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Bridgeport, CT – Former Stamford police officer, Paul Mabey, 43, pleaded no contest to disorderly conduct after having been charged for showing a photo of his penis to women during traffic stops.

According to police, on May 21, 2010, Mabey conducted a traffic stop on a woman with her 21 month-old-baby in a car seat in the back. The reason for the stop… talking on her cell phone.  Court documents describe Mabey pointing out to her almost immediately that her dress had ridden up her thighs. The woman apologized and rolled her dress down. She said that Mabey replied, “No. I like what I see.”

[Cue music] Boom chicka chicka wow wow…

Mabey would then be told by the woman that he was too old. [Music stops abruptly]

“I’m only 40. That’s not old, it’s experienced,” she quoted Mabey in her formal complaint as saying.

After taking her license and registration to his car, Mabey reportedly came back and told her she should plead not guilty to the cell phone ticket and buy a hands-free device. Presenting the receipt in court would make the ticket go away, she said in her letter.

Police said Mabey then told the woman that she needed someone to take care of her and then flipped open his cellphone showing her a photo of his genitals, adding, “Want to see what 40-year-old experience will do to you?” Mabey offered the woman his business card, she took it, and she was allowed to drive away.

The woman would write a letter of complaint to Stamford Police Chief Robert Nivakoff with copies going to a local newspaper and the American Civil Liberties Union. That oughta do it!

Interestingly, investigators following up on that complaint would discover, that same day, another woman who was stopped by Mabey. Police said that, while that woman was searching for her insurance card, Mabey reportedly remarked to her, “It looks like you’re gonna pop out of that top.”

Police said Mabey then asked the woman about the type of underwear she was wearing and then used his cellphone to also show her a photo of his naked genitals. She was then allowed to drive away without a ticket.

It looks like everyone’s gettin’ off during this traffic stop…

That woman would report that she later began receiving ‘sexually suggestive’ text messages from someone who signed himself, “DJ Popo.” Court documents describe police tracing the texts to Mabey’s cellphone number.

At sentencing, Mabey’s lawyer pointed out ‘all of the positive things’ that Mabey had done for the community – including being awarded Stamford Officer of the Year in 2006. Did the appeal work? You decide…

Superior Court Judge Frank Iannotti sentenced Mabey to a suspended 90-day term with two years of conditional discharge. Mabey was also told by the judge that he cannot carry a gun – presumably for employment as a security guard – until he passes a psychiatric evaluation.

…and that was it.

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  • [Cue music] Boom chicka chicka wow wow…
    Mabey would then be told by the woman that he was too old. [Music stops abruptly]
    Baha! If I had had coffee in my mouth while reading that, chances are good I woulda choked on it.

  • Sam

    “Excuse me ma’am, we’ve had reports of a perpetrator running around disappointing women everywhere he goes. Have you seen this dickhead?”

  • Only a 43-year-old man would have enough “experience” to know how effective showing dick pics is when wooing random women.

  • Sam

    Especially a 43-year-old man looking like THAT.

  • JohnQknowitall

    I wonder if this bs had worked for him in the past and then without notice he ran into the wrong misdemeanor make’n criminal.

  • Zazen

    He was missing out on that little voice which should have been telling him that events were not matching up with the porno in his head.

    Last guy who was leaning over my car being a skeevy geezer and hitting on me got his foot run over. I ‘spose I was lucky he wasn’t a cop eh?

  • malq

    [I]Superior Court Judge Frank Iannotti sentenced Mabey to a suspended 90-day term with two years of conditional discharge.[I]
    Basically he got the blue treatment. That doesn’t say much for that jurisdickshun.
    What do you call a older man who stalks younger women, not cougar, a PUMA???

  •  Oh but if it were you or I, we’d be locked up for showing our willie wanka over the cell phone. And I don’t even have a willie wanka!

  • CT

    By the time you hit 43 you’ve seen so many pricks – they all start to look alike.  Well, at least that has been my experience. 

  • ” jurisdickshun” Love it!

  • CT

    I thought it was the young pizza delivery boy.  Well, at least that is how it is played out in my head.  “Oh hello there young pizza delivery boy, please come in.  What?  I thought I was the one to give you a tip?”  

  • DamagedGoods


  • JGo555

    The idiot didn’t get the memo? He is supposed to WAIT until the women show HIM their stuff to not get a ticket.


  • DamagedGoods

    Well, only the chorus applies, but whatever.

  • JGo555

    I should totally  get a pic of a huge donger & be like:

    Mabey: “Would you like to see this in person?” *whips out dick pick*

    Me: “Oh no, would you like to see mine?” *whips out king kong dick*

    Me: “Booya!”

  • Eliza Berntsen

    It always amazes me how some men just look like sleazebags. Like you just have to look at him to know that he’s a twat.

  • JGo555

    An older man who stalks younger women?

    A George Clooney wannabe.

    An olderman who stalks younger women that looks like him?

    A nerd that finally put down the Dungeons & Dragons game & took off the costume & got out of hsi parents’ basement.

  • This is intended to be some perverse form of torture, right?

  • malq

     No one tops Ron Wood and his new grandaughter, I mean wife.

  • The sores give mine character.

  • DamagedGoods

    Like damned near everything I ever do… Have I shared my moob collection with you?

  • malq

     Don’t you watch, ‘Is It Real”?  It has been proven King Kong was a tranny, No Dong.

    The government did a research project in September1986 on ping pong balls with a $4M grant  and got the wrong memo. They ended up looking for King Kongs balls.

  • sugarpie

    Ok guys, just so you know, penis’s are not sexy.  If you want to impress a woman, get that shot of your nice tanned (muscular) abs with a pair of jeans just above the package.  If you ain’t got that, then you best whoo her with your sparkly personality. 

  • LeaveMeBe

    What is a “conditional discharge”? Sounds like a symptom of a particularly nasty STD.

  • CT

    You mean the one that looks like Jesus?  Yeah, I like that one too.  

  • steelpin

    if she would have giving him a blow job she woundn’t have got a ticket. she just mad that she got one.

  • DangerousKindOfSnark

    He buttered her up first with the skirt comment, geez how much more do you want? 

  • sugarpie

    Oh yea right.  She must have been a real prude not to have fallen for a lushious line like that!

  • Lena60

    Hugh Hefner

  • LeaveMeBe


    Bah-hahahaha! I am sofa king punny.

  • malq


  • Lena60

    Want to see what 40-year-old experience will do to you?” What?, turn you into a dick showing your dick?

  • That would have turned him on.

  • No one would lock you up for showing yours 😉

  • Its appearance changes almost hourly.  That’s why I’m constantly taking pictures of it.

  • I’m not into tit-fucking.

  • rensuchan

    Wouldn’t that be an unconditional discharge though?

  • LeaveMeBe

    I am being totally honest when I say I have no effing clue about conditional or unconditional discharges. O.o

  • lespacino

     “took off the costume” and donned another- police blues! I’m convinced that 90% of cops are recovering nerds who need the power trip to heal their self-esteem and the uniform to get chicks.

  • DangerousKindOfSnark

    Let me know when it starts to resemble Dee Dee Ramone.

  • Probably a fire crotch

  • Califboy

     Wow, what a smooth operator he is, eyes rolling.

  • Califboy

     About 25 years ago I was in a bar with a friend of mine when his friend asked a good looking 40 something blond gal if she had panties on.
    She replied why would he want to know?
    He said, because if I could have them I would chop them up like cocaine and snort them !
    As you can guess she pulled off her pants right there and gave her panties to him on the spot.
    Not really she told him to fuck off and stormed away to her gang of gals and they were all looking at us like we were just let out of prison.

  • Jemimabean

     He looks a bit like my ex- father- in- law. Twattus Maximus.

  • Califboy

     Funny you put that song up. My mom and dad were married for 54 years before my dad died and that was his favorite song, he dedicated it to my mom for being his inspiration to work 2 jobs most of his life to support her and 6 kids.

  • DangerousKindOfSnark

    That is so wrong. Once you’re tired of hearing shit like that and you tell someone you’re not interested you’re a bitch or a cock tease. I actually have taken to wearing a diamond when I go out with my friends just to avoid the bullshit.

  • DangerousKindOfSnark

    I fail to see what the problem is with that?

  • Lena60

    All the smoke 😛

  • LeaveMeBe

    I call bullshit. That is NOT why your constantly taking pictures of your love hammer.

  • Nothing… on a lady.  Terrible when it’s a male.  Makes it look like someone threw it a life preserver.

  • More like unintentional discharge.

  • LeaveMeBe

    You people are sick. Just sick, I say!

    I heart y’all.

  • DangerousKindOfSnark

    A life preserver, ha! Congratulations, I barked like a seal at that. If I ever decide to let the hair grow back I’ll send you an approval pic. For now I like to keep the fire extinguished.   

  • rensuchan

    This is why I’m here every day.  Our sick humor brings me laughs during my weekdays in which I’m otherwise full of rage from dealing with disorganized idiots all day.

  • LeaveMeBe

    Me too. Having to keep it together and be professional is so much easier when I can let loose on here. These people around me don’t know how lucky they are that I have the DD and it’s members. 🙂

  • lespacino

     for some that’s more of a reason to hit on you- they are less likely to have to deal with you the “morning after.”

  • Heather_Habilatory

    omgomgomgomgomgomg!!!! You didn’t include the best part of the whole story!!! I’m going to copy and paste it:

    Police said Mabey asked the woman about the type of underwear she was
    wearing and then flipped open his cellphone to show her a photo of his
    naked genitals. They said the woman drove off but later began receiving
    sexually suggestive text messages from someone who signed himself, “DJ
    Popo.” Police said they traced the texts to Mabey’s cellphone number.


  • DangerousKindOfSnark

    Really? OK, soliciting male opinions here. Ring or no ring? School a bitch fellas.

  • Califboy

     2 opinions are better then one, I too will be looking for them pictures !!!!! 🙂

  • Califboy

     I respected the ring back in the single days, but if you had a ring on and approached me, well here’s to your heels in the air.
    My wife has been hit on while wearing her ring and with my daughter with her. Guy hits on her and then goes, Wow that must have set your husband back,(Ya $15k) my daughter comes in the house almost yelling Dad, dad, this guy was hitting on mom right in front of me! Another time when she was 9 months pregnant a guy was hitting on her all the way to her car, she told me when I got home and baam I was in the car going down there to look for that fucker.
    In general the ring does work as most of my friends feel the same.

  • kniption

    oh, now you’re just talkin’ crazy!!

  • The ring seems to get more respect from men then women. A man will try to date me but once I point out the ring and acknowledge a worse half they usually respect it. Bitchess though (not women or ladies) see a man with a ring and it’s a personal challenge to screw the guy to see how much he actually loves his wife.

  • “License and registration ma’am.  . . Oh. . . .wanna see pics of my cock?”

  • officer mabey showed ladies his baby, they said no, take a hike bro. They called and they screamed, his dick’s obscene.. the chief said “you gotta go”

  • Edward Richtofen×471.jpg

  •  hmm …

  •  That’s called a Wolf Ring – and it only works on decent guys,it fails on dogs.

  • oOXColdmoonXOo

     I may like what my husband does with his dick, but that shit just looks like a hot mess to me >.>

  • DangerousKindOfSnark

    My experience is that most guys respect the ring. It might be because I have a few single girls in my group so there is easier “prey”. I am also not the type of person someone ignores a no from.

  • DangerousKindOfSnark

    Which is why I don’t put rings on my men. 🙂

  • DangerousKindOfSnark

    I’ve never heard the term, but I like it.

  • creamofflicka

    I AM!   wait,.. i thought this thread was about a cop who’s face looks like penis…   I’m so confused now.

  • Califboy

     I’ll wear a collar if you pull on the leash ?

  • Abroad

    I was wondering what sort of sexual favour a “hands-free device” was and how she would present the receipt for it in court……..

  • Heather4877

    Like a mole that you’re worried about possibly being cancerous.

  • Heather4877

    I know it sounds bad, but if I was this woman I would have been #1 happy that I got hit on (having just had a baby 3 weeks ago my ego needs some boosting), #2 happy that I might have a way out of the ticket, and #3 happy that I got a look at something that I could make fun of with my friends later on.  Jesus, I really need to take a self-inventory.

  • DamagedGoods

    Now now, you knew from the start that I am a moob-floozy.

  • DamagedGoods

    Technically this would be mantit-fucking. Mit-fucking?

  • LeaveMeBe

    Maybe stick out her tongue and spit?