FrayedKnot
Chupacabra
I'm sure there are a plethora of mental disorders caused by drinking while pregnant.
However; the most prevalent is fetal alcohol syndrome which has very evident facial features. Autistic tendencies is a comorbid disorder often linked to FAS, but isn't always necessarily present.
I don't think it's fair to accuse this woman of giving her kids autism without all the evidence.
Like when folks used to say that ADHD was caused by: not whoopin your kid's ass enough/watching TV/ Sugar/red dye......
Worry boutcher own "normal" kids, why dontcha.
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If you have one kid with autism the chances of having another kid with autism is 1 in 5 and especially with boys. So it's not all that odd she has two kids on the spectrum.
That being said why the fuck would she get pregnant a 3rd time? This is why we need to teach people about contraceptives and birth control and quit preaching abstinence. If people would just use condoms this shit would not be as prevalent.
Ima just say.....
I have a lovely family whose children I have had the honor of teaching over the course of the last 10 years.
Their first child, a boy, was one of my fave kiddos ever. We saw signs and recommended evals and he was dxd as ASD. They were heartbroken, but quickly became amazing advocates for their child and did everything in their power to get him the intervention/therapies he needed.
Second child, a girl. Totally neurotypical. Again, one of my fave students ever.
They decided they wanted a third child....lots of people were "why"?
But they did not see #1 as a burden, but considered each child individually.
#3 is a boy and aside from some low tone, is again, a delight and one of my favorite children ever.
His parents were not wearing blinders. They asked often if I saw any of the "flags" we observed with #1. When I shared with them my observations about #3 and some fine/gross motor issues, they did not hesitate to have him evaluated and he is doing great!
All that to say- I get what you are saying, and ME? Personally? A child with ADHD was enough to fill my plate, but other parents may have a larger platter. <3
This woman, however? Fuck her. Heinous bitch.