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    Manny Francis choked and burned 3 y.o.



    A Burlington man faces multiple assault charges after choking and burning a 3-year-old child, according to Chittenden Unit for Special Investigations officials.

    Manual (Manny) Francis, 32, was arrested Monday after a lengthy investigation, CUSI officials said. Francis is charged with aggravated domestic assault, domestic assault and cruelty to a child charges in connection with the alleged abuse.

    CUSI officials said Francis inflicted "serious physical abuse" on the child that included strangulation and burns. The child was injured in the attacks, but the injuries are not life-threatening.
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    From looking at his MySpace I am sure this is his daughter. Fucker.
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    Arrested after a lengthy investigation...

    I wonder if this happened in Nov when his wife was posting those comments about always having his back even though the others didnt understand what was going on or whatever...shes a super ho if she allows this child and the others mention on his MS to be subjected to this bastards devious whims.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AMINFH View Post
    Arrested after a lengthy investigation...

    I wonder if this happened in Nov when his wife was posting those comments about always having his back even though the others didnt understand what was going on or whatever...shes a super ho if she allows this child and the others mention on his MS to be subjected to this bastards devious whims.
    Yeah I was thinking the same thing, and I'm almost certain it was his daughter because his myspace states he has a 3 1/2 y/o daughter and two step sons. No pics of either of them though. Creepy mugshot I thought only my dog could do the laser beam eyes

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    He looks like a crazy bastard.

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    A 32-year-old Burlington man is facing charges he choked a 3-year-old boy and burned the child’s skin near his right eye with a hot clothing iron.

    According to a nine-page police affidavit on file at Vermont District Court in Burlington, Manuel C. Francis allegedly attempted to strangle and burn the child on Dec. 3 at the Burlington home of Francis and his wife. Francis is not the child’s father.

    Francis, who was initially arraigned in December on a misdemeanor domestic assault charge in connection with the case, is scheduled to be arraigned Feb. 10 on three new charges: felony domestic aggravated domestic assault and two misdemeanor charges of cruelty to a child.

    Francis, who has a lengthy criminal record, is being held on an unrelated charge at the Northern State Correctional Center in Newport while awaiting his arraignment.

    Burlington police Sgt. Arthur Cyr, director of the Chittenden Unit for Special Investigations, said Tuesday the child’s injuries did not require him to be admitted to Fletcher Allen Health Care but by their nature were life threatening.

    Police said they were first alerted to the alleged abuse on Dec. 4, when a relative of the child called police and said a day-care provider had discovered marks on the boy after he was dropped off at the day-care center that day.

    “(The boy) had petichial hemorrhaging on his throat, which looked like several scratch marks and a red mark on the right side of his neck,” the affidavit said. “(The boy) also had a one- to one-and-a-half-inch red mark consistent with a burn on the right side of his temple near his right eye.”

    Other bruises were found on the boy’s chin, neck, right thigh, upper back and lower back, the affidavit said. When a police officer touched the bruises on the child’s lower back, the child “winced in pain.”

    In subsequent police interviews, the child’s mother contended that Francis had stayed up late the night of Dec. 3 and, when he came to bed, told her that he had changed the child’s diaper and put him back to bed.

    In the morning, she noticed the red marks on her son’s body and asked Francis about them. According to the police affidavit, she said Francis told him he did not know what caused them. She told police that Francis had anger issues and had been abusive in the past.

    The affidavit also related stories from family relatives and acquaintances who said Francis had spoken about how he disliked the boy and had “smashed him in the head and knocked him unconscious” but had later told them he was joking and did not harm the child.

    Several days after the incident, the child’s mother said her son told her that Francis had used a clothing iron to burn him and that she had then discovered that one of her irons was missing.

    The iron was later found hidden behind a closet door in the home by the mother and police. Cyr said Tuesday that state police forensic laboratory’s examination of the iron was ongoing.

    Francis was on parole following convictions on domestic abuse and two felony possession of stolen property charges.

    He also has past convictions for false pretenses, driving under the influence, giving false information to a police officer, simple assault, passing a bad check, escape, burglary, disorderly conduct, unlawful mischief and petty larceny, according to court records.
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    Aww man poor kid. Castrate him then let him burn. But where's the charges on mommy? She saw the marks, likely knew of the abuse yet a day care worker and a family relative are the ones who saved this boy. I hope they look into her and her keen ability to turn a blind eye.

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    from his MS:

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    ...a precious baby girl who is 3 1/2...and two wild step-sons. My life is full and finally complete......
    Tells me right there he dosen't give two shits for the poor kid. Actually, neither of those boys.





    could she be maybe meaning her two boys from a past relationship?

    string them both the fuck up.
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    A Burlington man pleaded not guilty Monday to charges stemming from a vicious assault on a child.

    Police say Manuel Francis, 32, attempted to strangle a 3-year-old boy and then burned the child's face with a hot iron. The little boy has recovered.

    Francis is not the boy's father. He pleaded not guilty to charges of aggravated domestic assault and child cruelty. The charges carry a maximum penalty of 20 years in prison. Francis is already serving a sentence for unrelated charges.
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    Do you know his wife? I couldn't understand all of your post--about the people being exposed to .... Sorry to bother you-- I am new to DD!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AMINFH View Post
    Arrested after a lengthy investigation...

    I wonder if this happened in Nov when his wife was posting those comments about always having his back even though the others didnt understand what was going on or whatever...shes a super ho if she allows this child and the others mention on his MS to be subjected to this bastards devious whims.
    Jeez- Sorry I'm new to DD---tried to reply to your post but the quote was not included so anyway....do you know his wife? I didn't understand what you meant by the November posts about having his back and exposing others to him.

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    They were looking at his myspace page. I'm relatively sure that they do not personally know this asshole.

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    I recently had an email conversation with Manny's wife. She doesn't know why he did what he did and she is divorcing him.

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    I'm very glad to hear the mom is divorcing this creep.

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    I am Corey's mother. Manny is my husband ~ divorce papers have been filed. I do not have contact with him. He abused my baby...in the middle of the night--he went and woke him up. It happened on the night of December 3rd 2008 and he was arrested on December 4th 2008. Don't believe all that the media puts out there...they have gotten a lot of info incorrect. This is the first site I have spoken on. Thank you to Spectre who informed me of this site and invited me to share how we are doing.
    My son is in therapy as am I. Everyday I get a little stronger. You know sometimes I still feel like this is a horrible nightmare that I can't wake up from...and it has been 93 days since my son was abused. But overall we are doing okay and taking things one day at a time~together.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corey's Mama View Post
    I am Corey's mother. Manny is my husband ~ divorce papers have been filed. I do not have contact with him. He abused my baby...in the middle of the night--he went and woke him up. It happened on the night of December 3rd 2008 and he was arrested on December 4th 2008. Don't believe all that the media puts out there...they have gotten a lot of info incorrect. This is the first site I have spoken on. Thank you to Spectre who informed me of this site and invited me to share how we are doing.
    My son is in therapy as am I. Everyday I get a little stronger. You know sometimes I still feel like this is a horrible nightmare that I can't wake up from...and it has been 93 days since my son was abused. But overall we are doing okay and taking things one day at a time~together.
    I assure you, you have the support of hundreds here in DD. Best wishes to you and Corey! ****{HUG}}}

    If you want to vent, or share anything at all, feel free to contact me or any of the fantastic members here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corey's Mama View Post
    I am Corey's mother. Manny is my husband ~ divorce papers have been filed. I do not have contact with him. He abused my baby...in the middle of the night--he went and woke him up. It happened on the night of December 3rd 2008 and he was arrested on December 4th 2008. Don't believe all that the media puts out there...they have gotten a lot of info incorrect. This is the first site I have spoken on. Thank you to Spectre who informed me of this site and invited me to share how we are doing.
    My son is in therapy as am I. Everyday I get a little stronger. You know sometimes I still feel like this is a horrible nightmare that I can't wake up from...and it has been 93 days since my son was abused. But overall we are doing okay and taking things one day at a time~together.
    I am so, so sorry for what has happened to you and your sweet son. You are a strong mother and it sounds like you're doing everything you can to protect and heal your child. Good job. *hugs*

    I have a close friend who is going through something very similar. She is now divorcing and caring for four children on her own because of an asshole husband. It is a terribly painful situation for everyone and for now it seems like each new day brings a little more hurt and bad news, but we know it will get better with time... lots of time. It will for you, too.

    Welcome to D'D, btw. Thank you for letting us know how your son is doing.

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    Thank you to Spectre who informed me of this site and invited me to share how we are doing.

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    Sorry- it was Unamused Cat who invited me to this site...so thank you to Unamused Cat. And I want to thank all you who have showed support~ I must admit I was a bit nervous to write on here and identify myself. Like I said this is the first site I have written on and it will probably be the only one I will write on.
    People ask why I don't go to the blogs and stick up for myself ~the reason I don't is because I was advised not to by the dectectives.
    Here in Vermont we have a thing called CUSI (Chittenden Unit for Special Investigation). They are a police unit that deal mainly w/ sexual crimes against children but they also deal with physical violence against them as well. My son was not sexually assualted. The main dectective on the case -Tyler- is fantastic. I talk with him about once a week just to check in and sometimes just to chat. I cannot tell you how supportive he has been throughout all of this.
    It's just so surreal. It's the kind of thing that you never would believe would happen to you- not in a million years. I trusted this man. I loved him.
    The scary part is I was sleeping across the hall when the crime occured and I never heard a peep out of my son. And in the morning he didn't say a word about his injuries or how they happened. I was told by the detectives that Manny had most likely told him not to say anything to Mommy "or else" kind of a thing. Even a 3 year old understands threats.
    I really like this site ~ it's so great that you get these stories out to the public ~ course I didn't think so at first, but I am much stronger now then I was when I first looked at the site.
    If anyone has any questions I will answer them the best I can. Of course there are certain things I can't talk about because of the court case. I'm not sure yet if he is going to take this to trial...and I am unsure of how I feel about a trial ~ on one hand I don't really want it to go to trial because of the emtional stress but on the other hand I'm not interested in plea bargins of any sort.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corey's Mama View Post
    I am Corey's mother. Manny is my husband ~ divorce papers have been filed. I do not have contact with him. He abused my baby...in the middle of the night--he went and woke him up. It happened on the night of December 3rd 2008 and he was arrested on December 4th 2008. Don't believe all that the media puts out there...they have gotten a lot of info incorrect. This is the first site I have spoken on. Thank you to Spectre who informed me of this site and invited me to share how we are doing.
    My son is in therapy as am I. Everyday I get a little stronger. You know sometimes I still feel like this is a horrible nightmare that I can't wake up from...and it has been 93 days since my son was abused. But overall we are doing okay and taking things one day at a time~together.
    Thank you Coreysmama for taking the time to come here and voice the facts. I can only imagine how difficult this has been for you and your son. There are a lot of good people here who will be most happy to support you through this difficult time, that includes me too. Drop in anytime, and please give your little one a hug for me, I hope he heals completely.
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    I think any question you could answer right now have been. I appreciate it. Knowing you are doing what's right for you and your family is great to know.

    I have many other questions but know you can't answer them until after he's had his day in court. After they find his sorry ass guilty, I hope you will be able to come back and fill us in.

    Thank you so much!
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    Corey's Mama, Im so sorry you and Corey had to go through this. Its such a huge betrayal on Manny's part. I am very glad that you and your son are moving on and healing. My warmest wishes for a happy future to you all.


    And if there is any justice in this world, Manny Francis will get the absolute maximum term available.

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    I have a close friend who is going through something very similar. She is now divorcing and caring for four children on her own because of an asshole husband. It is a terribly painful situation for everyone and for now it seems like each new day brings a little more hurt and bad news, but we know it will get better with time... lots of time. It will for you, too.
    I feel for your friend that is going through a similar situation. The best thing that you can do for her is to let her vent....let her talk about her feelings and let her know that you're behind her 100%. You'll probably find that she will repeat things alot...as I find myself doing. The guilt of not being able to protect your innocent child is almost unbearable at times..."I cry for you mommy, I cry for you..."
    I believe I was lucky to not have any biological children with my husband...it's easier to cut ties-- but still it's hard. I really loved my husband~probably always will but can never be with him again. That's another way you can help your friend is to understand that her feelings for her husband are not going to simply stop...keep reminding her that she needs to put her children first...I also dealt with each day bringing a little more hurt and I think that was because with each passing day the severity of the situation would sink in a little more. It's still like that every time he has a court date and the media comes at me hard with questions which doesn't make life easy.
    And I desperatly missed my husband~the man I knew before he hurt my child. I so deperatly wanted him to wake me up, hold me tight and tell me it was all just a horrible nightmare. But he didn't wake me up...and it was not a dream it was real. I would most definitly be willing to talk with your friend.

    Thank you all again so much. I feel like you all have taken me in with open arms. And you let me vent...you listen...whoever started this site is a wonderful human being.

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    I for one am very happy that you chose your child, over your stbx--too often on D'D we see women that don't. He is lucky to have you for a mom- a good mom!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Corey's Mama View Post
    I am Corey's mother. Manny is my husband ~ divorce papers have been filed. I do not have contact with him. He abused my baby...in the middle of the night--he went and woke him up. It happened on the night of December 3rd 2008 and he was arrested on December 4th 2008. Don't believe all that the media puts out there...they have gotten a lot of info incorrect. This is the first site I have spoken on. Thank you to Spectre who informed me of this site and invited me to share how we are doing.
    My son is in therapy as am I. Everyday I get a little stronger. You know sometimes I still feel like this is a horrible nightmare that I can't wake up from...and it has been 93 days since my son was abused. But overall we are doing okay and taking things one day at a time~together.

    I am proud of the courage that you have and the courage that Corey is showing. Keep up the good work from one Cory's momma to another Corey's momma

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corey's Mama View Post
    I am Corey's mother. Manny is my husband ~ divorce papers have been filed. I do not have contact with him. He abused my baby...in the middle of the night--he went and woke him up. It happened on the night of December 3rd 2008 and he was arrested on December 4th 2008. Don't believe all that the media puts out there...they have gotten a lot of info incorrect. This is the first site I have spoken on. Thank you to Spectre who informed me of this site and invited me to share how we are doing.
    My son is in therapy as am I. Everyday I get a little stronger. You know sometimes I still feel like this is a horrible nightmare that I can't wake up from...and it has been 93 days since my son was abused. But overall we are doing okay and taking things one day at a time~together.
    CM, I have much respect for you for doing right by your son. Wishing you and your child a speedy recovery and complete mental healing from this traumatic event.

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    CM- I am so sorry for what you and your little one are going through. I wish you all a speedy and full recovery.

    If you don't mind answering a question, have you been able to figure out how this happened? Did you husband have mental health issues? Previous issues with your son?

    It's scary to think that people just snap. I know it happens, but geez, waking up in the middle of the night? Scary shit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corey's Mama View Post
    I feel for your friend that is going through a similar situation. The best thing that you can do for her is to let her vent....let her talk about her feelings and let her know that you're behind her 100%. You'll probably find that she will repeat things alot...as I find myself doing. The guilt of not being able to protect your innocent child is almost unbearable at times..."I cry for you mommy, I cry for you..."
    I believe I was lucky to not have any biological children with my husband...it's easier to cut ties-- but still it's hard. I really loved my husband~probably always will but can never be with him again. That's another way you can help your friend is to understand that her feelings for her husband are not going to simply stop...keep reminding her that she needs to put her children first...I also dealt with each day bringing a little more hurt and I think that was because with each passing day the severity of the situation would sink in a little more. It's still like that every time he has a court date and the media comes at me hard with questions which doesn't make life easy.
    And I desperatly missed my husband~the man I knew before he hurt my child. I so deperatly wanted him to wake me up, hold me tight and tell me it was all just a horrible nightmare. But he didn't wake me up...and it was not a dream it was real. I would most definitly be willing to talk with your friend.

    Thank you all again so much. I feel like you all have taken me in with open arms. And you let me vent...you listen...whoever started this site is a wonderful human being.
    CM, I am so sorry for what you and your lil ones have gone through. I have SO much respect for you and the strength of character you will pass on to your children. Please feel free to vent here anytime. I am sure you miss the man you thought your husband was. I am sure you were and probably still are in shock at that side of him! God bless you and your little ones!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ineedanap View Post
    CM- I am so sorry for what you and your little one are going through. I wish you all a speedy and full recovery.

    If you don't mind answering a question, have you been able to figure out how this happened? Did you husband have mental health issues? Previous issues with your son?

    It's scary to think that people just snap. I know it happens, but geez, waking up in the middle of the night? Scary shit.
    Because you all have been so supportive I do not mind answering your questions...

    ineedanap--

    While I don't know for 100% certainly (and probably never will) why he did what he did, the detectives, victims advocates and counselors have helped me to come to some conslusions because as you can imagine my mind was screaming "why"?.

    Manny never really "took" to Corey. A lot of times he would treat him as if he were much older than a 3 year old and was stern with him. Corey told a few people including his Daddy that "Manny's mean" and I was made aware of this but I just thought that Corey just didn't really like Manny because Manny was not his father. Corey loves his Daddy fiercely and Manny hated Corey's Daddy with the fiercest passion that I have ever seen. In my mind I kept thinking things would get better. And of course it wasnt all bad--there were many good times.

    My husband does have issues with anxiety, depression, and drug use. And jealously. The detectives believe he was jealous of Corey because Corey, being a 3 year old, required a lot of attention. And he is hyperactive (possible ADD). Also they believe he would have eventually killed Corey. Then he would have more of my attention and Corey's father would be out the picture for good.
    Manny was under a great deal of stress around the time of the crime. Among many other things he had just lost his job; he has a daughter that is almost 4 years old now and the mother made it very hard for him to see his daughter. In fact she said she was moving home to New York and taking Manny's daughter away. She said this often--trying to stir things up and manipulate Manny to coming back to her. During our marriage he left me twice to go back to her. Actually she is back with him now. She is very sick and I pray for her.
    Then there is Manny's mother. She constantly harassed him--I mean multiple times a day. She believed that he needed to be with the mother of his child and refused to recognize the fact that Manny was married and had moved on.
    Then there is Manny's father(s). His bio dad died when he was real young and his mother remarried a man who physically abused him all his life.
    Then there was the camp. Manny attended a Catholic camp around the age of 9 and was raped by a priest there. He called his mom begging to come home (not telling her of the abuse) and she made him stay and he was raped again and again.
    When he was 14 years old his mother sued on his behalf and kept the money. She has serious mental illnesses.

    As for your comment about it being scary how people can just snap...it took me a while to come to the surface so to speak and realize that Manny did not just snap. He had to come downstairs, get the iron with which he burned Corey right by his eye, plug the iron in, wait for it to warm up and then burn him. That's not snapping.

    But it is still hard for me to think about the "how". I was sleeping in our bedroom across the hall. The detectives said that Manny must have had Corey so scared...that he must have said something like "if you tell Mommy I'll hurt her" or "Mommy wants me to do this" or "Mommy will be mad at you"...things like that. It's hard to think about so I think that's all I'll write for now.

    Thanks again to all DD members--you mean a lot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Just my luck sucks View Post
    I for one am very happy that you chose your child, over your stbx--too often on D'D we see women that don't. He is lucky to have you for a mom- a good mom!
    I was just wondering how often you have moms that even let ya'll know what's going on?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corey's Mama View Post
    But it is still hard for me to think about the "how".
    It is hard for me to think about the "how" too. That was cold-hearted of your ex to say the least. The mental image has me shivering.

    --Al

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