Reginald Bartlett, Charged with Killing his wife after she caught him watching porn

[BostonBurns]

My ex was addicted to porn. In the beginning I was like okay he watches porn he is a guy this is what they do, no biggie. As time went on it became apparent there were some serious issues, the time he spent secluded away, finding porn in bizarre places, credit card statements, issues at work, then finally he went on a golf trip and I found this suitcase tucked away. I pulled it out and when i opened it not only was if loaded with every type of porn thing imaginable I found discs from our family video camera... when I played them to see what it was, I found that he had been hiding in the bushes secretly video taping random women at pools. WTF?!?! For those ten years my self esteem plummeted and I felt like there was something wrong with me. After I found those tapes he was kicked the fuck out and I told him he couldn't see our two daughters until he got help. To this day we haven't heard from him... and I prefer it that way.

That's really a shame, because if that's you in your picture, you're pretty damn hot

 

[reneelvsbrian]

I have really low self esteem and i know mine has watched porn and looked at dirty magazines in the past but he doesnt anymore that i know of and i pretty much know what hes doing all the time which is really starting to annoy me lately, but when hes at work i dont know what hes doing he works at a printing co and they print stuff for victoria secret and theres a lot of stuff to see on tv maybe he doesnt have to, i did catch him a couple years ago getting ready to look at some porn when he was drunk and i asked him "what are you doing"? "HUH" and porn can give your computer a virus or slow it down, someone told me.

 

[JackBurton]

I have really low self esteem and i know mine has watched porn and looked at dirty magazines in the past but he doesnt anymore that i know of and i pretty much know what hes doing all the time which is really starting to annoy me lately, but when hes at work i dont know what hes doing he works at a printing co and they print stuff for victoria secret and theres a lot of stuff to see on tv maybe he doesnt have to, i did catch him a couple years ago getting ready to look at some porn when he was drunk and i asked him "what are you doing"? "HUH" and porn can give your computer a virus or slow it down, someone told me.

Your husband sounds like a truly horrible man. I sincerely hope you two are undergoing therapy or counseling of some sort, both together and for him at least on his own privately as well.

 

[BostonBurns]

Your husband sounds like a truly horrible man. I sincerely hope you two are undergoing therapy or counseling of some sort, both together and for him at least on his own privately as well.

So she has the self esteem problem and you don't think she needs the therapy? Dude, everything you say is just superflous nonsense.
I've already seen you admit in at least one thread to the amateur lesbian porn you watched so ravagingly and you've done nothing but demean every porn watching person as morally corrupt. I'm so glad that you've found god, and I'm totally calling you out as a troll

 

[BostonBurns]

So she has the self esteem problem and you don't think she needs the therapy? Dude, everything you say is just superflous nonsense.
I've already seen you admit in at least one thread to the amateur lesbian porn you watched so ravagingly and you've done nothing but demean every porn watching person as morally corrupt. I'm so glad that you've found god, and I'm totally calling you out as a troll

I forgot to add that you must have found God after that guy gave you the STD. I'm so glad you hold yourself as the moral compass for society

 

[JackBurton]

So she has the self esteem problem and you don't think she needs the therapy? Dude, everything you say is just superflous nonsense.

Perhaps it would be beneficial for her as well. I find it unseemly for two strangers like us to take it upon ourselves to discuss/debate another members issues like this, with her essentially being taken out of the equation. If you have taken an interest in her life in this area, it'd prob be far more appropriate and helpful for you to engage her via private messages or even by responding to HER in this thread rather than utilizing your transparent good will in an effort to post something antagonistic towards me.

I've already seen you admit in at least one thread to the amateur lesbian porn you watched so ravagingly and you've done nothing but demean every porn watching person as morally corrupt.

We have numerous members who talk about their past histories battling drug addiction. Does this render their thoughts on the dangers of that to be of lesser value too? Just cuz i've viewed something in the past doesn't mean i can't judge it negatively now.

so glad that you've found god

Not a fan of his, if he even exists.


Your comments here are venturing a bit too far from sensible, intelligent debate/discussion and more into the realm of senseless, inflammatory, childish nonsense for my tastes. If you have any future interest in interaction here i'd appreciate it if you did so from a more intelligent, open state of mind.

 

[Nell]

 

[BostonBurns]

Firstly, she admitted to the self esteem issues. That takes therapy of some type to overcome.

Secondly; Many members admit to past problem that they've overcome and I never seen anyone resopond with such vitriol and aire or moral superiority, and I'll feel free to call you out on it.

Thirdly; God is an overwhelming common theme amongst people who demonstrate a vitriol along with their intolerance, it is not unreasonable that I mention it.

Lastly; There are probably millions of people worldwide who enjoy porn and never harm a damn soul, so to deem everyone as "morally corrupt," and this woman's husband as "a truly horrible man," simply because he watches pornography, although we know nothing else about him, seems without merit. You're entitled to your opinion, and I'm entitled to mine regarding your Motivations for having them, and stating them in the manner in which you do.

 

[Macabre]

open state of mind.

Tell me more about this "open state of mind".

 

[GenericUser123]

I'm starting to regret updating this story...

 

[Nell]

I'm glad you did. Let it happen......just go with it....

 

[Forensicwx]

Wow. The hypocrisy in this thread is thick.
I'm attempting to swim through the mendacity, but it's oh so hard.

 

[JGALAS]

Porn it always has a happy ending lol... (sarcasm after catching up on thread) I don't condone what my ex did by any means, but I also don't judge those who view porn... It's just like drinking control it, enjoy it here and there don't make it a habit. As for him I wouldn't piss on him if he was on fire. Apparently jerking his Vienna sausage off is more important than his family. That's cool we live and we learn, but never regret. Thanks guys First time I have EVER shared that with complete strangers!