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thehesbomb
June 19th, 2009, 11:37 AM
There are no words for what I would do to these bitches if I ever found out they had done these things to my kid.

STRATHAM — State investigators ruled a local child care center violated state regulations after it was found a staff member shook two children, called another child stupid and left one child unattended.

The state Bureau of Childcare Licensing released its written findings Thursday after completing an investigation into the Day Star Child Care Center at 7 Stoney Brook Lane. The center voluntarily closed after the investigation began May 28, and the center's owner Lynn Morell would have to apply to the state for a license if she chose to reopen at any time, state officials said.

Morell, who does not have a listed phone number, could not be reached for comment Thursday.

The investigative report and findings, which were sent to Morell this week, found the center violated three specific state regulations relating to child care centers. The center was found to have violated the rules related to corporal punishment of children, as well as a rule that prohibits child-care workers from trying to control children by actions that are humiliating, threatening, shaming or frightening.

State investigators found then-center director Jackie Firmin was advised a staff member, only identified as "staff member B," had shaken two children. The former director told investigators she was told the staff member shook a 3-year-old boy because he was throwing sand in the sandbox. The witness said she allegedly saw the other staff member grab the child, shake him and say, "You need to look at me, you need to stop throwing sand."

In another instance, the state agency found that the staff member put a 4-year-old on stairs near the infant room when she was having a hard time controlling her class, the report said. The staffer was allegedly seen shaking the boy by the shoulders and yelling at him, "You're too old to be doing this."

A parent told investigators she saw this staff member send a child to time-out and when he laid down, she physically pulled his arms to make him sit up. The child was "flailing and crying" during this incident, the parent said.

One person who spoke with state investigators said the staff member allegedly yelled at a child lying down while in time-out, "I said you will sit in time-out." In another instance, the staff member allegedly called a 4-year-old "stupid."

The center was also found to have violated regulations about properly supervising children. In one example, a parent arrived at the center and found a preschool class unsupervised.

"There was a naked girl in the bathroom who had an accident and needed changing, another girl filling the sink up with water and two boys putting a play kitchen on a little girl because she wouldn't play with them," the report stated.

In the report, the majority of complaints relate to "staff member B." Firmin told state investigators she thought this staff member was fired in May, but then rehired at a later date. Parents previously said the fired staff member was brought back to replace the center director after she was fired.

State investigators also found the center violated rules regarding proper supervision of children. One person told investigators that when she went to pick up her 5-year-old daughter May 26, she found her child and another 4-year-old in the classroom with all the doors closed and no adult with them.

Several other parents reported no adults were present when they arrived to pick up their children. In one alleged case, a silver hoop earring fell out of an infant's mouth. None of the staff members knew the earring was there, the report stated.

The report cited one non-critical violation because a 5-month-old infant was not fed for five hours and should have been fed every three hours.

TwinsPlus1
June 19th, 2009, 11:44 AM
Not feeding a 5 month old for five hours is considered NON CRITICAL? My 4 month old eats every 1-2 hours in the daytime and every 2-3 hours at night most of the time! WTFF?

Argh! I'm physically angry. I need to step away from the computer. That PISSES me off.

Nothing against daycare but I used to be a daycare worker. I worked for some awesome daycares 10 years ago. (Thank God I was a daycare worker with the crew I ended up with. lol)

Anyway, the last daycare I worked at was like that. Kids were slapped and spanked for not napping. The daycare owner had way too many kids... she would leave them unattended at meals and served whole hot dogs to VERY little kids. She wrote on the menu that they were getting milk and juice but was instead giving them kool aid and iced tea. She reprimanded me for giving them juice and milk, saying that was for "her kids" who were teenagers by the way.

She threatened to break their toes. She spanked a young toddler for climbing. She left a 5 month old in the high chair ALL DAY LONG and told me if I held him I was spoiling him. Fucking CUNT! OMFG I hate her.

I worked there for a very short time and quit and then spent the next year hounding our state's overseers over daycares to get her ass shut down.

She belonged in jail.

So what ended up happening? They didn't investigate my claims. :mad: Turns out a little kid, younger than 2 escaped. His dad was a pizza delivery driver and just happened to be in the neighborhood and found his little kid younger than 2 toddling around in the street!!! He put his baby in the car and drove back there and got his other child and that was the end of her daycare.

Fucking bitch.

She is the reason why I stay home with my kids. I know there are some really wonderful daycares out there because I worked in a few before I worked at that hell hole but quality child care is *very* expensive and with three little kids it would cost me more than 300 bucks a week to work. Fuck it. I'll stay home and buy everything at WalMart or Good Will. :lol:

ineedanap
June 19th, 2009, 04:52 PM
I worked there for a very short time and quit and then spent the next year hounding our state's overseers over daycares to get her ass shut down.

Rock on, Twins!!!!

TwinsPlus1
June 19th, 2009, 05:49 PM
Thanks.

It was disheartening though since they never took me seriously and I was told that if I told the parents or went to the media I could be sued for slander. :mad:

totallytoddler
June 19th, 2009, 05:59 PM
The really nice pre school/daycare center here.....charged close to $400 per week for 2 children...ages 3 and 4....and that was for 1/2 days!!!!!!! (4 hrs)

Eventually we ran out of money and could no longer send them (LOVE this economy) ....and actually the school ended up closing....nothing bad like this story.....they sold it and the company that bought went bankrupt...or so the story goes.

But I too......stay home with my kids....not only because I would simply be working to pay for the school....but because of all these neglect stories!

Very sad that these facilities are allowed to remain open....when allegations are made they should be investigated immediatly!

Mybabiesmomma
June 19th, 2009, 06:02 PM
Oh Lord, why did I read this one? I say stupidity, the title already gave it away. My own 4 year old started daycare this Wednesday. I have 3 teenagers that never attended daycare because of places like this one, and my own personal experiences. But my husband and I ,now find ourselves needing assistance with our youngest. I chose a particular daycare and we talked to the owner several times. We popped in unannounced, even before our child was placed in her care. We watched the other children in her care and they were very happy little bugers. It took me a year and a half, before I actually allowed my child to be cared for by her center.

It's sad to hear about Daycares that in lieu of caring, and protecting the children, hurt them. Why would you even entertain opening a Daycare if you either don't like children, or have no patience. It boggles my mind.

If you don't like getting oily and dirty, and being under cars...You wouldn't go work as an auto mechanic, right? The same goes for daycares. Don't like kids? Then pick another line of work.

Okay now happy thoughts, happy thoughts...I don't want this story to freak me out.:dong:

TwinsPlus1
June 19th, 2009, 06:10 PM
There are more wonderful daycares then rotten ones. Believe me!!!!! You did your homework so I'm sure your little one is doing great. :love:

smallwonder4
June 19th, 2009, 06:15 PM
I work at a pretty good one, but the more time I enjoy with the kids, the more I feel I wouldn't want to share all those joys (and trials) with some group of relative strangers that don't really make much money doing what they do. I'm a sub, so I don't grow resentful, but I still don't know if I could trust...

(I"m glad the kids I see at daycare's parents do trust though, because I do delight in spending the day with the kids. I see the benefits to daycare too, but it doesn't change my opinion on sending my own future offspring)

TwinsPlus1
June 19th, 2009, 07:20 PM
I felt the exact. same. way.

I didn't want to share the milestones with anyone else. As it stands I get really jealous when my girls go up to my husband and say:

"Daddy! I LOVE YOU!" because they NEVER do that to me. Ever. Ingrates! :rolleyes: