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Woman Awarded $1.4 Million In Childbirth Decapitation CaseLouisville, KY - Micheatria Donelson has been awarded over one million dollars, still a fraction of what she was asking for, after enduring a truly horrific ordeal of witnessing her premature baby decapitated during birth.

A jury decided yesterday to award Donelson the money, finding that doctors were at least somewhat at fault for what happened to her in the hospital back in 2006.

Donelson wasn’t near pregnant enough to be having a baby. According to the defense, she was only 21 weeks, although her side argued it was 24. Regardless of the time period, she found herself bleeding and in the hospital. Doctors were far from optimistic about the chances of the baby surviving.

Dr. Joseph Bilotta utilized a ‘cerclage’: a string used to keep the cervix closed and my word of the day. The defense claims it would be physically impossible to deliver a baby with the instrument in place, although Donelson’s side claimed that’s exactly why things went the way they did. Whether the cerclage was in place or not, no one argued about what happened.

“I tried to dislodge the head from being trapped. After several minutes … I felt a give.” That ‘give’ wasn’t Donelson’s baby coming out safe and sound; that ‘give’ was Donelson’s premature baby coming apart at the neck. Worse still, Donelson saw it happen: there was nothing in place to obstruct her line of sight.

Here comes the kicker, folks. I feel like I owe you the warning because even I’m having trouble with this. It’s common practice in hospitals to allow a mother to see her dead baby. I know it’s weird, and possibly a little morbid, but I get it.

What I can’t get my head around, no matter how hard I try, is what happened in this case: they sutured the head back on the body and left it with the mother to hold. I’m gonna say it again: they sutured the fucking head back onto a dead baby corpse and left it with the mother through the night.

Donelson originally asked for over $10 million to ease her suffering, which includes nightmares and PTSD. The jury did not award punitive damages and felt only Dr. Joseph Bilotta and his partner, Dr. William Koontz, were responsible for what happened. The hospital, as well as the nurses involved, were not held liable.

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  • Anonymous

    Heads….you win!

  • reapre

    That’s bullshit AND horrific! 

    No mother wants to live through that let alone ever SEE it.

    Honey, I feel for you, my heart goes out to you.  

    I really don’t know what to say besides it sounds completely like malpractice, and everyone involved should lose their licenses.  Suturing a head back on the baby and giving it to the mom?! WTF!

  • http://www.facebook.com/rachel.a.prince Rachel Ann Prince

    Oh my gosh! Oh my gosh! What the fuck! What the fuck! What the fuck! I mean is there really anything else to say?

  • Jemimabean

    I’m just- wow. For the first time on this site, I’m almost speechless.

    We are in no mood for coffee and donuts, we need strong drink.

  • Anonymous

    Poor woman. If one can still be considered being poor after a $1.4 million dollar judgement….poor woman

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002640507254 Knoxxxious

    That’s the thing though, mothers being given a stillborn baby to hold is common. The whole ‘no head’ thing is so much more circumstance than anything.

  • Gee

    This is wrong on so many levels…. I am not sure what those doctors were thinking. 

  • Gee

     I just think this was the one time they should have recommended her not to. The question is did she demand to have the baby in her arms….

  • Anonymous

    she should have gotten every single penny of what was asked…let me tell you .. i have a dear friend that had her baby at 23 wks..she is now the same age as my daughter well adjusted age..she has very little problems..some breathing in the nite type things and had to have a thickening agent put in her formula….children are surviving at a much higher rate even born so early..she was 1 lb 2 oz .. sweet little peanut

    this horrifies me

  • Anonymous

    i’m thinking maybe she did..but imagine you just saw this more than likely she was not in her right mind…i can’t imagine

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002947521627 Hilton Johnson Jr.
  • http://twitter.com/laserjesus John Allen Hildreth

    Of all the stories I’ve read here… this one dropped my jaw the most.  Holding your dead baby overnight!?  SOWING THE BABIES HEAD BACK ON?  This is almost as creepy as the movie Inside!

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_ZC6JIZM2T5A2R465TIODIJV5NY Summer

    Holy fricking cow, my face is still stuck on the wtf look.  I have had a dead baby handed to me after a still birth, one of the worst things that I have ever been through…I can’t even fathom having to do it after the head had been severed off and sewn back on..I would def be in the loony bin or Kill Bill mode, and I have been through some deep shit. Yep, my face is still stuck 

  • Anonymous

    love that face

  • Anonymous

    Definately a great Holloween story.  I wonder if the Mom had pictures with 380 sutures around the neck of her baby made so she could remember the moment?

  • http://profiles.google.com/katesadilla kate sadilla

    … What. The. Fuck. I have no words! 

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_7N6KYE5OZO7WNUYTTYEDVWOINE Marysa Nieves

    OMFG! Horrible – I’m sure no amount of $$$ will ever be able to compensate her for her loss!

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_7N6KYE5OZO7WNUYTTYEDVWOINE Marysa Nieves

    Head sewn back on or not – I probably would have wanted that time with my baby……so I don’t really see their actions as far as that is concerned as wrong, them suturing the head on was actually….kinda considerate.

    But inadvertently tying cerclage arounD baby’s neck instead of arounD the cervix that they were supposed to be trying to hold closed? Inexcusable! They should def not be allowed to deliver babies anymore if they could make such a tragic mistake.

    Were they even looking? (I’m envisioning the doc thRowing a little loop into her birth canal trying to Lasso her cervix) IDIOTS!

  • wishfulsinful

    can’t even process this story with my brain. That woman, geez… She definitely should have gotten every red cent of the amount she originally asked for. Ok, I’m gonna go drink heavily(er than usual)now.

  • Anonymous

    As a general rule the mother is allowed to see the baby for closure. I have been told that it’s something that is needed after carrying the baby for months and getting everything ready. It’s a very necessary coping mechanism. But, leaving the body there overnight? That’s a tad fucked up.

  • Anonymous

    Oh, have you seen the very creepy and very real airbrushed photos of stillborn babies online? There is a woman who will retouch your baby’s photos to give them “a blush of life”. Sadly, they come out looking fake and plastic. I really prefer the peaceful and real looking Victorian Mortuary Photos.

  • Gee

     I agree… Under normal circumstances that is recommended. Given the circumstances of Witnessing the decapitation of your baby is closure! I feel like everything after that is just traumatizing. 

  • Anonymous

    I’m pregnant and REALLY wish I hadn’t read that shit:(

  • Hekate

    Actually Reapre… after carrying a a baby in your body for up to 9 months and losing it suddenly before or during birth.. seeing and or holding that precious baby helps one accept that its gone and dealing with it… i was grateful to be given a chance to say how much i loved mine and be able to say good bye to her precious face…

    the whole reattached head tho… iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii’m not sure if i could have handled that, i dont think thats an image i would want in my mind for the rest of my days of the baby i had lost.

  • Hekate

    pour me a double neat.

  • Anonymous

    Holy. Shit. I can barely form a coherent sentence about this, what the FUCK? Im damn tempted to pull on the doctors head til I “feel a give” and then ill sew it back on and prop him up for display. 

  • Hekate

    GAH BEHE!!! you are soooo horrible!!!
    … and yet hawt in the bad boy way….

  • Jemimabean

    Jack okay?

    WTF when is Jack ever NOT okay? :P

  • Anonymous

  • Anonymous

    The way I understood it was that the cerclage made it so the cervix wouldnt open far enough for the head to get through, and they didnt realize that so they kept pulling on the baby…with no cerclage this likely would have been physically traumatic for the mother but most likely wouldnt have injured, let alone decapitated, the baby. 

  • Hekate

    this is horrible

  • Anonymous

    What is standard policy if the baby is born horribly deformed and deceased? Does the mother still get to have him or her overnight?  Does anyone know?

  • Hekate

    Jack is always ok… I brought the shot glasses and the chocolate… lets go.

  • reapre

    I think you mistook my statement.  I know the holding baby after stillborn is a common practice for the moms. 

    “” “I tried to dislodge the head from being trapped. After several minutes … I felt a give.” That ‘give’ wasn’t Donelson’s baby coming out safe and sound; that ‘give’ was Donelson’s premature baby coming apart at the neck. Worse still, Donelson saw it happen: there was nothing in place to obstruct her line of sight.”  ”"

    That parts the part that gets me.   “I was forcing it and forcing it, and then I felt it give”.  <–That's what I read.  I know a baby at 21 or 24 weeks isn't going to have a whole helluva lot of rigidity to it, or even resistance to hard pushing, but they needed to take that into account.  I see it as malpractice because the baby was decapitated.  Still born = sad but acceptable, it happens.  Premature birth and baby dying shortly after = sad but acceptable, it happens.  Baby being decapitated because doc was too rough = very sad not acceptable.

  • Anonymous

    After that trauma, I would not want to see the baby and over night?That is strange to me.I feel so bad for this lady. I wonder how many times this has acually happened

  • http://www.facebook.com/uneffectivehalo Angela Kay

    …. All i can imagine is the sound it made. Fuck.

  • Jemimabean

    Chocolate? Holy crap, this has taken on a whole new dimension for me! Go Hekate! :D

  • Enzo the Fucking Baker

    I might have to start slammin heroin, this is way fucked up.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002640507254 Knoxxxious

    Some people will stoop that low for money…terrible.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002640507254 Knoxxxious

     Your baby will be fine; my mohawk has foretold this.

  • Enzo the Fucking Baker

    I think this is so fucked up, decapitation is great when it’s some dick or twat that deserved it but I just can’t for the fuck of it find any humor or even “cool that’s gross” in this story—holy shit, she had to hold her baby (stillborn) with it’s head stiched on its body, it’s cold, blue, dead body.  I just can’t comment on this thread, man it’s so fucked up.

  • http://www.facebook.com/marissa.eddie Marissa Purcell

    ohh     my    god.  Glad I live closer to Cincinnati than I do Louisville! Poor poor woman. Thats the kind of PTSD you can never fix. With the technology available to doctors these days, and all the “advances” in medicine, things like this should NOT be happening. This sounds like some carzy as fuck third world country shit.

  • http://twitter.com/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    I wish I had a chance to hold my daughter, but due to some abnormalities they convinced me that I shouldn’t. I regret that decision. :-(

    But a reattached head? I would have had to be put in the psychiatric ward after that.

  • CT

    They left the baby with her through the night.  WTF?  Didn’t anyone come in and say something like – maybe it would be best for you to say your goodbyes and let her go.  Christ, I am not one for suing people – but there was a lot of fucking up that took place in this situation. 

  • http://twitter.com/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    Yes they do if the mothers chooses to. My daughter had some abnormalities and they would have allowed me to spend time with her but then they convinced me after they cleaned her up that I probably didn’t want to see her.

    I still wish I had though. She was mine, abnormalities and all… 

    edited due to horrible grammar

  • Anonymous

    :O

  • Anonymous

    Ahh tales from the crystal mohawk.  I have heard of you through many wise men.

  • http://profiles.google.com/coldlogic HAL 9000

    They stitched the fucking head back on and gave it to mom? THAT IS FUCKING AWESOME! This is why I read the Demon loyally every day.

  • Anonymous

    Deep inside you like that and the feel of it…..

  • Terence Ng

    I mean, but the situation is pretty clear here: If holding the child is an important tenet of the grieving process for childbirth, do you give a grieving mother the body of her decapitated dead child? Or do you reattach it to at least make the body whole?

    Morticians are in the practice of making dead bodies that have been mangled seem natural again. Very few people want an open casket that has someone’s body detached from their head. That’s clearly the decision that was made here in an already messed up situation–they had to give the body to the mother to help with the grief, and instead of giving her a head in one hand and a body in another, they put the body back together.

  • Terence Ng

    Would that have been better than a headless torso? Or just the head? I think the clear decision was to make the body presentable. Was that wrong?

    She probably would have had even more reason to sue for trauma if they handed her the body of her headless child.

  • Hekate

    agreed… and sorry about your daughter   : (

  • Hekate

    AH gotcha… if i mistook your post my apologies.. maybe i need more coffee…

  • guillotinegirl

    I’ll take a bloody Mary and instead of a paper umbrella just throw a miniature doll head in there for good measure.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_XKMAEMPVJ5T2Y35HKYTNG7I6SY Cedric

    The “circumstance” being that they ripped the babies fucking head off,and then left the mom with a little fucking Zombie/Voodoo Doll.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_XKMAEMPVJ5T2Y35HKYTNG7I6SY Cedric

    Me either … I probably would have fucking lost it, and beat those doctors asses with my placenta if I had been this lady  :(

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_XKMAEMPVJ5T2Y35HKYTNG7I6SY Cedric

     There should have been no holding in my opinion.Shit sounds right out of a fucking horror movie …

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_XKMAEMPVJ5T2Y35HKYTNG7I6SY Cedric

    Sounds pretty twisted to me … I think you are reading too deep into it … funerals an such are not in question … what is in question is the wisdom involved in handing this mother her baby right after she has just witnessed you murder it by pulling off it’s head;head re-attached or not.

  • Anonymous

    Iam sorry to hear that you went through that((((((((( angels mom))))))))))))))

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_XKMAEMPVJ5T2Y35HKYTNG7I6SY Cedric

     The doctors will probably stall on paying by filing appeals.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_XKMAEMPVJ5T2Y35HKYTNG7I6SY Cedric

    “I just can’t comment on this thread” Err … you just did.

  • http://twitter.com/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    Thank you. I’m sorry about yours as well sweetie. **mwah**

  • http://twitter.com/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    Thank you for that. :)

  • LeaveMeBe

    Calm down Ced. I am sure they didn’t just hand the baby to her with stiches and such showing like a Frankenstein’s monster. The baby was probably swaddled tightly and nothing was showing. The horror here is that the mother saw what happened when it happened. It sounds creepy from this side, but death is death and the chance to hold your child is just that, no matter the circumstances, it’s the child you just delivered from your body. Not a corpse, not a shell, not a thing. Your child. I’m also pretty sure they didn’t just say “Here you go, we’ll be back in the morning.” She was given a choice.

  • LeaveMeBe

    Alrighty you two! What’s up with drinking without me? *hic*

  • Terence Ng

    It was hinging on the idea that providing contact between mother and child is an important procedure in the grieving process. If it is, or if the doctors are told that this is procedural, then I I think making the body acceptable is the appropriate thing to do. Several commentors have mentioned that indeed, providing contact between a deceased child and the mother after a death from childbirth is supposed to happen.

    If that’s the case, then I think this was the right thing to do, to say nothing of how messed up everything else was.

    If it’s not something they are supposed to do to facilitate the grieving process, then yeah, it was not a good call at all.

  • Anonymous

    I think everybody is missing a major point here.  The whole “hold the dead baby” thing is moderately normal.
    But seeing someone pull a detached head out of you, and thus knowing there’s a headless corpse still lodged in you somewhere would be far more traumatic.  Now you have to sit there while some guy roots around in you for a presumably bleeding corpse.

  • Anonymous

    Why didn’t they remove the cerclage or perform a c-section? The section might seem extreme but 24 weekers can and have lived.

    And if you want to get really morbid (and SEVERELY depressed) there are loss boards on babycenter.com. I made the mistake of looking at them while pregnant and was so freaked I went to labor & delivery 3 times before giving birth. They were treating me like the girl that cried wolf when I was actually in labor.

  • LeaveMeBe

    I’m sorry that you and your child were put in such a position and that you had to make such a choice. xoxoxoxoxox

  • Anonymous

    Uhhh….

  • Alicia

    I just don’t understand how this doctor could’ve allowed this to happen. I mean, he’s a DOCTOR, he’s gotta know how fragile premature babies are. Why didn’t he opt to give the woman a C-Section instead? Maybe it wasn’t possible with that “cerclage” thing in place (and I’m not Googling it to see what one looks like, either) but I just know that the mental images I got while reading this article will probably haunt me for a while. It’s just so sad. $1.4 million is a slap in the face, she should’ve gotten the whole $10 million, IMO, and the “doctor” should lose his damn license.

  • UniqueMommy1984

    That is sooooooooo, soo, so wrong….

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_PKSJ42VBXNAFJLOH54Y3K4KTXU Heather Habilatory

    I’m sitting here, bawling my eyes out, and this made me laugh. I did NOT WANT TO. Damn you. I’m taking you with me to hell

  • Anonymous

    I am so horrified right now.Yes,if I lost my baby I would want to hold him or her but after something that traumatic and knowing what they did tomake him or her presentable it would have to be a short goodbye.Staying up all night with the baby would just traumatize me more.God,I may lose my lunch.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_PKSJ42VBXNAFJLOH54Y3K4KTXU Heather Habilatory

    what the?! How does this even happen? That’s so fucked up. I understand wanting to hold your stillborn child to gain some closure. But your decapitated baby? When you saw the whole thing? And then to leave it with you overnight?! Wasn’t there a nurse somewhere thinking “you know, this might not be the healthiest thing for mom right now.”??? Jeeeesus.
    I need to go hug my kids.

  • Anonymous

    This is beyond fucked up! I can’t imagine giving birth to a headless corpse…and then holding the sewn up baby all night. The person who had to reattach the head should sue, too. Unreal.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_PKSJ42VBXNAFJLOH54Y3K4KTXU Heather Habilatory

    Yeah! “we need you to sew this dead baby head back onto the dead baby body. kthx.”

    I’d quit right then and there.

  • Anonymous

    And yet, so funny.

  • http://www.facebook.com/dre.mosley Dre Mosley

    What.
    The.
    Fuck.

  • Anonymous

    I think I’d have passed out before the rooting started.

  • Hekate

    I misunderstood reapre’s post… and i wasnt questioning the stitching of the body back together.. perhaps i should have been more clear.. i knew i was miscarrying before the doctors did so in a way i had prepared myself, i was ready to see my baby… this woman was undergoing a procedure to save the baby and watched it happen.. there was no way I could have handled that so i was speaking for myself..  I’m sure LeaveMeBe is correct the baby was tightly swaddled in a blanket.  and i dont think i really care to keep commenting in this particular thread….

  • Hekate

    I brought you your own shot glass and saved you some chocolate Leave.. and Jemima brought plently of *hic!* Jack… 

  • http://truecrimereport.com iLLusionS

    With so many trivial suits I often find myself saying “people are sue happy” BUT this is a case where she IS in the right and deserved what she got and then some. Seems to me the Doctors went wrong in so many places…and also by NOT preforming a c-section gives me the sense they just assumed this baby wasn’t gonna make it so “we will yank it on through” Jeeeeesusssss….I can understand her wanting to hold the child but just a grisly thought after such circumstances..after having to see what actually happened…and then your final memory of the child that you will never see again with a head reattached is just as horrific….one of the most mind blowing things I have ever read, I must say…and also one that seemed fairly preventable.

  • Anonymous

    My friend had this place holder type girlfriend back in the day. She ended up giving birth to a still born baby and then proceded to take pictures with it not just her but her son and her mom and sister. She then posted those pics on Myspace. Later, she asked my sons mom and I to go and attend the little food get together after the funeral and I said fuck no. I thought the whole posing for pics with a dead baby thing was a bit sickening.

  • Anonymous

    Cedric to a mom even if the baby’s dead they want to see it. Touch it, tell them they love it before it goes away. It’s the only moment she’ll ever have because she didn’t see it grow & then she won’t see it again because of burial.

    SHE HAS TO DOLD IT ONE FIRST & LAST TIME. No matter if they are dead. Even with sutures that’s not what she was looking at the most. She was probably looking at his/her face. To see who they looked like, their hands, feet, mouth.

    What’s creepy is the whole LEAVING IT OVER NIGHT.

  • Anonymous

    I hope she has been able to have children & that the little angel unfortunatedly left mommy something great, the financial burden is off her shoulders (unless she becomes a crackhead which I’d totally understand unless she gets preggers again then she’s in my shit list) so her/his brothers & sisters can have mommy with them & she can be a stay at home mom.

    I would’ve seen that shit. I would still be sitting on my ass counting to potato in the loony bin.

  • Anonymous

       You know whats really sad ? Some doctors get paid to do this to unborn children everyday  … Well, minus the fact that the mother doesnt really have to witness it happen and in most cases is all for the destruction of the child. Sad, but True.

  • Anonymous

    I thought I was speechless.  But I remembered two words:  rigor mortis

  • Anonymous

     The cerclage that was used,looks like a piece of string. It’s not some scary baby- beheading device.
    I also wonder if the fetus would have been viable at such an early age. I’ve heard of some preemie’s making it, but I’ll guess we’ll never know.

  • Anonymous

    You know when it’s NOT a good idea to read dead baby stories, especially decapitations of baby stories, on D’D? When you’re pregnant.  I’m just fucking beside myself right now. And very glad I have a scheduled c-section in 19 weeks.

    This poor mother…just…OMG…I had NO idea this could even happen.  That is the singlemost disturbing thing I have EVER read on this site, and I’ve been coming here a LOOOONG time.

  • Anonymous

    Me too, AngelsMom.  Me too.

  • Anonymous

    I feel for anyone who has lost their baby.  It’s the worst thing I can imagine.
     

  • Anonymous

    Eeep.  That was graphic.  I’m gonna go puke now.

  • Anonymous

    Sorry about your baby, Summer. No mother should ever have to go through that.

  • Anonymous

    Oh yes, I’ve seen those boards…I stay far far away.

  • Anonymous

    I know people do take pictures with their deceased babies…but posting them on fucking MySpace is more than a lot fuuuuuucked up.

  • Anonymous

    (Game show buzz)***BZZZZ*** sorry, we are not going into pro-life bullshit rhetoric right now. You do not get what’s behind door #3.

  • http://twitter.com/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    Congrats on your new bundle!! I love babies (though I didn’t before I had one) they are AWESOME!

    With my last pregnancy I had to take a break from D’D when I was 32 weeks pregnant. I came back when she was 2 weeks old I think. There was a story on here that hit me so hard I became concerned that the emotion from it would effect my unborn baby at the time. I’m sure that sounds silly but after losing two babies in a row I became paranoid.

    Breaks are good…babies are awesome…motherhood kicks ass and makes you want to kick ass! Congrats again!!! :-D

  • http://infowars.com Domino

    that’s the most fucked up part for me. 2006? and it finally came to an end? jesus, just write her, her fucking check. it’s the LEAST they could fucking do!

  • http://infowars.com Domino

    it’s definitely one for the books lol

  • Anonymous

    I came across a site where parents could post pictures and remember the young ones that departed so early. Being quite morbid myself I don’t think this type of thing is that bad. I mean parents can offer support with something like this. Myspace is a little too much though.

    I knew a girl on myspace who took one of those dead baby pictures and posted it as her own. Claiming she was raped and was having the baby of her rapist (she didnt know the father or some convoluted nonsense.) Anyway, having come across a site like the one I mentioned above, I saw the picture she took and at first thought that some asswipe took her pic. Turns out, the parents of the little tyke had a whole site dedicated to him. They even appeared in some of the pictures. the one that struck me the most was his mum holding him at the hospital, her expression was awful. Couldn’t imagine what she was thinking when she was holding her dead baby.
    Anyway, I showed the site to her. I would have loved to seen her ugly stupid attention whorin reaction when I showed her the true owners the baby beloonged to.People are fucking sick.

  • Anonymous

    So sorry for your loss.

    I’ve heard it is quite common for the maternity wards to take pictures of the dead child if the parents decide not to see it immediately after the still-birth for any reason. If/when they change their minds later, those pictures are then available. But if it was the medical personnel that talked you out of seeing the baby, that probably is not the case in your case…..

  • Anonymous

    That “give” would just be his ego briefly separating from his psyche.  It would just morph back into the creepy prick anyway.

  • http://twitter.com/AngelsMom0806 Angels Mom

    The only thing that they made sure was done for me was to get her footprints. I keep them in a box with her ultrasound photos.

  • shannie

    I’m so sorry for the painful loss of your baby, I’m all teared up over it for real,  just it’s I know… having a few really early miscarriages myself, and I’m talking really early, so early I didn’t even know I was pregnant (its more common than you think) and  that was tough enough, I couldn’t even imagine putting myself in your shoes and thank God you have a healthy baby now :)

  • Anonymous

    Pro-Life rhetoric ? I was just stating how things really are in our world … Not trying to start a pissing contest . 

  • Anonymous

    *wells up*

  • reapre

    Bring plenty of ‘summer’ clothes, it’s hot here.

  • Anonymous

    Woah Jesus!

  • Anonymous

    Thanks! I can see taking a break from this site later on in the pregnancy. There’s only so much fucked-uppedness a preggo can swallow.  LOL

  • Pyncky

    My daughters first child was stillborn and was only the size of a ken doll with red skin, yet she held it wrapped in a blanket and cried over it. I think it helped her to deal with the loss.

  • LeaveMeBe

    Thanks gals! Hmmmm, my own shot glass and you carry it around for me. People will start wondering if we have a problem. I’ll just drink from the bottle.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1558017941 Gwen DeMuary

    I agree.  Rubber room here I come.  Throw away the key while you are at it.  Holy SHIT!  

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1558017941 Gwen DeMuary

    I agree with you Cedric.  That is wrong.  It makes me wonder what is wrong with people today and why or how they get away with shit like that doctor or not.  WOW. 

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1558154074 Claudia-Ivette Rodriguez

    My friend’s an ob-gyn and as I was curious, I asked her about this situation. She told me this has happened to her once while she was still in medical school (abroad). The patient had been in labor for over 20 hours at a birthing center. The baby had suffocated while in the birth canal and the midwives (for lack of a better term) had pulled out the child, with similar horrific consequences. The patient was transported to the hospital for an emergency c-section. As this happened abroad, the hospital refused to allow the mother to see the remains.

    It messed up my friend quite a bit. She still tears up when talking about it. :/

  • malq

    It almost doesn’t make sense the head came off unless there was a clean jerk.
    Even a newborn has tendons and connections. Even if he heard a pop, There is skin that has to be torn.
    It’s not rice paper.
     I mean wow was this his first birth? Its like over- tightening a bolt till it snaps. Everyone has some kind of sixth sense it’s too much force.

  • Miao Yu

    This is the stuff of nightmares. That poor woman!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=736546181 Michael Heldman

    Wait, you’re making it sound like a good thing.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ash.suzanne1 Ashlea Suzanne

    it doesnt matter how many weeks the child was she 21 or 24 weeks no mother should ever have to go through something like that i had my daughter when i was 28 weeks and i would never want to see that ever happen its a memory that will be with you forever

  • http://www.facebook.com/niggratta Pablo Hughes

    sounds like something out of fucking dethklok