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Teen Facing Child Porn Charges After Posting Video On FacebookWINDSOR, CT – A 16-year-old in Connecticut is facing several felony charges after he posted a video on Facebook depicting a 14-year-old girl having sex with one of his friends.

I could rehash what was stated in the news article I linked to, but I freeze-framed the news video and was able to read some of the charging documents that the reporter holds up to the screen.

In December of last year,  16-year-old Malik McKnight recorded a friend having consensual sex with the 14-year-old girl in the girl’s bedroom. Malik stated that he had been asked into the bedroom and that the couple were aware that he was filming. Court documents state the video shows a naked male having sex with the girl as she is bent over a bed.

Later that same month, Malik and one of his friends went to the girl’s home and told her that if she did not have sex with them, that he would post the video. The girl said she wasn’t sure if Malik still had the video or not, so she had sex with him just in case.

But in March of this year, Malik would back out of that agreement after getting into an argument with the 14-year-old girl’s boyfriend while both were in detention. When the boyfriend refused to fight, Malik retaliated by showing the video of the girl having sex to other student’s in detention, and then posting it on Facebook after others talked him into it.

Malik stated he was only going to leave the video up for a minute, but he could not figure out how to remove it. He ended up getting someone else to remove it for him, but by this time other students had seen the video and even ask that it be reposted after it was taken down.

When Malik was interviewed by police, he admitted to what he had done. Malik was arrested in August and is now facing charges of employing a minor in an obscene performance, possession of child pornography, and risk of injury to a minor. I know that some of you are asking why no one is being charged with having sex with the girl, but in Connecticut it’s legal for anyone who is at least 13-years-old to consent to sex if there’s less than a 3 year age difference. So my guess is the male in the video is 15-years-old.

I have read some comments from people stating they cannot believe a 14-year-old girl was having sex with multiple partners, but I knew girls that age (and younger) who were sexually active — and I’m OAF. The only difference being that their acts weren’t broadcast to the public. However, one common  trait between those girls were that they were either the daughter of a cop or preacher, or were being raised by a single, working mother with no dad around.

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  • curiousalways

    I know I’m an idiot when it comes to all these acronyms, but what is OAF? Older something f*ck? I’m lost.

  • MyHovercraftIsFullofEels

    Old As Fuck.

  • Andyman

    That was the first thought I had. What does that stand for?

  • curiousalways

    yes I just hit myself in the head! thanks. I was close to guessing, but I guess I’m OTF so you see my problem? Is that one, or did I just make that up?

  • MyHovercraftIsFullofEels

    I am super glad that YouTube, cell phones and other shit to incriminate you didn’t exist in the late 80s/early 90s. At 14 I was fully fucking dudes. I am still paranoid that those Polaroids are going to show up someplace.

  • Kristen

    OAF I think is Old as F*#K

  • Andyman

    I know right. Our kids are fucked.

  • Sam

    Literally.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=509213380 Maria Kintner

    Ugh. My 13 year old has friends who are doing this, (although I don’t think anyone has filmed anything), and it scares the crap out of me. Especially with the return of sites like isanyoneup. I know the maintainer of that site is strict about underage posting, but that doesn’t mean that other kids won’t copycat and post like this idiot did here.

  • Pikes_mommy

    That makes you 30 something today….. still game?

  • come_and_see

    My first was the girl next door when I was 13, but so did half the school.

  • Transducer

    Fact check: CN is China. CT is Connecticut and Wisconsin isn’t in Connecticut.

  • newstarshipsmell

    Sometimes I wonder if he puts the typos in on purpose, just to see if anyone’s reading the writeups past the headlines before putting in their two cents in the comments section.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=534902588 Meli Machiavelli

    I tell people all the damn time. Just because your name is “Whosyourmomma Jones” doesn’t mean that no one will find you. Are you friends with all out of towners on facebook? Doubt it. So easy there with the 40oz pictures and the blunts or you know the pictures of your 14 year old girlfriend. SOMEONE is always watching.

    Glad they threw the book at the kid. Maybe he’ll learn better judgement.

  • Transducer

    CN is an honest mistake. Not sure where he got Wisconsin from. Maybe it stuck in his head from the other story about the kid who hacked up his Granny in WI.

  • http://www.facebook.com/JennyLane1031 Jennifer N Ryan Lane

    haha

  • http://www.dreamindemon.com Morbid

    Sort of. I had two stories from Wisconsin I was writing up. The one I posted and one I changed when I found this story. Thanks for the heads up.

  • http://www.dreamindemon.com Morbid

    Occasionally I put extremely offensive stuff in them just to see who will complain. Ragging on women drivers always works.

  • Transducer

    I like it when people post their crimes on their Facebook and are really surprised when they get busted. Those privacy settings don’t mean much to the man. Assume the Man installed a keylogger on all your internet devices because essentially, he has.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    Ha serves the little fuckers and the little slut right. I’m glad I held off until I was 18, I was raised better than to see myself as a common whore to be used by boys (not real men).

  • Transducer

    Having sex at 14 doesn’t make someone a whore and waiting until your 18 doesn’t make you an angel.

  • David

    Totally looking to see what “isanyoneup” is when I get home.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Junes-Upyers/100002966558652 Junes Upyers

    I’m just hopeful that you also limited the number of sex partners you’ve had over the years. I shudder to think what sleeping with someone who is so spiteful would be like. Here’s an idea; maybe if you had had more sex over the years you wouldn’t be so bitter.

  • Andyman

    Fuck Farcebook.

  • Transducer

    According to wiki, it was shut down earlier this year. The owner is being sued and an anti-bully site bought the domain.

  • MyHovercraftIsFullofEels

    Absolutely. I’m divorced and everyone knows a divorced 30-something woman is an easy lay. No seriously….. Yes.

  • AliceinChainsman =]

    ametur film producers..

  • http://www.facebook.com/sasinoah Sasinoah Carrion

    Where is the rape charge??? Isn’t telling the girl that in order for him not to post the video she has to have sex with him a form of coercion? Doesn’t that make this forcible/coercive rape??? Or does Connecticut have lenient sex laws?

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    Actually I waited until I was in a serious relationship before giving that part of myself away. Yes I didn’t wait til marriage and once I lost the big V I didn’t stop ;) . But I had self respect, didn’t allow myself to be used and made it count. If having respect for myself makes me bitter and thinking that I’m better than some girl who would let multiple guys fuck her and tape it is spiteful, then I guess I’m just that :)

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    If you saw the gross guys that went to my high school, you’d understand why I waited til I was 18 and in a serious relationship :) I waited until I could find a real man (not a “boy”) And I’m all the better for it.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    I don’t limit, I’m merely choosy about who I bed. It’s called having standards and self respect. I’m not the door knob where everyone gets a turn, I’m the poker machine where only a very select few hit the jackpot, babe ;)

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Junes-Upyers/100002966558652 Junes Upyers

    yay! I’m so glad :) that’s great news!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    I don’t base my self-worth on how many people I have sex with :) Do you?

  • OutOfBubbleGum

    Sex with a 15 year old boy; Karma wise, would this incident suggest that the 14 year old grows up to be a teacher?

  • NoSkeletonsNGlassHouses

    How lovely, an adult calling the 14 year old victim a slut. Aren’t you charming.

  • RachelAnnPrince

    She’s a little bit whorish. Sorry I had to say it. She fucked a dude on camera while another watched. What is she doing, practicing for a career as an adult entertainer?
    I’m no Angel but I wasn’t flat out fucking dudes at 14. Guys are gross at that age. Its not like they get any better once they get older but some of the douchiness wears off.
    This dude is fucked for the rest of his life. She maybe the school bike but he’s the one who gets in trouble for publicizing it. Should have just kept it too himself!

  • Stormblast

    Yet another reason to be CF!

  • Stormblast

    I don’t see why people are thumbing your comment down. Maybe it is because they only wished that they would have waited until they found the right person instead of just giving it away at such a young age. I personally look back and wished I had. Now I realize that I deserved much better………

  • Stormblast

    No, Alice, you are not being “bitter” or “spiteful”, you are being smart. Think about all the hurt and disease you have protected yourself from.

  • Ella.Blackheart

    I was about to post something like that myself, but it didn’t get through… I said that if more people thought that sex isn’t the most important thing, theere would be a lot less stories about mothers allowing their guys to harm their kids. Also that the world would be a better place if we would just respect each others choices and opinions without getting to name calling and agressive behavior.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Junes-Upyers/100002966558652 Junes Upyers

    of course not, that’s something we have in common. Yet I still don’t have the need to call a 14 yo child names because she made the decision to have sex. I don’t, however, mind calling people out for being bitter, vicious, mean-spirited & sex negative and really unnecessarily arrogant and superior. I mean how low is your self esteem that you find the need to call a 14 yo names? seriously? it’s a little sad alice :(

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    She did have sex with multiple guys and let someone tape her. That was what I was judging her on.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    Um she put herself into this situation. She let someone tape her having sex with multiple guys. She’s not a victim if she chose to put herself into this situation.

  • Stormblast

    You are definitely right on the money. And I just don’t get why others attacked Alice because she said she was raised to have respect for herself and not let herself be used as some boy’s sex toy. Maybe more people could learn from that. And these “moms” we often read about on here don’t have the good sense to not pollute their beds with child abusers and molesters.

  • Athena

    I’m married to the man I lost my V-card to when I was just a few months shy of 18, and I down-voted Alice’s comment for the very specific reason Transducer gave. Waiting isn’t the automatic solution. If people weren’t so hush-hush about sex, pushing girls to simply wait while keeping them in an information blackout the best they can, girls would probably make smarter choices. Notice I said “smarter”, not “later” or “more moral” or whateverthefuck else.

  • Athena

    She’s comparing herself to a 14-year-old (my goal in life is to assert that I’m “better” than a 14-year-old – eye roll) and denying that being blackmailed into sex is victimizing. Maybe she’s smart about her sex life, but there’s not a whole lot of smart coming from her comments.

  • onlyme356

    So glad I didn’t grow up in the facebook era. Too much crap people can get into.

  • Transducer

    Your statement only makes sense to me if you got Herpes or pregnant when you were a teen. People are thumbing down her comments because they insult anyone who had sex prior to being 18. I had plenty of sex at 15 and no one has ever accused me of being a whore. Perhaps this is because none of my friends are holier than thou prudes.

  • pikeman

    Hey, I don’t know who the hell you are, but you are going too far. I got a glimpse of some of your comments before they were deleted on other blogs. Joking around, and even being a troll is one thing. But posting as my mom, and telling me to pay for my Internet is another! Plus, I got a glimpse at some of your other comments before they disappeared. I have a job, motherfucker! I don’t know who the hell you are, but if I find out you’re local, I have the ability to kick your fucking ass, and I will. I’m a lot more hardcore than any of you assholes even know, I just keep that side of myself, to myself. I know I may have pissed a few off, like Athena, and I apologize, but it was never supposed to go this far. Weird things have been happening on my computer, and it is all tied to you. And weird things on TCR, like comments directed at me as Athena 7, and others. Show yourself! Are you Heldman?

  • pikeman

    Well, that comment is alright, but you’re a bitch. Don’t fuck with me, and don’t insult my mother, jerkoff! (nothing to do with this comment). You want to play, bitch, comment to me back here where, hopefully, it won’t be deleted. DD, you know I have commented here for a long time. I apologize for some of the recent things that have happened recently. However, I want you to know that this is more serious, someone starting to stalk me through the Internet. You want to reach me off of this blog, Over The Rainbow on the forums. Goodbye!

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Junes-Upyers/100002966558652 Junes Upyers

    Yes, dear. My point exactly. Judging a 14 yo child should be beneath a grown woman. Children make poor decisions. It’s why we don’t allow them to vote, drive or enter into contracts. Grown women calling children “sluts” isn’t constructive, useful or even nice and makes you look like a shrill, mean, petty and vaguely pathetic person.

  • pikeman

    What happened to the friend? This kind of thing is becoming very common, now. There is heroin coming into this remote area, and things are going downhill, at least around here. Apparently, all the “friends” were underaged.

  • pikeman

    Heldman.

  • NoSkeletonsNGlassHouses

    Um, she’s 14. You are (apparently) an adult woman. You called a 14 year old girl a “little slut” and a “whore.” I call bullshit.

    There’s nothing wrong with waiting to have sex, but there is no need to degrade a 14 year old victim. And, yes she is a victim. Do some research. She and her partner were videotaped without permission,in fact her partner asked the other boy to stop when they saw him. The second boy stopped taping but put the video on FB. The girl only slept with the second boy because she was intimidated/blackmailed into it.

  • NoSkeletonsNGlassHouses

    Yes! Exactly!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    Hmmm, shrill, mean petty and vaguely pathetic for pointing out that having sex at 14 is kinda off anyway and having just a teeny bit of commonsense to see that? Yes maybe slut’s just a bit harsh, maybe silly and immature were a better choice of words.

  • Zazen

    Didn’t you know, it’s way more fun to fly off the handle without getting facts straight. I think Alice has mentioned her misunderstanding twice now in the comments about the 14 year old ‘taped having sex with multiple guys’, which is not what happened at all.

    But whatever, I haven’t seen you around heretofore, Skeletons. I like the way you argue with fools without looking like one. Welcome =D

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    After rereading it, it was only two guys and one taped her. My mistake, it wasn’t “multiple” guys.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    Actually if you read what Morbid posted, they asked him into the room with them (a threesome maybe?) and the boyfriend was well aware they were being recorded. I understand now that it wasn’t multiple partners (only 2) but the boyfriend knew he was recording them.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    I agree.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    You ASSUME that my life goal is to assert myself as being better than a 14 year old girl? Just because I raised a point about having self respect? The boyfriend knew they were being recorded and the other guy was invited in to record them. She had to know too that they were being recorded and she didn’t think to stop.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    Am I the only one here that has a problem with 14 year old CHILDREN having sex and being filmed while doing it?

  • LeaveMeBe

    So, the only reason you waited was because the guys in your school were ugly? Or was it because you were raised better and not to be a “common whore”? And we only have your assumption that your “all the better for it”.

  • LeaveMeBe

    You’re right, we down voted it because we’re jealous. Of someone on the internet. Who we don’t even know. No way in hell could we down vote it because we disagree with it and don’t like her calling a 14 yo girl a slut after she has already been victimized. Who the fuck do we think we are?
    Not that it really matters, but I waited until I was 18. Since you didn’t and now regret it, does that give me a right to call you a whore or a slut?

  • LeaveMeBe

    FFS, really? Down voting someone is attacking them? I think you may be too dramatic and hyper-sensitive for this site. Seriously.

  • NoSkeletonsNGlassHouses

    From the article linked to above:

    “‘Malik stated they both looked at him and saw that he had his phone out
    and he was recording them having sex. Alleged victim #1 then told him to
    stop recording them so he did.’”

    “Police says McKnight posted the video to his Facebook page after a fight
    with the 14-year-old’s boyfriend. He agreed to remove it, but initially
    didn’t know how to get it off the internet.”

    The point is, a 14 year old has been victimized. First when she was videotaped without her permission while having sex and then again when that video was put on FB without her consent. How many adults would be able to handle that kind of thing?

    Ideally she wouldn’t be having sex at 14, but what people should be focusing on is what *McKnight* did. *His* morally abhorrent and criminal acts should be what everyone is focusing on. *His* behavior is what should be publicly condemned rather than the private, personal choices of a 14 year old. To do otherwise, IMHO, is slut-shaming.

  • NoSkeletonsNGlassHouses

    Thanks for the welcome! Long time lurker, occasional commenter when I see a post I just can’t let go without challenging. Recently, I’ve been spending time trying to beat some sense into a couple of Jasmine Richardson groupies over on PYSIH. It’s not going well…

  • NoSkeletonsNGlassHouses

    From what I’ve read, I believe your account of the events is incorrect. But even if she had consented to having a third party watch her have sex, even if she said OK to being taped, don’t you think that shows there’s some severe issues going on with her? Like, maybe she has a history of abuse? That she could view sex as a “normal” way to express affection or perhaps as something to just submit to? That perhaps she’s been so emotionally damaged or neglected she’s willing to do whatever the hell a boy or boys asks her to, if it gains her attention/affection?

    Some of the posts here really bother me so I’ll try to explain why. I had a good childhood friend who when she was 11, was caught trying to give our classmate a blowjob underneath the art table. Our teacher was almost as freaked out as the poor boy was. After, a lot of kids and parents called her a “little slut” and a “whore.” They said she would grow up to be a porn star or a hooker. But you know what they didn’t know while they were judging, shaming and degrading her? She had 4 much older half brothers and at least one had been sexually abusing her for years. The pedo-brother(s) fucked up her head so bad, that she thought giving her crush head was a good way to tell him she liked him. She could be almost predatory when ‘flirting’ with a crush and legitimately did not see anything wrong with her behavior because that’s what adults did, wasn’t it?

    So when I read the article here, I don’t see a whore, I see a 14 year old girl might have been victimized long before this sordid mess. Besides, I forget who said it, but isn’t a ‘slut’ just someone who’s getting laid more than you?

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=736546181 Michael Heldman

    Did you have a choice?

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=736546181 Michael Heldman

    dahell? Every time I see you, you are invoking my name. Let it go dude, its been a while now.

  • NoSkeletonsNGlassHouses

    Just for the record, my “Yes! Exactly!” was regarding Junes’ comment that “Judging a 14 yo child should be beneath a grown woman. Children make
    poor decisions. It’s why we don’t allow them to vote, drive or enter
    into contracts.” I personally prefer to avoid name-calling, so I apologize for the confusion.

  • newstarshipsmell

    I like your style. Haven’t been over there in ages (too depressing, at least D’D mixes up the horror with some comedy) and had forgotten about the Jasmine story. She’s still serving her sentence?

  • NoSkeletonsNGlassHouses

    Ugh, Jasmine Richardson. Because she was a ‘youth offender’ she could only be sentenced to 10 years max. Since she was incarcerated for 18 months before her conviction, she did 4 years in a psych hospital and is now finishing up the last of sentence: 4 1/2 years of conditional, supervised release in the community.

    She’s attending the University of Calgary courtesy of the Canadian taxpayers and lives in a group home, enjoying complete anonymity. If all goes well, she’ll finish her sentence one year after her graduation in 2015. As long as she keeps out of trouble, her record will be expunged by age 27. Rumor goes she’s planning on living with her mother’s sister after her release. Personally, I’m hoping the aunt has a gun and no children living in the house…

  • whitrome

    I can only speak for myself in saying that my down-vote, while far from an “attack”, (despite the fact that Alice was, in my opinion, verbally attacking the minor from this story) was employed because judgement calls about what age or situation is appropriate for sex are ridiculous. For some people, having sex before being married is taboo. People like that are generally pleased with their decision. Have they the right, because of their own convictions, to call you a “little slut?” Some people can have sex at 15 and come out unscathed, as we’ve seen from the comments here. Waiting until you reach the magical age of 18 does not make you any less susceptible to choosing a sexual partner who is unsavory or will treat you like garbage.

    The key thing to remember here is that while she is a child at 14, the circumstances surrounding this situation paint a pretty clear picture of a girl who has been victimized and has made horrible decisions, influenced by some negative factor in her life. And she wouldn’t be any less of a victim were she older or younger.

    We’re all glad you found Prince Charming at 18, but please, don’t assume that it’s your way or the highway. And by the way, I waited until I was 18 too, so there’s no “jealousy” here.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    Yes. As a liberated woman living in the 21st century, I consciously made the choice to wait until I was in a serious relationship (it lasted 2 and a half years) to lose my virginity. Not give it up to the first boy to make eyes at me.

  • whitrome

    You ACTUALLY SAID that if you thinking you are better than a 14 year old whore is spiteful, then you are spiteful. So yes, many of us find that appalling, and frankly, pathetic. If you are a grown woman, you ought to feel sympathy that she was victimized, or at the very least question why she is making such awful choices. Painting the victim as the offender because of promiscuity or percieved bad behavior is one of the major problems in getting victims to speak out against perpetrators. This kid coerced the girl into sex and posted child pornography on the internet. Why has he recieved none of your ire?

  • Athena

    Just for the sake of argument… why is making a sex tape and self respect mutually exclusive in your opinion? For all we know, this 14-year-old allowed herself to be taped with her boyfriend because she has very intact self-esteem. I can’t imagine it’s easy for an adolescent female, perhaps concerned about her image more than she’ll ever be beyond her teenage years, to consent to being filmed naked.

    The position you’ve taken on this issue is both sexist and bigoted. Her behavior is no worse than that of her boyfriend, and certainly no worse than that of the blackmailer. While I would hope that no child of mine would engage in this behavior at her age, I feel that way for practical reasons (pregnancy, STDs, negative stigma), not moral. And I know better than to believe that a single decision makes one person “better” than another. We’re talking about sex, not murder.

  • MyHovercraftIsFullofEels

    Too funny. Down votes from other adults because I was a stupid teenager with absentee parents. Maybe your perfect families should have adopted me so I could have ended up mistake free like you.

  • starspringsf

    Seriously, that’s hardly consensual if she only did it under duress/extortion.

  • starspringsf

    No, its just the self righteous attitude you are taking to other people’s mistakes that is kind of hard to fathom. kids today film EVERYTHING-but that doesn’t mean she gave them the okay to post it-and she was extorted on top of it. We also have no idea of her backstory. You are being more than harsh.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    Sex tapes and self respect go hand in hand because who needs that kind of validation? Who would want a recording of themselves having sex, that could potentially fall into the wrong hands? I was getting around to bashing on the boyfriend and the guy, but the girl isn’t blameless herself. Anyhoo, I think this story raises a good point on the perception of gender and behavior, as well as opening a can of worms on sex and all the issues with it.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    The boyfriend should not have invited his friend in while they were having sex. The guy should not have taped it, with or without permission. How did this girl’s parent not notice that there were these people in their house?

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    It was both :) I evaded teen pregnancy and didn’t have to have an abortion, didn’t contract any STIs and yes while the guy to whom I lost my virginity broke my heart in the end, I was probably in a better position to deal with it than at 14. you would have to take my word for it, as only I know my personal journey :)

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    I didn’t say 14 year old whore, I said a girl who lets multiple guys fuck her and lets someone tape it.

  • LeaveMeBe

    Since you stated two different reasons for your restraint, I just wanted to clarify. And I agree that it was probably easier to handle since you were older. Because of that, I would think you’d be a little more compassionate towards this young girl who made such a mistake, especially since you don’t know her personal journey. The fact that you implied that she is a “common whore” tells me alot about you.

  • VXIII

    You know, many young girls who do something like this are starving for affection, any kind of affection, craving it and they are so desperate for it they will do whatever needed to get it, no matter how fleeting it is, She is not a slut nor is she a whore, probobly just a very sad, lonely little girl. Have a little compassion. You stated that you dont judge your self worth by how many people you have sex with but you probobly do, you are thinking you are better than women who have had sex with more men than you did or didnt wait as long as you did, and obviously that is how your judging your self worth.

  • EveryVillainIsLemons

    I thumbed it down because she’s coming across as a smug, self-righteous bitch who lacks compassion for anyone who isn’t as “perfect” as she is.

  • EveryVillainIsLemons

    No, but you don’t know WHY she was having sex with the first boy or even IF she knew it was being filmed at the time (and sex with the second boy was blackmail, pure and simple), and to call her a slut while patting yourself on the back for waiting until you were 18 makes you look like a compassionless cunt.

  • http://www.greenvilledragnet.com/ RobTaylor

    The second time was clearly rape though, right? She was forced to have sex through blackmail which is rape so calling a child a whore in this instance seems a bit much.

  • RachelAnnPrince

    She slept with Malik to cover her ass coz she didn’t want to be embarrassed. She wasn’t talked into it. Or coerced. I’m on no ones side in this situation. I have no sympathy for the 14 year old. No matter how you cut it this shit is WRONG WRONG WRONG! At 14 she shouldn’t be sleeping around, he should not have recorded the act and definitely should not have posted the video on FB like a dumbass after getting into a bitch-fit with her boyfriend. He was basically asking for trouble. More trouble than the girl will get into that’s for sure.

  • JGo555

    Oh dear God, help me raise my children with enough values, common sense and self love so that they don’t have to be porking everything with two legs because it’s fun.

  • JGo555

    Some girls might be whores on purpose but others might actually be looking for the love they lack in their homes and all they do, they do it in the wrong way because they don’t know HOW to show real love. Half of the sluts I knew as a teen didn’t love themselves like one should and were hoping someone loved them the right way.
    Someone’s gonna knock your soapbox and that fall’s gonna be mighty long.

  • JGo555

    I am not jealous of her since I lost mine at 23 with my now husband. We are thumbing her down because she sounded like a snob, an asshole for thinking that a 14yr old had the exact same life as her but chose to be a whore because it was fun and because her words are disgustingly immature.

  • JGo555

    I have a problem with “…CHILDREN having sex and being filmed while doing it…” But that is NOT what you said. You called her a SLUT and a toy for boys.

  • JGo555

    The statement above is so sad.

  • JGo555

    A healthy sexual relationship between consenting adults can be filmed for their private personal enjoyment.
    Self respect and sex tapes are not exclusive to each other.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    But they weren’t adults and therefore not in a position to consent.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    Hmmm “cunt” isn’t an insulting word, it’s the female genitals. So having female genitals is supposed to be insulting? Ha. Try again.
    I should be proud that I made the right choices in life, who shouldn’t?

  • NoSkeletonsNGlassHouses

    You’re doing it again. You’re focusing on the actions of the victim and now her parents rather than McKnight’s criminal and immoral actions. It’s deflection and re-victimization.

    I’ll try to put it a different way. If your friend’s house was broken into, would your first thought be A) ‘Thieves are assholes’ or B) ‘Did she lock her doors?’

    One answer puts the responsibility on the perpetrator and the other places blame on the victim.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    Well I expressed my opinion and some agreed, some didn’t. I’m not made of glass, and I think I can handle a few disagreements.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1106642961 Alice Hennen

    But it’s not as black and white as that. In this case, the boys were assholes but the girl got herself involved with them and let herself be in that situation. It would be like someone broke into your house but you left all the doors and windows open and advertised that you just bought a brand new telly, game consoles etc. Blame would be on both parties. Just like in this story.

  • NoSkeletonsNGlassHouses

    So your answer would be B. Listen, we live in a rape culture where a lot of people’s first reaction to hearing about a rape is, ‘What was she wearing?’ What they’re really asking is what the victim did wrong, what she did to deserve her attack. Because if she hadn’t been wearing a short skirt or drinking underage or walking in park late at night or if she wasn’t already having sex at 14, then it wouldn’t have happened in the first place.

    Suddenly everyone and their mother is focusing is on what the victim did wrong,
    rather than what the perpetrator did wrong. They shame the victim because she violated their personal moral code when she ‘let’ herself be attacked. The victim in this case offended your own sexual mores by being sexually active at 14, which made you uncomfortable, so you degraded and dehumanized her by calling her a slut and a whore. Judging the victim also makes us feel superior (‘We would never put ourselves in such a situation’) and safer (‘Since we’re smarter and have more morals than her, we’re less likely to be assaulted’). This is a mindset so engrained in our culture we sometimes don’t realize what we’re doing unless it’s pointed out. It will never change unless people speak out against it.

    A 14 year old girl doesn’t “let herself be in that situation.” She is a child and completely ill equipped to deal with such a situation or know how to extract herself from it. Yes she made poor decisions, but that doesn’t make her any less of a victim, just a ‘less sympathetic’ one.