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Child Abuse Or Just Crappy Parenting?

January 31, 2012 at 9:17 am by  

I don’t normally post videos like this as from what I can tell, no one has been charged with a crime. But we get emails on this daily, so I figured I would post it and get some of your thoughts.

In case you are unable to see it, the video shows a young mother force feeding a toddler. The kid is obviously upset, but this does not stop the woman from shoving food into the kid’s mouth — even covering his mouth until he chokes.

From what I can gather, the video was filmed in secret by the child’s 14-year-old uncle who has been trying to get CPS involved with the family, to no avail. He claims there are worse things going on in the home and shot this video to give CPS as proof.

CPS is aware of the video and stated what you are watching is not child abuse. Shitty parenting? Sure… but not child abuse as she did not strike the kid with a closed fist and it would be impossible to prove she intended for the child to choke.

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  • Anonymous

    Abuse AND crappy parenting. She holds the food in his mouth, punishes him for choking, then blames him for it… “chew and swallow” It’s a shame what the 14 yr old has to deal with for trying to do the right thing.

  • http://www.facebook.com/JellyBellyMomma Kimberly Hanselman

    I say abuse AND shitty parenting! That poor baby. Gotta wonder how often he is treated that way. 

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_4FPT55L4K6NIG5XNVM3PA66GYY Kristen

    There is definitely something wrong with that family. You don’t shove food in a child’s mouth! And that push over pussy father needs to shove something into her mouth. Watching that made me feel like I was punched in the gut. It also seems there’s other issues with this family. 
    I try to make my kids eat their dinner, because they’ll come to me an hour later asking for treats. But this is WAY over the line. Hopefully, CPS gets involved. That POOR poor little boy. 

    Doesn’t she realize she’s TRAUMATIZING HIM?!?!?!   Grrr.  I can’t imagine what else goes on in that house.  Oh, wait, this is DD, I CAN imagine it.

    –Ozzy

  • Crymzen Vyolet

    Wow, she doesn’t deserve to have that child what a cunt. I agree , abuse and shitty parenting. Someone should remove that child from her.

  • http://twitter.com/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    She sucks and I’m upset with the man there for letting it go on. My husband would have never allowed me to treat our children in that manner. 

    Poor baby. :-(

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_4FPT55L4K6NIG5XNVM3PA66GYY Kristen

    Wow, that shit really sent a chill through my body, ugh… I’d be surprised if that poor little boy makes it to 4 years old. Imagine what he goes through alone with that beast.  Meh, I wanna cry now.

    -Ozzy

  • http://www.facebook.com/jessilyn.vasquez Jessilyn Varney

    This video pisses me off.. I can not imagine putting my son through that just cause he doesn’t want to eat.. I say this is more towards abuse since she held his mouth close and force feed him… WTF is wrong with some people..

  • http://twitter.com/ckhoffmanf Chelsea Hoffman

    she most certainly DID hit that child at the end. Bopped him right in the mouth. That fucking cunt.

  • Anonymous

    It’s wrong. It’s sad. It’s mean. I hate that she’s doing that.

    But where is the line drawn when it comes to CPS getting in our lives about our child rearing? It’s a sensitive question. As a parent I want to make my own decisions (I would never force feed) but at the same time i feel awful for the baby…..

    I just hope the uncle gets something more concrete.

  • blubberdong

    That’s wrong.  I think she needs something large (and rough) shoved into one of her orifices.

  • Anonymous

    Most toddlers go through a stage where they don’t want to eat. When my first nephew went through it my sister panicked a bit and the doctor told her it was normal. Eventually she stopped trying to make him eat and very quickly realized that he would eat when he was hungry and she just had to wait for him to ask. This poor kid seems to be right at that age. She’s probably giving him a food complex by force feeding him and making food something equated with punishment. 
    She looks like she should learn a thing or two about skipping meals from her son. 

  • Anonymous

    Too bad she didn’t spank him in public or something, then they’d be on the ball -.-

  • http://www.dreamindemon.com Count Rackula

    He’s not going to want to eat if he’s always associating it with choking and being punished, you dumb, dumb cunt.

  • Anonymous

    The line comes when you think about that he choked (more than once) and that it could cause death or injury. Parenting is teaching and raising a child. Abuse is causing intentional harm and repeated harm. Or in this case, knowingly doing something that could cause death or injury. The man told her the child was choking yet she repeated the action and went a step further and held it in his mouth

  • http://twitter.com/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    I know right.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_4UD7PLBWGBEQVRGKXHQJZA3ERA Sam

    WTF?! Who shoves food down a childs mouth while they are crying? Apparently he’s done and the bitch needs Prozac or shock treatments. FMF!

  • http://twitter.com/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    ‘Morning lovely.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_O3GASQPR24R35PUNHTSJYABKYQ msfl

    i think the way she grabbed his head and kinda yanked it back was pretty terrible as well. i know kids are frustrating sometimes but i think at this age, I would just let them not eat if not hungry right then. they will be wanting something a half hour later – they can eat the dinner then.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_O3GASQPR24R35PUNHTSJYABKYQ msfl

     maybe she is a horrible cook and he just could not take any more of her crappy food

  • Anonymous

    I’m not entirely sure if that alone is child abuse. It’s wrong but I don’t think it’s child abuse. I’m getting the impression that she’s pissed at the kid’s dad and taking it out on Junior.

    Also, is she pregnant again or just fat? I can’t tell.

  • Gee

    That breaks my heart to watch her shove food down his throat. :o(   Watching her behavior just makes me think there probably is much worse going on when no one is around

  • Kimberly

    I think ,at the end, the father gave a knowing eye to the person filming? Is it possible he knew. Was he arguing  with her that she was putting too much in his mouth? I hope someone puts a stop to that bitch once and for all. She looks f-in pregnant in the video too. Just what she needs, another innocent child to torture ugggh

  • Josh

    Hi =)

  • Anonymous

    Ugh that was hard to even watch. Maybe it doesn’t constitute as abuse yet but watching her jerk his head around and hold it in place while she shoves food down his throat makes me want to punch her in her face. So if she causes him to choke to death because he is crying and can’t swallow his food then maybe it will be abuse then…Grrr…

  • Anonymous

    Well, you got the horrible part right!

  • Josh

    If he can’t get cps to do anything, it sounds like this rest of us are willing to deal with her….

  • Prominent Prozac

    …I can tell you right now. He’s treated like that often, and worse. They have other children who she abuses as well.

    We started sharing this around in the work I do, because of the CPS not giving a shit and saying he needed to be hit with a closed fist before they would do anything. They threatened to have Damien (the uncle) charged for posting it, unless it was removed. (That’s when we got a little testy). I’ve gone throughly through their facebooks and all the things they have online. She even changed her name on there because we would NOT let up.

    Apparently half of the family wants it gone because “it’s her children, and she can abuse them if she wants, it’s no ones business”.

  • http://www.dreamindemon.com Count Rackula

    ‘Morning Dollface! :-)

  • Anonymous

    Exactly.

  • Kimberly

    Good for you, Don’t let up…It is going around facebook now and they can’t arrest everyone. CPS needs to do their job for a change. Obviously she has Zero parenting ability and a complete lack of empathy. The next time we see them it will be a much worse form of abuse, I am sure… 

  • Anonymous

    Like a pickaxe ???

  • Anonymous

    Exactly!
    She is treating the baby like that because she is pissed at the guy. Aggravated and pissed at the kid, yes but she is trying to prove a point to that pathetic excuse of a father.

  • http://www.dreamindemon.com Count Rackula

    I wonder what this dumb fucking slag would do if that little boy accidentally choked and fucking died. You know this stupid bitch would never know the Heimlich maneuver, nor would she probably even be smart enough to know how to dial 911. This bitch is going to accidentally kill this child, by being a fucking thundercunt, and then we’ll all hear years later of this kid’s body being found in some rancid freezer out back on their property.

    Just give the child to me, he has dark hair like mine.

  • Anonymous

    Its a shame that a 14 year old is having to try and correct an adults way of parenting… ridiculous. 

  • Anonymous

    Thats just a shame. She is going to turn him into a picky eater and/ or anorexic.You should never force a child to eat.She does not seemed concerned he could choke to death.He could be sick or in need of a nap.I have  never forced my children to eat. I always encouraged them to try the food to see if they liked it.This woman looks like she does not miss too many meals. She was probably treated in the same manner by her mother.Dad is an asshat to sit by and watch it all take place.This woman need some parenting classes and a swift kick in the ass.I hate seeing children forced to eat food they do not like to the point of gagging. Thats child abuse in my opinion.

  • Anonymous

    Sickening!  I’d call that cruelty & abuse!   You can tell he  knows what she’s about to do to him.    I don’t care if she’s pissed at dad or not.  She’s done that to that baby many times.  Yeah, someone needs to do her the same way. The “dad” needs to give her something to choke on, too!  Let’s see how she likes it! 
      My toddler is currently going through the won’t eat phase.  I pick my parenting battles and this is not one of them.   Our pediatrician says its my job to present  him with nutritious food and its his job to eat or not eat.  A child will not starve themselves.

  • Anonymous

    Yea she is going to end up seriously hurting this child probably before anyone gets involved. I wish you could take this child it would probably be an excellent change from the world he is in now.

  • Josh

    Funny you show up under his comment…..

  • Smileypants

    That made me sick. Pretty screwed up when the only person with any kind of brains in their head about how to treat a baby comes from the 14 year old in the family. That is most definitely child abuse in my opinion. You can tell that baby is upset, the minute he was sat at that table he knew what was coming. She even hit his face at the end!! What, does CPS need, an engraved fucking invitation?? They sure jump on everything else…..He is adorable. And that hurt my heart. There’s no need for it, a kid that age would come up 15 minutes later asking for food if sh’d just back her nasty fat ass off. That’s just being a controlling, horrific, pathetic person who happen to have a uterus that works.

  • http://www.dreamindemon.com Count Rackula

    If it turned out that I was able to have a child, or if ever I am able to adopt (and I’m sure that would happen only once, if ever), I can assure you that he or she would be the most spoiled child ever. I know spoiling your kids can make them little assholes, but if I were ever given the gift of a child, I’m not sure I’d know how to say no to him or her. I’m sure that whomever I raised the child with would be forced to be the disciplinarian, I can’t even handle when a child cries after scraping their knee. It gets me all misty…

    … But so does their laughter.

  • Andy P

    That’s a real good point.  My parents used to make us sit at the table forever until we “finished our dinner.”  I always could out last them though.  Kids will eat when they are hungry.  If you just leave it and tell them that is all they can have, eventually they will eat it if they need to.  While I feel what she did was excessive and counter productive, My personal belief is that this was abusive but not legally over the line. I’m not sure what happened qualifies for the CPS definition of child abuse although her behavior is deplorable.

  • Prominent Prozac

    That’s exactly what I had said. If we don’t want to see any of these children be the next feature in something worse, something needs to be done. We started sharing it around facebook (so I know how it got there..CPS can try and charge all of us, good luck.) It’s sad/pathetic to look at their family from a step back and see the excuses they have laid out (as it always is) for why this is happening and acceptable. -It was disheartening to hear the mans broke down attempts to make her stop and yet he didn’t really do anything. I expect if Carter had choked, she would have said it was an “accident”. Here’s the uncles facebook so you can see exactly what he’s dealing with.

    https://www.facebook.com/#!/damien.caiger?sk=wall

    Direct comment from the crazy mums brother?

    “yeah i am trying to protect them from you you stupid crazy bitch every one talks about it and that video is not even bad so go fuck your self and ummm deleate me of your family list and tell damien i will drop dead when i get old and gray so fuck all you guys that are behind this stupid shit so that my sister will lose her kids fuck you”

  • http://twitter.com/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    LOL!  Hi Josh. :-)

  • Anonymous

    I have 2 toddllers. I also studied psychology. One of the 1st things they tell you is that tots are drama kings/queens & throw tantrums. They also tell you is that to prevent the behavior from repeating or to make it disappear is to treat certain things as a “no biggie”. Another thing in PARENTING in general is that: PARENTS DON’T HAVE TO WIN EVERY DAMNED FIGHT.

    WIth that said: I do NOT force my kids to eat anything. I had this “fight” with my picky daughter yesterday. She “won”. She didn’t have to eat her dinner, but she wasn’t eating dessert if she didn’t eat her chicken. She didn’t eat chicken & she didn’t get dessert. She had a choice to make (which makes her feel important & gives her a sense of control that they (and EVERYONE) desires) and I had a point to prove: Cause and EFFECT. If you do/don’t do something: here are the consequences.

    I know that this morning she is VERY hungry, so she’ll get pancakes, a banana, some juice (WHICH I SPIKE WITH VITAMINS) and more fruit if she desires.

    I also ALWAYS spike their pasta sauce with frozen blocks of red & green peppers & spinach. She’s eating those veggies in the sauce WITHOUT knowing it.

  • http://www.dreamindemon.com Count Rackula

    See, my parents always did the, “Ok, now one more big bite, and you can be excused from the table!” But they’d do it like five or six times til I was done. I was never threatened, they never even got short with me. They just tricked me. :-)

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/ASPZQGYOEUG5O7T2KQ2RUYVVWY Autumn Owens

    Thats so horrible that poor little will have eating problems the rest of his life because of his crazy mother doing this to him. Statistics show that child from poor families get abused more than wealthier ones, i noticed they lived in a trailier.

  • blubberdong

    Yeah, whatever it takes to wreck this bitch’s babymaker.

  • Josh

    I want kids. It almost happened last year too. To keep a short story short 69 chromosomes, no brain, no face and no baby. Those who don’t want kids have a lot and those who would give anything for one end up without.

  • Anonymous

    I am going with child abuse. She also seemed calm to me, though I had the sound off. Like this is how she thinks you deal with a toddler that won’t eat. I remember my brother in his high chair refusing to eat. My dad SHOVED food into his mouth and held his mouth shut like giving a dog a pill. The rage of my father and my brother’s misery are still very vivid memories. I was like 6. Still can see the light coming in the window and my mom freaking out.

    Also, this is no way to get a kid to want to eat. He’s just going to have negative associations with dinner time, mom, and food in general. His mom is an idiot.

  • Anonymous

    THUNDERCUNT! I AM TOTALLY STEALING THAT!

    *Screaming in an excited/happy manner*

  • http://www.dreamindemon.com Count Rackula

    That is absolutely devastating, I’m so sorry you had to go through that! Unfortunately, your last line couldn’t be more true.

  • Anonymous

    I forgot to say that when you force stuff on people to the point that they cry & it becomes a “fight” for your life, they BECOME TRAUMATIZED. ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY’RE IN THEIR FORMATIVE YEARS.

  • Anonymous

    Way to go for you and the childs uncle. What a stupid and pathetic family. I hope what you are doing brings some help in soon. 

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_XKMAEMPVJ5T2Y35HKYTNG7I6SY Cedric

    “even covering his mouth until he chokes”

    Bob – I will take the small green box which is labeled “CHILD ABUSE” for 25 dollars please.
    I would like to shovel some food down this bitches throat,and hold her fucking nostrils shut while I’m doing it – but I have a feeling the Bitch might like this type of food treatment,and think it was foreplay.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_5WYTW5UWWTGEKN4L2HBZ7I4E5E Zazen

    My youngest nephew got into that stage around two years and stayed there lol. He just turned six and waiting for him to finish dinner is agonizing, but no one forces food down his throat. We just wait a while and see if he’s serious about not finishing, tell him he can’t have dessert, and that’s it.

  • Terence Ng

    And yet, everyone seems to complain about CPS when they go after a parent for something anyway. Representations of CPS in the media portray them as irrational institutions limiting parents’ rights and breaking up families, at the beck and call of any brat who can draw a fake bruise.

    CPS is underfunded and susceptible to this already largely negative impression every time they act. If they investigate something that is suspected child abuse, and it ends up not being the case, people are pissed and call them useless and a waste of money, casting them as callously destroying families and turning children against their innocent parents. If they take precautions to look at more solid evidence that may indicate abuse, they’re called worthless and unconcerned about children.

    Damned if they do and damned if they don’t.

  • Anonymous

    I’m having the same issues with my 2 year old grandaughter right now.  Although, I am obviously dealing with it a lot different than these ass munchers.  I read somewhere that even if a toddler only eats a teaspoon of food at a sitting, they are eating enough.  So I usually try to bribe her with a few bites and let her go on her way.  But I always have carrots and celery cut for her to munch on.  If you really watch through the day, she really does eat a lot.  Just not all at once.  It is frustrating because you just don’t think they are getting the nutrition they need.  That said, forcing food down his throat and putting your hand over his mouth seems pretty abusive to me.  I’m really proud of the 14 year old for realizing the dangers these children are in.  I guess he needs to get a video of them getting a full beat down before CPS takes action.  How sad.

  • Anonymous

    <3 heres to hoping that you are able to have  a child or adopt one day…the world could use a few more good parents. 

  • Anonymous

    I don’t know if I’m being a horrible bitch but what I’ve started doing is only giving my daughter her 3 meals and a snack in between. If she doesn’t eat dinner she isn’t getting the snack or any other food. I’m sick of making stuff my parents make and she eats for her to refuse my attempts. She will for example get up and ask for a bagel for breakfast then after it’s made and in front of her suddenly yell “I WANT EGGS!” No. Bagel or nothing!

  • Sam

    My philosophy exactly. My 4yo was fussy over his lasagne (which i know he loves) on Sat just because he wanted attention. I told him he could eat it or not eat it, but there wouldn’t be anything else if he didn’t, and he’d have to go to bed hungry. I also told him he had until when i finished my plate (i am the slowest eater EVER), and then i’d be clearing everything away, including anything he hadn’t finished. He didn’t eat it and went to bed hungry – and i was annoyed for the rest of the evening because i’d put a lot of effort into making everything from scratch, but you’re not going to get anywhere by forcing him. The next evening he was starting to mess about again, and i told him the same thing. He thought for a moment and then started eating pretty damn quick!

    ‘People’ like this don’t deserve children. She’s not trying to lovingly make sure the babe gets enough nutrients to keep his strength up, this is all about control.

  • Anonymous

    That’s exactly what I do. My son is notoriously picky with food. Sometimes refusing to eat breakfast AND lunch and it’s been the most frustrating thing EVER. My mind has definitely thought to just “make him do it” but I never forced him. When it became a weight issue, we started “spiking” his food with vitamins, and giving him ensure. That seemed to do the trick! Lol. Totally healthy…he just HATES eating. Kids are ridiculous. My daughter on the other hand…eats everything.

  • Anonymous

    she should be ashamed. I was force fed as a kid. it will get worse once the baby is older mom will have less patience. and a 14 year old is trying to protect this baby he obviously sees stuff that we don’t. cps needs to investigate.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_V2RXCQ3LRM2C6AX4KHN47M7OD4 Jennifer

    I think it’s abuse. It could lead to his death (via choking or food being forced into his lung), it is clearly causing him distress (and not the kind of distress a kid feels when, say, his parent refuses to buy a toy for him), and it could be traumatizing him.

    Although I’d like to see the boy get taken away by CPS, I understand why they might be reluctant to do this (because of the uncertainty of whether her actions constitute abuse). But to do NOTHING is reprehensible. Surely there is a middle ground between doing nothing and taking him away? Surely they could assign this family a caseworker, arrange for unscheduled home visits, and force her to attend parenting classes?

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_XKMAEMPVJ5T2Y35HKYTNG7I6SY Cedric

    2 Shit heads had a kid – the cycle keeps spinning …

  • Anonymous

    You got to figure too, They are teething, that is enough to make anyone cranky and not wanting to eat..

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_XKMAEMPVJ5T2Y35HKYTNG7I6SY Cedric

    A bullet.

  • http://www.dreamindemon.com Count Rackula

    I would like to adopt, but in all honestly, I want to know what having another living creature growing inside of me feels like. I want to know what it feels like to have my baby kick inside me, to know what it feels like to looks into the eyes of a child that was made from only myself and one other. I know there are many children in the world without homes, and if I’m able to adopt one day, I’d love to… but I have grieved not being able to have my own child… I still grieve.

  • CT

    I have preschoolers and some days they drive me insane when it comes to dinner time.  I don’t make them eat anything – I do encourage them and sometimes even trick them to eat things – but they also learned that if they don’t eat – they WILL be hungry later and they go to bed without getting a snack.  I thought THAT was hard ass.  Yelling at your child to get them to eat means you are a total fucking moron.  If you can’t control yourself how do you expect your child to be able to control themselves and not get all worked up and be able to eat?   Way to bully your child at such a young age.  OMG, this pisses me off so fucking bad.  I couldn’t watch the whole thing.  It takes a lot to make me cry most days but this had me tearing up.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_XKMAEMPVJ5T2Y35HKYTNG7I6SY Cedric

    Morbid start posting this shit – I need to know Bitches like this are still out there;plus I just bought a new bag of stones – need more fucking targets pal.

  • Anonymous

    I’m fat now. My weight fluctuates WILDLY. I’m talking I’ve been 130 – 240 and everything in between several times in my adulthood. It’s all on me now but I believe my parents broke that mechanism that makes you know you’ve eaten what you need. I posted downthread about my dad force feeding my brother but I wasn’t allowed to leave the table until I cleared my plate. There are times I was literally gagging and dry heaving and my dad would tell me to stop acting up and finish dinner. And he made way too much food. Like two entrees, three servings of veggies, giant glass of milk, and a piece of very heavily buttered bread. ~gags~

  • CT

    I hope that people close to them figure who they are by seeing this video and teach them a few things the “hard way” – the same treatment they are giving this poor baby.

  • Anonymous

    I agree that CPS is often a scape goat for a very broken system but that can’t always be an excuse. Damned if they do and damned if they don’t doesn’t mean they never should. Despite what a lot of people think there are amazing case workers and amazing foster parents involved in CPS/DFS and as with almost every other program there will always be those who abuse the system or don’t do their jobs but you can’t just throw in the towel and give up when there are such high stakes for some of these kids.

  • Anonymous

    Lol Cedric. Your anger made my morning.

  • EveryVillainIsLemons

    Of course, when the kid dies, CPS will claim that they did everything they could.

    How come they’re overzealous in some states but apathetic in others?

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_5WYTW5UWWTGEKN4L2HBZ7I4E5E Zazen

    Truth. It’s why I shudder at the very notion of sweet potatoes and eggplant (not together, omg I’d run for the hills).

  • http://twitter.com/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    (((Josh))) My heart goes out to you and the mother. 

  • Valerie

    Nothing wrong with that, I started that with all of my kids at 4 years old. You will at least try dinner or you go to bed with no dinner. If they honestly hate a certain food I will make them something else, but i require them to at least try it. My 2 1/2 year old son isn’t at that point yet, but he isn’t a picky eater so I am hoping that never becomes an issue. I tell my children that i am ot a short order cook and this is not a restaurant, but force feeding like that is WAY over the line. That child looks way too young to even understand what’s happening to him. it’s a shame that the “mother” can do that. I think we should all force feed her a bunch of shit.

  • Terence Ng

    True. I’m not saying that CPS workers should throw in the towel. What I said isn’t a criticism of them or how they should act. It’s a criticism of the attitudes by others when these situations arise. They take precautions, everyone boos and tells them how to do their jobs, saying that even if it’s not a case of child abuse, it’s better to be safe than sorry. They take action just to be safe rather than sorry, everyone boos and tells them how to to do their jobs, saying they need to respect their privacy as parents.

    With that in mind, I think it’s justifiable to expect CPS to look for better evidence, or even one more piece of small evidence that may corroborate what’s happening in the video, which,a s pointed out, would be hard to prove as being intentional, grossly negligent, or repeated. Would I like them to check it out? Sure. I just think it’s silly the kind of duplicitous commentary you’d get if this story was about them investigating based on this kid’s video and it turned out to be a dud. The kid would be called a spoiled brat and CPS would be branded a menace. We just happen to be on the opposite side of the coin: Without better information, this kid is a struggling hero trying to help these kids and CPS is a lazy useless pile.

    If you believe that these institutions shouldn’t be free to act in grossly unregulated ways, then you’re going to have to accept that there are going to be restrictions on the circumstances with within which they may take action. It may be slower than a private citizen would take action, but that’s the natural price we pay for regulation that prevents them from acting too rashly.

  • Anonymous

    oh whatever.

  • Anonymous

    Yes, I agree with you. I understand that as a private citizen I see this and wish that they could act immediately exactly the way I want. I do understand that it doesn’t work that way however and at some point there has to be a line. I do honestly feel that with this particular case there is probably more going on and I hope that there is some evidence of that soon. But I am also wondering why they will not investigate at all with a report being made even if they feel that this particular video is not abuse. It seems that there are quite a few concerned family members that would possibly warrant enough of a reason to open an investigation even if they didn’t have enough evidence to remove the child…but idk.

  • http://www.facebook.com/debbie.tayon Debbie Tayon

    lol that sounds like me. I would tell my daughter “ok take a bite for daddy. good job now take a bite for santa. great! now take a bite for mom…..” until the bites were gone lol. But when there was a food i knew she truly did not like i didn’t serve it to her. No need for trauma and even children have the right to decide what they like and what they don’t and believe it or not my kids grew up loving many of the things they hated before and that i didn’t make them eat.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_5WYTW5UWWTGEKN4L2HBZ7I4E5E Zazen

    It’s kinda funny though. My mom is the same person who would force feed me (till I vomited sweet potatoes through my nose when I was little) but has endless patience with my nephew. Glad she learned eventually, but I wish I hadn’t been her test subject.

  • Anonymous

    I’m going to go ahead and call abuse because I give more of a shit when my dog chokes than what she gave about her child choking. 

  • Prominent Prozac

    According to Facebook..we’re all WRONG with our perception of her, apparently posting about how much you love your kids makes you a great parent despite..Well reality…

    ..Not that I promote this type of stuff..*cough*..
    https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000162102663
    (Dear old mommies facebook)

    ..I have to giggle with the fact she not only promotes teen pregnancy, but now child abuse..Now that’s a good spokes woman for condoms.

  • Anonymous

    That is TOTALLY child abuse.

  • Prominent Prozac

    That’s not funny, that’s just sad …(Okay a bit funny)

  • Anonymous

    I have a hard time saying that forcing a choking risk on your child isn’t child abuse.  I think it’s neglect, at the very least.

  • Prominent Prozac

    Sorry, Prozac won’t help that quiff.

  • Prominent Prozac

    He saw the video at the end. He knew all about it.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_5WYTW5UWWTGEKN4L2HBZ7I4E5E Zazen

    I laugh. I aimed for her.

  • Valerie

    Exactly, I learned to pick my battles. Kids will not starve themselves and as long as you are offering food they will be fine. I expect my children to at least try a new food, and if they outright refuse to eat they will go to bed without anything. As a parent, you have to pick your battles. I learned that the two fights kids will always “win” is eating and toilet training. I ws called lazy for not forcing my children to be potty trained at 2, I let them set their own pace. I talked to them about the potty and how it works, got new underwear and waited for them to want to do it. They were all potty trained within the appropriate age range (except for my 2 year old son, but he is special needs so I will continue waiting). I love my kids and they all will reach those milestones at their own pace.

  • Terence Ng

    I don’t know either. It could be more details about the complaints. I used to work on a crisis line, and at least once, CPS needed more when the details of the case involved familial complaints against a clear outsider (say, the in-law, or the ex-husband, or unmarried boyfriend) that were purely allegations or supported by unclear evidence. Maybe there’s some of that in this case? Like a long-standing disagreement between the members of this family and this individual. No idea. Obviously, a long-standing dislike may be BECAUSE the individual is abusive or problematic, but it can also be that because the individual isn’t liked, the allegations are being made or substantiated. The real tell there is either history of, say, child abuse, or strong evidence.

  • Prominent Prozac

    That’s the spirit! ;)

  • Anonymous

    I truly just want to hug you right now.  It’s so apparent from how passionately you post on here (especially in regards to children) that you are an amazing woman and you will be an amazing mother to any child. 

  • Anonymous

    Let’s see these statistics.

  • Anonymous

    You are my new hero.  You understand parenting, the best that anyone can.

    I was a picky eater growing up, and my mom would cater to me, but my dad got sick of seeing it.  One day he told me “you either eat what your mom makes, you make yourself something different, or you don’t eat.”  So starting from about the age of 13, I was cooking my own meals several times a week, and it gave me freedom to eat what I wanted (sometimes cooking the same meal 5 days in a row). Cooking is something that I still very much enjoy, and I appreciate my parents making me learn that skill!

  • Athena

    That’s been how it is in my household since day one.  Well, day one of eating solids, anyway. My husband and I look parenting classes (and did a ton of research) and everything we were told was that meals have to be structured and it’s nothing to worry about if kids skip a meal here and there.  Mina’s not quite 18mos, now, and, while I understand the frustration this mother is experiencing, I would never think of responding this way.  Experts make it very clear that this behavior will create in the child an aversion to eating.

  • Anonymous

    Good for you, for teaching your little girl that the world does not revolve around her. She may not like it now, but you’re doing her a favor. 

  • Anonymous

    This isn’t how someone treats their children in front of someone with whom they have a long-standing disagreement. This is how some people treat their kids in front of someone close to the situation. The parents in this scene are pretty nonchalant, this doesn’t seem to be too out of the ordinary to them. They don’t even think it’s odd the uncle is holding a camera up and facing them, and they would if he was an ‘outsider’.

    I don’t think this video necessarily shows “abuse”, but if someone in the house claims to have witnessed abuse, the allegations combined with this video should be more than enough to remove the child. If other family members defend the behavior in this video, they should not be considered as temporary custodians. 

  • Anonymous

    Oh sweetie, I’m so sorry…  :-(

  • Anonymous

    Have you ever considered fostering? I can tell you have so much inside of you to give, and there are a lot of kids out there who need it. Fostering can be rough, but it can also be very rewarding. 

    Just a thought. 

  • Athena

    Here’s the first source I came across.

    If you think about it, it makes sense.  Of course homes with less education and more financial stress are more prone to child abuse.  Statistics have shown that child abuse rates increase during recessions, so it seems logical that families in a permanent recession (so to speak) would see higher rates of abuse (recession contributes to abuse).  And parents with less education may not know that it’s normal for toddlers to skip meals, or the proper ways to deal with stress levels associated with parenting.

    So, while she typed like she lives in a trailer herself, she’s right about the correlation between socio-economics and child abuse.

  • http://www.dreamindemon.com Count Rackula

    I haven’t, and I think that mostly has to do with the fact that I would fall in love with this child, and then have to turn around and let someone else love him. (I would want whats best for the child, a loving home, but I fall in love with children quite easily.) I can see myself holding on and not wanting to let go. But I don’t know much about fostering, so I’m going to research it a bit now that you’ve mentioned it. I have the perfect home for it. Good idea, Deety. :-) Thank you for the kind words of encouragement!

  • http://www.facebook.com/jessilyn.vasquez Jessilyn Varney

    She needs to NEVER have a child again.. What a COW!

  • Athena

    It may have everything to do with state law.  It wasn’t until the 60s that states even passed child abuse reporting laws, and while there are federal statutes that address child abuse, they have more to do with directing resources to child protection agencies that defining child abuse itself.  I didn’t catch what state this was in, but it may be that their definition of child abuse is a weak one, which would mean the CPS’s hands would be tied.

  • Prominent Prozac

    ..Hey now, lets not name call..

    Because you know..This has taught idiots everywhere something important.

    You can stab, kick, whip, tape your child to a tree and ram a car through it, hang them upside down in the closet and starve them, you can cut off their body parts, smash them into a wall, throw them down the stairs and so much more!..As long as you don’t hit them with a closed fist…That shit’s just immoral.

  • wolfcat

    That is obviously child abuse. WTF

  • wolfcat

    The uncle should start a change.org petition and go to a bunch of anti child abuse groups and here and have people sign it and go to people in charge of DFS. They would definitely get charged with something.

  • Anonymous

    Maybe she is trying to make her kid tuff like this kid????? humor of course

    Kid Does Push Ups On Glass Bottles

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jU-Ce9orSag

  • Anonymous

    I actually had to turn away at moments, and after 3 years around here that’s sayin’ a lot. That 14 YO has more brains than mom AND dad could ever hope to have. This is clearly child abuse, and fringes on torture. 

  • Anonymous

    I actually had to turn away at moments, and after 3 years around here that’s sayin’ a lot. That 14 YO has more brains than mom AND dad could ever hope to have. This is clearly child abuse, and fringes on torture. 

  • BooBooKittyFuck

    She popped him in the mouth at one point. CPS is cool with slapping kids in the mouth when they don’t want to eat? Don’t they take kids away for a lot less nowadays? The Man In The Yellow Sweatshirt needs to grow a fucking pair and instead of saying “I told you” after the kids already choked. Shit like this is the reason trashtastic people think they can treat their children like shit and not have to pay the consequences. When CPS says “Well, she didn’t hit him with a closed fist,” that just mean shithead parents like this plumper broad will get more creative with their abuse. And it doesn’t take a closed fist to kill a child. Pathetic.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=525790051 Nadia Harris

    I have a 4 year old and a 1 year old. I know all about how frustrating it is when your kid won’t eat their meal for the 3rd time today for the 4th day in a row.. But I find it more concerning on the “wtf is sustaining you?! you haven’t eaten in like 3 days!” kind of way more than the “You’re going to eat one way or another.Even if it fucking traumatizes and/or kills you” kind of way. 
    anyone who’s had small children has probably entertained the thought of “what if I just shove the food in your face? Will you eat then?” at one point or another but we never actually DO it. You just keep telling yourself that they won’t starve themselves, they’ll eat when they get hungry. 

    Eff, my husband would punch me right in my bitch face if I ever tried to treat our children like that. 

  • Anonymous

    No offense to you and your husband, but you don’t even really need research and parenting classes to know that this is WRONG!

  • Anonymous

    She claims to have a herniated disc in her back. She smacks that kid around pretty well for such an injury… not to mention hauls her hefty ass around.

  • Prominent Prozac

    I would say her disability is in her brain damaged mind.

  • Anonymous

    Ok. Let’s take into account how often these types of things get reported in lower income families as opposed to higher income families.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_IJH2JTU37TMY7QBBKIT3EFXPRE Sue

    Dear god, I hope they get a way to get that kid removed… or else the next article we read about him might be in the obituaries. How is this not child abuse?

  • Anonymous

    This reminds me when I as younger, when I would refuse to eat. My mom only needed to yell at me in order to get me to cooperate. Sometimes when I didn’t, the food would force it’s way into my mouth but it never hurt me, nor did I choke. Never did she or any other parent I have seen, ever held my head back and force mouthfuls of food into my mouth until I choked.
    This is unacceptable, and if these this backward hillbilly actually believe this is the right way to parent then she needs to have their kids taken away. Toddlers, children in general are always going to be fussy. I don’t even have kids but surely one would know it takes A LOT of patience.

  • Anonymous

    For some reason, CPS will only do their job when a child is not at risk. They will exaggerate claims and take away children when there isn’t a reason, but they won’t do their jobs when a child is being mistreated. It fucking sucks, seriously.

  • http://www.facebook.com/jessilyn.vasquez Jessilyn Varney

    UGH… That just aggravates the hell out of me…. 

  • http://www.facebook.com/jessilyn.vasquez Jessilyn Varney

    Oh I noticed she has 2 children.. WTF???

  • Prominent Prozac

    And a step-daughter she’s apparently the worst on..No surprise looking at how she treats her son..and finds nothing wrong with it. Just imagine what she considers “bad” parenting..

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000091082048 Eddie Sparks

    lmfao ^ that shit is funny. But seriously, that is so sad about that poor baby. You can tell how upset he is. It doesn’t kill kids to skip a meal every once in a while, but they sure do die pretty quick you block their wind pipe with a chunk of food.

  • Anonymous

    Feeding kids vegetables must be the worst!

    I love veggies but I can’t imagine having to negotiate with a picky eater. I remember my mother telling me she used to put vegetables and fruit in a blender and made all of her kids drink it without telling us what it was. I guess that’s one way to avoid a battle lol

  • http://twitter.com/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    I just figured it was because the rich don’t actually raise their own children, they hire other people to do it so if the child is every abused they just fire the person and CPS never needs to get involved. <= That started out as a joke but now has a "hmmm…" feel to it. 

  • http://www.facebook.com/jessilyn.vasquez Jessilyn Varney

    WOW!! Are you serious??? WTF?? And how old is this girl? Talk about trashy and crazy!! CPS stands for CRAPPY PROTECTIVE SERVICES to me….

  • Anonymous

    4chan, find their fucking addresses please!

  • Prominent Prozac

    I never kid about child abuse…too much.

    I can’t remember right off the bat, but lets just say she’s too young to be a mother..judging by how stupid as fuck she is.

  • http://www.facebook.com/jessilyn.vasquez Jessilyn Varney

    Obviously.. it’s just sad.. Seriously I’m waiting for them to put a license on child birth.. Like you have to be a certain age and have to pass a mental test or some sort like that to have a child..

  • Prominent Prozac

    I’ve talked to my boyfriend about that.. :( And he called me a Nazi..When I first talked about that here, and people agreed..It let me know this was my kind of place.

  • http://www.facebook.com/jessilyn.vasquez Jessilyn Varney

    LOL.. my husband and I agree that too many stupid and crazy people are breeding so with that being said we agreed it would be good to have a law that makes you have a license to reproduce…

  • NY_Mommy

    It looks like dad disagrees with her shitty parenting style. Too bad he doesn’t actually do something about it.

  • Athena

    I was actually speaking in response to this: “I don’t know if I’m being a horrible bitch but what I’ve started doing is only giving my daughter her 3 meals and a snack in between. If she doesn’t eat dinner she isn’t getting the snack or any other food.”  Lots of people don’t realize that toddlers need to  eat often but that, if they miss a meal here and there, it’s nothing to freak out about.

    I would hope one didn’t require research to know that shoving food in a hysterical toddlers mouth and holding it closed is wrong. :P 

  • Athena

    Okay, let’s do.  Do you have any sources suggesting that there is under-reporting going on in higher income brackets?  In fact, I would almost wager that, if there is under-reporting going on, it’s in the lower income brackets, since the children have fewer resources and there is a general “Don’t Snitch” philosophy in most urban neighborhoods.

    Like I said, it just makes sense that households with less education and more financial stress would be more prone to abuse.  If you think you can prove otherwise, I’d love to see the research (I hate spreading misinformation more than most).  

  • http://www.facebook.com/malenda.l.mayfield Malenda L. Mayfield

    Funniest thing….the first thing I saw on this fat cunt’s wall was “Jackie is now friends with Steve Wilkos”. I hope he throws a chair at her so hard that it decapitates her. 

  • Parrot Toes

    What the Hell is wrong with CPS?  When this poor little guy ends up in the ER with broken bones or dead, once again their failed system and its’ astounding workers have missed their chance. Then what?

    I seriously want to shove my fist down her ugly ass throat and let it stay there until she dies.  This makes me sad.

  • Anonymous

    Even THAT should be common sense. I mean, jeez, is parenting really THIS hard?

  • Anonymous

    That’s where I was going with that.

    and how often lower income families are doing shady, illegal stuff and get popped for other stuff, then the abuse comes out.

    and how rich people can do what they want forever, whether it’s illegal or not.

  • Anonymous

    Damn. That kid makes a lot of fit adults look like pussies.

  • Anonymous

    I thought the same thing! If I EVER treated our kids like that, omg. My husband would beat my ass, and rightfully so. Then call the cops, CPS, the National Guard, the Army, the Marines. Buffy the Vampire Slayer. You name it.

  • Anonymous

    LMAO
    oh god. hot tea out the nose. omg. it burns!
    i needed that sinus rinse, thanks.

  • Anonymous

    Fuck that bitch! Force feeding a child is abuse. The food he was eating looked like mash potatoes but what if it was like a big chunk of meat or something that could get stuck in his throat? Is it possible for him to inhale so hard the food would actually get sucked into his lungs? CPS are so “unuseful” because they dont have the funding or even enough foster homes to put all these kids in. They can’t (or just don’t) do a damn thing until it’s too late. It’s quite sad…I feel this will get a lot of attention and outrage and something may be done but then again look at Casey Anthony…If my girls don’t eat I def don’t force feed them. I as well was a teenage mom(19 to be exact) and it’s def not a job anyone can do(same with parenting) My girls eat pretty well and aren’t 2 picky but if they dont want what I make too bad then don’t eat it. They usually eat at some point and when they tell be they are full but haven’t ate a lot I ask them to take a few more bites(I actually give them a number lol) and they are fine. I feel like I’m a good mother tho and my girls reflect that and respect me. But with this fat cow of a “mother” I can def understand if her kids are monsters. Poor babies. In the end…fuck dat ho

  • Parrot Toes

    Geez, that kid is a beast! A cutie patootie beast!

  • Anonymous

    Am i on one of your pages on fb like waca? I have been reposti g this video constantly and the info to report this bitch

  • Anonymous

    I watched mom do this to my sister who was 4 when i was bought back to live with them, i had never met her and i ate everything on my plate and would ask for seconds just to not ve punished like this, it was so scary to see at six yrs old in a new place i used to cry then get beat for crying and my poor sister ugh, i dont know why people feel this need of contr even to the point of how much a child eats, i make dinner if livy doesnt eat i offer her a yogurt but thats it, she could be having tummy troubles, teething issues, or just not be cery hungry who am i to say? And i will not purposely make something i know she hates, my mom did that out of spite, my sister was anorexic like for yrs

  • http://profiles.yahoo.com/u/BTYN5SIVHWNRENFLKYBXYNVYVE Avie

    My three year old son was present when my husband and I were watching this video and halfway through, he looked at me and said, “Scared…poor baby…”  I told him I agree and turned it off.  Even my three-year-old knows what that mom and dad were doing isn’t right.  But I’m going to have to side with CPS on this one:  it’s not abuse.

    The term “abuse” is, itself, abused.  What is abuse?  Most of it is highly subjective and concrete guidelines are needed.  I’ve been called “abusive” because I put my son in time out when he’s bad and occasionally give him a swat on the rear.  Sometimes I raise my voice at him and tell him he was bad.  (My mom feels that calling a child “bad” when they misbehave is abusive.)  Several people have indicated that I’m abusive because I’m not raising my son in the “right” religion.  If CPS got involved every time someone used the term “abuse” without having an idea of what it meant, every child would be considered “abused.”

    In this case, abuse is defined as hitting a child with a closed fist and doing things with the intention of causing harm, i.e., choking.  The mom didn’t do that.  She’s not what I’d call a good mother, that’s for sure, but she’s not abusive.  In other words, crappy parenting.

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/MYGA7T6PGKPVIAUNLV2MQFGKZU You

    I feel I must comment on this. Based on what the uncle is saying and trying to do, I do think this is a bad situation for the kid. In a different situation, without the uncle’s comments and input, if I just saw the video…

    My son was dx’d failure to thrive at 1 year old. He was severely underweight even though he ate a lot of table food and drank tons of formula and milk. The doctors told me I was lying about how much he consumed and counceled me on nutrition and feeding. I wasn’t a first time mother and argued w/ the docs that I wasn’t lying about his consumption and I know how to feed my kid. After arguing they sent us to an endocrinologist. He had me keep a food log and said his calorie intake is good but advised he just needs more than other kids. At a little over a year old I had him on a 3,000 calorie a day diet (normal at that age is 800 – 1100 calories). He fought me about eating at this point, but this was the only way he could maintain his weight (not even gain). I regularly spent over an hour every day, and still do now that he’s 3 years old, making him eat every bite of his food at each meal. It is a struggle, but this is what he needs (ended up he has a growth disorder) to maintain a low but healthy weight. Admittedly there were times when I force fed him to get him eating. It is a really hard situation for us because I know that only a few days of not making him eat everything, he loses a few pounds. At only 30 lbs, losing 3 lbs in a week is 10% of his body weight, that’s what happens and that’s a lot of weight to lose. It wears me down and I have had bad days over the past 2 years where I put food in his mouth only for him to pretend like he is choking on it. It was never malicious like this video, but if someone took a video of us on a particularly bad dinner day, I might be subject to some nasty comments. I would never swear at him though or try to make him choke on purpose.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001528421144 Breanna Grady

    If I can’t slap my husband in the mouth, force feed him resulting in choking, and verbally assault him without facing assault charges.. Then… What exactly does CPS find noncriminal about this?  A child can’t leave willingly, CPS has a obligation to look at facts– this is a crime if it were any other adult human being committing it against another adult, yet a defenseless child with no say or strength to fight off his offender, to whom he is completely dependent on, and it’s not abuse? Rightttt.

    Fail, fail, fail. 

  • Prominent Prozac

    Unfortunately, due to the nature of my general bad humor..I’m going to plead no comment (to save my own ass)

  • Anonymous

    Would somebody please kick this fat slug in the taint ?

  • shannie

     If that’s your shmoopie bubbie baby in your Av pic…omg, he or she is too cute!

  • shannie

    Just to be a bitch, and speculate my ass off…I bet she has a handy script for Vicodin or Oxy..

  • Anonymous

     “Just to be a bitch, and speculate my ass off”…

    Isn’t that kinda what we DO here, on the regular?

  • Your_Pal_Nancy

    This bitch is a piece of shit. It’s disgusting to treat your baby that way!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001528421144 Breanna Grady

    Yes, that’s my baby boy. =) Thank you, he is amazingly precious!

  • Anonymous

    Disgusting!  Dad, you should have stood up and popped that bitch!  Toddlers will eat when they’re hungry.  My girls were great eaters and would eat practically anything I offered, but my son (who is not quite 3) has ALWAYS been a picky eater.  I never force him to eat anything.  He’ll eat when he’s hungry.  What a stupid bitch!!!!

  • Anonymous

    If that would have been me…CPS would have been there right away! What in the heck is wrong with these people? This story just proves what I’ve said all along that, CPS always seems to screw with a lot of people that aren’t abusing their children. They are wasting time with good families that aren’t doin anything wrong, when they should be investigating people like this woman. I know they do this because it happened to me years ago. The reason, because I lived and later married a black man. We just happened to live in an area of WV where they still held KKK meetings and they just didn’t want us there. We even got hate mail and stuff thrown at our home.
    This story makes me so mad! There is no reason this baby should still be with this woman. No way! If a 14 year old Uncle knows and has told CPS there are worse things goin on, then I’m sure there is. Having a child is a gift from God! They should be treasured by their parents. I hate to say it but, it wouldn’t surprise me if we hear another story later on about this same child and I’m afraid that it’s gonna be to late for this baby by then. I pray I’m wrong. God please watch over this little boy and keep him from any more harm. Open the ears and eyes of the people from CPS so that this little baby doesn’t end up hurt really bad or worse dead.

  • Anonymous

    I called St. Claire? Children’s Protective Services (810) 966-2173 i
    asked what’s being done? I was told they can’t say. I gave my name,
    address and phone # as? one more person to complain that I saw this
    child being abused. Too many people think someone else will save her
    kids but it’s up to ME & YOU to pick up the phone and do it. CPS
    will help if their ass is on the line. We put their ass on the line by
    adding our names. Public outcry is powerful. Copy & post this, keep
    this front page & call.

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/AWOYU34LDXZ6ODUOPQ6AW2NJDI LisaA

    let me shove some food her throat and see how she fckn likes it! fckn fat nasty pig. I have two kids and one is a great eater will eat everything and anything. My other child is picky the same way I was growing up but she likes her few select food which I make sure to buy her. Why would  you force your child to eat if they clearly don’t like it? feed him something he likes, it’s not that serious! he is not starving!  it must be a control issue with the mother. Nasty fat domineering cruel evil pig!

  • Anonymous

    Why is it so easy for people to have children? I know its everyone’s right to have kids, but hell if you have to take a test and pass to get a drivers license shouldn’t it at least be mandatory that if you get pregnant you should have to take a parenting class. There is too much abuse going on in the world and too many kids suffering because some person gets pregnant and figures I have the right to have a kid. But they never seem to take into consideration if they are really prepared for what it takes? Money, patience, and knowledge. Just because your parents raised you a certain way doesn’t mean you should do the same to your kids. I’m sick of the excuses, I didn’t know better, my parents hit me or molested me or whatever. Well then take birth control and don’t have kids till your mature enough to get it!

    And I’m sorry but crappy parenting and child abuse are pretty much the same thing right? I mean if you’re a crappy parent then you are probably doing something wrong… like putting your kid down with insults, force feeding them, getting impatient and yelling or raising your hand to your child. Where does crappy parenting end and abuse begin? It shouldn’t be a closed fist to the face.

    You know CPS could step in earlier and just get them to learn some basic things. Like that children from the ages of 3-5 years old are ego centric and they don’t understand yet that the world doesn’t revolve around them. So they will interrupt you while you’re on the phone, they won’t pay attention to you if they are watching T.V. and so forth. As well kids don’t have to eat everything on their plate. It’s okay if they skip a meal. Also if your child is pushing your limits take a break. Go into another room for a couple of minutes and breathe and calm yourself down. You chose to have a kid now deal with it! Suck it up and be a good loving parent, read a book about parenting, take a class, ask someone for advice, just don’t go into it blindly.

  • Hayz

    Like what the dad was saying “five times his mouthful is just to much.” She is a bad mother. Has she maybe considerd that there is a reason the kid isn’t eating her crappy cooking? Child services isn’t doing their job if worse things have been going on and they won’t believe what seems to be an only witness.

  • Anonymous

    Who’s this Bi*ch? What’s her address so i can go over and shove my fist down her throat!!! This innocent child is being abused. That skank should have her parenting rights taken away. And that punk retard father should have done something to defend that child, he’s also an accomplice to neglect.

  • Anonymous

    You can just look them up online

  • Anonymous

     One of my favorite sayings!  I named a toon Thunderkunt on World of Warcraft and got reported……=( Yes,  I am a gaming nerd……blame my husband and military housewife.  ROFLMAO.

  • Anonymous

    I really had a hard time watching this video.  I know children can be grouchy or hard to deal with but that’s when you just let it be.  He will eat when he’s ready.  That father should have said SOMETHING.  I know my husband would tell me just leave him alone (not like I would ever force feed my child, let alone when he’s crying increasing the chance of choking).  Dumb bitch.  

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=742100067 Wendy Kraus-Heitmann

    How is CPS not considering this child abuse, in light of this? 
    http://www.edmontonsun.com/2011/11/11/british-mom-jailed-for-fatally-force-feeding-baby

  • http://www.facebook.com/lara.robertson76 Lara Robertson

    hmm the video apparently was disturbing enough for you tube to remove it but not enough for removal of a child in whatever state they live in. now i know kids can be stubborn and all but i would never force feed my child for risk of choking or aspiration of food into the lungs. if the girls kid brother is saying more is going on and is taking videos then id say there just may a problem that needs to be looked into!

  • http://www.dreamindemon.com/forums/ Dakota Valkyrie

    A Michigan woman is facing misdemeanor charges after authorities say they reviewed a YouTube video that showed her forcing her 2-year-old son to eat.

    Jacqueline Ann-Marie Caiger, a 21-year-old from St. Clair County’s Kimball Township, near Port Huron, was arraigned Tuesday in Sanilac County 73rd District Court in Sandusky. She’s charged with fourth-degree child abuse and domestic violence. The woman reportedly has three children, 5, 2, and 1.
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    http://detroit.cbslocal.com/2012/02/22/woman-charged-after-video-emerges-of-force-feeding-baby/