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Robert ChestersLEBANON, CT - A widowed father of three is behind bars after being accused of drugging his 12-year-old daughter so he could have sex with her 12-year-old friend during sleepovers.

The relationship between 42-year-old Robert Chesters and his daughter’s friend was discovered after the girl’s friends found sex-related text messages on her phone and alerted a guidance counselor at their middle school. The messages found are as disgusting as they are cringe-inducing.

“I love you so much and I am glad I love you so much as I do sometimes I wish I didn’t love you as much as I do so I would not worry about you leaving,” Chesters texted the girl. “You told me to trust you and I am but admittedly I do get worried you will find somebody much better and much better looking and obviously younger and I cannot wait to see you tonight as my girlfriend/lover either. Bob.”

Other texts seem to back up the girl’s claims that Chesters was drugging his daughter so that they could have their sexual encounters without being caught. “I am so lost without you :-( [blank] is gone next weekend And [blank] will have Benadryl so you can lay with me comfortably and love me,” (*gag*)

On Sept 10, Chesters told police that he’d known the girl for about five years. He said he and the girl had formed a close relationship over the last couple of months after his wife of 20 years died a year earlier. However, he denied having any sexual contact with the girl.

This contradicts some of the messages he sent the girl, including one that stated, “When we made love last night your heart really showed through everything. Your heart is all I need making love to you is just a wonderful beautiful bonus. I love you so much baby and I cannot wait to see and hold you again. Bob.” (*wretch*)

The following morning, Chesters, texted the girl some advice. “As a last resort tell them [blank] will lose her dad for ten years if they say anything. No matter what happens I LOVE YOU.” (*vomit*)

When police arrived at his home later that day, they found Chesters sitting unresponsive in his pickup truck with a suicide note on the floor. The note was addressed to his children and the girl, the entire contents have not been released, but he does apologize for being in love with the girl.

Chesters was taken to the hospital, where he recovered, and was then taken to prison on charges of first-degree sexual assault and risk of injury to a minor. He has pleaded not guilty to the charges.

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  • Hime_Takamura

    I want to hear the girl’s side of the story. Like did he force her into this or is she okay with it? I mean it’s wrong and gross either way, but I’m curious about it.

  • Faith_In_Reason

    I have no sympathy for people who victimize children, which is (in so many words) what this guy was doing, but I can’t help but have mixed feelings when it wasn’t their intention. With this guy, it’s even worse since his wife’s death obviously affected him negatively. When I read most stories about kiddy diddlers, I get all hell and damnation about it, but after reading those texts my thoughts were generally along the lines of “AW DUDE, C’MON, WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!?!” I hope someone can help him.

  • loveme22

    What a fucking nasty ass pervert!!!!

  • Evan

    “Chesters” is his last name —— or his nick name?

  • tkaz

    It doesn’t matter. She is under the age of consent AND there is a thing called GROOMING.

  • loveme22

    LOL…. I was just thinking is it a coincidence his last name is Chester!!!

  • tkaz

    So now who’s going to raise his three kids? Nice job thinking ahead, DAD.

  • loveme22

    What like he is lonely??? I would suggest going to a bar maybe and picking someone up?? Looking at porn on the internet??? Something other than a 12 year old would do

  • Evan

    thinking “ahead” instead of thinking about “head!” is always a good idea

  • meechie

    Seriously?! She is a CHILD. Are you really that stupid?

  • Evan

    he really got all emotional in those texts huh? sheesh. Hopefully he enjoys feeling bubba’s heart!

  • Faith_In_Reason

    What he did was totally out-of-bounds, there’s no doubt, but I think it came from a place of psychological trauma, and I don’t think he intended anyone to get hurt. He’d been married since he was 21, it must’ve been hard. I think he can come out of this mindset.

  • Evan

    because child molesters usually come out of their mindsets……

  • Malodorous

    LOL, he thought he was going to “escape,” only to wake back up in the hospital. Face your crimes, jack ass.

  • Texas Ranger

    Nothing worse than creepy perv-texts, other than horrible, grammatically incorrect perv-texts. When I am the leader of the free world, I will initiate a law limiting perv-texts to 140 characters or less, and absolutely NO emoticons allowed, punishable by death.

  • loveme22

    And you can only use one ! Nothing worse than a hundred exclamation marks

  • ultracreep

    I really feel for his children. They lost their mom and now dad did this gross shit. Makes for well adjusted adults…NOT.

  • Lena60

    So is this the real Chester the molester?Ick and double ick for drugging your own daughter too, so you can have sex with her friend.

  • Malodorous

    So Morbid are you writing up the story about the homeless vet who was mauled by pit bulls after Applebee’s refused to give him his free meal and kicked him out?

  • Lena60

    Morbid? with all your gagging, wretching and vomiting, I am sending you a triple ply barf bag….after iam done using it of course. :P

  • Lena60

    Hey? My texts aren’t that creepy.

  • EveryVillainIsLemons

    Reading a story about a man named Chesters being a molester right after reading a story about a guy named Monty being shot by a baby.

    My goodness, this is turning out to be an interesting day!

  • itsknotme

    Late wife’s life insurance spent.
    Social Security broke.
    401-K gone.
    Marrying a woman 30 years younger to support you till age 95, Priceless!!

  • Jo Bernie

    check out the poor son’s facebook page zack

  • Buffettgirl


  • disqus_qIJU98e9Uq

    Well…I guess I won’t be eating anything for the next few days. His clothes match exactly who he is…A dirty old filthy man.

  • Buffettgirl

    Well isn’t he just the picture of hot, Hot, HOT! Disgusting maggot LOOKS like a disgusting maggot… his poor children.

  • Laura_RT

    While I was growing up, there were these three girls (sisters) who went to my school. Their mother died after a long battle with cancer. The youngest daughter was the spitting image of her mother. She was also molested by her father. Upon finding that out there was a part of me that thought, “Aww, he must miss his wife.” …Then I gagged a little out of disgust for myself. Fuck him, fuck his grief. I stop feeling empathy the minute a kid gets harmed.

  • MilfOf2

    Chester the Molester

  • Faith_In_Reason

    A 12 year old is a child that can’t legally consent, yes, but a consenting underage girl/boy is about the furthest from a black and white moral area you can get. What this man did was very wrong, there’s no doubt, but it doesn’t feel correct to me to compare it to what I think you’re describing, which is predatory molestation. It’s also hard to understand it all without getting any perspective from the girl. People are right to be protective of children, but it is too often that the involvement of a child makes them fly off the handle and sacrifice useful perspective, *cough*Trayvon Martin*cough.* To some people it doesn’t matter if a 12 year old girl consents because she’s 12, but I see a difference between cases like this and forcible rape/molestation.

  • Morbid


  • Laura_RT

    I’ll agree there is a gray area, but not with a twelve y/o. Kids these days ARE highly sexualized, even at ages younger than 12. But there has got to be a line where an adult says to him/herself, I’m dealing with a child here, there is no way this kid can possibly be ready for sex. And when the kids age hasn’t doesn’t even end in ‘teen’ yet, it seems to me that line has been crossed. Yes, she may be trying on her big girl panties and experimenting with flirting with inappropriate men. Even if she crawls naked into bed with him, part of being a responsible adult is knowing when to say no to a child.

  • BrittBrittRoss

    Please don’t feel sorry for this pitiful piece of shit! His wife is probably rolling over in her grave…

  • JohnQknowitall

    Benadryl overdose? o_0

  • JohnQknowitall

    It was love damn it and love requires no explanation!!! Such bullshit… dad is about to get a groovy kind of prison love.

  • Lena60

    Mal? Is that a real story?

  • Malodorous

    Nah… but I bet a bunch of suckers googled it.

  • Jycorro

    Two 12 year olds makes 24 right? I am already going to hell .

  • Aussie Sabbath

    I have a feeling this guy should have died and not his wife.

  • billymadatchu

    really, Chesters? seriously?? like pssst hey kid, come in here… wanna talk about my day at work cleaning garbage out of truck stop bathrooms while i creepily brush my nicotine stained fingers through your hair and sniff you? yeah you like that dont you… we are in love now… lets play mindfuck and i can pretend you are my wife or some other twisted ass shit.

    something tells me this dude will be dead in a cell soon… most likely of his own choice.

  • WarriorArtemis

    She is a child, however if she was in a situation to where she would do anything to get out of…well there ya go.

    I knew a chick who was being abused by her parents, her father was raping her repeatedly and threatening to kill her if she told on them so at 13 she started dating guys 15 or more years older than she was (she looked a lot older than 13, btw) just to try and leave the situation, hell I remember her dating a guy who’s son was 2 years younger than she was…so it could likely be a combo of both him grooming her and her trying to get out of that life. Regardless it is sick and wrong and he as an adult with a daughter this girls age should have known better.

  • 18th40

    No that really happened, it was in Toronto, it was all over the news here maybe…three weeks ago ?

  • 18th40

    Or…you know…it wasn’t, I don’t remember now ; )

  • Andrea Pizzuto

    This poor little girl, she’ll be forever scarred. She’ll live her life always waiting for that next guy to show her attention.

  • Lemont_Cranston

    You need to hear the girl’s side of the story? No, there is nothing she can say to excuse this piece of shit. Do you think she is the one that thought of drugging his daughter too? He manipulated her whether by force or her “being ok with it”.

  • hicusdicus

    What the hell. Just another day in the life of planet earth.

  • Robin Renea Tison

    I am curious to how his wife died and how long he may really been seeing that kid.He said he knew her for 5 years…

  • loveme22

    HA!!! I see what you did there…..LMAO

  • Lena60

    She is/was his daughters friend. He probably seen her at their house often.

  • Buffettgirl

    That was my smart-ass streak showing!

  • The Bosses’ Secretary

    Just Yuck. Come on, asshole. Just because your wife died, doesn’t mean it’s open season on your daughters and their friends. Pig.

  • Evan

    surprised he didn’t have to drug the 14 y.o. he was sticking his old dirty pen 15 into…..

  • Evan

    i got 15 bucks on it she didn’t have a good relationship with her father

  • K-Rob

    PHEW! I was totally expecting to read that he was drugging his daughter so he could have sex with her. Not that having sex with her friend is any better but it was still a relief to learn he wasn’t doing it to his……oh, fuck, nevermind, whatever he’s where he needs to be now.

  • Leasha

    I’m with you. Yes, it’s statutory rape (due only to the age difference), but it is obviously MUCH different than him just forcing himself on the girl all the time. It’s not like he tied her to a bed and raped her. She was a willing participant. Yes, pedos groom sometimes and I know this sounds like I’m blaming the victim, but at 12 (a neglected 12 year old, with no adult that cared for me, mind you) I would NEVER get close with an old man. I don’t care how many clothes and shit he buys me, I wouldn’t fucking do it. She was 12, not 2. Yes, she was a minor, but she was, whether you all like it or not, a WILLING participant. Again, I know it sounds like I’m saying it’s all her fault, but I’m not. I’m saying she is ALSO at fault. She’s not some innocent little child, a 12 year old is smart enough to keep away from situations like this. Let the down votes begin! I’m already one of the most hated on these threads, let’s keep the trend going.

  • Leasha

    Heh… Chester the Molester…

  • Leasha

    “Risk of injury to a minor”? That’s it, for drugging his own daughter?

  • mean birch

    Sorry ass p.o.s. mother fucker jerk off molester. Rot in jail then hell.

  • mean birch

    I luv u Tx Rgr.

  • Twisted1

    As a parent I have come to a realization that kids today are more immature then previous generations. So I have to disagree. I think that what you were at 12 is probably different then most 12 yr. olds today. I see it in my own daughter who at 17 acts more like I did at 15 and so do most of her school mates.

  • Twisted1

    My father had a “consenting” relationship with my 15 yr. old cousin. He made her believe he was in love with her and was gonna leave my mom
    And marry her. As a adult this still screws with her head. There is a reason a child can’t “consent”. They are not capable of making sound choices they are easily manipulated. When a adult had sex with a child it does psychological damage. When the child consents the guilt and self blame is hard to overcome. Fact is even if a child jumps into your lap naked and says take me now. It’s your job as a adult to say no because your supposed to be the f’ing adult.

  • Faith_In_Reason

    I agree with you, but it happens that people get very sick and become incapable of rational decisions. I see two victims.

  • VenusDoom3

    Uh, hey there, unnamed 12-year-old “girlfriend”… if this guy looked like Robert Downey Jr. or something, I could understand the attraction (though not his hugely inappropriate reciprocation of it)… but for fuck sake, THAT GUY? Gross!

  • VenusDoom3

    Exactly! The brain isn’t fully developed until around 25 — no matter how willing the child seems, SHE. IS. A. CHILD.

  • VenusDoom3

    If only more men subscribed to that theory, I might still be happily married!

  • VenusDoom3

    I hope whoever takes the kids in to finish raising them has an awesome health plan that covers mental health treatment. Seriously.

  • VenusDoom3

    Now that’s taking recycling to the extreme.

  • Evan

    we’re sorry

  • VenusDoom3

    Oh, I’m not. ;)

    Contemplating lesbianism in 3… 2… 1…

  • Leasha

    This is true, but is it so wrong to think maybe at least SOME of these teen twits are a bit smarter? I mean, I went to school in Arizona, the 48th dumbest state in the entire country and even *I* had more sense than this chick. I wonder what CT’s rating is..

  • Twisted1

    No, facts are that he knew what he was doing was wrong. He tells the girl to manipulate the friends by telling them his daughter will lose her father for ten years. That means that he knew the difference between right and wrong but chose to do what he wanted instead of the right thing. There are two victims though. The girl he took advantage of and his daughter.

  • andy

    This p.o.s! What kind of sickness? I can’t even. I said somebody beat the dog shit out this fucker. And it’s weird cause everytime I think of an old dirty pervert, I think of some old smelly dirty wifebeater wearing dude, with a scraggly gray beard. *looks at picture, and shivers*

  • Robin Renea Tison

    I am sure he started messin with her before his wife died, that is why im so curious how or why she died…so many evil greedy people out there. maybe he promised to move her in

  • captaingrumpy

    How dare she seduce him.

  • captaingrumpy

    NOT in America. Maybe they can get a waiver.?

  • Faith_In_Reason

    Just because he knew it was illegal doesn’t mean he knew it was wrong. There’s a difference.

  • RobTaylor

    12-year-olds are not smart enough to keep out of these situations, they are children and their brains still have at least 10 years of physical growth to through. A 12-year-old can no more understand the consequences of sex with an adult that they can understand why it’s wrong to speed or have a neck tattoo.

  • Leasha

    I suppose my intelligence was well above the average, then. Proud of myself :)

  • DavidRavenMoon

    Bob wasn’t big on punctuation there, was he? That was his real worry.

  • merl1

    He should be executed just for stupidity alone.

  • JGo555

    Well, at least his grammar wasn’t atrocious. That’s all I gotta say about that.

  • GemGirl7
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