You don’t meet a lot of children with the middle name Freedom. Then again, you don’t meet a lot of children like Marlee Freedom Eckert.
Marlee was only 20 months old when her dad, Army Sgt. Gary “Andy” Eckert Jr., was killed on May 8, 2005, in Iraq. Andy also left behind a wife and a 4-week-old son named Myles on that Mother’s Day.
I did not know Marlee or her family until two weeks ago when I learned of something that had been making her anxious and miserable.
At Marlee’s school there is an annual father-daughter dance called the Winter Ball. This dance sometimes happens to fall on the very day of her dad’s birthday. Marlee’s dad can’t make it, so this dance serves as a painful reminder of her father’s sacrifice — an unnecessary pain, in my opinion, created by an outdated event.
I posted her story on my personal Facebook page, where it garnered an immediate response, both positive and negative. As it went viral with hundreds of shares and tens of thousands of reads, an idea was sparked. What if the brave men and women who are responsible for rescuing, keeping us safe and defending our country would show up in uniform and give Marlee a “hero’s welcome”? This beautiful idea quickly turned into a moment the town of Waterville and Northwest Ohio will never forget.
Marlee Freedom Eckert
On Feb. 22, more than 30 firefighters, police officers and members of the military from Northwest Ohio, both male and female, dressed in uniform to make sure Marlee’s night was special. Even members of fallen Toledo firefighter Jamie Dickman’s graduating class made the journey to Waterville to stand in honor of a man and his little girl they had never met.
Marlee’s arrival at the Winter Ball’s red carpet was met with applause and tears as she witnessed firsthand the respect this community has for her father’s sacrifice. Marlee’s grandpa drove nine hours overnight to make sure she had a proper date. Her mom bought her a red dress to make sure she had the proper attire. The uniformed heroes that welcomed her made sure she had the proper memories.
Once again the heart of Northwest Ohio showed it’s beautiful size and warmth.
I invited Marlee’s mom, Tiffany Eckhert, to use my column space to share her family’s story and struggles. This community is fortunate to have a girl with the middle name of Freedom being raised right here in Northwest Ohio. I expect nothing but great things from her and her siblings in the future. It is an honor just to have shared her story.
Here is Tiffany’s story, in her own words:
(The link has the rest of the story.)