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    15 y.o. mother broke her baby

    A 15-year-old mother who stopped going to Mommy and Me groups to keep her infant son’s injuries a secret watched online videos dedicated to children who had died, according to a police report.

    Her 4-month-old son was taken to Wheaton Franciscan-All Saints hospital, 3801 Spring St., on Sunday, where he was found to have a broken arm and leg, police said. He was transferred to Children’s Hospital of Wisconsin in Wauwatosa, where doctors reportedly found additional injuries, including bruises to the back, genitals, arms and legs; scars near the ears, lower lip, left cheek and genitals; and fractures to both his arms and his left leg.

    The baby has been released from the hospital to a Milwaukee social services agency. The girl is in custody in Racine. She was reportedly on probation for two counts of assault and truancy when the abuse occurred.

    When an investigator went to her foster home this week, she reportedly told him that her son hit his head when she failed to catch him after tossing him about 7 feet up into the air. Doctors said that explanation did not match his injuries, the report said.

    The girl is not being named because her case is in juvenile court.

    One of the girl’s foster parents told an investigator that the teenager is temperamental and sometimes stays in her room with the baby all day. She said the girl had asked whether there was a way to tell if someone is bleeding internally and that she had been on YouTube viewing videos dedicated to children who had died or been severely injured, some through abuse.

    The report said the investigator looked at the computer the girl had been using and saw that she visited 18 videos that dealt with children, the majority of which were for children who had died. Two were in reference to child abuse.

    When police were able to interview her, the investigator noted that she was half-smiling and seemed detached. She reportedly covered her eyes, pulled her lower eyelids down and pulled a finger across, causing herself to cry.

    She said she had told the truth about how the injuries happened — referring to the explanation that she had tossed the baby into the air — but that she had caused bruises by scratching him when she was irritated with his crying.

    The report indicates the girl then admitted to causing all of the baby’s injuries and said she had handled him roughly, grabbed him and yanked him by the arm, thrown him on her bed and twisted his legs. She said she hurt him when she got mad at him.

    She reportedly told the investigator that she started looking at the videos because she realized what she was doing was abuse.

    “(She) stated that she looked up the RIP sites because she recognized that what she was doing could cause (the baby) to ‘end up like that’ and admitted that she realized that her actions could result in (the baby’s) death.”

    She has been charged with physical abuse of a child. There is a hearing scheduled for Dec. 9 during which she could be waived into adult court. Police said the girl is from Milwaukee, but was in foster care here with her son. She is in eighth grade and is home schooled, according to a police report.
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    Are the foster parents deaf, blind, and stupid? You know that baby was making some noise during and after the injures. And....the teen sounds just a bit psycho. Too bad we can't force sterilization on her now.
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    Poor little baby. I kinda feel for the girl too, I don't know why, usually I don't. I mean, she knew what she was doing. I just want to think maybe she was trying to stop herself. She's just a kid herself, and in no ways ready to be a mother.

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    *sighs*

    I just don't know what to say. Again the system failing. If my fifteen year old foster child was pregnant and wanted to keep the baby okay fine. But I would do most of the care taking of the baby. None of this staying in your room alone for hours at a time with him. When are foster parents going to learn that being a foster parent is just that being a parent. Not just providing a home and basic needs to these kids.

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    I am so very glad this baby didn't end up dead. Seems like the girl is very immature being a child still and really has no business taking care of a baby all day in her room...she has so much yet to learn on being a mother.
    Damn, this really sucks. Her child will fair far better without her she is so unprepared to be a mother yet. Glad she fessed up and told the officer what she did to her baby and what she was thinking...first sign that she's growing up and accepting responsibility.
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    Babies having babies...

    Sighs. I am so sad for both of them. The girl clearly is not ready to be a momma and that poor baby had to pay the price for her immaturity. I'm not sure why the foster parents would not have had a more active role in this baby's welfare. At fifteen, the focus should be on getting this girl to finish high school and get a stable job. The foster parents should be raising the baby as if it were their own (providing for it in every way) while the girl grows up. That's just my two cents and how I would do it if I were blessed to be a foster parent.

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    I was a 15 year old when I got pregnant. I had my daughter 3 months to the day after I turned 16. I never hurt her. Not once. Not ever. Did I get frustrated with her? Hell yes I did. I dropped out of high school and started working to support her by the time she was 3 months old. I missed out on countless social events and prom and all that shit a kid dreams about doing. Guess what? That was my choice, not my helpless, innocent, dependent baby's. I have no sympathy for this stupid bitch. She twisted her baby's fucking legs when she was mad! That's disgusting. I was a child who had no clue how to be a mother, too. I did the best I could. Surely there were mistakes along the way, but this is inexcusable.

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    Quote Originally Posted by moonlilly1981 View Post
    *sighs*

    I just don't know what to say. Again the system failing. If my fifteen year old foster child was pregnant and wanted to keep the baby okay fine. But I would do most of the care taking of the baby. None of this staying in your room alone for hours at a time with him. When are foster parents going to learn that being a foster parent is just that being a parent. Not just providing a home and basic needs to these kids.
    I agree that the system failed. I don't think that is in question. But which system?

    As a parent, and being a mother at the ripe age of 16, I have to disagree with the part about being the primary caregiver of the child if you are the parent of the 15/16 year old. You wouldn't be that child's parent unless you took legal measures to do so. My parents didn't provide the majority of care, and at 16, NO ONE is ready to be a parent. But just because I was young doesn't mean I was crazy and harmful to my child. I don't agree that the grandparents should be the ones providing the support and caregiving, because when that child moves out, the mother is going to have to do it, and if they aren't prepared and taking care of that child from day 1, you're just going to create problems later on down the road. If you are going to be irresponsible and have unprotected sex, in a world where sexual education is prevalent and birth control options are readily available, you need to make a responsible decision. We no longer live in an era where you have no choice. There are SEVERAL choices out there. But you need to make that responsible decision.

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    Wow! This sound so messed up. The girls is obviously pretty messed up, she's in foster care herself. Why is she watching the video's, does she want the baby to die?
    Thankfully the baby now has a chance and hopefully so does the girl. She needs some serious help.

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    I can't feel sorry for that bitch. The abuse was ongoing (scarring) and the injuries were numerous. She knew what she was doing, especially if she was looking at RIP baby sites.

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    one of the girl’s foster parents told an investigator that the teenager is temperamental and sometimes stays in her room with the baby all day.
    YA THINK!

    I can't feel sorry for that bitch. The abuse was ongoing (scarring) and the injuries were numerous. She knew what she was doing, especially if she was looking at RIP baby sites.
    DAMN SKIPPY! She is 16 and knows right from wrong and she knew she was WRONG. I do feel for the 4 month old baby and hope it gets a home where he will be loved and cared for.

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    I thought it might be "Pediatric Munchausen syndrome" , but she is hideing the injuries so I guess not.
    She is deffinity regreting having the child and is probly punishing it for all her problums. A dead baby would free her up from all the responsibility and she could have her old life back. I wounder if some one talked her into keeping it and she fought it or regreted it. It certainly is a shock at first, to how much work a baby can be. Hell wait till it turn 3 then she is in for a whole more ballgame.
    Her foster parents need to keep a closer eye on her for a while.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AussieMum View Post
    Wow! This sound so messed up. The girls is obviously pretty messed up, she's in foster care herself. Why is she watching the video's, does she want the baby to die?
    Thankfully the baby now has a chance and hopefully so does the girl. She needs some serious help.
    It DID occur to me that maybe she is so twisted that she wanted the baby to die...then she could put a cool memorial to her baby on MySpace.
    And she had to scratch her eyes in order to make herself cry for the police....No, I DON'T think she's taking responsibility...I think that she is quite mentally ill and would have killed that baby as soon as she could have invented a plausible (to her) story....
    I think that she is a very, very sick, twisted little girl and I just thank God that the baby is still alive.
    May this innocent little angel be placed with someone who will love and care for him as he should be.

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