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Dakota Valkyrie
December 20th, 2008, 11:29 PM
http://i40.tinypic.com/2rc67oi.jpgTwo year old Jennifer Yang died Monday after police say she suffered severe head trauma.

Mai Lee has spent the past two years trying to make it as a single mother. She was at work when her two year old was critically hurt. The circumstances are making the loss even more difficult to come to terms with.

The two year old died after she was seriously injured in a Clovis apartment while in the care of two teenage boys. The child's mother was at work and did not know her adult babysitter left the kids with someone else.

"I am mad, I am heartbroken, to see the fact that they are getting away and that my child is gone," said Mai Lee.

The 13 year old being questioned for the toddler's death said the injuries were an accident ... But Lee says her daughter's death was no mistake.

"That I truly don't believe because if it was an accident my child's head would not be split open so for him to say it was an accident is wrong," said Mai Lee.

Lee says her older daughter witnessed the incident and told her the suspect hit her toddler once then put her in a chair and hit her again. The second time her head collided with the back of the chair.

Clovis police are still investigating the death. They expect criminal charges to be filed in the case.http://abclocal.go.com/kfsn/story?id=6565380
A 13 year old Clovis teenager is under investigation after a two year old girl died in his care. Jennifer yang was injured last Thursday and was declared brain dead a day later.

"I don't mean it but it was an accident and I push her and hurt her head."

Through an interpreter, the teenager accused of fatally injuring a two year old explains what happened.

"Jennifer was crying, following me and I told her to leave me alone because I'm playing a game and she kept following me and I sort of like push her and hurt herself."

Clovis police say the case is still weeks from being finished. It's been compounded by a language barrier, since the suspect is a Hmong refugee.

According to neighbors the child's mother was at work when her youngest child was injured. She left her three kids in the care of adult neighbors.

The adults left the apartment to check on a sick relative. The children were left in the care of their teenage sons.

The 13 year old says he's scared and doesn't know what to think about what's happened.

The child's mother is devastated by the loss. Family friends say she has been working two jobs to support her family since her husband was sent to prison for domestic violence. She's spent the day trying to come up with enough money to bury her daughter.http://abclocal.go.com/kfsn/story?id=6563508

Abroad
December 21st, 2008, 07:29 AM
The child's mother is devastated by the loss. Family friends say she has been working two jobs to support her family since her husband was sent to prison for domestic violence.

She got out of the frying pan and into the fire......

StashRider
December 21st, 2008, 02:33 PM
I'll say it first:

WHY....THE.....FUCK...WAS....A.....13...YEAR...OLD ..........BABYSITTING?

People 17 and younger are untrained animals and their mushy little minds can't handle very much frustration. So for the love of the universe, please hire someone who's brains have solidified and whose hormones aren't confusing them.

I almost feel bad for the teen(almost).

DogMom
December 21st, 2008, 04:02 PM
I'll say it first:

WHY....THE.....FUCK...WAS....A.....13...YEAR...OLD ..........BABYSITTING?

People 17 and younger are untrained animals and their mushy little minds can't handle very much frustration. So for the love of the universe, please hire someone who's brains have solidified and whose hormones aren't confusing them. I almost feel bad for the teen(almost).

HEY! I babysat when I was 13! :eviltongue: Yes, 3 at a time and some younger than 2 years. It's not that hard if you're paying attention!!

In case you haven't been paying attention to all the threads in this forum, its filled with animals, mushy minds, and null frustration levels of all ages. The fact that this kid was "playing a game" says it all. Probably had his butt parked in front of a video game and wasn't the least bit interested in taking any responsibility. And if the adult(s) in the house knew that, they had no business leaving.

There...rant over. :motz:

Dakota Valkyrie
December 21st, 2008, 04:31 PM
Kids are eligible here to take babysitter certification at 12.

I've found 14yr old girls to be excellent sitters. They are generally conscientious, still love little ones, not too busy with friends/school, not as into boys as 16+, and don't get offended if you and/or their mom checks on them a lot.

Of course, not all are good, but that was always where I had the best luck for informal and short sessions.

AussieMum
December 21st, 2008, 05:16 PM
The parents of the teenager should be taking some of the responsiblity here.

The mother left her precious children with adult neighbours, those adults then left the children with their children!

Poor sweet princess. RIP darling girl.

evervigilant
December 21st, 2008, 05:57 PM
HEY! I babysat when I was 13! :eviltongue: Yes, 3 at a time and some younger than 2 years. It's not that hard if you're paying attention!!

In case you haven't been paying attention to all the threads in this forum, its filled with animals, mushy minds, and null frustration levels of all ages. The fact that this kid was "playing a game" says it all. Probably had his butt parked in front of a video game and wasn't the least bit interested in taking any responsibility. And if the adult(s) in the house knew that, they had no business leaving.

There...rant over. :motz:

I baby sat young relatives from I was about 11 with no problems at all . I knew how to make food and change nappies . I could give my niece a bottle and wind her just fine . At that time my mum was also in the house , so if there was a problem I could've went to her . I never needed to , my niece loved me and I loved looking after her . She's 18 now , taller than me & I love giving her stick about changing her nappies .
I had my own son at 16 and he's been very well brought up , if I do say so myself lol . I wouldn't leave my own kids with an unrelated teenager though & I don't know why all the adults in the house had to leave the baby with 2 young teen boys . Why couldn't someone stay behind or just take her along ? It's very sad , her mummy has probably already bought her Christmas presents . This has turned into a bit of an essay , sorry about that ; )

jenthgr8
December 21st, 2008, 06:41 PM
This is just horrifying. I feel for the mother, who was doing her best to raise this kid with what she had, but it also illustrates the importance of knowing who you're leaving your kid with. It's a horribly tragic way to learn a lesson. Poor baby girl.

Tazzzz
December 21st, 2008, 09:24 PM
WoW, so sad that Mai Lee got out of a domestic abuse relationship with her husband and Jennifer ends up dieing from a 13 year old Hmong refugee boy.

I am wondering if her husband was Hmong as well, you really wouldnt leave your 3 kids with people who dont speak the language and come from a pretty primitive culture, unless you had ties to them somehow, Dont get me wrong they are good people , but there culture is nothing like ours. And they were pretty much raiseing her kids for her why she worked 2 jobs to pay for stuff.


According to neighbors the child's mother was at work when her youngest child was injured. She left her three kids in the care of adult neighbors


Tamara L. Kaiser. (2003). “Achieving Shared Meaning in Cross-Cultural Dialogue: Understanding a Hmong Family’
s Response to Marital Violence.” Journal of Ethnic and Cultural Diversity in Social Work 12(3): 29-54.

Mymee Her, and Chue Pao Heu. (2003). "Traditional Hmong Concepts of Wife Beating." In Culhane-Pera, K.E. et. al. Editors. Healing by Heart: Clinical and Ethical Case Stories of Hmong Families and Western Providers.
Nashville: Vanderbilt Press, pp. 224-233.


MARRIAGE BY CAPTURE IN THE HMONG CULTURE: THE LEGAL ISSUE OF CULTURAL RIGHTS VERSUS WOMEN’S RIGHTS
http://www.lawso.ucsb.edu/projects/review/issues/2003-2004/hmong.pdf

silvahalo68
December 22nd, 2008, 10:12 PM
I was a second mom in my home of 7 siblings. Many a time I was taking care of a newborn, 5yr. old and 8 yr. old....I was 12 when that started. Not saying it was easy at the least, and I certainly would have rather been playing with a friend. I agree though, a good deal of children can't handle caring for babies...they are children and much to impulsive. Still, that fits most adults we read about her on d'd. I wouldn't leave my children with a 13 yr. old, I just think one is too young....wouldn't take the chance.

The adults who were entrusted to care for the baby are completely responsible. The agreement was to care for the baby not leave and put a 13 yr. old in charge. The mother has every right to be enraged. I feel terrible for a mother who was trying to do right by her baby working hard and providing for her....far better than the asswipe father in prison.

My deepest, heartfelt sympathies for this single mom.

Kisses baby Jennifer, may the angels keep watch over you for your mama.
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