School Pressured to Fire Lunch Lady, Former Porn Star

[SoUncool]

Ok I'm going to say it so hate me if you want but I am soooo AGAINST this !
I have two young children (and no Im not a jealous mom ) and I would so be against the idea of an ex porn star at my kids school and even if she isnt a threat most people from the porn industry aren't reputable and what if she had fans *oddly enough* and they followed her to a school full of children, I just dont see anything good coming from this and as far as the kids are concerned don't they deserve better ? get rid of her, its 150% better to be safe than sorry. And what would be next ? are they going to hire prostitutes for school counsellors ?! and ex druggies for principals ??? Of course children are going to find out who their lunch lady was because of all the attention this lady is getting from parents and the media already. With that kind of background I agree she doesnt need to be working with children and if parents care so much about this than maybe they should step up to the plate and start helping out more so this wouldn't *and shouldn't* have happened to begin with.

You do not have to have an education to be a lunch lady or playground monitor. You do have to have an education to be the principal or guidance counselor. Miss Titties OBVIOUSLY does not have a criminal background as they have to do a criminal background check on ALL school employees. She is not a volunteer (no background check needed) - she gets PAID for her duties (background check REQUIRED to be on the payroll.)

Let me guess...you do not have access to the RLD and you have never taken nude photos for fun and you are just the only perfect human being on the planet? Sorry to be harsh but EVERYONE deserves a chance to better their lives. She is doing a THANKLESS job, getting paid very little and obviously wants to be there regardless of the flack she's getting.

I say let Miss Tittie keep her job. She has done nothing wrong.

Oh yeah, enjoy your first "groan" - it's considered a badge of honor around here. Consider your cherry popped.

[Pete Bondurant]

Let's be realistic. You cannot have someone who was in pornographic films working in a primary school. It's just common sense. It's in the news...the little kiddies are going to be asking questions...."Mommy, what is a rim-job?" It just is not acceptable. She can go volunteer at one of those battered wives shelters or scrape some dead squirrels from the road.

[Sister Iroz]

Wonder if they would have let me volunteer if they knew of my past? I used to drink and do drugs and ride bike where I had to show my tits off. I think I was kinda slutty (It was the 70's folks!!!). I used to date the principal's brother in my "wild days" and he was OK with me being around the kids.

Same here Dakota! In the 70's I drank, did drugs and was slutty, partied, partied, partied. Not a shame to say either.

[crickett]

Let's be realistic. You cannot have someone who was in pornographic films working in a primary school. It's just common sense. It's in the news...the little kiddies are going to be asking questions...."Mommy, what is a rim-job?" It just is not acceptable. She can go volunteer at one of those battered wives shelters or scrape some dead squirrels from the road.

[Sister Iroz]

Ok I'm going to say it so hate me if you want but I am soooo AGAINST this !
I have two young children (and no Im not a jealous mom ) and I would so be against the idea of an ex porn star at my kids school and even if she isnt a threat most people from the porn industry aren't reputable and what if she had fans *oddly enough* and they followed her to a school full of children, I just dont see anything good coming from this and as far as the kids are concerned don't they deserve better ? get rid of her, its 150% better to be safe than sorry. And what would be next ? are they going to hire prostitutes for school counsellors ?! and ex druggies for principals ??? Of course children are going to find out who their lunch lady was because of all the attention this lady is getting from parents and the media already. With that kind of background I agree she doesnt need to be working with children and if parents care so much about this than maybe they should step up to the plate and start helping out more so this wouldn't *and shouldn't* have happened to begin with.

First of all I don't believe anyone hate's you for your opinion. It's your opinion and I for one want to hear everyone's opinion.

Look I know for a fact this woman get's paid shit for her job. I used to be a cafeteria monitor in elementary school. They are also part time hours and little pay and very hard to find anyone to work these positions. I bet you two to one these kids find her a fun, caring lunch lady who they talk about to each other for only that reason.

These children would have no clue about this lady's past if it wasn't for the parents and media. So I feel the parent's made a big deal out of nothing and made a mountain out of a mole hill.

You do not have to have an education to be a lunch lady or playground monitor. You do have to have an education to be the principal or guidance counselor. Miss Titties OBVIOUSLY does not have a criminal background as they have to do a criminal background check on ALL school employees. She is not a volunteer (no background check needed) - she gets PAID for her duties (background check REQUIRED to be on the payroll.)

Also as Souncool has stated they would NOT have hired her if she had any slightest thing on her record. Especially, with anything criminal on it. I've watched shows where porn stars are interviewed. They are just LIKE you and me and chose porn as there living. They also have a life outside of their job. Some believe it or not, have children who they love and care for and also probably volunteer in there child(ren) class room. OMG, what then should the other parents rally around and vote no she shouldn't volunteer? Hell no. You might be surprised what the parents do or are into, in your own children classroom. You may have a close friend or know someone that is afraid to tell you what they do for a living cause they fear they will be judged. I watch porn, does that mean I should not be around children? I'm a good person who enjoys some porn so if I'm judge so what won't change who I am.

[Harley_Tech]

Same here Dakota! In the 70's I drank, did drugs and was slutty, partied, partied, partied. Not a shame to say either.

The 70s are over? FUCK!

R

[Pete Bondurant]

I've watched shows where porn stars are interviewed. They are just LIKE you and me and chose porn as there living.

Maybe they're like you. I don't know. There is rather a high rate of suicide among these individuals, as well as a higher rate of death by drug-overdose. Many, if not most of the females in that industry were molested at some point in their childhoods. Porn stars are fucked up people. They may be fucked up people who love their children, but they are still fucked up people.

[Nell]

We are all fucked people in some fashion.

[missuncommonsense]

You do not have to have an education to be a lunch lady or playground monitor.
Well this interests me even more and like I said before don't these children deserve better ? Shouldn't the people that are dealing with their meals meet some sort of safe food handeling regulations. I know I wouldn't want just anybody handeling my kids foods.
You do have to have an education to be the principal or guidance counselor.
One more time don't these kids deserve somebody who takes the time to study in what they're getting into. Not just anybody off the street can go and apply to be a principal or counselor
Miss Titties OBVIOUSLY does not have a criminal background as they have to do a criminal background check on ALL school employees. She is not a volunteer (no background check needed) - she gets PAID for her duties (background check REQUIRED to be on the payroll.)

Let me guess...you do not have access to the RLD and you have never taken nude photos for fun and you are just the only perfect human being on the planet?
Nope I can assure you there isn't any nude pictures of me floating around on the internet and I've never said I was perfect and I'm not trying to be perfect, I'm just one of many concerned parents and I wish people would get their priorities straight and not let just anybody deal with our future aka our kids
Sorry to be harsh but EVERYONE deserves a chance to better their lives. She is doing a THANKLESS job, getting paid very little and obviously wants to be there regardless of the flack she's getting.

I say let Miss Tittie keep her job. She has done nothing wrong.
I still say let her go especially if its upsetting so many people. Theres many other things she can still do if she wants to help out that community.

Oh yeah, enjoy your first "groan"
lol thanks I dont expect anybody and everybody to agree with me I just had express my thoughts on this so Thank you for being real with me on yours. And I'm new here so I dont know what exactly a "groan" would be but I think I sense sarcasm and its ok it may be my first but even I'll tell you it won't be my last but I'm cool with that
- it's considered a badge of honor around here. Consider your cherry popped.
Groan Cherry has been officially considered popped

thanks for the taking the time to respond glad to hear your , as well as everybody elses, thoughts as well and sorry if I offended anyone

[Harley_Tech]

Hell, odds are some parent was visiting the school, or looking through some school pub where the workers pictures were posted and recognized her form a flick they had seen.

I'd bet a dollar to your doughnut SHE never let anyone know what she did in a past life.

So should whomever it was that recognized her have their kids taken away since they obviously watch porn? You know those that watch porn can't be trusted around kids. :eye roll:

Maybe one of those catholic priest that has been busted for screwing alter boys should replace her. I mean everyone knows you can trust a priest with kids right?

Maybe a former cop should replace her. I know I've read at least two stories in the last week about cops using their position to attack women. Hell, everyone knows you can trust any cop.

What about one of the many mothers listed on this site replacing her. I mean hell, they have their own kids in school, they would never hurt a child right?

The woman accepts crap pay, for a very tough job and appears to like being around kids. She has done nothing illegal either past or present that is known and not one of the complaining parents seems to be stepping forward to do her job. I've not seen any complaints form the kids she serves, only the busy body parents who have way too much time on their hands while she is looking out for their kids.

I'd hire her to care for my kids, ugly tits and all.

R

[Abroad]

Ok but still don't the children deserve better ?

Better than what exactly? I think they deserve better examples set by their parents, is what I think they deserve. Less judgement and more tolerance

I don't believe that they should be letting just anybody work with children and whether or not she is or isn't in the adult industry, I still feel that she has no place and no right to be working at a school with children,

I don't believe they should let just anybody work with children either; but if you don't care whether she is in the adult entertainment industry or not, then what do you have against her? As for rights.... I should think she has a right to not be unjustly terminated from a job that she applied for, got, and has by all accounts performed with no complaints until some prurient hypocrite decided to draw everybody's attention to her past career. I think it may be safely said that no kids were ever harmed in the production of those films.

if she really cared this much about children why didn't she do this BEFORE she decided to get into the adult industry.

Adult entertainment pays a lot better than lunch lady. Conversely, it also offers a much shorter career. Once she could no longer earn money in porn, she looked for something else to do, something unskilled and underpaid, I might add. Very few of us stay in the same business our entire lives. People mature. Priorities change. If I had insisted on working only in the field I was trained for, I would be unemployed today. If I become unemployed for some reason, I might look at other fields than the one I am in now.

And you're right its not her fault, its the parents so hopefully more people will make an example out of this and do more so incidents like this wont happen again. And isn't up to the parents to decide who they want and don't want around THEIR children to begin with.

"Incidents like this"? What exactly happened? Apart of course from some parents getting hot under the collar about somebody's "amoral" past life? And might I add we are not talking about some past life in which she harmed children in any way, shape or form?

However distasteful you personally find the porn industry, the performers work hard (there, I said it) and what they do is legal. If I had children at that school, I would be using the dinner lady as an example of why you should stick to your books and not be deceived by glamourous ideas about modelling and films, not trying to have her turned out of a job that nobody else is willing to take.

[MichaelJCheaney]

Hell, odds are some parent was visiting the school, or looking through some school pub where the workers pictures were posted and recognized her form a flick they had seen.

I'd bet a dollar to your doughnut SHE never let anyone know what she did in a past life.

So should whomever it was that recognized her have their kids taken away since they obviously watch porn? You know those that watch porn can't be trusted around kids. :eye roll:

Maybe one of those catholic priest that has been busted for screwing alter boys should replace her. I mean everyone knows you can trust a priest with kids right?

Maybe a former cop should replace her. I know I've read at least two stories in the last week about cops using their position to attack women. Hell, everyone knows you can trust any cop.

What about one of the many mothers listed on this site replacing her. I mean hell, they have their own kids in school, they would never hurt a child right?

The woman accepts crap pay, for a very tough job and appears to like being around kids. She has done nothing illegal either past or present that is known and not one of the complaining parents seems to be stepping forward to do her job. I've not seen any complaints form the kids she serves, only the busy body parents who have way too much time on their hands while she is looking out for their kids.

I'd hire her to care for my kids, ugly tits and all.

R

Harley is a HUGE proponent of community service.....

Hiring her would just be more proof!

Right Harley?

[maryhaze]

i've got kids & i'm looking for a fit female employee who is good with animals. the job is basically being an animal psych who is willing to shovel shit. i'd hire her in a heartbeat if i thought she could deal with my critters.

[Abroad]

Harley is a HUGE proponent of community service.....

Hiring her would just be more proof!

Right Harley?

He used to have that there sig that said he supported single mothers, too.

I thought he was just telling us that he was a Pole, but I am beginning to realise just how mistaken I was

[Sister Iroz]

The 70s are over? FUCK!

Harley, when feeling well I still like to party, party, party, drink, love my drugs and still love to flirt slutty.

[Sister Iroz]

Maybe they're like you. I don't know. There is rather a high rate of suicide among these individuals, as well as a higher rate of death by drug-overdose. Many, if not most of the females in that industry were molested at some point in their childhoods. Porn stars are fucked up people. They may be fucked up people who love their children, but they are still fucked up people.

What is the difference between them and anyone else who does this? Say for example musicians, actors, people like me and you (we aren't so different I would bet), dentists (heard they are high in suicide), etc. So I guess you should say all people are fucked up. They still need a job, just like any other fucked up person out their that doesn't have a criminal record. I guess what I'm trying to ask is the reason your saying she shouldn't work with children is because she is fucked up? Parents aren't perfect as we all know and a lot of them are majorly fucked up with problems. We don't tell them because they have fucked up problems they can't be there parents. Not unless they start harming and/or abusing them. I hope my point is coming through and would like to understand your point.

[Dakota Valkyrie]

I should never have been allowed to be a parent. But you all have seen me brag - so I guess a sordid past only made me a better person. Live and learn. I bet the lunch lady did.

[Harley_Tech]

Harley is a HUGE proponent of community service.....

Hiring her would just be more proof!

Right Harley?

Actually I'm more a big fan of former porn stars. I have several chained up...er check that residing in my spare bedroom.

R

[Dakota Valkyrie]

Maybe they're like you. I don't know. There is rather a high rate of suicide among these individuals, as well as a higher rate of death by drug-overdose. Many, if not most of the females in that industry were molested at some point in their childhoods. Porn stars are fucked up people. They may be fucked up people who love their children, but they are still fucked up people.

The lunch lady is a former porn star. I suppose there is a reason she's a former one. Like maybe she found religion. Or maybe she got recovery from drug/alchol/sex addiction. Maybe she has a good counselor and is moving on with her life from maybe being abused. Maybe she became a parent and decided to act like one. Maybe she saw the "wickedness" or the "futility" of her ways.

Lots of "maybe"s... any one of which lends itself to being a POSITIVE influence.

[MichaelJCheaney]

I should never have been allowed to be a parent. But you all have seen me brag - so I guess a sordid past only made me a better person. Live and learn. I bet the lunch lady did.

Dakota is a great parent.

Well except for that Minnesota Vikings thing.... (thankfully she hasn't bragged too much about that though)

But seriously everybody has something in their past they would like to forget, or are ashamed of.

I believe that we as people would be much better off looking at the here and now, as opposed to the past.

The past CAN be a great indicator of the future, but this isn't one of those times.

[jenthgr8]

Ok I'm going to say it so hate me if you want but I am soooo AGAINST this !
I have two young children (and no Im not a jealous mom ) and I would so be against the idea of an ex porn star at my kids school and even if she isnt a threat most people from the porn industry aren't reputable and what if she had fans *oddly enough* and they followed her to a school full of children, I just dont see anything good coming from this and as far as the kids are concerned don't they deserve better ? get rid of her, its 150% better to be safe than sorry. And what would be next ? are they going to hire prostitutes for school counsellors ?! and ex druggies for principals ??? Of course children are going to find out who their lunch lady was because of all the attention this lady is getting from parents and the media already. With that kind of background I agree she doesnt need to be working with children and if parents care so much about this than maybe they should step up to the plate and start helping out more so this wouldn't *and shouldn't* have happened to begin with.

I don't have to hate you to think you're stupid. What if they DID hire an ex-druggie for principal? The key word in all of this is FORMER. She used to get paid to have sex on film. She's not an ex-con or some kind of pedophile. Why not let her work with children?

Ok but still don't the children deserve better ? I don't believe that they should be letting just anybody work with children and whether or not she is or isn't in the adult industry, I still feel that she has no place and no right to be working at a school with children, if she really cared this much about children why didn't she do this BEFORE she decided to get into the adult industry. And you're right its not her fault, its the parents so hopefully more people will make an example out of this and do more so incidents like this wont happen again. And isn't up to the parents to decide who they want and don't want around THEIR children to begin with.

Don't the children deserve better than what, exactly? A woman who left a likely demeaning but well paying job to take a legitimate job that very few other people want? As far as getting into being a lunch lady before the adult film biz, well, I'd rather make porn than serve lunch to your snot-nosed little brats, any day. But once I started doing it, I may well change my mind. Are you suggesting that she should just stay in the business once she made a movie or two? Have you no common sense? Why shouldn't she be allowed to take a position that makes her feel good about herself and what she is doing?

And, as far as "incidents like this", well, there was no incident. She hasn't done anything wrong, unless wanting to change your life for the better is wrong.

Shame on you.

[penelopejo]

Makes no sense. I am assuming her big ole boobies are still there. Maybe they got curious and got her name and googled her, but still, has she hurt their children, no. Has she been trying to hook up with a sixth grader, no. I'm not getting why they would try to get her fired if she's done nothing wrong in the past or present except for the whole porn thingy.

On that note, I think the moms may be kinda sorta jealous of her boobies, I mean, they may look horrible nekkid, but they may look kinda nice all covered up. I'm just wondering why they wouldn't go and get her autograph instead of getting her fired. I mean, would you want instead, a 50 year old single male feeding your children and watching them run jump and play and being in contact with them? What's the difference?

[moonlilly1981]

She did not do anything illegal. So why judge her? What I want to know is how it came out that she was a porn star? It came out because someone saw her in a movie or what not. I wouldn't care if she was my kids lunch lady as long as she kept her chi chi's and cooter covered up. What she did in her past career is not my right to know as long as she didn't break the law.

[crickett]

We are all fucked people in some fashion.

Except me of course....see..De Nile is NOT just a river in Egypt!

[Dakota Valkyrie]

Lunch Lady In Porn Scandal Resigns From Job

A woman who left the porn industry to work as an elementary school lunch lady in Vineland, N.J. has quit her position.

Louisa Tuck offered a one-sentence resignation to the Vineland, N.J. school district this week.

http://www.myfoxphilly.com/myfox/pag...d=1.1.1&sflg=1

[impqueen]

I really hope that she finds a job that pays her a lot more and hurts her less.

I can just about guarantee that this lunch lady thing broke Louisa's heart a lot more than banging a guy or fifty on camera ever did. And now she knows, if she didn't before, that no good deed goes unpunished.

[RaVen Blackehart]

[Rockin Ma]

I feel bad she felt she had to leave. I have to compare this to something though. My old teacher's wife was in Playboy Magazine. Once the kids found out many brought the magazines to school and disrupted everything for weeks.

[Nell]

I feel bad she felt she had to leave. I have to compare this to something though. My old teacher's wife was in Playboy Magazine. Once the kids found out many brought the magazines to school and disrupted everything for weeks.

Uh where were they getting the Playboys? From their parents? And I thought it was against the rules to bring porn to school!? Maybe my principal was just really strict.

[TheLittleFriend]

Ok but still don't the children deserve better ? I don't believe that they should be letting just anybody work with children and whether or not she is or isn't in the adult industry, I still feel that she has no place and no right to be working at a school with children, if she really cared this much about children why didn't she do this BEFORE she decided to get into the adult industry. And you're right its not her fault, its the parents so hopefully more people will make an example out of this and do more so incidents like this wont happen again. And isn't up to the parents to decide who they want and don't want around THEIR children to begin with.

Honey, you really shouldn't worry about people who were in adult industry, serving food to the children......you should be worry about unregister sex offenders....

I rather have her serve crappy food to my kid than sex offender offer my kid a candy.