Morbid
11:55 am on November 6th, 2009
Kookie Lahair? Sounds like a porn star name.
Jaded
12:02 pm on November 6th, 2009
I am so changing my name to Kookie. My last name will be Crumbles.
solange822001
1:33 pm on November 6th, 2009
I didn’t listen to the 911 call, I cant bring myself to do it. But I think this child needs counseling, not jail time. This is why you don’t leave guns in the hands of children, they are not old enough to process the consequences of what they are doing. Add that to the fact this child may have been abused, and I think it’s preposterous to charge this child with murder. For god’s sake, he is only a year older than my son. My son is still a baby, he plays with his little Bakugan toys, watches Spongebob, I can’t imagine him in jail or juvi. All cases are different, but this is one where I really hope they just get this kid in a good environment and help him out as much as possible
Boughtthefarm
1:49 pm on November 6th, 2009
Maybe parents with children shouldn’t have guns?? Wonder why the mother didn’t have custody of him? I feel for the boy because no matter what….he isn’t going to rot in a prison cell because he is too young and he is going to have to live with this for the rest of his life. That is a long time. As for the 911 call, I can’t really decide. His demeanor is pretty cool and it is almost as if he didn’t really think that pulling the trigger would kill his father.
Jessiesgirl1108
2:01 pm on November 6th, 2009
It does sound as if the boy didn’t mean to kill his father. Maybe he thought the gun wasn’t loaded and was just trying to scare his father or something…hard to tell.
Uvgottabkiddin
3:43 pm on November 6th, 2009
that call broke my heart. I can barely breathe. He was begging for help, you can hear that he was panicked. In no way did he commit first degree murder. Damn it, besides the kid that was set on fire I’ve never heard something so sad….
Uvgottabkiddin
3:49 pm on November 6th, 2009
I just watched the second video.. Children’s services was contacted SEVEN times…. They didn’t find anything but it is easy to get past children’s services, I have called on my neighbor they come ask a few questions, the kids dare not say anything there are no VISABLE MARKS so off they go until someone else calls.
Boughtthefarm
4:21 pm on November 6th, 2009
No kidding about children services. I swear all they do is ask a few questions, without separating the family to see if they all tell the same story. My friends niece was raped repeatedly by her step dad and his friends from age 11 until she was 19. Children Services were called 4 different times that we know of and the assholes only made 1 visit to their house and that was after the 3rd call. A kid isn’t likely to say “yes my piece of shit step dad is raping me on a regular basis” while the bastard is standing right there.
thebooblady
11:30 pm on November 6th, 2009
The paternal uncle fought for custody if the children and lost.
http://www.newmexicodivorceblog.com/Staff/frommatt.shtml
One unfortunate aspect of life is the fact that bad things tend to happen to good people. In addition to this fact, over the years I have learned through personal experience that in life when it rains, it truly pours. Keeping these phenomenons in mind, the last month of Monica’s life has resembled a tsunami.
I had the opportunity to meet Monica during my first week at the Firm, during a NM Child Custody hearing before the Honorable Violet C. Otero. In the wake of a tragedy that left her ex-husband dead, Monica faced a new horror of having her two beautiful children stripped away by her ex-brother in law that asked the Court for full custody of her children. Lacking any basis or support, Monica’s ex-brother in law claimed that she was an unfit mother and asserted that it was in the best interests of her children to move them to a state that they have only visited a few times in their respective lives, Missouri.
As the hearing unfolded I sat bewildered by the utterly baseless claim that Monica was an unfit parent. All of the facts that were presented pointed in the opposite direction. It was glaringly apparent that Monica was a responsible, dedicated and loving mother. As a direct result of this fact, the opposing counsel was unable to articulate a single reason why Monica was an unfit mother.
During the hearing, Monica was eventually called to the witness’ stand in order to tell her side of the story. As Monica was questioned by both attorneys, two facts became instantly apparent: 1) it would be a miscarriage of justice to give custody of the children to Monica’s ex-brother in law, and 2) the opposing counsel was being out-lawyered and dominated by Matthew Torres, an Associate at The Family Law Firm.
As the hearing drew to an end, it became exceedingly apparent to everyone in the court house that Monica was a dedicated mother that deserved full custody of her children. The emotional high water mark of the hearing is best expressed from a statement Monica made during her testimony on the witness stand when she was asked by Judge Otero if she would permit her children to visit the parents of their deceased father. In response to the questions, Monica paused for a moment to gather her thoughts and gazed up at the judge with tears in her eyes. Staring up at the judge, while attempting to maintain her composure, Monica responded…”my children have already lost one member of their family, I don’t want them to lose two more”.
Visibly moved by Monica’s response, Judge Otero took a moment to mentally digest the magnitude of the statement, and then proceeded to call a brief recess to speak with both attorneys in her private chambers.
As Judge Otero returned to her bench, Monica sat anxiously awaiting the results of the private meeting. Judge Otero sat at her bench, with an unwavering gaze aimed towards Matt Torres, Monica and me. After looking over the file on her desk, she announced that the opposing counsel had reached the decision to withdraw their case.
Tears began streaming down Monica’s cheeks as she listened to Judge Otero’s statement. With a look of joy plastered across her face, Monica waited for Judge Otero to finish her statement, and then gave Matt Torres and me a hug. With Monica’s tears falling on my shoulder, I knew that I made the right choice in my decision to become a lawyer.
In life when it rains it pours. Over the past month Monica Albear has endured enough rain to cause the Rio Grande to overflow. The rainbow is beginning to form and the clouds are clearing on Monica’s life. Monica definitely deserves some sun for a change.
Oncesilent
11:37 pm on November 6th, 2009
Absolutely Heartbreaking
lovemybabe927
2:38 pm on November 7th, 2009
Maybe parents with children shouldn’t have guns??
If parents who owned guns were more responsible and kept them locked away or hidden from children then they wouldn’t be a problem. The right to bear arms isn’t just for those without children.
If feel kind of sorry for the father though. There are so many unanswered questions that you can’t say for sure that the father was abusing the son, maybe he did nothing wrong and was just diciplining the boy and the kid went crazy. Maybe the mom is just a sick as the son and that’s why she didn’t have custody… mental illness is genetic afterall… just a theory.
defenestratethis
7:39 am on November 8th, 2009
Thank god that in this case, the kids ended up with a loving parent after all. Sounds like Monica has garnered a lot of wisdom in her time, and was smart enough not to carry any resentments with her into the courtroom.

“My children have already lost one member of their family, I wouldnt want them to lose two more
Not everybody would be able to come up with such an insight under similar circumstances. God speed this family to a stable recovery.
mopar
12:46 pm on November 8th, 2009
No justice , the brother-in-law took advantage of her. He tried to gain from her wounds. He is as much of a predator and criminal as most that are featured here. Bastard!
CassieMomma
9:51 am on November 11th, 2009
Maybe this child was being abused, but he grabbed a gun, aimed it at his father and shot. If he was abused I don’t think they should just forget about him, but I do think something needs to be done, somehow he needs to be taught about different strategies to deal with anger. What I’m just not sure yet.

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