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SoUncool
June 11th, 2008, 09:35 PM
B-E-N-J-O and Benjo was his name - O!

Emotional Plea For 82-Year-Old Man Who Says Murder Was Mercy Killing

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http://www.wftv.com/news/16577070/detail.html

DELTONA, Fla. -- There was an emotional plea Wednesday from the family of an 82-year-old man accused of killing his sick wife. The man says he shot his wife to end her pain. She was suffering from cancer, among other illnesses.

A judge is letting the man out of jail without posting any bond, but he could still end up going to prison. His family hopes, despite being accused of murder, he won't have to go back behind bars.

Robert Benjo wiped away tears as he sat in a Volusia County courtroom Wednesday. He admitted to killing his 76-year-old wife, but his family says he's no murderer.

"I know my mom was getting very ill. It was just very hard for us to do anything for her," said Steven Benjo, the victim's son.

His family says Benjo was a devoted husband who wanted to do one last thing for his wife Peggy. He shot her as she slept in the couple's Deltona home. She had been suffering from cancer and Alzheimer's for a long time and apparently begged him to help her die.

"She said, 'I lost everything, I'm unhealthy, I don't have the will to live.' And I said, 'Mom, you have to have the will to live,' and she said, 'I just don't have the energy,'" said Teresa Hiller, the victim's daughter.

The couple's doctor said Peggy had less than a year to live. Even he believes this was nothing other than a mercy killing.

"Mercy or she begged him to do it and it would be a mercy act. She was suffering so much," said Dr. Robert Dominguez, the victim's doctor.

After the shooting, Benjo threatened to take his own life. The judge's main concern was that he may try to commit suicide again. But after assurances from family members, the judge decided to release him without bond.

"We just want him to come home so we can take care of him. We will figure this out, whatever we have to do," said Janet Benjo, the victim's daughter-in-law.

As a condition for the release, Benjo will get a psychological evaluation and take any medication that he is prescribed.

The State Attorney's Office has not formally charged Benjo with any crime. His attorney is hoping charges won't be filed or he'll get manslaughter. In that case, he won't have to go prison.

Benjo's attorney said there was a similar case in Volusia County four years ago when a man shot his sick wife. He was convicted of manslaughter and did not go to prison.

Jaded
June 12th, 2008, 12:21 AM
Another fine example of why the assisted suicide laws need to be changed......

If it had been legal for this woman to die when she felt her time had come, we probably wouldn't be reading this story.

Boondock
June 12th, 2008, 05:31 AM
Yeah, but good god a GUN??? Seriously? He couldn't think of a less violent way to do her in? I mean if she really wanted to die, why not an OD on the pain meds I'm sure she was receiving for her suffering.

At the very least, I hope the autopsy shows that she had an extremely high amount of pain killers in her system. Can you imagine if she woke up from the pain of a gunshot that wasn't perfectly placed?

Miss. Hill
June 12th, 2008, 08:39 AM
A gun does seem harsh but I'm thinking this was difficult for him, when I don't want to do something I need to act impulsively to complete the task.

Cancer and Alzheimer's are hard diseases to watch a loved one suffer with. My father suffered from cancer for a year, longest year ever. I wish they would allow people who are terminal the ability to end their suffering, it's just the right thing to do!

celtic friend
June 12th, 2008, 10:43 AM
Yeah, but good god a GUN??? Seriously? He couldn't think of a less violent way to do her in? I mean if she really wanted to die, why not an OD on the pain meds I'm sure she was receiving for her suffering.

At the very least, I hope the autopsy shows that she had an extremely high amount of pain killers in her system. Can you imagine if she woke up from the pain of a gunshot that wasn't perfectly placed?
I agree that he most likely needed to do it in a quick way. Less attachment involved, suffocating her would have taken strength, and if she would have resisted he probably would have stopped. Not that, that's the only way but I am sure he wanted to do it quickly. I always thought of shooting as the cowards way to kill, for how easy it is.

Boondock
June 13th, 2008, 01:13 AM
I always thought of shooting as the cowards way to kill, for how easy it is.

Absolutely true that it is incredibly easy... but for the shooter not the victim. I've seen many GSW victims and there have been very few that seemed unfazed by it (although, believe it our not, I have seen a few who were unfazed).

I get that it could have been impulsive and that it was the only way he could handle doing it (smothering would be about THE MOST godawful way of killing someone you love). I don't know, I guess I would be more comfortable with the whole situation if there was at least some indication that she was a willing participant in the plan. i.e. high concentration of pain killers which could suggest that she swallowed them herself with the knowledge that once she was unconscious hubby would off her.

I know that the article says that she begged him to help her die and I certainly don't dispute that. I just wish it was more clear on whether or not this was the plan she endorsed.

funnymommy
June 13th, 2008, 11:52 AM
I can see why he used a gun. Many people do not realise that an overdose does not necessarily mean a painless death; some people experience severe pain, hallucinations, seizures, and the like before the drug takes its course.

I saw a case on the news once about a sick woman who ODed her kids and then tried to take her own life. The crazy bitch lived because she was half-assed with her own suicide as her true intent was to punish her ex-husband. Anyway, it was said that her children suffered terribly before they died.