Hi.

[cubby]

LOL, @cubby is sore after looking at my pic...:D

You misquoted me, you ASS! LOL right back at ya @malq. But I'm not saying anything else, I'm already in enough trouble!!

[VAS1326]

Like I said, you sound incredibly strong.

I'm sorry your ex had a lot of problems that affected you but I'm glad to hear your fiance is making up for that and being the dad your ex never could be.

As for children, I am already wanting another for some crazy reason. I'm breastfeeding so I'm not on birth control at the moment but should be. I think once we hit six months I'll stop in favor of going back on b.c. in an effort to not get knocked up again :P Every day I think, "I want another one so badly!" but when I REALLY start thinking about it, it sounds insane. I think we'll wait until our son is at least 18 months old before trying to have another baby. I sing your praises knowing you have four children, two of which are extremely close in age.

I think it's a matter of personal choice. I think a lot of people want another one shortly after the birth. My fiance wanted to have another almost immediately after my youngest was born. It took about a month before he decided that was not a good idea and declared we were done. I knew I was done but if he really really wanted another I would have had another. I'm glad he decided my way lol. It's hard with 2 so close in age and both in the toddler, get into everything stage. It's almost like having twins because I do just about everything in duplicate with them. My son is potty training so I'm hoping to only have one in diapers real soon! Now if I could just keep them out of everything! Whatever one gets into the other one is not far behind.

[Tundratot]

As for children, I am already wanting another for some crazy reason. I'm breastfeeding so I'm not on birth control at the moment but should be. I think once we hit six months I'll stop in favor of going back on b.c. in an effort to not get knocked up again :P Every day I think, "I want another one so badly!" but when I REALLY start thinking about it, it sounds insane. I think we'll wait until our son is at least 18 months old before trying to have another baby. I sing your praises knowing you have four children, two of which are extremely close in age.

I am convinced this is the effect of hormones. I was that way, too, the whole time I had babies and was breastfeeding. I never entirely got over it, but it certainly got a lot weaker once weaning was done. But . . . I breastfed for a long time.

[malq]

Like I said, you sound incredibly strong.

Yes I am, but I try to keep it on the low.

[LeaveMeBe]

Howdy and welcome!

What's your shoe size? Flats, heels, boots, tennies, flip-flops or barefoot?

[JGo555]

Welcome! Congrats on the baby!

[Raptor Jesus]

I think it's a matter of personal choice. I think a lot of people want another one shortly after the birth. My fiance wanted to have another almost immediately after my youngest was born. It took about a month before he decided that was not a good idea and declared we were done. I knew I was done but if he really really wanted another I would have had another. I'm glad he decided my way lol. It's hard with 2 so close in age and both in the toddler, get into everything stage. It's almost like having twins because I do just about everything in duplicate with them. My son is potty training so I'm hoping to only have one in diapers real soon! Now if I could just keep them out of everything! Whatever one gets into the other one is not far behind.

Yeah, my husband was talking about another within weeks... before we could even have sex again, lol. He's still talking about it. Maybe if HE carries the baby and deals with the morning sickness, exhaustion, moodiness, aches and pains, and feeling like a whale... maybe then I will consider a second in the near future ;)

I think waiting until our son is old enough for preschool a few days a week will be good. That'll put him at about age three and by then it'll be good to socialize him and instill a little "independence" (as much as a toddler can have, at least) via leaving him in daycare for a few hours a couple of days a week. I can actually remember preschool and loving it and still talk to some of the people I was there with!

But yeah, if we wait until one is in preschool, that'll give me more time to focus on a newborn. I can't imagine having two under the age of three or so... Like I said, I sing your praises!

[Raptor Jesus]

I am convinced this is the effect of hormones. I was that way, too, the whole time I had babies and was breastfeeding. I never entirely got over it, but it certainly got a lot weaker once weaning was done. But . . . I breastfed for a long time.

Well, it makes sense, really. We're made to get knocked up quickly. There's a reason we become extremely fertile right after having babies and I think it's because it allows us to become pregnant faster and better preserve the human race. Of course we don't need to do any of that anymore (much less WANT to so soon after #1!) so we don't think about it as much but not long ago women had back-to-back pregnancies just because it's what we've always done. Apparently you would lose so many so it was just a way of keeping families going and having people to help maintain farms and whatnot.

Oh and, that's on top of the hormones... haha. I'm sure I'll get over it really quickly! I'm trying to make this decision with logic versus pure emotion... I want a baby but know it's not the best time for a second.

[Raptor Jesus]

Yes I am, but I try to keep it on the low.

Mmm... how come? Why not show those guns with every opportunity? Please, I'm all eyes and ears :)

[Raptor Jesus]

Howdy and welcome!

What's your shoe size? Flats, heels, boots, tennies, flip-flops or barefoot?

Thanks...

I should know better than to answer something like this but I'm going to just to establish the fact that I have freakishly small feet at 5'6". I wear a 5 and 1/2. My feet haven't grown since about sixth grade, haha.

[Raptor Jesus]

Welcome! Congrats on the baby!

Thank you!

[Jerri Blank]

Hello, welcome to DD!
Congratulations on the bundle of joy!

...and on the small feet.

I should know better than to answer something like this but I'm going to just to establish the fact that I have freakishly small feet at 5'6". I wear a 5 and 1/2. My feet haven't grown since about sixth grade, haha.

I'm a bit jealous. I always wanted tiny feet and would cram my size 7 & 1/2 foot feet in to 6 & 1/2 foot shoes for awhile when I was around 16 after I first heard about foot binding. I was a little to late for that.

I don't know why but tiny feet are adorable to me!

My daughter has allot of foot wear thanks to my love of tiny feet :-)

[LeaveMeBe]

Thanks...

I should know better than to answer something like this but I'm going to just to establish the fact that I have freakishly small feet at 5'6". I wear a 5 and 1/2. My feet haven't grown since about sixth grade, haha.

Dang it. I wear a 10 1/2 so I can't borrow your shoes.

[Raptor Jesus]

Hello, welcome to DD!
Congratulations on the bundle of joy!

...and on the small feet.


I'm a bit jealous. I always wanted tiny feet and would cram my size 7 & 1/2 foot feet in to 6 & 1/2 foot shoes for awhile when I was around 16 after I first heard about foot binding. I was a little to late for that.

I don't know why but tiny feet are adorable to me!

My daughter has allot of foot wear thanks to my love of tiny feet :-)

I quite like small feet too. It seems like a lot of people do.

I actually had a guy ask to film mine once... He tried to convince me by telling me I could easily make about $300 for letting someone film my feet without even doing anything sexual and that's when I left... ha.

He asked me to "spread my toes."

[Raptor Jesus]

Dang it. I wear a 10 1/2 so I can't borrow your shoes.

You're not missing out. I don't have many awesome shoes anymore. I can't be bothered with shopping these days and the nice shoes I do have are mostly worn out.

[penelopejo]

My husband has a white shirt with Jesus raptor on the front. I sometimes call it Moses Raptor because didn't Moses stand on the edge of a cliff as well? I bought it for him so it would piss his mom off. He ended up really liking it and wears it often.

anyways, @malq is fun. I haven't been able to troll much with him since I started going back to school. don't take him too seriously like most folks. he likes to play devil's advocate....a lot....so much so that I wonder if he's the devil himself.

welcome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Raptor Jesus]

My husband has a white shirt with Jesus raptor on the front. I sometimes call it Moses Raptor because didn't Moses stand on the edge of a cliff as well? I bought it for him so it would piss his mom off. He ended up really liking it and wears it often.

anyways, @malq is fun. I haven't been able to troll much with him since I started going back to school. don't take him too seriously like most folks. he likes to play devil's advocate....a lot....so much so that I wonder if he's the devil himself.

welcome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh, I can handle it. I actually enjoy people who play devil's advocate a lot and do it sometimes myself for the sake of a good debate. Unfortunately people end up getting too butt hurt over a complete stranger's differing opinion which leads to them closing their minds in the same way a kid plugs his or her ears and starts going, "LA LA LA LA LA... I CAN'T HEAR YOU!"

But when you find a good person to debate with it can be very rewarding and you might even learn a thing or two.

Oh yeah, I wouldn't mind a Jesus raptor shirt... Are his parents ultra religious or what? I'm so glad mine never were and neither are my husband's parents.

[Bohring]

I actually had a guy ask to film mine once... He tried to convince me by telling me I could easily make about $300 for letting someone film my feet without even doing anything sexual and that's when I left... ha.

He asked me to "spread my toes."

Maybe he was in Podiatric Medicine? They film at the university here all the time.

Welcome! Your avatar had me totally ROTF when I first saw it.

[malq]

Thanks...

I should know better than to answer something like this but I'm going to just to establish the fact that I have freakishly small feet at 5'6". I wear a 5 and 1/2. My feet haven't grown since about sixth grade, haha.

If you have half the feet, do they compensate by stinking twice as much?

[Marv]

WELCOME!

[Raptor Jesus]

If you have half the feet, do they compensate by stinking twice as much?

Maybe, but I like the way they smell so it's all good... for me, at least.

Mmm. Stinky feet.

[carolinablue]

Hi sweetie! I have risen from my deathbed to welcome you! You should feel special; I hardly ever die. I see the unfortunates have attempted to welcome you and lull you into a sense of false security. Hmmmm. They didn't warn you because they're afraid you'll run away screaming. Well, I'm HONEST...Most of the mods have records for petty stuff, public nudity, public indecency, public intoxication and creating a public nuisance. The key word is "public". Buncha damn exhibitionists, and really loud. Morbid is still locked up for harboring a bio-hazard...his sofa. Don't ask. We think Jaded and Lizard caught a communicable disease from it. Harley is still in the Happy Valley Psychiatric Facility after the "incident" with a stapler and his shrink. Don't show him your tits; last time someone did that Harley howled nonstop for days. We're not sure about malq, SOMETIMES he seems normal, but don't let him fool you. When he's off his meds he's unpredictable. Taco is MINE! We're both coonasses and eat things we catch in ditches. Pete is our token Liberal Democrat. He voted for Bill Clinton...TWICE. His politics are slightly to the left of the late Ted Kennedy, and he's campaigning for President Obama. All the ladies in Garden Party are my minions; you can be one too. Just follow me around the forums and thank all my posts and do what I do. You will be feared and adored...just like me!