brandi
christ on a cracker
Hello my beautiful demons,
I have a little dilemma. Me and my son's father are in debate about it as we speak. Because I know all of you are real and very blunt, and most are parents, I figured this was a good place to bring it for some outside the box action.
So my son is 4, and has never been a very good sleeper. It took a year just for him to sleep through the night.. yes it was so shitty, I wanted to pull my hair out, but didn't have the energy because I simply was not sleeping. Now that I have a 9-5, it's very important that him (my son) and I BOTH get a good night's sleep.
Ok, so he is still in a crib... Sue me... He likes that shit.. almost like it's a comfort for him. I tried to take the front off, and every time he rolled over, he fell out, and then cried. Would not get up and get back in bed like most. The front ended up going back on.
Everything has been fine. We have a night night routine that has been going on since he was 9 months old. Bath, book, bed. The 3 b's if you will... Recently I put him in his bed after the 3b's and he said I love you, goodnight, then I would shut the door, and he freaked.. like someone was trying to kill him. Seriously, he cried, yelled, screamed, finally I had been in there for an hour trying to comfort him. I said no more. He needs to know it's bed time. So I shut the door and left.
This lil shit opened the door from inside the crib (his bed was on the wall next to the door). I spanked him, I made him ,lay down, shut the door, he did the same thing. Light bulb! I moved the bed away from the door and left again. Thinking the shenanigans were over...
They were not. He climbed out of the bed, and opened the door. Oh lord... Now what will I do. He knows I'll get up, he knows it will get a rise out of me. I finally got him to lay down after calling his father, but then he was up @ 6 am sitting in front of the bathroom door.
To me that shit is dangerous. There's no telling wtf he is doing while we are asleep. Not to mention, I barely got sleep, and I'm pretty sure he didn't get much either. My solution was simple. Turn the door knob around and lock it from the outside.. ta da!
Well, daddy don't like that shit. Thinks I'm being cruel. Thinks I'm locking him in a room, like it's a fucking dungeon. What else can I do?? What else am I supposed to do?? It's so easy for him to judge because he doesn't have to deal with it. No one is keeping him awake at night.. Fuck him, what do you guys think??
I have a little dilemma. Me and my son's father are in debate about it as we speak. Because I know all of you are real and very blunt, and most are parents, I figured this was a good place to bring it for some outside the box action.
So my son is 4, and has never been a very good sleeper. It took a year just for him to sleep through the night.. yes it was so shitty, I wanted to pull my hair out, but didn't have the energy because I simply was not sleeping. Now that I have a 9-5, it's very important that him (my son) and I BOTH get a good night's sleep.
Ok, so he is still in a crib... Sue me... He likes that shit.. almost like it's a comfort for him. I tried to take the front off, and every time he rolled over, he fell out, and then cried. Would not get up and get back in bed like most. The front ended up going back on.
Everything has been fine. We have a night night routine that has been going on since he was 9 months old. Bath, book, bed. The 3 b's if you will... Recently I put him in his bed after the 3b's and he said I love you, goodnight, then I would shut the door, and he freaked.. like someone was trying to kill him. Seriously, he cried, yelled, screamed, finally I had been in there for an hour trying to comfort him. I said no more. He needs to know it's bed time. So I shut the door and left.
This lil shit opened the door from inside the crib (his bed was on the wall next to the door). I spanked him, I made him ,lay down, shut the door, he did the same thing. Light bulb! I moved the bed away from the door and left again. Thinking the shenanigans were over...
They were not. He climbed out of the bed, and opened the door. Oh lord... Now what will I do. He knows I'll get up, he knows it will get a rise out of me. I finally got him to lay down after calling his father, but then he was up @ 6 am sitting in front of the bathroom door.
To me that shit is dangerous. There's no telling wtf he is doing while we are asleep. Not to mention, I barely got sleep, and I'm pretty sure he didn't get much either. My solution was simple. Turn the door knob around and lock it from the outside.. ta da!
Well, daddy don't like that shit. Thinks I'm being cruel. Thinks I'm locking him in a room, like it's a fucking dungeon. What else can I do?? What else am I supposed to do?? It's so easy for him to judge because he doesn't have to deal with it. No one is keeping him awake at night.. Fuck him, what do you guys think??