Seems kind of harsh to me.

    So yeah I think she was unfairly treated. Her boss had zero sympathy even though she was going through a similar ordeal. I really do think the boss was more concerned about not letting people think the employee was being treated special. Now I may be overly sympathic to the donor because I had surgery recently where some people say they are fine in a few days while others have problems months later. It took 2 weeks before I could really move around and even now 20 days after I still have some problems with certain activities and I still get swelling when I over do things. So I may have a slight bias in my opinion.

    How long will it take to recover?

    Recovery time will depend in part on whether your kidney is removed by an open incision, which involves a larger incision and longer recovery time of about eight weeks, or by laparoscope, which involves several small incisions and a shorter recovery of about four weeks.

    The minimum amount of time you should allow yourself to recover is four to six weeks. Because people recover at different rates, with varying degrees of fatigue and pain, you may need as long as eight to 12 weeks leave from work. We prefer that you allow eight weeks from work to recover, should you need it.
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