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Man Stabbed His Grandmother 111 Times, Disemboweled HerSalt Lake City, UT – More details have been released in the case of a mentally ill man who stabbed his 84-year-old grandmother to death earlier this month.

On Oct 3, police were called to the home of Joyce “Honey” Dexter where they found her grandson, 21-year-old Zachary Weston, covered in blood and standing over her dead body while holding a bloody knife. Weston later told investigators that he “stabbed his grandma” and that he “slit her belly, her jugular and her heart.” As overkill as that all sounds, it’s still an understatement.

A medical examiner later determined that Dexter had been stabbed 111 times, nine of those to her heart, and that several of Dexter’s internal organs had been removed. Because of the heinous nature of the crime, Weston was charged with aggravated murder. Since this happened in Utah, that means Weston is looking at a possible death sentence.

Weston’s family says that he’s had long-standing mental issues that have gotten progressively worse, calling his life a “tragedy in slow motion.” Weston was diagnosed with schizophrenia and has told others he was hearing voices. He was staying with his grandmother because she was the only one willing to give him a place to stay. He had worn out his welcome with the rest of his family when he started to become aggressive.

“Joyce was a martyr by any definition,” said Weston’s uncle, Charles Kulander. “If anybody was closer and loved Zach more than her, I don’t know how. She was always there for him. The rest of us had just had it up to here with Weston, but Honey always kept her door open.”

A look at his recent criminal history shows a man who’s mental health was quickly disintegrating. In October 2010 he shoved his mother and punched two police officers. In August, he slapped one University of Utah Neuropsychiatric Institute employee and punched another in the face. In September, he swallowed a rock and poured scalding water down his throat. That stunt got him admitted as a “psych patient” at LDS hospital where he jumped into a nurses station and injured two employees. That same month he was arrested for hitting his father during an argument and biting a woman who tried to intervene.

Reading the comments of one of the articles regarding this incident led me to a great New York Times article that you might find interesting. In it, the author describes her father losing his marbles and the hell they experienced while trying to get him help.

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  • Rachel Ann

    What is it with grandsons killing their grandmas? Talk about textbook definition of helpless. Why is it so hard to get crazy as shit people the help they need before something like this happens? The mental health system seems to be as about as effective as CPS

  • Sam

    That’s just sad. She basically got rewarded for not wanting to give up on her grandson with a trip to the slaughter house as a guest of honour.
    When should you cut ties with one of your nearest and dearest? When do you give up on them? I wonder sometimes, what if one of my sons turns out to be some sort of psycho. I really don’t know if I could ever fully turn my back.

  • strawberryfieldsforevie

    before reagan, this man would have been institutionalized well before this could have happened. http://www.nytimes.com/1984/10/30/science/how-release-of-mental-patients-began.html?pagewanted=all

  • http://www.facebook.com/HamsterNinjaofDOOM Alecia Hendricks

    Why wasn’t he locked up for his own safety, much less everyone around him o.O

  • Zibarro aka Kryssa

    Sounds more like anger issues than mental illness. All these trips to the psych ward and no effective meds?? No supervision? Poor grandma. I hope it was a fairly quick end.
    I doubt I could fully turn my back either… but I think the violence he exhibited would definitely give me pause when it came to spending the night – or living with me… or being alone with me.

  • strawberryfieldsforevie

    see below.

  • come_and_see

    Fuck.

  • JGo555

    Mental illness scares me. Not those who suffer it, but to suffer it myself and do something like this.

  • Steinholder

    We need Dexter to avenge his namesake, and stab this fuck 112 times. That would make a great episode.

  • JohnQknowitall

    It is pathetic he was able to continue running around the general population – unless he was on meds and then suddenly decided not to take them.

  • bethied

    I understand where you’re coming from since the listed evidence of his “craziness” was mostly assault on others. But the dude also swallowed rocks and poured scalding water down his own throat, which seems to indicate that something bigger is going on, and the violence or perceived anger is just a symptom. He also reported hearing voices, and who knows what other kinds of crazy shit this guy did that wasn’t reported because is wasn’t necessarily criminal?

    He may also have some kind of anger problem, but how can you discount mental illness when the dude was diagnosed as schizophrenic, was hearing voices and ate rocks and scalding water?

  • bethied

    I completely agree about the mental health system. It’s fucked.

  • http://twitter.com/Karebu472 Karen Eileen

    Zibarro is right, this is more likely an anger issue or personality disorder than it is a mental disorder. I have a few friends and a stepfather who are diagnosed with schizophrenia. Not a single one of them has ever been violent in the past nor would they hurt a fly in their darkest moments. The worst things they do when they are “down” is hole up in their houses and refuse to come out. The majority of them do that because they are under the belief that strangers are breaking into their homes to steal their stuff from them. They spend their dark time searching for stuff they think is gone and making “intruder indicators”. Those are things that they can look at to see if a stranger was sneeking around without them knowing it, like taping a strand of their own hair across a door so they know whether or not somebody opened the door without them realizing it and dump baby powder on the window sills. When they aren’t having med issues or going through a dark period, they are outgoing, friendly, and go out of their way to help people who look like they need help. Every single schizophrenic I have known have one thing in common. They give out clear signals that they are sliding downhill weeks before they end up exiling themselves from the world.

    It is the “normal” people who scare me the most. They have the ability to hide who they are behind lies and facades. I was engaged to a man who is considered “normal and intelligent”. We were together for five years, happy as can be. Then he asked me to marry him and I said yes. In his eyes, by wearing a diamond ring he “spent several thousand dollars for” meant I owed him my money, mind, body, and soul for it. He kept track of every single penny we had and if there was so much as a nickle unaccounted for, he’d scream at me for being a “selfish bitch”. I had to ask permission if i wanted to spend 50 cents for a can of soda at work. He talked me into selling my old car that needed work that cost more than what it was worth by buying a used car from a relative of his, then refused to put my name on the tile. He told me it was because it would be “confusing” while making payments and that he would put my name on it after the car was paid off. He never put my name on the title because it was one of his favorite ways to control what I did. If I had to go somewhere, like rush my cat to the vet when he plugged up and couldn’t urinate, he called the cops and reported my car stolen. I left after he tried to drag me with his car. It took two years after I told him I’d rather french-kiss a shit-eating dog than have his shadow touch mine for him to finally leave me alone. He was pounding and screaming on my apartment’s door at 3:00am. I called the cops and told them some guy who looked like he was on meth was trying to get in. They took him to the cop shop and drug-tested him, which came up clean, so they sent him to the mental hospital for a 72 hour hold and psyc evaluation. The evaluation showed no mental illnesses other than that he was a controlling narcissistic asshole. He had a slightly higher than average IQ too.

  • https://twitter.com/#!/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    My cousin has paranoid schizophrenia and he stabbed a cab driver over 20 times for absolutely no reason.

  • tinalib13

    God AM Im so sorry. Thats horrible.

  • Justagirl

    “He was staying with his grandmother because she was the only one willing to give him a place to stay“If anybody was closer and loved Zach more than her, I don’t know how. She was always there for him.’

    Jesus FUCK! Thanks for ruining my entire day.

  • https://twitter.com/#!/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    Yes, it’s a very sad situation, to see what a mental illness can do to someone is very scary. Not to mention the lives that it can ruin, like the cab driver. His wife said in court that he loved driving a cab but now he’s too afraid to ever drive one again.

  • Chas81

    There are different kinds of schizophrenia

  • http://www.facebook.com/steve.p.davis.1 Steve Paige Davis

    people like this go in and out of the mental health system until they finally hurt someone bad enough other than themselves.

    Then they go in and out of the PRISON mental health system which is utterly fucked because what it should be doing-forcing them to stay medicated all the time-is considered a ‘violation of their human rights’. Its only after they violate someone else that anything can be done-and by then of course its too late for people like Grandma.

  • sugarpie

    The warning signs were there and still no one could do anything to help this young man with his illness. God Bless grandma for never giving up and giving her own life to try to help her grandchild. I really wish there was a cut and dry solution for dealing with this mental illness.

  • Zibarro aka Kryssa

    Guess I should have qualified my statement with “just” mental illness. Seems like a whole lot more than “just” schizophrenia going on with him and it’s mind blowing that with his history he was still out walking the streets. Does a person really have to stab their grandmother 111 times to finally be considered a danger to themselves and (especially) others?? Good grief!
    I also find it “odd” that the only time it seems he *was* admitted for an eval was when he hurt himself. I don’t find the “swallowing rocks” thing to qualify for crazy as much as stupid (like swallowing goldfish or the worm at the bottom of the Tequila bottle kind of stupid) – and wonder how he still had lips; tongue; and throat tissue left if he drank scalding water?? But he did show a propensity for violence towards *others* on more than one occasion that didn’t get him an eval.

    I’m sorry… it’s bizarre. The whole thing is like an out of control Amtrak train speeding downhill until it’s finally stopped by an 84 year old woman who gave her life to derail it.

  • JGo555

    Your last 2 sentences was what I was thinking while reading your 2nd paragraph. Not all controlling/abusing assholes are narcissists but goddamn it! a lot are.
    I am sorry you went through this.
    I still stand by my statement, not that you’ve tried to change my mind or persuade me about it. I only know one person with one “mental” disorder and that is my brother and, it’s not really anything hard: ADHD. I know more people with retardation problems though and they are so nice and good and funny.

  • OutOfBubbleGum

    Well,
    with hair like his, what do you expect? There’s no way to fit a
    protective aluminum foil hat on top of his head to keep them dam voices
    out. Personally, I keep an anvil
    strapped to my head with a bungee cord to keep them MF’ing voices at bay.

  • darsa

    Okay, there are some people out there who just plain “look crazy”. This is one of those people.

  • Athena

    Yep… One of the most damning arguments against the Libertarian ideal that privatization can always do better. In theory, perhaps, but as we’ve seen with mental health care, not necessarily.

  • Gee

    Well isn’t that usually what happens. Most of the mental health patients take their meds start to feel better and then decide they no longer need them.

  • JohnQknowitall

    I don’t know. Other scenarios are that the meds were not effective or he that he stopped taking them because he could not afford them or possible other scenarios that are not off the type of my head. The grand jury, judge and a possible jury must decide any contributing issues.

  • http://www.truecrimereport.com CallMeMister

    I just read that whole article, and it was very eye opening. I knew about federal deinstitutionalization, but the number of details presented in this article (from 1984) really sheds light on how badly the committees and politicians were snowed, and also how many of the arguments were misinterpreted and only half-heard.

    The situations that occurred within “insane asylums” and federal institutions, when made public, was pretty shocking (experimenting on patients, radical “treatments” that seemed more like sadistic indulgences, etc), and may have led to a stronger push for privatization of treatment centers. Hell, we’re seeing a lot of these abuses in “old folks homes” nowadays.

    I could spout off what I think could be a universal solution to this mess, but in reality it’s a quagmire that no simple solution can solve. But I think it really needs to be re-addressed, and all factors (finally) accounted for so people like this can be handled properly without putting society at risk.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=606239068 Anthony Mandich

    I don’t know what to say about this story. It makes me sad that Joyce Dexter who looked like a very sweet and nice old lady was forced to die at the hands of her mentally disturbed psycho grandson. But at the same time, something is wrong with that dude and I’m pretty sure that he doesn’t want something to be wrong with him so its hard for me to generate much hatred or even anger at the guy.

    At the same time, he must be exterminated.

  • Canuck Gramz

    This article made me want to jump into our car and drive 18 hours to go get my 85 year old mother, or at the very least , hug her. She drives us all crazy but to think of anyone hurting her makes my stomach hurt. Our mental health system in Canada sucks too. My mom is bat crap crazy and she gets brought home by the police and ambulance and turns workers away from her door and they say she has the “right” to be as crazy as she wants to. She’s gone for walks and brought home strangers who have robbed her and left ( she lives with my sister who works all day) I feel for families who have mentally ill relatives with no real help for them. I don’t want people locked away – I just wish our systems protected the mentally ill as well as the people around them! This poor woman – I hope she didn’t have to suffer very long.

  • a.k

    typically the medications for issues such as schizophrenia cause irreversible and extremely painful side effects. some people find benefit in the subduing effect of these medications, but often times people stop taking them because the side effects are absolutely horrific. could you continue to take a pill that makes you sick, gain or lose ridiculous amounts of weight, contort your muscles, drool and shuffle? could you deal with knowing that people could force these drugs on you? its terrifying.

  • JohnQknowitall

    Excellent points! Mental illness is rarely a simple fix.

  • http://www.facebook.com/larisa.watterton Larisa Watterton

    I’m sorry you had to deal with a complete asshole. That being said, just because your experience with a handful of Schizophrenics has been relatively mild and non-violent, I can assure you that there are violent Schizophrenics, not due to anger problems or personality disorders (which are actually classified as mental illnesses). I have worked in inpatient psychiatric hospitals and as a psychologist for the prison system…Schizophrenia is an area of speciality and I adore working with them. Many of these individuals are not violent by nature, but when they are frightened or feel threatened (coupled with paranoid delusions and other psychosis), the outcome can be bloody. And yes, while most suffers of Schizophrenia may have some signs they are decompensating, some don’t. Those who are lucky enough to be around people who can spot it and seek appropriate help may never get to a violent point…it’s sounds like this poor guy did not have that type of support.