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    Black widow? Betty Neumar has 5 dead husbands

    Woman held in cold case has other dead spouses
    Five times since the 1950s, Betty Neumar's marriages ended with the death of a husband.

    For two decades, Al Gentry begged investigators to take another look at the mystery of who killed his brother, Harold, and left his gunshot-ridden body sprawled on the floor of the home he shared with his wife.

    He visited the sheriff's office dozens of times and made just as many phone calls. And when authorities finally listened, they wound up arresting the person Gentry had always suspected: his brother's now-76-year-old former wife, who was charged last month with hiring a hit man to gun him down.

    Gentry's persistence may have led investigators to a far more chilling discovery about Betty Neumar. After arresting her, authorities realized that five times since the 1950s, she was married, and each union ended with the death of her husband.

    Neumar, who was out of town the day her husband was killed, showed no emotion when she got back, Al Gentry said. When she pulled up to the one-story brick house in a quiet neighborhood that was surrounded by flashing lights and filled with police officers, he recalled, she blurted out that she had been in Augusta, Ga., the previous night – before he even said a word.

    “If she had gotten out of that car with tears in her eyes and asked me why would anybody kill Harold, I would never have suspected her at all,” he said. “That's where she slipped up.”

    Harold Gentry met Neumar – who was then Betty Sills – in Florida and they married on Jan. 19, 1968, in Charlton County, Ga., when he was 29 and she was 36. The couple moved to Norwood, about an hour east of Charlotte, in the late 1970s after he retired from the Army after 21 years of service.

    Over the years she told the family she had been a nurse and that her first husband died of cancer. She also said she was a beautician and had lived in Ohio, and had children from a previous marriage. At various times, she worked in a drug store, drove a school bus and waited tables while Harold Gentry worked long hours driving a delivery truck for the Royal Chemical Co.

    At first pleasant, she grew to become “cold” to his brother and family, Al Gentry said. By 1986, the marriage was strained and Harold Gentry was living in a camper in the front yard.

    “She was the type of person who liked fancy things – jewelry and clothes. She had the means to live like that, but that wasn't enough,” Al Gentry recalled.

    After Harold Gentry was killed, Neumar collected at least $20,000 in life insurance, plus other benefits from the military and sold the couple's house and other items. But as recently as a few years ago, bankruptcy records indicate, Neumar had no income other than a small monthly Social Security check – but had more than three dozen credit cards and hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt.

    At a hearing this month, prosecutors said she also had at least one overseas bank account.

    After Gentry's death, Neumar remarried two more times. Once was to 79-year-old John Neumar, who died in October. Authorities in Neumar's hometown of Augusta, Ga., are examining the death, and detectives went to her home two weeks ago and seized an urn with his ashes.

    His cause of death was listed as sepsis – an illness caused by a bacterial infection of the body's blood and tissues – and his body was cremated shortly after his death. Investigators will test the remains to see if there “were any other factors that contributed to his death,” including whether he was poisoned by arsenic, which can cause sepsis-like symptoms.

    The couple were married for about 14 years. They filed for bankruptcy in April 2000, and records show they owed $206,300 on 43 credit cards. They listed $14,355 in assets, including a 1996 Lincoln Town car, and had a combined monthly income of only about $1,800. The bankruptcy filing allowed the couple to wipe away the debts.

    Neumar was charged with a single count of solicitation of murder in Gentry's death and is being held on $500,000 bond. At her first court appearance, prosecutors said she tried to hire several people to kill her husband, offering one potential hit man cash and a pickup truck to do the job.

    She does not yet have an attorney and a message given to a jailer went unanswered. Her daughter with Harold Gentry, who also lives in Augusta, declined to comment about her mother's arrest.
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    nice trach scar, too.

    i bet nobody in Betty's family is really super-surprised about this. Look at those eyes.

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    Neumar, who was out of town the day her husband was killed, showed no emotion when she got back, Al Gentry said. When she pulled up to the one-story brick house in a quiet neighborhood that was surrounded by flashing lights and filled with police officers, he recalled, she blurted out that she had been in Augusta, Ga., the previous night – before he even said a word.

    “If she had gotten out of that car with tears in her eyes and asked me why would anybody kill Harold, I would never have suspected her at all,” he said. “That's where she slipped up.”
    Surely that would have shown guilty knowledge? Would not the natural thing to say in this situation be: "What has happened here? Is my husband alright?" Unless of course the brother knows that the police reached her before she got back.....

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    Dear lord. It just took 5 dead to suspect she might be killing them?
    Damn.

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    She had it all wrong....You have 5 living husbands... WAY more entertaining and you still get the rush since it's illegal.

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    not only 5 dead husbands, but also a dead son

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    Black widow? Betty Neumar has 5 dead husbands

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    A Georgia grandmother charged with hiring someone to kill one of her five dead husbands was released from a North Carolina jail Thursday, but it wasn't immediately clear if she would be allowed to leave the state.

    Betty Neumar, 76, posted $300,000 bond late Thursday morning at the Stanly County jail, where she's been held since her arrest in May, Sheriff Rick Burris said.

    He did not know the conditions of her release or where she got the money.

    Neumar is charged with solicitation to commit first-degree murder in the 1986 death of husband No. 4, Harold Gentry.

    "I can't believe they let her out. It's just wrong, flat out wrong. I don't understand," said Gentry's brother, Al, who pressed law enforcement for more than two decades to get the case reopened.
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    If she's out, she'll run. I guess that they thought she couldn't come up with $30,000. I would've guessed she couldn't.
    Yeah....I wonder if ANY of her husbands died a natural death?

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    I think the future number 6 put it up. lol

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    Betty Neumar 79YO Alleged "Black Widow" Is A No Show In Court
    ALBEMARLE, NC (WBTV) – A woman accused of hiring a hit man to murder her fourth husband was supposed to be arraigned on two additional charges in Stanly County Monday morning, but she was unable to make it to court.

    that didn't sit well with Al Gentry, the brother of Neumar's fourth husband Harold. That's the man she's accused of hiring a hit man to kill.

    "Very frustrated," Al Gentry told WBTV. "I'm about as mad as I've been about it the whole time."

    Betty Neumar, who is also known as the "Black Widow", was supposed to appear in Stanly County District Court Monday morning to be arraigned on two additional charges of solicitation to commit murder.
    [...]
    The new charges stem from details uncovered during the investigation which allege that Neumar contacted two additional people to kill her husband before the third person agreed to do it.

    In court Monday morning, Neumar's attorney presented the judge a note saying that Neumar was suffering from health problems and wouldn't be able to travel for 8 to 10 weeks due to a recent hysterectomy. Neumar, 79, is now scheduled to appear in court in December.

    Neumar has been dubbed the "Black Widow" because she has survived each of her five husbands, and three of them were found shot to death.

    The charges in Stanly County stem from the death of her fourth husband, Harold Gentry, who died in 1986.

    In May of 2008, Neumar was charged with solicitation to commit murder after Gentry's brother pushed investigators to reexamine his brother's death, and to have his sister-in-law officially charged.
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    Damn Grandma's hot!!! Anyone got a number?

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    Jeepers..that's one scary chick

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    Suspected "Black Widow" dies in Louisiana
    CHARLOTTE, NC (AP) — An elderly grandmother who left a trail of five dead husbands in five states over decades has died, leaving a longer trail of questions for survivors of her spouses that might never be answered.

    Betty Neumar, 79, died late Sunday or early Monday in a hospital in Louisiana after an illness, her son-in-law Terry Sanders told The Associated Press.
    "She was tough country girl and fought through a lot of pain," said Sanders, who has been married 38 years to Neumar's daughter.

    Authorities in North Carolina said they planned to look into her death. She was free on $300,000 bond on three counts of solicitation to commit first-degree murder in the 1986 death of her fourth husband, Harold Gentry. Her trial was postponed numerous times since her arrest in 2008.
    "We're going to make sure we examine the death certificate," said Sheriff Rick Burris of Stanly County, N.C.

    While investigating Gentry's death, authorities discovered Neumar had been married five times since the 1950s and each union ended in her husband's death. Investigators in three states reopened several of the cases, but have since closed them.
    Neumar's death is bittersweet for Gentry's brother, Al Gentry, 65, of Rockwell, N.C.

    For two decades, he pressed investigators in vain to re-examine his brother's shooting death. The case was finally reopened in January 2008 after he asked Burris, then the newly elected sheriff, to look into it.
    "I'm numb," Al Gentry said. "I wanted justice and we're not going to get it."
    He said there were too many delays: the first was in the initial police investigation in 1986 and later with prosecutors. Her trial was supposed to have started this February, but was postponed to give a newly elected prosecutor more time to prepare
    "We still haven't answered the question: Who actually killed my brother?"

    The mysteries in Neumar's past may never be solved.
    From the beginning, law enforcement authorities told The Associated Press they had struggled to piece together details of Neumar's life because her story kept changing. But interviews, documents and court records provided an outline of her history in North Carolina, Ohio, Florida and Georgia, the states where she was married.
    She was born Betty Johnson in 1931 in Ironton, a hardscrabble southeastern Ohio town along the West Virginia border. She graduated from high school in 1949 and married Clarence Malone in November 1950. It's unclear when their marriage broke up. Their son, Gary, was born March 13, 1952.
    Malone remarried twice. He was shot once in the back of the head outside his auto shop in a small town southwest of Cleveland in November 1970. His death was ruled a homicide, although police said there were no signs of robbery.
    Gary was eventually adopted by Neumar's second husband, James A. Flynn, although it's unclear when she met or married him. She told investigators that he "died on a pier" somewhere in New York in the mid-1950s. She and Flynn had a daughter, Peggy.

    In the mid-1960s, she married husband No. 3: Richard Sills, who was in the Navy. For the last two years, Sills' son, Michael, has been urging police to reinvestigate his father's death, which was ruled a suicide.
    On April 18, 1967, police found his body in the bedroom of the couple's mobile home in Big Coppitt Key, Fla. Neumar told police they were alone and arguing, when he pulled out a gun and shot himself.
    Sills said he knew nothing about how his father died until he was contacted in 2009 by The Associated Press about Neumar's past. Since then, he has been drilling into the records.
    After Neumar was charged in North Carolina, the Monroe County Sheriff's Department in Florida took another look at the death.

    They uncovered Navy medical examiner documents revealing that Richard Sills may have been shot twice — not once, as Neumar told police. One bullet from the .22-caliber pistol pierced his heart, while a second may have sliced his liver.
    The Navy medical examiner at the time said that without an autopsy, he would be unable to determine if Richard Sills was shot once or twice. No autopsy was performed when he died. And without knowing the number of gunshot wounds, there's no way to know if his death was a suicide or homicide.

    County investigators planned in 2009 to exhume Richard Sills' body from an Ocala, Fla., cemetery for an autopsy, but then determined that a statute of limitations applied to the case. Investigators have said Florida law sets a time limit on prosecution of some categories of homicide, including involuntary manslaughter, but not on premeditated — or first-degree — murder.

    Michael Sills then turned to the Naval Criminal Investigative Service (NCIS) cold case squad. The unit is studying the evidence and could decide to investigate. But that could end with Neumar's death.
    [...]
    Al Gentry said he had hoped lingering questions about Neumar's past would be answered at the trial. "She took those secrets to the grave."
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    Not to sound mean here but really, how much justice can you get from a 79 year old woman, death was knocking on her door anyway, real interesting though that her son was wanting answers and the ME at the time didnt notice 2 gunshot wounds... this could make a fairly decent lifetime made for tv movie... spanning decades and 5 husbands...
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    Look at those eyes.
    Wow, no kidding. She had eyes like a shark; flat and uncaring. She actually looks like the bitch that my mother used to work for before her liver pitched a fit on her... same kind of face and eyes. We call her Q-tip Head.

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