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Dakota_Valkyrie
April 28th, 2008, 12:07 AM
A year or so ago I was researching a case I was interested in and found this site. I bookmarked it to come back later and promptly forgot about it. I rediscovered it a couple of months ago and haven't left since!

My mom got me into true crime with "In Cold Blood" and "Fatal Vision"... ever since then it's been a secret passion that only those closest to me are aware of. I've even stooped to reading detective mags when in need of a fix!! (Thank god for the Internet as I haven't seen one of those in years.)

I am 50 and proudly married to a great guy who will be soon doing his second tour in Baghdad. I have 2 kids (twins 24) of my own and 4 step kids (25-31 and wonderful NOW). All in either teaching or law enforcement professions. We have 7 grandkids with room for plenty more. I am used to a crowd - My husband has 9 siblings and I have 17 (yes!! SEVENTEEN - a mixture of real, half, and step but we are ALL close) A family gathering of less than 100 is odd.

Despite living in one of the safest states (ND), my family and I have been touched by many of the same crimes I read about here. My sister was raped at 10, another was murdered by her boyfriend, a grandchild was molested by her mom's penis, and my daughter's best friend was brutally murdered by a psycho.

Maybe this site and my obsession helps me (all of us?) to somehow come to terms with the limits of what is happening? I don't care! I also have great fun mouthing off and love to see what you guys come up with next.

I'm gonna just pull up a chair and sit around here somewhere... I would sit on the couch but I've heard too many stories about it...

Becca
April 28th, 2008, 02:31 PM
Welcome welcome! Glad to have you on board and you're a smart cookie for being wary of the couch..stay away!

dop
April 28th, 2008, 02:43 PM
Wow, You joined this month and have just 39 posts? its amazing, im sure ive read at least a dozen really good posts by you, If asked I would pin point you from being arround a wee bit longer and what not.

Anyway, Welcome to the board.

Zora
April 28th, 2008, 03:09 PM
Just wanted to say Hi and Welcome, Dakota. Your pride in your incredible family is evident. :heart:

mammasweets
April 28th, 2008, 03:22 PM
Welcome Welcome! My house is full but I think you have me beat. Gatherings of 30 are usual here. That's just for a weekend get together.

impqueen
April 29th, 2008, 09:50 AM
In case I haven't said it before, welcome, Dakota! :D

Hippiepoet
April 29th, 2008, 10:26 AM
Dakota, Welcome! Sounds like you fit in quite well with the rest of us misfits. :D