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    Mom Chooses Public Punishment For 14-Year-Old daughter

    A South Florida mom punished her daughter publicly Friday by making her stand outside a busy Northwest Miami-Dade street holding a poster advertising that she was causing "trouble in school." The mother's decision, however, is drawing mixed opinions among experts.

    On Friday afternoon, many South Floridians driving or walking through Northwest Miami-Dade saw her holding the sign, which reads: "I got in trouble in school..this is my punishment."

    Her mother Ava Brown says she's tried everything.

    "Physical discipline does not work. You have to come with something better," said Ava Brown, the girl's mother.

    Friday, she sat in her car watching her 14-year-old daughter hold the sign.

    "I'm embarrassed going out to that school every time she's getting in trouble and getting into fights," said Brown.

    It's a controversial type of punishment that has many experts offering mixed opinions.

    "Sometimes, what you need to do is give kids a wake-up call," said Yvonne Sawyer, Chief Operating Officer of the Family and Children Faith Coalition.

    Sawyer says Brown made the right decision.

    "It may in fact save her life, and do some right choices instead of some unhealthy choices," said Sawyer.

    But a family psychologist told CBS4 News that the mother of this teen made the wrong decision. The psychologist said public humiliation is never a good idea. She says it promotes shame, and in some cases, can be considered abusive.

    Even so, Ava Brown says she won't back down.

    "She won't get in no more trouble. She begged me to take her off this corner. I'm not taking you off the corner. This is your punishment," said Brown.

    Brown said she will make her daughter stand on that corner for the next ten days. On Monday, she says the teenager will hold the sign in front of her school.

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    I do think a humbling experience may be just what this kid needs. She has probably caused her mother tons of humiliation by making her leave work and go to the school over and over by acting like a disruptive ass. Holding this child accountable for her actions is a good thing in my book. Schools can only punish the girl by sending her home, which is exactly what she most likely wants. Mom has sent the girl a clear message here, you are disruptive in class, you will be held accountable. I think this type of intervention by mom may save this kid from being thrown out of school. Time will tell. I think a day or two of this punishment would have been sufficient. 10 days plus standing in front of the school with the sign? I think it will be humiliation overload.
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    Yeah, I agree.
    I think the intent is correct but 10 days is extreme. She should have just made her stand on the corner of the popular mall's intersection for a weekend or something.
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    maybe mom also wanted to show her how she will end up if she keeps acting up in school and don't get a proper education...we all know who/what usually frequents street corners
    where's the Bold Fairy when you need him? I just KNOW you all are pointing & laughing at me in the "point & laugh" thread that I can no longer see!! :(

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    But a family psychologist told CBS4 News that the mother of this teen made the wrong decision. The psychologist said public humiliation is never a good idea. She says it promotes shame, and in some cases, can be considered abusive.


    Half the problem nowadays with kids is almost everything you try to do to correct bad behavior is considered abusive by someone, we are becoming way too PC, baseball games where there is no score so none of the kids feel bad because they lost. Give me a break, we are teaching kids that nothing they do has any real consequences, they will always win no matter what. To me THAT is abusive.
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