Daughter Recants Rape Claim; Father Free After Nine Years In Prison

That, right there is an evil CUNT.

Wow. Nine years? NINE fuggin’ years?? How in the hell was she able to ignore her conscience for that long?? Assuming of course she has one. SMH.
The saddest part is, even though he was legally cleared, some people will never stop looking at him like the sexual predator they still believe he is. His life will never be ‘back to normal’ again.

Oh, come on folks. Lay off the woman already. She lives at a “Christian addiction treatment center” for Christsake. That’s about as close to “Hell On Earth” as I can possibly imagine.

Wow. Wait! Her parents divorced in 1992 (WHEN SHE WAS 1 OR LESS) and she was mad because daddy was a deadbeat? How in the hell did she know him THAT much? And you’d think she would try to make her dad be CLOSER to hear instead of LOCKED UP AND AWAY from her.

Btw, I smell mommy tainting. If you have a deadbeat dad & you badmouth him, your children will be mad at him because you passed the anger on but they’ll also want contact with daddy oh so badly. The fact that she was only mad and wanted to “make him go away” when she was so young just smells like mommy had something to do with this.

Drugs. God forbid people deal with shit to get it over with. NOOOOO! Apparently ignoring things & getting an addiction that destroys you physically while you destroy yourself emmotionally/mentally is the best way to deal with shit.

Yup! and now she can go on , as if nothing ever happened.

So, where does he go to get his reputation back?
 

what a lil douchebag. sorry I’m not attending her pity party. she waited 12 *** yrs to FINALLY admit the truth knowing her own innocent father was rotting away in jail and I’m sure as she grew into an adult she was well aware of what happens to incarcerated sex offenders . To label her atrocious actions as manipulative and  ”selfish” is a gross understatement – sure kids can be selfish but as she got older what was her excuse? The scariest thing is that an 11 yr old girl could fool DOCTORS, LAW ENFORCEMENT etc.

RE: “According to the Cowlitz County prosecutor, there are no plans to charge Cassandra for lying because doing so may discourage girls from reporting sexual assaults.”

 In thinking quite the OPPOSITE.. This atrocious miscarriage of justice should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law to DETER other lil manipulative kids from thinking they can get away with that too. 
That poor man must have gone thru hell a living hell having to wake up each morning in a nasty small prison cell being regarded and treated as an incestuous child rapist.. wtf!
As much as pedos disgust me and make my blood boil.. This case indeed makes me not so quick to yell ” castrate the bastard”!  the next time you hear about some guy accused of molesting his kid
 

She needs to go on to prison.

“I will be free on the inside.” She need’s to be on the inside of prison walls!!

I’m glad that she saw it and admitted it to the world…however, she needs to go by the law of the land face charges or filing a false police report and defamation.

That’s what I wanted to know.

But… Where would churches find new converts if people didn’t routinely destroy their own lives?

Good question.

I am not so sure that her not having any repercussions for her actions  is not a bad as discouraging other girls from coming forward. Isn’t it the same as saying it’s ok to lie?

People like her make it so much harder for real victims of rape and sexual abuse to come forward, especially when their abusers are “upstanding, model citizens.”  She should be charged with perjury at the very least.

I also believe that she had some help in coming up with her story.  Where was her mother in all of this?

Yeah that makes sense. Lets give someone a break for wrongly imprisoning someone for 12 years. If she was smart enough to fool all those people into believing the accusations she wasn’t exactly an innocent little girl. 

Well, I’m so glad that she can feel free on the inside.  I’m sure that is a great consolation to her father that was label as baby raper and was probably raped and abused in prison.  Her drug addiction is probably a direct result of the lies she told.  Karma at its finest.

Please understand that I’m not attempting to be insensitive to people who suffer addiction.  Or that people who suffer from addiction have done anything to deserve it.  I just believe that (in some cases) the pain and agony we suffer in life is a direct result of the pain and agony we have inflicted on others. 

Just my thoughts.

bravo – your candor, passion and sense of justice is refreshing- I would only recommend that these men be unwashed.

 I’ll counter that with a; how long was she on drugs and; what kind of drugs was she on? If she started at a young age like 12-15, she could have been checked out this whole time. Otherwise, I’m with you.

 That’s awful! I’m sorry you went through that. Women like that give women a bad name. Like the bitches who lie about being pregnant or who they slept with. I even knew girls who were on their “second virginity” since christians gave them that idea and they went around telling every new guy they slept with that they were virgins. They even used up their 3rd virginity….. doing that.

I think we should remember this little girl was 11 years old when she did what she did. There were some problems there. No normal 11 year old would think to do this. The parents were probably going through the shit with a divorce and neglected to see some warning signs this girl was displaying. Just to remind you there were two adults responsibly for this girls actions.
SHE WAS 11 YEARS OLD.  I can tell exactly how the lie continues: she kept herself comfortable numb with drugs and alcohol.
Some how the system broke down here and there was a perfect storm with this little girl being sexually active at such a young age. 
This wasn’t a date rape with with some dumb bitch falsely accusing her date.

In the related news article it says she was 7 when she became sexually active.

“Cassandra told police in January that she began engaging in sexual activity as a second-grader.”Read more: http://tdn.com/news/local/local-girl-lied-about-rape-father-set-free/article_bf9cac36-7c7a-11e1-a9e4-001a4bcf887a.html#ixzz1r02LW2N3″

Ok, so she paid God his due, now she gets to pay Caesar.

Well, he didn’t rape her then but I bet he sure would like to murder her now.

=D

Pooping in a garden and having someone charged and convicted of a crime they didn’t commit and then letting them rot in prison for 12 years are two drastically different things…

Oh I think people can change. I think living is a long process of learning, growing, and changing. Events in our lives can profoundly change who and what we are. I hope to heaven I’m not the same person I was when I was 16, she was a self-centered bitch. 
I take umbrage to people who tell me they’ve found religion and are a different person, that’s the shit I watch with a skeptical eye. I certainly don’t think it should absolve her of her guilt either. That’s what makes me think she’s not that different a person, who can live with that type of shadow of their heads and just assume now that they’ve come clean they “are free”?

Sexually active at 7 in the second grade?  Where does a kid learn that kind of morals or lack thereof?   From where I’m sitting I don’t think this kid had a lot of parenting from either parent. And for the record, I think charges against her are in order.  That or a bullet from daddy…

 That is why I NEVER badmouth my ex in front of my children. He is in prison for attempted rape, they didn’t know until they saw him on the news and my daughter heard he was in jail. She is only 5 so when she asked why I told her that he broke a rule and jail is like timeout for grown ups. When they are much older, if they ask, I will probably tell them the truth. I grew up and both of my parents bad mouthed each other to us kids. I know how much it messes with a kid’s head, so I will NEVER put my children in that position.

As a woman and a potential rape victim, I just want to say that there is no way this girl being charged for this would discourage me from coming forward about being sexually assaulted. Would I necessarily? I don’t know; so many people don’t and I don’t know how I would react. But even if I didn’t, it wouldn’t have anything to do with this case or any others like it. To say that charging her for stealing nine years of her own father’s life would discourage other girls from coming forward about real crimes seems awfully insulting to real victims’ intelligence.

Yeah. . . her ass would be disowned.  That forgive and forget shit would go straight outta the fucking window.

I didn’t call her “a heartless cunt.” And I agree with your comment “18 is hardly grown.” However, she put her father in jail 7 years earlier, and it took her another half-decade to come clean; if she hadn’t taken that long to get around to clearing his name and getting him released, I would be far more comfortable with the lack of criminal charges against her.

How would charging a liar that had her father tossed in prison for a crime he didn’t commit discourage actual rape victims from reporting a true crime? If anything what these idiots have just done is given the go ahead for more dumbfuck vengeful chicks to lie about being raped and the confidence to do it, knowing they won’t be charged for ruining a man’s life. That is beyond fucked up.

 Wait! What? We get SECOND VIRGINITY?!?! And by starting over with the second chance at cherry popping, does that put abortions into the negative? Like -2 abortions? And what about STD’s? Do they get a makeover and a new identity? Sores dolled up to look like beauty marks, bad smells covered by new car scent and odd-colored discharges become the new self-made lube? Amazing things really are possible through God…or at least the amazingly crazy things Hallelujah’s make up to not feel like dirty, dirty sinners.

 You want an 11 year old charged? That is what she would be charged as now. She wouldn’t be tried an an adult.

 It would show real victims that if they are not believed( common) they could be charged for lying even if they aren’t.

Yes, I’ve never heard of this “second virginity” thing, either. I don’t think my mind could handle learning anything more about it beyond what I’ve gleened from wolfcat’s remark…

Wow, I’m sorry that happened to you, sounds really messed up, I believe in karma. If he did this to his own child I’m sure there’s other shit he’s done, it will all catch up to him.

Obviously 11-years-old is young, but it is not too young to not know right from wrong. She knew she what she was doing and knew it was wrong. She wanted some sick revenge on her father for not being around so she made it so he wouldn’t ever be around by concocting a very twisted story that I don’t think the average 11-year-old would come up with. I’m not wishing all the rape and murder being tossed out in other comments, but she should pay for ruining her fathers life. Fuck knows what that man had to endure in prison. And all because his daughter turned out to be a spiteful little shithead, which is probably something she learned from the people around her. Her going unpunished with the excuse that 11-year-olds can’t be charged for lying, who the fuck says they can’t? And she isn’t an 11-year-old anymore. There’s no excuse for this and it does not in any way discourage true victims from reporting. Real rape victims already face the problem of not being believed. It has always been like that. Now, why do you think that is, that people don’t want to believe rape victims and take their word for it? Because of vindictive idiots like this woman, who lied to make her father pay. There are women and girls just like her who have been doing this shit for years…And they are a big part of the reason why real rape victims aren’t believed. So what, do we just give all these women a pass when they lie and get innocent men sent to prison? What kind of shitty ass example is that? That doesn’t help real victims. It just makes it more likely that women will keep pulling this kind of shit and not be punished for it, That’s bullshit.

Oh yeah gotta love when people think child support is “free” money.  He’d have to pay either way guess he doesn’t realize that. Heaven forbid someone has to support their child.

Please don’t hesitate to tell me when it isn’t funny anymore; I *will* beat a good joke to death.

I am not anything like I used to be at all. Maturity and self reflection can change a lot of things.

Ok she was 11 and could not legally consent to sex so who was her sexual partner? Was someone else abusing her

In the movie with Seth Rogan playing a mall cop, the girl with the leg cast working the shitty coffee bar was a second time virgin.

You’re a good mom.

I totally agree with you. I have a few friends who did heinous things while addicted to drugs and are now clean and sober, yet they have paid the price legally for what they did when it came to light. I understand it’s a part of the 12 step process when making amends. If she was checked out due to drug addiction or whatnot, does that absolve her of any consequences for her actions? I think what some of us aren’t considering is that she confessed it to law enforcement and county officials and it was their decision not to press charges. Maybe she did confess knowing she would have to pay for what she had done through our legal system, and fully prepared to do so, and it didn’t turn out that way. If that is the case, we have to blame the system for this particular failure, not her.

(This wasn’t directed at you specifically wolfcat, your comment just presented a great jumping off point to what had been brewing in my head the last few hours.)

Good. I hate when parents do that. Children are capable of learning the truth on their own and when they do they will appreciate you more for allowing them to see it themselves. Children are not pawns.

My mother never bad mouthed my bio…ever, and much like you she could of if she wanted to.

I was reading an old thread with BD, Mackac, AIC and Pikeman…I was in tears laughing. Ahh…I miss them.

Me too! I sometimes scroll alllllll the way back through my comment section to go peek at those and reminisce. I kinda feel like one of those people who can’t let go of high school and move on and grow up.

Growing up is overrated. 

I was one of those who developed pubic hair as a very young child and started growing breasts around 5 or 6…like real tits. I’ve worn a bra for as long and I can remember.

My concern would be that charging her would discourage other liars from admitting they lied.

So, at what magical age are we supposed to understand that falsely accusing a man of RAPE so you can get revenge is wrong? 13? 16? Should it be based on the age of consent in that state?

I think if you are savvy enough to work the system to get your vengeance, you are savvy enough to know how wrong it is.

She was sexually active by 11. If she had falsely accused some random kid her own age of date rape instead of her father, would we be allowed to call her a dumb bitch?

She was mature enough to lie consistently to adults who were professionals in this field. It’s hard to make a case that she was just an innocent little girl. She was a manipulative, vindictive liar who sent a man to prison for a decade to get revenge on him.

This reminds me of the people who go on Maury and are testing their 10th or 12th potential “baby daddy.” Wtf did they do? Put a sign out that said “Free Pussy” on the street corner, laid down with their legs spread and went to sleep? I can dig that some people make a bad decision but you don’t make 9 bad sexual decisions in a month’s time. Seriously.

That is the best point I’ve seen in favor of what was done by law enforcement. 

Oh, dear God.  As the parent of a young daughter, this is scaring the hell out of me.

  You can have joint custody and still have to pay child support because you are not the custodial parent. That is how child support laws work. One parent has the child more often, where the child sleeps goes to school. That is the custodial parent, not who gets the child on weekends or whatnot. The non custodial parent still has say in the child’s upbringing, and can make legal decisions, medical decisions, etc. How is child support free money either way? Id he has joint custody does she have to pay on a tax on on something? I’m confessed about that term , which doesn’t exist in a legal sense. Every parent has a legal obligation to support their child , the money is for the child. Please explain how it isn’t free if the father has joint custody. I have been in and out of court because my son’s father is an absentee deadbeat and I have yet to hear that term used.

You saying “Like I said” doesn’t make it fact… You believe that people can’t change. That is not a fact, it is an opinion. DNA is a scientific fact but personalities are traits that can change and they do. 
http://l-pawlik-kienlen.suite101.com/making-personality-changes-a38196

So friggen scary

I wonder if it involves some type of ceremony a la First Communion?  Like, you have to but a new dress or blazer and wear your “nice” shoes? 

Do you think you have to, like, handmake the second hymen?  Who puts it in? How? Clips or magnets? Or is there a store in the Galleria?  ”Hymens Be We” or “Re-Virginators!” You can get everything from basic kidskin flesh tone to rhinestone studded, embroidered, Quinceañara worthy maiden heads.  Who puts it in? How? Clips or magnets? Is there a fitting room or do you just “eyeball” it?  So to speak.  It would probably sell mirkins, too.  

I can just imagine the security guard giving directions. “Oh, sure, sure. Washing off your filthy sex with the blood of Christ are ya?  Yep, yep, that time a year I guess.  Welp, it’s on the 3rd floor,  across from ‘Soxy As we Wanna Be’ and next to ‘Hefty Helen’s Dress 4 Less Big Gals Glamour Barn’.”

Do guys get to “reset” our virginities too?  I mean, not that I’d ever want to give up my obvious mega-stud status, but just out of curiosity. Do I get all that lost protein back?  Like, how many “Ensures” worth of cum have I dropped hither and yon throughout the drug fueled, pink hued halcyon days of my youth.  Do I have to give an assumed average of partners?  

So many questions, so many mysteries.  Really, a small wonder that Christianity has stayed around for as long as it has.  Maybe, someday, I’ll man up and try and get my own “man-maidenhood” reinstated.  

I bet there’s a written exam. 

She was eleven fucking years old. Sometimes kids lie. Lies have consequences. She tried to atone for her behavior.

 There’s a written, and a physical exam…(like an obstacle course, with soft dongs and street cones)
Oh and you most def would hold a new hymen in with magnets…duh.

christian ain’t aliens they are also human being.
Animals don’t have any religion however god has made them.
only humans have religion because they have got little creepy brain..
i can’t forgive her what she has done..she has taken 10 year of someone’s life.
she didn’t commit a sin but a serious crime

No one called Christians aliens here, or otherwise inhuman, that I know of. But people get exasperated with criminals who “find God” to make them feel better about the rotten things they’ve done.

None of us have ever heard of lousy moms who blow their child support (and whatever other money they can get their hands on) on stupid shit for themselves, and neglect their kids’ needs. Never.

 Thanks, although it’s sad how much I see the bad mouthing going on with people. It seems to be more common that children are drug into the mess. I think my experience growing up around it is what taught me how messed up it is.

That post had me seriously laughing out loud. 
“Hymens Be We” or “Re-Virginators!” <== That started it off. 

In my head the security guard has an  Irish brogue, I don't know why.

But we don’t see you much either BD…so yes, I do miss you. 

 Regardless of where he ended up in prison- the man has spent years in a cage, he is now mentally damaged. That’s not an easy thing to get over even if you are never beaten or raped. I was in the hospital for 7 weeks once, that was enough for me to know that I will never do anything that results in me being locked up for any length of time. Shit like that messes with your head. Especially when you add in the bad food, bad air, never having privacy, filthy conditions, and insane people you are constantly surrounded by. Being an innocent man in prison has got to be the worst.

Umm, I’m talking about real joint custody, where the child spends approx. 50% of their time with each parent. There are numerous ways to work that out, and I firmly believe that parents who have their childrens’ best interests at heart figure those way out (frequently without the interference of the courts). I know several split families with these kinds of arrangements, and they do not have to pay each other money for support, because they are equally supporting their kid financially by feeding/sheltering them. The bonus- they are also equally supporting them emotionally and mentally, which is far more important than the money.

If a parent wants to avoid paying child support, the easiest way to do it is to be an equal parent, or to ask to be the primary custodian. Sadly, many men don’t want to do that. And many women would rather get the monthly check than see their ex be an active part of their children’s lives.

The ‘free money’ comes into play when mom games the system by falsely claiming abuse so that dad no longer has the option to support his kids in reality, but is still required to fork over money. That’s shiesty, and it happens all too often.

I’m sure your support money goes to legitimately support your child, but I do hope you will be more selective in choosing your next baby-daddy, for your childrens’ sake. They deserve to have a supportive father.

 I know plenty of divorced people who have joint custody with equal time with their kids, so neither party pays support to the other- they simply rotate 3 and 4 day weeks with the kid/s, or 1 week on, 1 week off. Not all cases involve one parent having more time than the other.

 Yeah, when you’re repeatedly raped in childhood by a cop, they scare the hell out of you and tell you you will go to jail if you’re lying- they tell you that over and over and over. And, they do a really shitty job investigating, too. If you don’t have witnesses or solid evidence from a rape exam, I don’t how anyone manages that.

Oh yes, blame the innocent person who got sent to jail with the worst conceivable charge ever.
I knew damn well that shit like this was fucking evil when I was 11.
Sorry, I’m going to blame the shallow cunt that left the poor man to rot for a decade.

This is why I feed my daughters hormone-free meat and milk. Apparently, this sort of thing is more common now that food animals are pumped full of growth hormones- which are passed through to the people who eat them. It’s expensive as shit, but I am willing to take on that burden/expense in order to- hopefully- thwart this sort of thing.

No, the poster is wrong.

I think you’ve just given me a bible spanking fetish. 

“Especially when you add in the bad food, bad air, never having privacy,
filthy conditions, and insane people you are constantly surrounded by.”
Wow, that sounds just like the submarine force. Thank God for my medical disqualification.

Understandable. This is why I breastfeed and keep my food as organic as I can. I when my daughter does eat a little food it’s the kind of food that I eat and no animal products.

Honestly want to know how to be a born again virgin? It can involve anything from intense prayer to full on surgical replacement of the hymen. I think it’s all unbelievably ridiculous that someone would even bother to think that it really meant something.  

I was responding to calling an 11 year old girl a “cunt,” which can’t be defended, no matter what. She spent from then until now getting wasted, stopped getting wasted and tried to right a wrong. Anything more is between her and her father. Should she have stayed quiet? Her dad was in prison for a long time. He’s out now. This is good news.

No, it’s true. Some do it so that they don’t have and issue with their husbands about being virgins when they get married. 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hymenorrhaphy

What a weird, like, “niche” Neo-Christian concept.  

I mean, if you’re that hung up on it, just take the stoning, or wear the big letter “H” on your chest (for HOSEBAG!) for a while and then assume you’ve been penitent.  Or, even better, just be a Catholic like me and “confess”.  You do a coupla rosaries then hit the bars. Instant absolution thanks to Rome.  But the fact  that some pervy old minister came up with a creepy way to get girls to talk about their “sinning flesh” as a way to feel Virginally Refurbished (that’s how “Re-Virginators!” refers to it in their catalog) is so grody to me.  Like, wicked, wicked, grody.  And the fact that it’s apparently some type of movement, like the Exodus “Ex-Gay” thing is a bummer too.

But, where there’s guilt, there’s a need and when there’s a need there’s power.  Hallelujiah! Or however you spell it.

Thanks honey. Too often, this big fat nuisance named Reality stands between me and my keyboard and refuses to be ignored.

Wow I have come a looooooong way in life I am ashamed of the things I have done in the past but I made those poor choices I am far from who I use to be, I am still the same person just have more clarity and common sense with my decision making , 7 yrs of sobriety will teach you that change is possible no matter the odds that are stacked against you people do horrible things at least she came forward…..but God damn 9 yrs poor guy

Meh, that blubberdong character isn’t too bad either….I guess.

Where the hell is Mackac and AIC Man?!?! I loved those guys and Satans Buddy. I’m still around lurking in the darkness:)

Heh!

Thanks. I actually feel like I’ve been to Hell and back, but that’s a long story. Good to be back!

That’s pretty much what happened with me. Did it a couple times at 14 to try to see what the big deal was, then didn’t do it again until I was 17, and it was still boring. I wasn’t watched closely either, and sex was always glamorized, and laughed about. I didn’t have a sister, but my brother was having sex in 5th grade. My other brother was 19, so I don’t know what happened there. We were playing with sex when I was younger, but there was no penetration, that God.

She should be charged severely.  This would discouraged all other liars. If I could, I would execute her on the spot.
Lets just say if i was her father, I would bury her alive so she can suffocate and breath all that dust in.

Since she has found the “lord” and is a good christion now then she should have no problem with her punishment being to pay him a form of child support, you know how they take out taxes first, then insurance (she should provide medical and dental insurance for him too) and whatever is left over of her pay should be made out into a check by the government, of course the RevRecovery will have to garnish her wages but I think it a fair punishment seeing as how he lost all those years not being able to work. should go on garnishing for the next 18 years, maybe life. fitting punishment for a devastating lie… I feel bad for this man having to start over and my heart goes out for his heartache. Hope he can heal.

what an evil little rat!!! she should not get off scot free with this, maybe she was only 11 at the time but she was obviously clued up… this story has really pissed me off >:( GRRR!!!

“According to the Cowlitz County prosecutor, there are no plans to charge
Cassandra for lying because doing so may discourage girls from reporting
sexual assaults. Thomas has declined to comment, saying he’s simply
trying to get on with his life.”… Hows that for logic? Don’t want to let a little perjury and malicious
prosecution/abuse of process get in the way of preventing vindictive angry females from generating more federal incentives and revenue for the County Prosecutor now do we?