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Houston, TX – A drunk pregnant woman in Houston is facing multiple charges after she stumbled into a tattoo parlor looking to get pierced.

Police say that at around 2:30 a.m. Tuesday morning, 20-year-old Stephanie Santana, who is 7-months pregnant, pulled up to a tattoo parlor and stumbled inside to see how long it would take to get a piercing.

Santana needed it done in a hurry because she was a responsible, drunk, pregnant woman driving in the early morning hours with her 1-year-old daughter. Leaving her child unattended in the car for too long would just be bad parenting.

The employees, noticing she was drunk, told her that they would not be able to help her and told her to get out of the store. Police were called after an employee discovered the child in the car and mommy passed out in the driver’s seat with the car idling and the door wide open.

When police arrived, they found Santana still sleeping in the idling car with her daughter and woke her up. During their search of the vehicle, they found Xanax along with beer bottles in a diaper bag.

Santana was arrested and charged with child endangerment, DWI and possession of a controlled substance. Her child, who was uninjured, was placed into State Child Protective Services custody.

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  • sherrdbw

    Glad to know that she is having another baby to leave in the car. And why is she drinking alcohol when she is pregnant?

  • Eliza Berntsen

    That’s one dumb bitch if I ever saw one. Everyone knows that you put the beer into the milk bottles and not into the bag. Geesh.

  • http://www.facebook.com/JellyBellyMomma Kimberly Hanselman

    And after all is said and done, I bet she will be able to have this baby and take it home, too. Unless the baby has disabilities. Then she will either not want it, or she will keep it to use for the Social Security checks. 

  • rensuchan

    Oh goody, an alcohol baby.  This one might grow up to be a future D’D front page special.

  • EveryVillainIsLemons

    Because she cares more about having a “good time” than she does about her children?

  • EveryVillainIsLemons

    If you want to continue drinking and doing God-knows-what else, the LEAST you could do is NOT get pregnant.

  • sam1211

    What about charges of under age drinking? Stupid twat she needs her kid taken away and the baby to (if it makes it) Ill make the bet to say this isnt the first time she puts harmful substances in her body while she was pregnant -_-  Poor babies :( this mom need to be sterilized after she gives birth………..

  • http://twitter.com/cheeseandsnark Cie Cheesemeister

    I hope that when this second baby is born, they tie this idiot’s tubes right away. Too bad that isn’t mandated whenever someone does something like this. I hope they can find someone more responsible to raise these kids. The future does not look too bright for them in the care of this mother of the year.

  • DangerousKindOfSnark

    Wait, that’s an option?

  • sherrdbw

    I hope that when this baby is born, it isn’t fucked up for life. Both babies should be taken away as soon as possible. She probably hasn’t even had any prenatal care. Where in the hell is the father?

  • sherrdbw

    I agree that in some cases mandatory sterilization is in order. But the ACLU would have a screaming shit fit.

  • newstarshipsmell

    “Unless the baby has disabilities. Then [...] she will keep it to use for the Social Security checks.”

    That’s pretty much my assumption about why she would drink during her pregnancy. I mean, on top of the irresponsibility and not giving a shit about her baby part.

  • newstarshipsmell

    You know, I’m pretty uncomfortable with the thought of mandatory sterilization, but… I wouldn’t mind letting bad breeders voluntarily agree to it in exchange for reduced sentencing when the crime(s) is/are related to childbearing/rearing.

  • TheLadyDragon

    Makes a great case for sterilization….

  • SayAunt

    While you’re at it SKANK why not get a “Bella Vita” tattoo.

  • OutOfBubbleGum

    If there was ever a good time to play Parker Brothers’ “Pierce the Tail on the Drunk Mommie,” it was now.

    Game $19.95 includes:
    -One blindfold and
    -Long, thick piercing needles

    Deluxe Game $59.95 includes:
    -One blindfold,
    -Long, thick piercing needles,
    -Anti-Dizzy Drink, and
    -Ear Muffs to muffle screams

    Super Deluxe Game $69.95 includes:
    -One blindfold,
    -Long, thick piercing needles,
    -Anti-Dizzy Drink,
    -Ear Muffs to muffle screams, and
    -Directions to another Tattoo Pallor, so you can drop her off and let your competition take the blame

  • Athena

    The more appropriate question is why is she drunk while pregnant.  There’s nothing wrong with the occasional glass of wine while pregnant (in fact, the largest study ever done on the subject found that the children of mothers who drank lightly while pregnant generally exhibited better cognitive and executive function than those of mothers who abstained; the researchers suspected it may have been due to the lower stress levels of the mothers who drank.

    The government has chosen to take the “any amount of alcohol is potentially dangerous” stance because stupid people think “light” is relative when, in fact, it is quite specifically 3 or fewer units of alcohol a week (1 unit = one beer, glass of wine, shot in a mixed drink, etc.).  This dumb bitch blew that out of the water in little more than an hour, I would imagine.

  • Heather_Habilatory

     I had wine a couple times while pregnant. I was off my fibro and depression meds, was home bound for six months, and was stressed the fuck out. My ob flat out told me I had to get my blood pressure and heart rate down, and to have a glass of wine that night to calm down. Totally worked.

  • Heather_Habilatory

     You’re fucked up. I like you :)

  • Heather_Habilatory

     I didn’t have prenatal care for my first kid. I was 18, scared, hiding it from everyone, and the dad… don’t even get me started on THAT loser. Anyway. Daughter is completely fine. In fact, she’s smarter than I am. She got a bunch of awards on the last day of school; perfect attendance, National Geography bee school representative, school spelling bee winner, read the most minutes last summer of everyone in school, and some physical education thing.

    For millennium, there wasn’t prenatal care. It doesn’t automatically spell doom for a child, or mean that mom doesn’t care.

  • Heather_Habilatory

    What a fine, upstanding citizen. She should totally have more kids!

  • Athena

    Absolutely.  It’s a shame that many pregnant women feel too guilty to allow themselves the occasional glass of wine or spritzer because of moronic twats like the one in the story, and that people try to shame the fuck out of those who do because of moronic twats like the one in the story.  Pregnancy can be a very stressful time and, in some ways, a glass now and then can be exactly what the doctor ordered, so to speak.

  • http://twitter.com/tinalib13 Tina Wech

    This is the perfect example of why stupid people should not breed. What a selfish bitch.

  • Athena

    I understand being down on the mother for being drunk; that’s obvious.  But what about the fact that she was pursuing a piercing while pregnant?!?  Even if it’s an ear piercing (mine are pierced x4 each, and I’ve gotten an infection in every damn hole, at one point or another), piercings are inherently prone to infection… and infection that could easily get out of control if not tended to properly.  Piercings or tattoos (or branding or cosmetic surgery or any other form of unnecessary mutilation) while pregnant is a bad idea.

  • Heather_Habilatory

     And crap, I had arbor Mist. That’s like, what, 2 percent alcohol? Can it even be classified as wine?

  • ViewerBeware

    Let her have her baby and then shoot this whore in the head. I’ve seen too many poor excuses for mothers like this. This bitch deserves to die.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_KSA3NLZLHRVG6CGPQXOXJC32DQ Melissa Pursel

    I would hope that these children both of them are taken from this so called mother

  • onlyme356

    Drunk and pregnant……if only they could take that child away as well. That’s if it makes it alive. Stupid cunt.

  • onlyme356

    I really don’t care what any studies are out there. No drinking at all has to be better for a developing fetus than drinking in small quantities.  There are many more studies that prove the dangers of alcohol than the latter. I didn’t even drink soda while I was pregnant because of the caffeine. I just cared too much to take those types of risks. Hopefully this poor child doesn’t develop FAS, she really is a dumb bitch.

  • JohnQknowitall

    I wish there were a way to put her under house arrest until the child is born.

  • shadough

    I care also. But I see no problem with the occasional glass of wine or something. Athena is right. It is people who take it to the extreme.

  • Babydoll0630

    I AGREE!!  I never took the chance and NEVER will.  I have panic attacks and had to live through them w/out my medication.  I think it’s awful…..if you can’t abstain from drugs/alcohol you shouldn’t be getting pregnant.  It’s someone elses life you could possibly mess up, and incredibly selfish. 

  • onlyme356

    I know what you mean, but there’s just always that small chance that personally I’d rather not take. I’m sure it’s safe but not 100% safe.  And in retrospct there are many factors that can tie into developmental issues, but if I could reduce as many as possible, I’d rather. Wine is just not that important to me! lol

  • Heather_Habilatory

    What would have been more selfish of me? Having a glass of wine, or slitting my wrists?

    Yeahhhh, I chose wine.

    When you earn a medical degree, you can come back and tell me what to do with my pregnancies. Thanks.

  • Babydoll0630

    I have my opinion, and stated it.  If you don’t like it move along.  TBH, both actions imho are selfish……..drink while pregnant, or slash your wrists?  WTF?  Don’t need to have a degree to see that…I had panic attacks and toughed it out. 

  • neenaP

    She’s a human piece of shit! 

  • neenaP

    Someone please staple this “woman”‘s cervix shut! That poor unborn baby has a high risk of being brain damaged, I hope all of her kids are taken away for good.

  • neenaP

    I was allowed to take my anti anxiety meds while pregnant, which was rarely and half the normal dose, but this was reviewed and Ok’d by my Drs. I had missed check ups due to severe panic attacks ( that could trigger a seizure in my case  so I could not drive!). No one needs to drink wine or beer it’s not the same as medication and I doubt a Dr would prescribe it. 

  • neenaP

    If you were going to slash your wrists the last thing you need is a depressant, which alcohol is. You should have seen a DR not gone to the liqour store.

  • neenaP

     My friend owns a tattoo shop and had a pregnant woman ask for a tattoo, she was turned away its not safe.

  • Babydoll0630

    I was told I could take a low dose of my anti-anxiety meds, but chose not to.  I just didn’t wanna take chances.  It got easier, I enjoyed my pregnancy so much my anxiety all but disappeared.  I had more than a few bumps in the road, my cousin killed herself, and an ex friend was harassing me saying she hoped I had a panic attack and lost my son.  It was no easy feat.  But I’m stronger for it.  =)

  • Heather_Habilatory

     If you knew how the fuck to read, you would know my doctor told me to.

  • Heather_Habilatory

     I have my opinion and stated it as well. You’re a standup person when you do it. But somehow, when I do it, I’m unstable.
    Anyone over the age of 18 who calls them selves baby doll AND has a Tinkerbell fetish needs some therapy to find out why they have the behaviors of a toddler.

    By the by, you might want to look up the definitions of the words exaggeration and sarcasm.

  • Heather_Habilatory

    I’m glad your meds were safe during pregnancy. Mine aren’t. In fact, there are about six commercials on television right now from ambulance chasing lawyers about the horrifc side effects, including DEATH OF THE FETUS, that taking them during pregnancy caused, and the law suits stemming from these side effects.

    If you knew anything about medications, you’d know alcohol is much safer than a a lot of them.

    I mean, you should know this, considering how you know EVERYTHING.

    It seems that you only come here to talk shit to me. Why don’t you get a real fucking hobby as opposed to stalking me on Dreamin’ Demon?

  • Heather_Habilatory

     No kidding! I don’t think any reputable piercer or tattooist would work on a pregnant woman.

  • http://twitter.com/tinalib13 Tina Wech

    And what about the Xanax? Is that safe to take while you’re pregnant? I know you shouldn’t drink when you’re taking it. 

  • CT

    Agreed.  Other than prenatal vitamins there wasn’t much that my OB did other than take my BP pressure a lot at the end.  My mother had very little prenatal care and look how WONDERFUL I am.  

  • CT

    Wait, I’m confused now.  Is it the drinking or the god-knows what that is bad?  Ohhh, it’s the pregnancy, right?  

  • CT

    Oh, it’s a baby bag, not a beer bag.  Got it.  Those insulated pockets on the outside of the bag really are good at keeping your beer cold.  

    And again leave it to me to notice the petty shallow shit. I love the fact she appears to also be wearing slippers. Though when I was pregnant my feet resembled loaves of bread so I can sort understand.

  • DangerousKindOfSnark

    I think they put it in Capri Sun now.

  • DangerousKindOfSnark

    My doctor has flat out told me a glass of wine is actually good for you and if we can get my liver function back into line it’s a very healthy thing for a woman to partake of a glass once a night. Personally, the cult of baby BS pisses me off to no end. Kids are not the center of the goddamn universe and quite frankly if it was my life on the line, such as the danger of a stroke from high BP, the baby takes a back seat. I can’t believe you’re letting her get to you like that. Just do what I do and ignore it. 

  • DangerousKindOfSnark

    Damn it Athena why do you have to come on here and poke at people’s myopic baby worship bubble? Do you see the trouble you’ve caused with your scientific devil claims? Next you’ll be telling us that the sun isn’t made of precious little fetuses. 

  • daffodil127

     While FAS isn’t the only risk of imbibing alcohol while pregnant, they found that it has a relatively narrow window of development, mostly during the first trimester.  Beyond that, there isn’t much evidence that an occasional alcoholic beverage does any harm.

  • daffodil127

     When a drug is known as a “depressant” it refers to central nervous system depression, not the emotion or mood disorder, just an overall slowing down of CNS function.

  • daffodil127

     Disabled babies don’t necessarily qualify for social security.  It usually takes at least until a child is 3 before they can come close to making that kind of determination, unless the disability is severe and obviously not going to improve.

  • Sam

    See, i happen to think this is a wonderful mother who was only trying to install a climbing frame in her tw*t for her babe to enjoy on dismount. How many mothers would go to such lengths just to entertain their kids? And the booze, well, we all know those children play centres are only tolerable when drunk.

  • DangerousKindOfSnark

    Thank you! It’s as if words have multiple meanings or something.

  • EveryVillainIsLemons

    I didn’t feel like listing everything else, but “God-knows-what else” includes everything from category x prescription meds to LSD to meth to eating lead-based paint chips to smearing oneself with cat crap.

  • EveryVillainIsLemons

    No, it’s not.  It’s a Category D drug, which means that studies have shown that it can cause problems for the fetus.  Xanax specifically can cause congenital defects, and the baby can be born addicted to Xanax.  Doctors may still allow patients to take it, but only under strict monitoring and only if the benefits seriously outweigh the potential risk.  Combining it with alcohol is a VERY stupid idea, pregnant or not. Xanax prescriptions come with warnings in all caps not to use alcohol at all while taking it.

  • sugarpie

    Surely if someone had just told her that having babies would interfere with partying there wouldn’t be a story here. 

  • Sam

    You think? She doesn’t strike me as the type to take well-meaning advice.

  • http://truecrimereport.com iLLusionS

     Ha ha, awesome comment!

  • http://twitter.com/tinalib13 Tina Wech

    So she’s drunk, taking Xanax, driving drunk to get a tattoo at 2:30 am with her child in the car, she left the kid in the car while she went in to the shop, AND then she passed out with the door of the car hanging open.  WTFF!? Take these kids from her and rip her damn uterus out (after she has the baby) immediately!

  • http://truecrimereport.com iLLusionS

     Just kind of interjecting myself randomly in this, but I think handling a pregnancy as you did is on another level 110% then the way this crazy bitch did.
    So I am glad you found a way to safely get through your pregnancy, and no one can judge you for that, by then using the argument that “alcohols bad but narcotics are better”….when pregnant because “a doctor says so”.
    You can always find 2 doctors who will say opposite things, as in any other profession.
    You have chicks like this with one kid already here she doesn’t seem to give two shits about and another on the way. Why should she care for either, (let alone the one inside her) when it seems she doesn’t give a fuck about anything including herself.

  • Jycorro

    I think the drinking and God-knows-what caused the pregnacy.

  • onlyme356

    I believe you’ve read that and have heard this information. I don’t knock anyone who wants an occasional glass of wine while pregnant. As stated previously, it’s just not my personal choice. Although research says one thing, there is always a risk, just as taking medications can be risky. It just wouldn’t be my choice is all I’m sying. I would not feel comfortable and wouldn’t be able to relax and enjoy that glass of wine. Drinking while breastfeeding is not recommended so drinking wine and having it your bloodstream while pregnant doesn’t sound safe to me either. There just isn’t enough data to prove it has no effects, so I’d prefer to avoid it altogether. I can’t imagine questioning down the road if my kid’s autism ,adhd, dyslexia, etc could have been set off by that one or two times I drank some alcohol. People still don’t know what offsets those cognitive disorders. Obviously many children are born perfectly fine and healthy every single day from mothers who had the ocassional drink while pregnant, but no one really knows about the others because there’s just not enough research on it.

  • sugarpie

    Oops I forgot to add **hint of sarcasm**.  I’ve been trying to give some kids this age some “well-meaning advice” and they have a come back for everything you say.  They know every fucking thing!  My niece is 19 and doesn’t have a job.  Gets repo notices constantly for her car.  Her bf has a job, but spends any extra money on poker and fishing.  So she goes to her moms for extra food to get by.  She tells us that she is going to try getting pregnant.  WHAT??!?  I say – If you can’t afford to eat now, how are you going to afford a baby?  She says, well I just don’t want to wait until Brandon is too old to have a baby (he’s 26).  And I don’t care what anyone says, it’s my life.  **rolls eyes**

  • shadough

    I think the problem is that by stating your opinion, you are saying that people who don’t agree with you are selfish, poor mothers, and that they should not have ever been pregnant in the first place. Of course, this attitude is going to make people angry. Especially as this is a gray area. Studies have shown different results, doctors give different opinions and it also varies by culture and country. Some things are obviously wrong, but I think this is more of a personal opinion issue and people should not be condemned. (Again, I am talking about an occasional glass of wine here).

  • CT

    LMAO. Smearing with cat crap says enough.

  • Shelby Burns

     I really want to know what piercing she was trying to get that seemed so urgent at 2:30 in the morning. For some reason I don’t think it was her ears.

  • https://twitter.com/#!/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    Don’t let her upset you. All she does is come on here to start junk every time she posts. I don’t recall one just positive post coming from her fingertips. 

    You made your decision based on what you felt was best for you HH and it was YOURS and YOUR HUSBANDS to make, not anyone else’s. 

  • Shelby Burns

     My best friend’s sister is a HUGE fuckup, dropped out of job corps, lost 10 hour a week job for NOT SHOWING UP TO WORK and uses any money she gets to get her nails done and buy cigarettes. She lives with/off her mom and recently told us she wanted to have a baby. When we asked why, she said, “Because everyone else has one.” So yeah, babies are like Toms or iPods -.-

  • https://twitter.com/#!/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    Well la-dee-damn-da! Do you EVER have anything positive or supportive to say? Ever? I could come down hard on you because you were so weak that you had to take your depression meds! I have suffered from severe depression since I was a child and I went cold turkey without them once I found out that I was pregnant. Didn’t touch them. I also suffer from horrible panic/anxiety and didn’t touch those little pills either. I can’t believe that your DR was so cold-hearted about the baby in your womb that…blah..blah…blah.

    Get over yourself.

  • Shelby Burns

      My best friend’s sister is a HUGE fuckup, dropped out of job corps, lost 10 hour a week job for NOT SHOWING UP TO WORK and uses any money she gets to get her nails done and buy cigarettes. She lives with/off her mom and recently told us she wanted to have a baby. When we asked why, she said, “Because everyone else has one.” So yeah, babies are like Toms or iPods,

  • Athena

    LMAO.  I love to point this out, just to see who’s the most uptight and judgmental.  It never fails.  The irony being, this uptight and judgmental nature is going to be more of a burden to a child’s development than the occasional glass of wine or beer could ever be.  :)

  • https://twitter.com/#!/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    Well thanks because reading this made me need to take an anxiety pill…or hit the bar. Which ever I can do first. :P

  • DangerousKindOfSnark

    I know, I kinda start whimpering every time a bad mom story is posted.

  • https://twitter.com/#!/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    That little inside cringe that says “oh shit…here we go.”? Yeah, me too.

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  • Babydoll0630

    All I did was state my opinion.  Get bent if you don’t like it.  As I’m not here to kiss anyones ass or make anyone happy.  I NEVER “start junk” as you say.  That’s really laughable…….

  • DangerousKindOfSnark

    She’s not talking about you.

  • Babydoll0630

    Sounds like you’re bored and need entertainment at others expense.  EVERY woman I know has drank a glass here or there while pregnant.  I won’t do it b/c I don’t wanna take the chance, and don’t need to drink.  I can wait out the nine months.  I don’t think I’m better for not drinking a glass of wine or not taking my anxiety meds, but I do know I’m stronger b/c of it. 

  • Babydoll0630

    I’ll throw the dog a bone….Baby doll is a nickname my husband gave to me when we started dating 10 years ago and had it engraved on my engagement ring.  Tinker bell fetish?  LOL, no the character is sentimental you wouldn’t understand.  I love this pic in particular b/c it says don’t make me kick your fucking teeth in bitch.  =)  Of course there is concern anytime even says something like that.  I had a cousin kill herself so I don’t take shit like that lightly.  Have a nice day. 

  • https://twitter.com/#!/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    Wasn’t talking about you.

  • Heather_Habilatory

    I wasn’t supporting one side or another. (alcohol vs drugs) I was saying that everything you put in or do to your body COULD affect the baby.

    A pregnant woman COULD get in a horrific car accident and lose the baby. Should she stop driving or riding in cars all together?

    A pregnant woman COULD fall down the steps and cause a miscarriage or damage to the baby. Should she avoid steps altogether? Take the elevator which COULD plummet 37 stories to everyone’s death?

    A pregnant woman COULD choke on food and die. Should she stop eating?

    There are a million things that COULD go wrong. Freaking out about every little thing doesn’t help.

    I really hate the militant mothers out there who think THEIR way is the best way, and you’re a retarded, child-abusing shithole who needs to burn in hell for DARING to not do what their PERFECT little ass has done.

    Fuck ALL of you who think that way. You can all kiss my ass, until you have a doctorate in medicine. Then AND ONLY THEN will you get to tell me what to do with my body, and my pregnancies.
    (totally not centered on you, iLLusionS. and dammit pick caps lock all the way or none. lol)

  • Heather_Habilatory

     pft. Get the fuck out. They do not.

  • Heather_Habilatory

    Hey! Take your medical science-y knowledge and be quiet with it! We only work with speculations and opinions here! haha

  • Heather_Habilatory

     She definitely is not talking about you. (that sounds snarky, but it’s not meant to be. toward you, anyway)

  • Heather_Habilatory

     I think she only comes here when she’s PMSing to take out her pissy-ness on us. It seems to be cyclical.

  • Heather_Habilatory

     A friend just lost her baby yesterday, so it’s a really touchy topic for me right now.

  • Heather_Habilatory

    My husband was all gungho for taking off work to go to every appointment. Most were really… anti-climactic. BP check, listen to the baby’s heartbeat, “Do you have any concerns? How are you feeling? How is your stress/fibro/depression/etc?” and out the door in ten minutes. You’re right. They don’t really do much.

    I’m all conspiracy theory-ing now. They just want money! aaah. grr.

  • Heather_Habilatory

     That’s EXACTLY how I feel whenever Disqus shows she replies to something I said. I came on today and saw 10 notifications and said to myself “Fuck” Then I saw most of them were from Cedric on the taco story and relaxed.

  • https://twitter.com/#!/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    If that’s the case then every 28 to 35 days I’m staying away from any story involving any form of parenting on here. Is that even possible?

  • https://twitter.com/#!/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    Lol at Cedric coming to the stress rescue.

  • sherrdbw

    When I asked why is she drinking alcohol, I meant why in the hell is she shit-faced drunk?

  • http://www.facebook.com/annettetheviolinist Annette Garza Benavides

    :comes out of lurking: I’m sorry about your friend. :( :hug: If its not inappropriate, google Faces of Loss- its a nonprofit I volunteer with; I lost a baby at 39 weeks; its a great place for resources for pregnancy loss. 

    That all aside, because of my own particular experience (stillbirth, no cause of death; I was taking norco at the time prescribed by my doc for severe SPD), I’ll never touch narcotics OR alcohol in a pregnancy. Just not worth whatever minute statistical risk- I’ve already been on the losing end of minute statistics before. (Because if anything happens, no matter WHAT an autopsy says, I’ll blame myself- again.) But I don’t judge those who choose to have an occasional drink, or even those who take prescribed narcotics. I just know for me, I am terrified as SHIT to ever touch anything stronger than a benadryl during pregnancy again. :( 

  • oOXColdmoonXOo

    “I AGREE!!  I never took the chance and NEVER will.  I have panic attacks
    and had to live through them w/out my medication.  I think it’s
    awful…..if you can’t abstain from drugs/alcohol you shouldn’t be
    getting pregnant.  It’s someone elses life you could possibly mess up,
    and incredibly selfish. ”

    Sure as shit sounds like you think you’re better.

  • Babydoll0630

    Why b/c I agreed w/someone about not taking meds during pregnancy?  The rest was directed at the post.  Sorry, you feel guilty or something….hit a nerve???

  • Ashley_xo

    I find it hysterical a post like this “sparked up” something that really is not relative as even being an argument here lol.. having a glass of red wine, taking anxiety meds your doctor oks >>>>>>>>>>>>>> Getting ridiculously shit faced and passing out in a idle car, when you’re clearly ready to POP, and you got your 1 yr old chilling there watching you sleep, outside of the piercing place. Yeah. I think no matter what any of you female’s did during your pregnancy– you still probably look like a saint in comparison to this moron. I hate when other people try to jump down other’s throats about sh*t.. If you’re not feeding me, f*cking me, or paying my bills your opinion of what I should or should not do with myself is completely irrelevant thank you– you wanna speak for yourself fine, don’t attack people who have a different point of view.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Lil-Bit/679912203 Lil Bit

    Monstrous alcohol abuse + Xannie-the-nanny in utero + this mom = kids who won’t be any better off brain-wise than she was at her moment of arrest. Hate to say it but euthanize the lot.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Lil-Bit/679912203 Lil Bit

     You hear too often of single moms with kids who have severe disabilities who then let the kid starve to death while mom’s continuing her trend of drinking, drugging and neglect.

  • Babydoll0630

    LOL!

  • Babydoll0630

    SO take a fish oil and some potassium and quit whining.

  • Babydoll0630

    I agree……..but attention seekers drinking wine is not a good combo.  Look at this chic…….one…two..three…four.  OH my baby is a genius at one!!  No it’s because your ass didn’t wake up to make him breakfast so he had to by himself.  I just don’t want my pregnancies to revolve around alcohol, and I get attacked.  I hate that.  I’m not perfect……by any means, but that is one thing I stand up for. Of course I disagree with women drinking while pregnant, b/c if I can do it……..why can’t you?   I LOVE margaritas……ON the weekend.   I used to drink wine everyday after work to wind down.   I think that mabye LATE pregnancy it’s ok.  But I think women should be focused more on the lovely child growing inside rather than alcohol.  That’s all.

  • Babydoll0630

    Seems about right.  LOL.  That’s when we do see her.

  • Babydoll0630

    LOL.  I don’t hate you or dislike you.  I hope you’re happy, and I’m sorry.  Touchy subject for me as well.

  • Babydoll0630

    ALCHY…..can’t even stop drinking for the sake of a child growing inside you.

    EDIT: there I can make ASSumptions too.

  • Babydoll0630

    No, I drank wine everyday before pregnant.  YOU sound judgeMENTAL and ASSume most pregnant women are uptight.  I LOVED being pregnant…….I didn’t need drug’s or alcohol to get through it. 

  • daffodil127

     That must have been gut-wrenching to lose your child and feel as though it was your fault. It wasn’t. Maybe you can work out with a therapist some way to forgive yourself some day. I’m sorry for your loss.

  • daffodil127

     That’s great that your baby came out healthy despite the lack of prenatal care, but you were lucky and it is fallacious to think that you can extrapolate that to mean that prenatal care and monitoring isn’t necessary.  Statistics say otherwise.
    Aside from that and on a more personal note, how did your fibro affect your pregnancy and vice versa?  I have fibro too and it really didn’t change much while I was pregnant, but I did end up delivering 2 months premature.

  • Babydoll0630

    I’m gonna have to disagree with you on that.  When you are carrying a child, they SHOULD be the center of your universe…….Or they become future DD stories. Love you snark, but disagree with that.

  • Babydoll0630

    I’m sorry to hear that.  I’ve lost a child myself, as well as two of my sisters they are a blessing, that should not be taken lightly.  Sorry, again.

  • Babydoll0630

    LOL, sorry.  I love you hon, hope this disagreement isn’t gonna hurt our future convo’s.  I usually agree with you on a lot.  I just have a personal issue with this story, I was in no way meaning to offend you.

  • Babydoll0630

    I was like DAMN bitch wtf did I ever do to you?  LOL.

  • Babydoll0630

    Just die…..I don’t like your higher than thou thoughts and lies. You bring NOTHING to this story, except try to get women to fight.  You’re gross and I’m sure ugly.  Go work on your looks, then maybe try lying again.   Beauty doesn’t lie. 

  • Babydoll0630

    I had 20 when I woke up this morning at 5……from athena(betch) and her alias.  Bringing me back to posts from 2 freaking days ago………….

  • http://www.dreamindemon.com Morbid

    Have fun making another comment site look borderline retarded. Sick of seeing your dumb shit in my recent posts.

  • http://www.facebook.com/annettetheviolinist Annette Garza Benavides

    Yeah, its a work in progress for sure. Ty. 

  • http://www.facebook.com/annettetheviolinist Annette Garza Benavides

    I’m so sorry about your loss.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Terrence-BatonRougebeast-Milton/100001375534757 Terrence BatonRougebeast Milto

    my babymama

  • misanthropic84

    This stupid whore bag obviously hasn’t heard of fetal alcohol syndrome if her dumb ass can’t put two and two together and realize piercings and tattoos are not safe to get while pregnant. I seriously hope they take that baby from her and hope that miraculously there is nothing wrong with it from it’s mother’s reckless negligence.

  • Nathan Lovell

    She did not talk s*** to you.

  • The Great Taco

    Am I a terrible person for hoping this woman gets an abortion? Who knows how many other substances she’s been using during her pregnancy…poor child won’t have a chance to a decent life.