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Mom Charged After Killing Daughter In Botched Suicide PactSALT LAKE CITY, UT – Here’s a depressing one out of Utah where a woman has been charged with murdering her 18-year-old daughter while allegedly botching a suicide pact.

On March 21, 52-year-old Mary Ethyl Hansen drove to a neighbor’s home to tell them she had shot her daughter and asked if they could call 911.

When police arrived at Hansen’s home, they found her suffering from a non-fatal, self-inflicted gunshot wound to the head. In one of the bedrooms they found the dead body of Hansen’s daughter, Virginia Ray Hansen. She had been shot twice in the head.

Hansen told officials that she and her daughter suffered from mental illness and wanted to die. She had just failed to honor her end of the agreement they supposedly made.

A friend of the family said that Hansen was living on Social Security benefits, had fibromyalgia and was having financial difficulties. her daughter had few friends and took online courses instead of going to school. According to the friend, the Hansen and her daughter spent most of their time together inside the house and rarely went out.

Hansen has been charged with first-degree felony murder and was booked into the Salt Lake County jail immediately after being released from the hospital.

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  • Deety

    What, did she run out of bullets? Finish the job, already!

  • Sam

    Well, IF what she’s saying is true and they made a pact to die together, i feel kind of sorry for her. She tried to keep up her end of the deal but somehow managed to shoot herself in the head yet still miss any vital organ.

    *sits back and awaits fall-out of euthanasia debate*

  • reapre

     **Inserts something meaningful and heartfelt about Jack Kevorkian being a saint…**

  • OutOfBubbleGum

    Myth Busters where are you?
     
    Why is a hand gun more accurate at 5 to 10 feet away pointing at a victim than the same hand gun at blank distance pointing to a perpetrator’s head? 

  • Sam

    Have you seen the size of her head?

  • LeaveMeBe

    O.o

    If she failed at being a mom, why would she think she would be successful at upholding her end of the bargain in a murder suicide pact?

  • LeaveMeBe

    I don’t feel sorry for her. She’s a quitter. If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again. She shot her daughter twice, why couldn’t she shoot herself twice? Stupid cunt.

  • newstarshipsmell

    Dear Jesus, please let today be Salt Lake City Crime Story Day. Amen.

  • newstarshipsmell

    If she was aiming for a vital organ in her head, she may have been doomed to failure from the start.

  • reapre

    I don’t know the real stats just the ones from this website, but this would seem about right as a percentage.

    “92 percent of all suicide attempts with a gun are fatal”
    http://pearlyabraham.tripod.com/htmls/myth-guns1.html

    I wonder where the “non-fatal” bullet hit her at?  I wonder if it’s through her cheek, ear lobe, or a grazing wound easily hidden by her hair line.

  • JGo555
  • DangerousKindOfSnark

    I can’t find anything to substantiate or refute that percentage. I do know it’s possible to be shot in the head and survive, the brain is a funny and miraculous organ in what it can survive.

    I did find these which I thought were kind of interesting though…
    Although most gun owners reportedly keep a firearm in their home for “protection” or “self defense,” 83 percent of gun-related deaths in these homes are the result of a suicide, often by someone other than the gun owner.

    Firearms are used in more suicides than homicides.

    Death by firearms is the fastest growing method of suicide.

    Firearms account for 50 percent of all suicides.http://www.afsp.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=home.viewpage&page_id=050fea9f-b064-4092-b1135c3a70de1fda 

  • reapre

    “I do know it’s possible to be shot in the head and survive, the brain is a funny and miraculous organ in what it can survive.”

    Like, where the guy got punched in the face and died after falling to the ground from “Severe head trauma”?,
    http://www.wwlp.com/dpp/news/local/hampden/Spfld-Man-punched-in-the-head-has-died

    And it’s exact opposite where the 14 y/o kid got shot in the head with a 357 and now has half a skull and half a brain, but is just fine and dandy, otherwise?
    http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=c0ad74b0dd

  • reapre

    “If at first you don’t succeed…” keep on suckin’ till you do suck-seed.

    (Radio saying on a local station.)

    (I know it’s not relevant, but just thought I would add something awry to the conversation)

  • Prominent Prozac

    This just made me bummed. Kids can’t do anything right these days.

  • sugarpie

    If your gonna mess up a suicide pact, it should be not being able to kill your own child, not your own selfish self.

  • reapre

    I think her screw up of murdering her daughter went wrong when she concocted her failing story.  I don’t know if I’ll believe there ever was a suicide pact.

    Acceptable actions, story: Placed gun against head of daughter instead of shooting her from more than a foot away, then tell police “I heard a ‘BANG!’ in the other room, and saw my daughter on the ground, she killed herself! I felt deep pain and didn’t think I could live w/o her, so I shot myself…”

    Now she gets sympathy and sent home with flowers, some kinda fucked up Momeo and Juliet story…But then again, if she was “that” smart, she just would’ve gotten it right on her first try.

  • LeaveMeBe

    “I do know it’s possible to be shot in the head and survive, the brain is a funny and miraculous organ in what it can survive.”

    True, but just because the report says she was shot in the head doesn’t mean the bullet penetrated her skull. It could have just grazed her and it would still be considered a head shot.

  • DangerousKindOfSnark

    Pretty much yeah. 

  • LeaveMeBe

    This thought was lurking in the back of my mind also while I was reading the story. It wouldn’t surprise me at all if it turns out this was simply a murder.

    Momeo and Juliet. *giggling*

  • blubberdong

    Sounds like the tagline for a Little Oral Annie movie.

  • http://twitter.com/vab423 Vicki B.

    “…somehow managed to shoot herself in the head yet still miss any vital organ…”

    *self-censored snarky comment about missing vital organ in head shot.”

  • newstarshipsmell

    LOL, you’re too late, I already covered that, sans the self-censure bit.

  • newstarshipsmell

    Bullet probably bounced off her fat.

  • Lena60

    How sad, How do we know for certain the daughter wanted to die?maybe mom just murdered her.Then again maybe she wanted to die being stuck in the house 24/7 with mom. No outside interests.

  • JohnQknowitall

    Funny how that seems to happen a lot.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Sade-May/1653757709 Sade May

    Maybe because she hurt herself badly enough to not be able to take the 2nd shot?

  • LeaveMeBe

    If she could drive to a neighbors and ask them to call 911, I’m thinkin’ she was capable of finishing herself off one way or another.

  • Sam

     I dunno, reads to me like she shot the daughter, alerted the neighbours to make sure her and her daughter weren’t going to liquidise in their living room over the next few months, THEN went back home to do herself in. But i’m just guessing.

  • Sam

     One of my local stations’ motto is “Townname FM – coming in your ears1″ :)

  • Heather_Habilatory

    Ten bucks says she killed her daughter. No WAY would I ever be able to take the life of my own children, not even if they begged me to. 

  • onlyme356

    I’m gonna go against the grain and say that mom did intend to kill herself, she did have a gunshot wound on her head. I don’t know, it’s all so sad I can’t imagine a mother and daughter actually doing a suicide pact. How does this happen? It’s just tragic.

  • crazyonehere

    damn either the daughter is only like 4 feet tall or the mom is a 6 ft 4  tall hambeast

  • newstarshipsmell

    Well the daughter is negative six feet tall now.

  • xJustagirlx

    Judging by her mugshot, looks like she made a horrible attempt at shooting her mug. 
    http://slcmugshots.com/mug/mary-ethyl-hansen

  • http://truecrimereport.com iLLusionS

    Hmmm I am sort of swaying on the side of this being a murder. If the daughter has two bullets to the dome to assure effectiveness, why didn’t the mom? I am highly doubting the “suicide pact” at this point.

  • ultracreep

     No shit. If two in the brain was good enough for your child, it’s good enough for you. None of this pussying out after one and calling for help.

  • ultracreep

     I don’t buy that. I remember a man doing the classic recoil misfire while trying to shoot himself with a shotgun (I believe it was profiled on Dr. G: Medical Examiner). Took most of his face and his jaw off and he managed to get off another shot and finish the job.

  • ultracreep

     Sometimes small caliber bullets can end up ricocheting off the skull, traveling around it, and either get stuck or come out the skin on the other side.

  • ultracreep

    I’m thinking murder/suicide as well. I’m pretty sure the woman didn’t expect to live through the bullet to the head and was perhaps super surprised when she did. This would make some people just put another bullet in the brain, but maybe this one’s one of those people that thinks it’s a “sign” or something. 

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_GWBV2FUY3OBYX3RNK6I44QSC7I Kwum

    oh lemme guess the bullet somehow got buried in the multi layers of fat and flab on this she beast. Her poor daughter was deprived of a normal education and socialization and ultimately her own life. in order to take care of the fat load that is her mother only to be MURDERED by her to save a few bucks no doubt so she could buy cheese covered wing dings and friend butter sandwiches instead of spending money on raising her own daughter.. ugh
     animals in the wild make far better parents

  • Califboy

     Dam, I’m OK with adults shooting them selves, but the kids? That’s fucked up.

  • Adell Gibson

    Just found this article about the Hansens. Incredibly sad. I knew them
    both as my brother believed he was Virginia’s father. If anyone has an
    update please contact me at gibsonfcc@aol.com. I would be interested
    in knowing: 1) where Virginia is buried, 2) that Mary is still
    imprisoned or where the case stands. Thank you in advance.

  • VirginiaRaysFamily

    Everything is here-say from a murderer. Dig deeper to find out the entire story…this “friend” only knows what Mary wanted her to know…Virginia had family that wasn’t allowed to see her- and ironically when she was 18 and old enough to choose to see her family Mary takes her life. Ironic?

  • http://www.dreamindemon.com/forums/ Dakota Valkyrie

    A mother accused of shooting her teenage daughter and then attempting suicide has agreed to a plea deal.

    Mary Ethyl Hansen, 53, was originally charged with first-degree felony murder. On Wednesday, she pleaded guilty, but mentally ill to charges of manslaughter and discharge of a firearm.
    [...]

    Officials said the woman tried to commit suicide again while in jail on November 2.

    Hansen is scheduled to be sentenced on May 8.

    http://fox13now.com/2013/01/17/mom-who-allegedly-killed-daughter-agrees-to-plea-deal/

  • JulieBranston

    Even more Ironic is that I knew Mary when I was a child growing up in Cali. She was my best friend when I was;little and I had been searching for her for over 40 years, and I found her alright. This whole thing really sucks! I can believe the mentally ill story as that can have a BIG effect on what happened that day. As I recall her dad raised her and all over her siblings because her mother was having issues even back then. Maybe someone should look into that aspect of this whole thing. Maybe Mary was hearing voices, or bi-polar or something. None of us know. All I know is this is a very sad story. Just really sad.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1598893308 Sheri Metts

    VIRGINIA WAS CREMATED AND HER REMAINS ARE WITH FAMILY. Mary IS STILL IN CUSTODY AWAITING SENTECING.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1598893308 Sheri Metts

    You are right in everything you said. Mary is very mentally ill and I know in my heart that my AUNT Mary never meant for it to end the way it did. If you look at her mug shot you can see she is dead inside already. Mary was a good mom and I know she loves Virginia very much. Their were other factors to why they wanted to die if you knew Mary than you knew her sister Donna. Another sad story search the holiday inn express saint Louis, woman found dead in bathtub. She was Donna’s daughter and Mary’s niece. They were both my cousins and they are very much loved and missed by the whole family. It had only been 5 months since the murder of Mary’s niece and the two of them couldn’t handle it. It is so hard for the whole family to have to deal with all of this tragedy and loss, than have to read all the b.s people want to post that did not even know her. Shame on all you mean people. Thank you for standing up for Mary and giving her the benefit of doubt as you were correct. God bless you