Man Pleads Guilty to Molesting Toddler Whose Bikini Excited Him

Those damn Disney character prints on kids’ clothing gets ‘em everytime. Another reason why I don’t think little girls need to wear bikinis.

Hes using it as a bullshit excuse, and its obviously working. If only the girl wasnt wearing a bikini…he wouldnt have been a sick fuck afterall. Nope her attire turned him into that animal, just like a womans short skirt turns an ordinary man into a rapist. *eyeroll*

meat cleaver and battery acid… lolz awesome, Knoxx!!!

It’s hard to avoid getting a stiffy when confronted by rainbow prints with glitter and unicorns.

 you hit the nail on the head Knoxxxious with the “allegedly” bullshit our country has today.

” A federal appeals court on Tuesday will consider how much authority
prison officials have in forcibly medicating Jared Loughner, the Arizona
man accused of killing six people and wounding 13 others, including
Rep. Gabrielle Giffords, during a January shooting rampage.” 

he is “accused” of killing.  BULLSHIT.  he did it.  there is not one chance he is not guilty but we have to protect his mother fucking rights and it pisses me off.  -sorry this was out of the context of the article but I just read it and needed to vent. 

It happens. I understand your perspective. For better or worse, though, there are lines that need to be considered when publishing anything. It’s good when they admit to it, keeps me from having to strategically add more words so someone doesn’t sue the mohawk off of me.

I agree, he sure does not look like he is only 25.His gf is probably a backwood hillbilly meth-head too. A match made in heaven.I wonder what his defense was? She was almost fur(four) so then its should be ok.GRRRR!

I totally agree with you that it is in no way an excuse. However, I also think that some people are sexualizing their kids way to early. I am not a parent so take my thoughts with a grain of salt. Knowing full well that there are “those sorts of people” out there is it OK for your child to present themselves in a sugestive way? Now to a normal healthy adult a three year old in a bikini at the beach or a middle school girl in a bikini at a car wash is not suggestive, but we aren’t talking about normal people. I will reiterate that it is never ever the victums fault, but there is a degree of personal responsabilty that people have to take. Example, If I go out at night clubbing I make sure I’m with friends and I don’t take drinks from strangers. I do those things because I know that there are bad people out there and it’s my responsability to protect myself. It’s no different then carrying a mugging wallet or carrying pepper spray. It’s simply acknowledging the fact fact that sometimes bad shit happens and you need to be prepared. I’m really interested in hearing what some parents have to say about kids in sexy clothes.

http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001353731340&sk=wall  – ASSbell’s facebook
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000638451330&sk=wall - his fiancee

My kid is 2, and if she wants to run around butt naked, that’s just fine with me. A bikini is fine too, if we’re going swimming.  No one in their right mind finds little kids sexually attractive, and I’m not going to throw a burka on my kid just because some sick fuck might be out there. (Not that it would matter, then it could happen just because she was female.) The parents and kids don’t have an culpability as far as this goes. Normal people don’t consider that someone is going to find their toddler sexually attractive because that’s just wrong, and horrible, and doesn’t even cross normal people’s minds.  

I feel a separate bikini top serves only to highlight a woman’s breasts, and that seems inappropriate for children or young teens. More appropriate for a child to run around topless than drawing attention to their ‘breasts’, IMO.

Why would you publicly post a three year old sexual abuse victim’s picture and info!? What the fuck is wrong with you?!? Be a fucking person, for fuck’s sake, give this girl her privacy!

You could have said this in a non-asshole way.

OOPS! I didn’t mean to hit like, I meant to hit reply, so please disregard that like.

Any whoo~ I am a normal person with a gorgeous daughter. She is 7 and tall and thin and could pass as 12 or 13. Just flat chested. We have a pool that is private and she is allowed to wear a tankini in it, but she isn’t allowed in the side or front yard in it. And yes, I do worry that sickos will find her sexually attractive in it, and I worried when she was 2 when I bought her first suit. It is just this day and age that you are being irresponsible as a parent to not consider it.

And my daughter also isn’t allowed to walk past our neighbors yard by herself, while her little friend walks 6 houses down in a TEENY TINY bikini, to play with her in our pool. We commonly see her nipples in the clothes she wears. My husband refuses to swim with her or her teen age sister who dresses in a string bikini at 14. And yes, I think they are asking for it. Will I be devastated? Of course! Will I tell them they were asking for it? Of course not. Will I blame the Pedo? Damn straight!

BTW, you are on Dreamin’ Demon!!! You still can’t seriously see someone finding your 2 year old sexually attractive in a bikini?

EXACTLY!!! Thank you!!!

Am I the ONLY person here who has noticed that this guy has the “creep double- zinger” of genetic misfortunes: the bulging brow AND the weak chin of the inbred. Add a big dollop of perverted-ness and you’ll find a person whose parents are siblings, guaranteed!

Naw, she prolly came on to him.  Swishing her little hips and running her pink tongue over her Tootsie Pop.  That and the sexy bikini was just too much for a red-blooded man to deal with.

Please let someone eat his face off or pour boiling bleach up his ass.  It is sick to even think of that ugly piece of shit having sex with a goat, let alone a little girl.

I decided to wait all day to post my response to this, thinking that I should give some time to calm down before I jumped on my soap box.  This issue is something I feel very strong about. I am a mother, but thank GOD I don’t have a girl. (I’d shave her head and hide her in the closet til she was 30! lol ) 
I have always been very vocal about my disapproval of any parent that allows their daughter to dress in a way that is not age appropriate. Little girls in bikini’s make me very angry. Why tempt fate? You know there are sick people out there, so you dangle your daughter out there for them to see? I just don’t see why any parent would want to do that. To me. My job as a parent is to protect my child from people like that. And allowing her out in public like that… seems counterproductive to that.Yes, I have said,  very loudly at pools, water parks and beaches…. “What parent would allow their child to walk around looking like an adult?!” “This sickens me!”  etc. etc. and surprise, surprise. Not one person has ever said that’s MY child. Probably because the same parent that would allow there baby out in sexually suggestive clothing, probably isn’t keeping that close of on eye on her either. I find it HIGHLY irresponsible as a parent.
Don’t get me wrong I feel horrible for this little girl. I hope the guy gets his ass handed to him in prison.
I just can NOT agree with the clothing issue.

YuCK!!!
That is just so icky on so many levels. How a 3 year old baby running around in a swimsuit can excite anyone is beyond me! I feel dirty just reading the damn article. 

We pretty much prefer the asshole way around here.  Posting info about anyone other than a perp is a sure way to get the asshole treatment.

This fucker needs a pickaxe between the eyes.  The “she was asking for it; look how she was dressed” excuse doesn’t work at ANY age, but especially not for a toddler.  Bullet to the brainpan. Wash hands. Dry.  His face reminds me of when I would play with dolls as a kid.  If you squeeze a knock off brand Ken’s rubber head the right way, it makes his face cave in a bit. Ta-dah!  You get that fuckin’ guy.

This thread has got me thinking, though. (Always a bad thing.) My father only bought bikinis for me until I was a third grader.  At that point I’d gotten fat, and my dad hates fat people more than terrorists so I had to cover that shit up.  Also, I’d gotten sick of my brother guerilla nabbing my top every time I got in the water, so I was fairly relieved to move to the one piece.  The second bathing suit that I remember having was actually a pretty revealing string bikini, and I remember that it bothered my mother, but she let me wear it anyway.  I was in kindergarten at the time, and I didn’t know what the fuss was about.  Looking back on it now, I don’t think they were appropriate.  I’ve seen “tankini” style two piece suits for little girls that are cute and innocuous, but I don’t think something that actually qualifies as a true “bikini” should be on young kids.  I do think we overly sexualize children in our society.

All that said, it really has nothing to do with this story.  I don’t care if that kid was wearing a G-String and pasties (well, I would care, but I digress… again), this inbred cesspool should never be allowed near children again. He’d have molested a child eventually if he molested this kid, whether that baby was wearing a burqa, a sun dress or a tube top.

Sorry But, I think your a little over the top.It sounds to me that you feel that woman, all woman no matter what age is asking for it, no matter how they dress., This takes total responsability off of any mans shoulders.A child wearing a bikini derserves to be rape because in your eyes a bikini is too suggestive.? Give me a break! Now Iam not saying little girls should be running around in thong panties and a push-up bra .Is attire the first thing that runs through your head, when you hear of someone being raped or molested?Iam sorry but I refuse to wear a berka so some fucktard pervert out there who can’t or won’t control himself won’t be tempted.I see nothing wrong with a child wearing a bikini.I see you have a woman wearing a bikini in your avatar hmmm? Sexually suggestive?A person can be raped no matter what they are wearing, males included. Personaly Iam glad you don’t have a daughter,as you suggested she would get her head shaved and put in a closet.I know you were partially joking about that , but still.Maybe you choose to live in a box, but I don’t I would like to hear from the males on this site and get their perspective on this.

I suppose what I said could be considered “over the top”  But. I don’t know where you get the idea that I think they are asking for it at any age…. (see my pic.. yea me. string bikini.) I am an adult. I can defend myself. I understand what it means if a man asks me to “swim” with him. A child does not. A child does not understand sexual advances. I think it is our job as parents to protect them, I (personally) don’t think that putting your child in something sexually suggestive is good parenting. I am sorry that you disagree. I never mentioned the need to completely cover up. Simply that age appropriate attire is something I think is smart…. far as the comment about “shaving her head and putting her in the closet” that my dear, is called sarcasm. I may not have a daughter, but I do have a baby sister. If my parents had put her in a bikini I would have told them the same thing. That it is inappropriate. Nowhere did I say you couldn’t have your opinion. I just can’t agree with that.  

The way a person is dressed is NEVER the reason for their victimization (unless they’re rockin’ a KKK hood or something, but I digress).  That said, some things just aren’t appropriate.  I believe bikinis, thongs, sweat pants that say “Juicy” across the bottom, etc., for minor children are just not appropriate.

There’s an old saying my husband is very fond of when provocative female attire is brought up.  ”If you dress like a cop, someone might as you for help.”  The fact is, the way we dress attracts a particular kind of attention.  Women who wear minimal and suggestive clothing will draw the attention of men just like young men who sag their jeans will draw the attention of police just like people who dress like clowns will draw the attention of kids.  That’s just the way it is.  It’s not unreasonable to extend this logic to the way kids dress.  

Granted, I would never say that this child’s attire provoked this sick fuck, nor can we say that this wouldn’t have happened had she been dressed differently.  But why take the chance?  If your kid is at a public pool with a lurking pedophile, that bikini could very well be the factor that causes the chimo to lean toward one kid over another.  A child has their entire life to wear a fucking bikini.  They’re not SOOOO adorable that we need to start them young.

That is, taking away the resposibilty from men.So when little boys are being raped, what the hell were they wearing that attracted someone to rape them? I don’t give a shit if the woman was completely naked. That does not give anyone the right to rape her…period! As for your skin tight jeans If they can’t be pulled off as you say, they can be cut off with a knife.Rapist don’t need an accuse to rape,But your bound and determined to keep giving them one.Of course you blame the parents for the childs rape, it could not possibly be the pedophiles fault.*rolls eyes*

i really don’t see the difference between a bikini and a one piece at that age. they’re both skin tight, and expose the same things. little girls are built like boys … and a lot of men who are straight molest young boys too, not because they’re gay but because they’re pedophiles … should we make all little boys wear shirts to protect them from the pedophiles? not to mention pedo’s go after fully clothed girls and boys … they’re really only waiting for one thing, and that’s an opportunity.

i see this guys excuse not truly as a reason as to why this happened but as a way of pushing it off on to someone else, as if it could have been prevented with more material on her body.

Exactly, he’s allowing someone else to take responsibility for the fact that he’s a pervert! Recently in South Africa there was the “mini- skirt- taxi- rape” issue where a bunch of deranged thugs- WHOOPS!- I mean taxi drivers attacked and raped a woman because she was “provocatively dressed” in a mini- skirt, and therefore simply GAGGING for it, you know? But the weird thing is that South Africa has the highest incidence of rape globally (and it’s a pretty small country) with a large portion of the victims being babies and toddlers (wearing them sexy shitty diapers, no doubt driving the men wild!) and elderly women (also wearing those sexy shitty diapers! Hubba- hubba.) So while I do feel that the onus is on us as parents to shield our children, some people are sick, plain and simple, and need to be removed from the face of the Earth before they hurt anyone else, because “re-education” and “rehabilitation” for sex offenders is a crock of shit designed to make perv’s families feel a bit better.

It’s all a matter of opinion when it comes to clothes. I never said that if the child was clothed differently this wouldn’t have happened. Sick people will do it regardless. I just don’t understand as a mom…. who would want to put their child in clothing clearly designed for an adult woman? My opinion simply differs with clothing. I’m sorry I find a child in a bikini disgusting and inappropriate. Again. Just MY opinion.

I do not believe that a woman who is scantily clad, is asking to be raped. I never said that a young boy couldn’t be harmed in the same manner. Your correct it has nothing to do with what the child is wearing. But, I did say why tempt it? I just don’t see the reasoning behind putting a child in any clothing designed for adults.

And for the record. Yes. I have LOTS of pics in bikinis. I model. But when I go to a public place… no. I don’t wear a string bikini, I wear a tankini or I wear a skirted bottom. I don’t think you have to wear a burka.. don’t really know how we went from one extreme to another.

 Isn’t it amazing that in trying to get your point across you turn to insulting the poster. That shows extreme intelligence coming from you. If you also want to go around and correct peoples spelling why not just go all out and include grammar. It’s incorrect to start a sentence with the word “And” as well as using run on sentences. I believe you meant to say “If your daughter…” not “If you daughter…”.

Your point is that when women dress to entice they are asking for it or that when a parent puts their child in a bikini they should understand that some people might find that sexually enticing and therefore should not put a bikini on their child.
No one is ever asking to get raped, unless I suppose if that is their fetish but you can’t rape the willing.

Anyhoo…I don’t blame a 3 year old for what she is wearing, I blame her parents. Your words. Iam sure a 3 yearold child in a bikini is hardly dressed like a whore.Your logic is not logical.Your stooping to name calling shows a a small mind.Your skin tight jeans must be cutting off the oxygen to your brain. You are contradicting your self and when your called on it , you stoop to name calling.So STFU

So true.

First off, I was not picking on you about your bikini.I just thought it odd you would bring up a3 yearold in a bikini is sexually suggestive, while your avatar has you posing suggestively in yours.I also agree children / babies should not wear sexually suggestive clothing.I just don’t think a baby bikini is sexually suggestive.You did suggest this in your first post.This says to me you feel the child in this story wearing a bikini is the reason the pedophile molested her.Also It does not say in this story what the parents were doing. They could have been in the river with pedo and child for all we know.You also stated that your an adult and  can defend yourself. when a man ask you to swim , you know what it means?This statement was also odd to me.I guess iam naive. If one of my male friends ask me to go swimming, thats exactly what we will be doing.If a total stranger asks me, well I don’t go swimming with strangers.Have a nice day.

Okay, let me try again… This is the last time I will attempt to express my personal opinion.

I don’t see anything wrong with adults wearing bikini’s. I don’t see how myself being a 33 year old woman posing in a bikini for a modeling shoot and a 3 year old (or any youngster) wearing a bikini should be compared. I personally chose that outfit for the area I was shooting in. (I also went on to explain that I don’t dress that way in public, only in the closed arena of a photo shoot.) I am fully aware of what I am doing when I put those items on. Yes. I am aware that I am dressing in a way that is sexually suggestive to men. I don’t have a problem with that because I am an adult who can decipher sexual advances. I know when another person has sexual intent towards me. A child does not understand this. And while I agree a child theoretically should be able to wear what ever she wants… I think there is something to be said about age appropriate. Not to mention this isn’t beaver cleaverville.  Is it appropriate for me to pose in that bikini? yes. Would it be appropriate to put a child in that same suit? Absolutely not. I don’t blame the little girl. Hell, I don’t even blame the parents. I personally think that is using bad judgement. and I stated that I feel that way.

 You don’t have to agree. I never expected you to. Your right it doesn’t say what the parents were doing, I never mentioned what they were doing either. I made some statements based on personal experience, I certainly never claimed to have any inside knowledge into what happened in this case. 

Let me clear up what I meant by saying… .” I understand what it means if a man asks me to “swim” with him. A child does not. A child does not understand sexual advances.’”

This I was directing toward the case. If a man asked an adult woman to swim, and attempted this same molestation… how do you think it would have turned out? Don’t you think she would have seen it coming? But as a child, you don’t.

 I used the word  ”swim” in quotes figuring most people would understand what I meant by that without typing out all the grisly details. I apologize. 
So to reiterate. I simply find small girls wearing sexually suggestive clothing wrong. I do not blame or let the blame lay anywhere other than in the perv. 

To quote Athena: “Granted, I would never say that this child’s attire provoked this sick fuck, nor can we say that this wouldn’t have happened had she been dressed differently.  But why take the chance?  If your kid is at a public pool with a lurking pedophile, that bikini could very well be the factor that causes the chimo to lean toward one kid over another.  A child has their entire life to wear a fucking bikini.  They’re not SOOOO adorable that we need to start them young.”

This pretty much sums up what I meant. I apologize that I didn’t say it so eloquently.
*Good day to you sir!*

He’s a sick motherfucker. He would have done this no matter what the child was wearing.
There’s a fine living between being protective and being paranoid. I see so many people being paranoid on this thread. It’s sad.
We all know there are men who rape full grown women. Should full grown women never wear a bikini because a rapist might get turned on and assault them?

It’s like saying you’re never going to buy a house because it MIGHT burn down. It’s stupid.

I have a 3 year old, along with a 8 year old. My 3 year old would go everywhere naked if I let her and my 8 year old is already trying to dress, let say, not so 8 year oldish. I am very defensive when it comes to my kids. Maybe a little to overprotective. Anyone even looks at my kids wrong or for too long I snap into bitch mode.  No pervy fucker is ever gonna get his hands on my kids or any of their friends.  Hope this guy gets ass raped to death in prison.

It’s not entirely her opinion.  Bikinis were, in fact, created to emphasize a woman’s figure, specifically her chest.  The part about it being inappropriate for children may be just her opinion, but it’s one widely shared.  And I highly doubt it’s exclusively “because there might be a perv around”.  That’s one element, perhaps, but I would think it’s more a matter of age-appropriate boundaries.  I’m more comfortable with lipstick on than off.  If my 8 year old expresses that same preference, it’ll be tough cookies.  Not because some perv might be around, but because I believe in age-appropriate boundaries.  She won’t have pierced ears, either.  Not saying my beliefs are more valid than yours… It just is what it is.  Parents who allow their children to wear bikinis or lip gloss or whatever aren’t bad parents, they’re just different parents.

That said, your daughter’s school must have a very tolerant dress code.  (Sorry, but being a clever child once myself, your daughter’s “justification” for preferring a bikini sounds like exactly the kind of line a clever child would feed to their parent in hopes of getting their way.  That’s a compliment, BTW.  You’ve got a smart cookie… God help you.)  ;)

She was two when she told me she hated the fabric on her stomach.
And what schools do your kids go to that they need swim suits? We don’t have swim class here until freshman year.

I remember being in the 8th grade & visiting my uncle in NY. We went to the Bronx Zoo & all these little white girls walking in sandals & their bathing suits. I was like wtf? Is there like a pool or something in here or a fountain?

JGo I just saw a clip of the show Toddlers & Tiaras. One of the child/babies featured on the show was is a dress that had built in breast.WTF! that just makes me so sick.let kids be kids,thats their job.

*One of the reasons South Africa has such a high incidence of baby/toddler rape is their belief that it will cure them of AIDS..just a lil fyi..

I’m actually a white South African woman who volunteers at a haven for abandoned, raped, abused, HIV positive children, so yes, I know possess the information, thanks.

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