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conversation seemed to be a turning point in Stephanie Samuel's relationship with her cousin, Bob Bashara.
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a recorded jail call played during Bashara's murder trial Wednesday, Bashara is heard telling his cousin, "I know you guys are really, really disappointed and really upset."
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told Bashara her main focus had shifted from him to his mom.
They talked after his arrest in 2012 for solicitation of murder, accused of orchestrating a hit on his former handyman Joseph Gentz.
"It is what it is," Bashara told her
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She responded that he sounded callous, like "Oh well," and suggested Bashara think before he spoke.
"It would really behoove you to shut your mouth.,"
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"And when you do open it, you do not say anything but a truth."
Samuel was the 53rd witness to testify in the trial of Bashara, who is accused of having Gentz kill his wife,
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family members described their shock when they learned about Bashara's mistress and alternative lifestyle following Jane's death.
Bashara has admitted he tried to have Gentz killed, but he has repeatedly denied having anything to do with his wife's death.
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the night of her funeral, Samuel said she was watching the news with Bob Bashara's mother and sister when she heard on TV that her cousin was involved in an alternative lifestyle.
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testified she turned off the TV, looked her cousin in the eyes and asked, "Did you have an affair?"
He replied "No, it was just an outside lifestyle,"
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Prosecutors have said a motive in Jane Bashara's death was her husband's relationship with his longtime mistress
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who was involved the BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadomasochism) lifestyle with him.
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Bashara's family members described two sides of the former Grosse Pointe Park businessman: one of family man, the other as somebody who hid elements of his life and lied.
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police went to the Basharas' home and said Jane Bashara was dead, Bob Bashara cried out and said, "They've killed my Jane," his mom testified.
"He was very upset,"
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Nancy Bashara, Bob Bashara's mom, testified she took her son, daughter-in-law and grandchildren on family vacations together, described Jane and Bob Bashara's relationship as "very good" and
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they had a "loving family."
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she said, there were other things she did not know about her son prior to her daughter-in-law's death: he was having affairs, was involved in an alternative lifestyle and had a sex dungeon.
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said she had never heard Gillett's name before Jane Bashara's death, but she later learned she had once let her dog out.
Her son called and asked to her to let a friend's dog out
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"I never even bothered to ask Bob who that (friend) was,"
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"But I find out later on it was Rachel's dog."
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also testified her son asked her to put some items, including jewelry and coins, in their shared safe deposit box, saying he lost his key.
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she went back to the safety deposit box after her son was arrested for solicitation of murder, Nancy Bashara made a discovery.
"I found a gun,"
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It was with the items she had delivered earlier for her son.
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testified that the gun was turned over to David Griem, Bashara's former attorney, and said she never saw it again.
Samuel said she heard
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that Gentz, who has been convicted of second-degree murder, claimed Bashara used a gun to force him to kill Jane Bashara.
Bob Bashara was adamant that didn't happen and said he only owned a BB gun to keep squirrels out of his garden,
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But during a TV interview played
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Bashara said: "I don't own a gun."
Samuel testified that she saw the gun after it was discovered in the safe deposit box and said
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This looks like this is incriminating evidence."
Gwendolyn Samuel, Bashara's aunt and godmother, testified
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she was surprised to learn about Gillett.
"You never in a million years would have believed that your nephew and your godson would be a person who would bring another woman to have relations in the marital bed," Assistant Wayne County Prosecutor Lisa Lindsey
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"That absolutely floored me," Gwendolyn Samuel said.
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