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Dakota Valkyrie
August 28th, 2009, 08:57 AM
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Neither mom or dad looks like they lacked nutrition...Emily Errico was wearing a plastic bag for a halter-top and sweatpants when police found her lifeless body in her parents' Garwood home two years ago.

The 25-year-old woman, who stood five-feet seven-inches tall, weighed only 97 pounds.

"You would not believe the condition of that apartment," said Jackie Belford, who lived above the Erricos on Second Avenue for five years. "It was just cluttered. You couldn't see the floor from all the paper bags and towels. They had hung up plastic bags everywhere."

Memories of that day in 2007 resurfaced this week after a Union County grand jury indicted Errico's mother, Erminia Errico, on a charge of third-degree neglect.

Authorities allege Ermina Errico, 62, and her husband, Edward, contributed to their daughter's death by failing to provide basic care to her as she wasted away from anorexia in an increasingly bizarre setting at home.

"This is a situation of a young girl who couldn't even control her movements at the time of her death," Union County Prosecutor Theodore Romankow said. "There was tremendous pressure in that house."

Explaining the lag between Emily Errico's death on Jan. 29, 2007, and the charge against her mother, Romankow said investigators needed time to collect evidence, a process that quickened when Edward Errico began to cooperate.

He pleaded guilty to a third-degree neglect charge earlier this year, and was sentenced to probation and ordered to undergo a psychological evaluation.
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Any interaction with other children was forbidden outside of school, and even as a young woman Emily often wore plastic bags for clothes when inside, the indictment said.

Emily never mentioned any problems at home when she ventured outside, authorities said.

Described as exceptionally bright, she graduated from Kean University in 2003 with a degree in computer science.
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While she lived Kean's Union Township campus for some time, her father remained a constant presence, supplying meals daily and even accompanying her on the occasional date, Romankow said.

"It's perplexing she did not say anything," Romankow said. "I can't enter into her mind. I wish I knew her. But maybe she could not overcome the mental and emotional issues at her home."

Investigators say Emily's confinement grew worse after she graduated from college, when she moved into the Garwood home.

"She was not free to leave her room, let alone the house because her mother would sit like a guard outside her room on a constant basis," Romankow said.

In December 2004, Emily's father took her to a nutritionist, who diagnosed her as malnourished and recommended follow-up visits, according to the indictment.

It was the last time Emily ventured outside the house, the indictment said. Her father canceled all subsequent appointments.

Before Emily died, her father told investigators, he would often hear his daughter "falling like a bag of bones" on the floor, as if she had lost all muscle control, Romankow said.
http://www.nj.com/news/index.ssf/2009/08/union_county_authorities_detai.html
Her mother called 911, but Romankow said, "the police had a difficult time entering the house because of garbage bags placed by the door."

He said there were black bags over the windows as well.
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Emily was fed a diet of granola bars and seltzer, as she wasted away for nearly four years.
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Some neighbors said they didn't even know the Errico's had a daughter, and others said they hadn't seen her outside of the house for two years before her death.http://www.nbcnewyork.com/news/local-beat/Adult-Daughters-Death-Anorexia-Death-Blamed-on-Mom-55400267.html

According to WABC (http://abclocal.go.com/wabc/story?section=news/local&id=6986208), the mother was so afraid of germs, she made her husband and daughter defecate and wash up in a laundry room sink.

Emily Errico, from 8th Grade Yearbook
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thequeenofsorrow
August 28th, 2009, 09:12 AM
poor girl.. i wonder why she had no outside life. i know it says her mom wouldn't let her or whatever but still.... weird.... i guess she had been headfucked her whole life.
RIP Emily

curethispain
August 28th, 2009, 09:12 AM
What. The. Hell? This is one of those ones I just can't grasp...very weird.

TheImperialCerealKiller
August 28th, 2009, 10:44 AM
So was she anorexic or was she starved?
I was thinking that if she truly was anorexic, it was probably the only area in her life where she had any control.

Chaindrive
August 28th, 2009, 11:18 AM
This is so sad.

And what would a woman that was afraid of germs be doing with all those garbage bags?

ImmortalOne
August 28th, 2009, 11:34 AM
62 year old parents... *does some math* So they were "older" 37 yr old parents...

No one noticed this girl never out? What about the family? What about the neighbors or the doctors?

ineedanap
August 28th, 2009, 03:47 PM
I am having a hard time with these neglect charges. This woman was 25 years old, and graduated from a 4 year college. She was an adult. If she wanted to leave the house, she could have left. In fact she returned to the house after she graduated college. Don't get me wrong, the whole family sounds fucked up, but if they were to be charged with anything shouldn't it be unlawful confinement or something of that nature?

At what point are parents no longer responsible for their adult children? They failed to meet her basic needs? She was 25. It seems to me, she failed to meet her own basic needs. JMO.

Dakota Valkyrie
August 28th, 2009, 04:10 PM
She was basically a captive. She was "brainwashed" into submission long before she even hit high school. In college, I would have steered clear of someone whose father brought them a daily meal and went on dates with them. Too weird.

As more comes out, maybe they will explain the charges better. Or perhaps they relate to things that were done when she was a minor and the statute of limitations had not run out on.

Mybabiesmomma
August 28th, 2009, 05:42 PM
even accompanying her on the occasional date

This is just to weird for me to understand. Had my dad been that clingy, God knows where I would have chosen to bury his body. Okay I am kidding. But really who does this, and what type of person does it take to go along with it?

Dakota Valkyrie
August 28th, 2009, 07:04 PM
Weird stuff. Even the neighbor didn't know she had a daughter.
YouTube - Mom Charged In Adult Daughters Death

Thanks Harley for snagging this!

thebooblady
August 28th, 2009, 09:15 PM
I am having a hard time with these neglect charges. This woman was 25 years old, and graduated from a 4 year college. She was an adult. If she wanted to leave the house, she could have left. In fact she returned to the house after she graduated college. Don't get me wrong, the whole family sounds fucked up, but if they were to be charged with anything shouldn't it be unlawful confinement or something of that nature?

At what point are parents no longer responsible for their adult children? They failed to meet her basic needs? She was 25. It seems to me, she failed to meet her own basic needs. JMO.

This is why...

For more than two decades, a Garwood woman dictated the terms of her daughter's life, controlling what she ate and forced her daughter to wear trash bags as clothing, said Prosecutor Theodore J. Romankow.



http://www.newjerseynewsroom.com/state/garwood-mother-charged-in-death-of-adult-daughter

I don't know why she returned home after college, but it seems as if even while she was in college the control continued.

Chaindrive
August 28th, 2009, 10:35 PM
And guess what? Foster parenting is in their future.

Tazzzz
September 3rd, 2009, 03:23 AM
These parents creep me the fuck out. Emily didnt have a chance from day one. One or the other parent was always with her controling her every move. She plain just didnt know any better, Its just like the kidnapped girl they just found. same damn thing. Mind fuck 24/7.


An autopsy revealed she'd died of anorexia and malnutrition. Police believe the college graduate starved to death because her controlling parents severely limited the food she ate..

They kept her away from friends and barred her from contact with the outside world. "She was not free to leave her room, let alone the house, because her mother would sit like a guard outside of her room on a constant basis," .

police say she was even under her parents control at school (University). Father Edward delivered her meals daily, and she returned home upon graduation.

Dakota Valkyrie
January 15th, 2010, 04:44 PM
A judge delayed sentencing a New Jersey woman in the malnutrition death of her 25-year-old daughter Friday after a dispute in court over whether she would be able to pay for required psychiatric treatment.

Ermina Errico pleaded guilty to one count of neglect last year. The plea terms call for a sentence of five years' probation and undergo psychiatric care for what prosecutors called acute obsessive-compulsive disorder.

That was before her attorney told state Superior Court Judge Stuart Peim Friday that the 62-year-old Errico might not be able to afford the treatment.

By the end of the proceeding, however, Errico had relayed through attorney Neil Duffy that she might be able to get discounted care at a facility that is treating her husband, who pleaded guilty to a similar charge last year and is on probation.

Peim gave both sides until Feb. 26 to resolve the matter.

"I'm not throwing someone in jail just because they can't afford a prescription,'' he said.
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After the hearing, Donnelly explained that prosecutors sought probation with counseling rather than jail time in an effort to balance justice and compassion; incarceration could equate to a death sentence for Errico, who uses a walker to move around.

The obligation to seek and pay for treatment lies with Errico, Donnelly added, and he noted that her husband works for an engineering firm. Errico claimed in court that her husband's insurance does not cover her.

"We're not going to kowtow to her,'' Donnelly said. "People in much more indigent conditions have found a way to get their treatment.''
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http://www.1010wins.com/NJ-Mom-s-Sentencing-Delayed-in-Daughter-s-Death/6127657

thequeenofsorrow
March 5th, 2010, 03:12 PM
Probation? WTF?

ELIZABETH — A judge sentenced a New Jersey woman to probation in the malnutrition death of her 25-year-old daughter Friday.

The judge also ordered to undergo mental health treatment for an obsessive-compulsive disorder. He warned the 62-year-old she would face prison if she didn't comply.

Errico pleaded guilty to one count of neglect last year.

Prosecutors say Errico obsessively controlled her daughter's life practically from birth, severely limiting her food intake and eventually forcing her to wear plastic bags instead of clothes.

Errico was found dead from anorexia nervosa and malnutrition in the family's Garwood home in 2007.

Her mother told the judge she should have been more forceful with her daughter when she didn't want to go to a treatment center.

http://www.northjersey.com/news/crime_courts/030510_New_Jersey_mom_sentenced_to_probation_in_da ughters_death.html

Athena
March 5th, 2010, 06:15 PM
I have a great deal of sympathy for people suffering from compulsive disorders. They're like neurotic parrots who spend their days pacing and plucking their own feathers from their skin.

Take a minute to really consider the definition of the words that make up Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. "Disorder" suggests that it's inherent or developed but generally beyond the control of the sufferer. Then there's "Obsessive" and "Compulsive". I don't think there are two words in the English language that better describe a lack of behavioral control. I speak from experience when I say you are literally both obsessed with and compelled to perform the behavior, be it positive or negative. Even if you recognize it as abnormal, there's little you can do to stop yourself.

And there's nothing really FOR these people, treatment-wise. There's prescription medication, but you have to take something so strong it will essentially zombify you. Then there's behavioral therapy which is incredibly difficult, expensive and often times ineffective.

That said - we all have hurdles to jump. Some people's are higher than others. No one said life was meant to be fair or easy. And, when a behavior of yours is negatively impacting another person, or if you're attached to someone whose behavior is damaging, you have a responsibility to change things.

I can see why these people only got probation. It's hard to prove that this daughter's death was a direct result of her parents' behavior (even though we all know it, the court has a higher burden of proof), and they're old and unlikely to hurt anyone else.

Ultimately, this is just tragic all around. It's like the analogy used in Silence of the Lambs, when Hannibal talks about shallow rollers and deep rollers. It looks like this was a family of deep rollers.