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    The baby had other plans

    Leighton Schmidt was in a hurry.

    So much, in fact, that her mother, Julie, delivered Leighton herself in the parking lot of Millard Fillmore Suburban Hospital in Amherst, as her father, Michael, drove frantically looking for the emergency room entrance.

    The quick labor was unexpected. Two years earlier, Julie, a physician’s assistant at UB/MD, gave birth to their first daughter, Sydney, after 36 hours of labor. The couple had little reason to think this would be any different, said Michael, a risk manager at HSBC Bank.

    Were they in for a surprise. Here’s what happened:

    Julie woke up at about 3 a. m. with contractions.

    Michael called his father-in-law, who lives in Newfane, to come over and watch Sydney so they could drive to Sisters Hospital, 16 miles away.

    With Julie wearing sweat pants and a T-shirt, the couple headed down North French Road toward the Lockport Expressway. At that point, she blurted out, “The pain is too intense; we can’t make it to Sisters.”

    So Michael turned their 2004 Lexus left onto Hopkins Road and headed for Fillmore Suburban Hospital, five miles from their house.

    Michael, however, harbored doubts that there was a real urgency, remembering the long labor for Sydney.

    Julie said, ‘I have to push.’ I said, ‘No, don’t push.’ She’s yelling and shouting, and I say yelling and shouting isn’t going to make this any better,” Michael said.

    I assumed she was being melodramatic and having a panic attack.”

    At this point, Julie said, she was losing feeling from the waist down and in her hands, although it only lasted a short while.

    “He was stopping at red lights, and I was saying, ‘Don’t stop, don’t stop.’ He said it wasn’t worth a ticket,” she said.

    Michael also was making calls on the cell phone, alerting family members about the switch in hospitals.

    Then, as they turned onto Maple Road, Julie’s water broke and the baby’s head emerged.

    “I’m screaming, ‘Oh, my God, the head, the head,’ ” Julie said.

    As the Schmidts turned onto the hospital driveway and entered the parking lot, blue-eyed Leighton entered the world at about 4:40 a. m., weighing 6 pounds, 9 ounces.

    The baby came out on onto the seat of the car. “I screamed, ‘It’s a girl, and she’s not crying,’ ” Julie said, picking her up and clutching her to her body to warm up.

    “All I’m thinking is, my wife is dying, and my child is stillborn,” Michael said.

    Instead of stopping the car, or even allowing himself to look directly at the birth taking place, Michael focused with “tunnel vision” on finding the emergency room entrance. He drove to one that read “Authorized Personnel Only” before looping around to find the right entrance.

    He beeped the horn and ran out of the car, returning moments later with a nurse and security guard. Julie and little Leighton were wheeled into the emergency room, and in a matter of minutes, the doctor in charge pronounced both in excellent health.

    He let Michael cut the umbilical cord.

    Within 20 minutes, the baby was nursing with a contented and much calmer mother.

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    “My wife and I are such planners. We plan everything to the nth degree. Nothing is left to chance in our world,” Michael said.

    “This type of situation is so not us.”
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    I am sure it was wildly scary at the time, but I have to laugh at him being nonchalant while she gives birth. Probably good it went down that way.

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    I almost had my second son in the hospital car park. He arrived one hour and 5 minutes after my first contraction, and I only just managed to get up onto the bed!

    Well done Julie, for delivering your baby yourself! Im so glad mum and baby are ok. (And dad too! Hurrah for his 'tunnel vision!')

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    That's why I never have a plan and am always overly disorganized. If I was all planned out all the time, I'd never react well at a surprise.

    As plan oriented as they are though, they should've known that every birth is different and anything can happen.
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    “I assumed she was being melodramatic and having a panic attack.”
    Men, honestly if we've already done this before, don't assume anything ok? We usually know of what we speak.

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    Very sweet story. Baby decided to throw a kink in their way of doing things. I suspect this is gong to be the non-planner type...lol.

    My first was 22 hour labor my second I'll never know how long it might have taken. He came out as a planned c-section as our "plans" changed and he had to come out a bit early. I so would have liked the vaginal/water delivery I had "planned'....oh, well. All is good as long as the baby is healthy....mama to of course.

    Congratulations Schmidt family...little Leighton, you are so precious.
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    My first was 13 hours. My second 1 hour 16 minutes and I delivered her myself with a nurse. No doctor.
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