22-year-old Michael Schneider admitted that he abused a Lamesa toddler in 2006. This week, he pleaded guilty to a first degree felony of injury to a child.

He still faces charges in Lubbock for a similar case this past March, where he sent an infant to intensive care.

http://www.kcbd.com/Global/story.asp?S=11495200

Oh, and to the sister:

Just be careful, everything you say now God will remind you of on YOUR judgement day and it also effects the families of all involved.

however when not if but when this happens i wont get into another relationship. Its not fair to the girls at least not right away. Maybe in a few years,

I’ve single friends that date successfully. It can be done. The difference with them is, they don’t bring their latest anywhere around their kids, feeling that the stability kids like and need in relationships isn’t really compatible with boyfriends coming long enough for the kids to feel a bond, and then going again. The close friend I have didn’t bring her boyfriend into her kids lives until they’d been together more than a year and there had been serious talk about making the relationship permanent. Only then did her kids begin to develop a relationship with her new man as they all slowly felt out what it might be to be one family.

LeeMouse said a lot – I’d like to say that women aren’t necessarily serious about someone they have sex with. Come on, my past partners are in the double digits, but I’ve been serious about exactly 3 of them. It doesn’t make me a bad person And many of these relaionships women have so near the birth of their child actually began during the pregancy, not post-partum. But yeah, many parents aren’t ready to reprioritize the relationships in their life and make the same poor decisions repeatedly. There are some people I advocate abortion for. It’s elitist, I know. I just don’t care.

Oh, I agree 100% that having sex just for sex’s sake doesn’t make you a bad person, male or female. Sex is hella fun, and I heartily recommend that every boff it up as often as possible. Just, you know, with birth control (which is really pretty effective if used correctly). And keep the partners out of your kids’ lives.

I guess it had never occurred to me that some of these relationships started during the pregnancy. Huh. For me personally, I think I’d want to wait at least until the product of one penis was out before I started letting another penis in. Or I would’ve thought that it might seem, I don’t know, odd to be having sex with someone who was visibly pregnant with someone else’s child. But I guess in that situation you at least know that, hey, YOU’RE not going to get her pregnant. And again, more power to the hot stranger pregnancy sex, by all means, as long as it remains in someone’s personal sex life, not in their kids’ lives.

And now I feel old and married and a little jealous–it’s been years since I’ve been able to seriously contemplate some hot non-committed boffing. Nope, nothing but tender expressions of long-term commitment and meaningful middle-aged love goin’ on in the Mouse house. *cries a little*

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thank you So Jaded

You sound like a fantastic and dedicated mom who’s looks out for her kids. But at the same time you tell us you moved away from an extended support network to live with, marry and have another baby with a man whom you do not trust with your kids, whom you would not leave alone with a baby. He gets “frustrated” and it’s red flag enough to never leave him responsible for the children but for the oldest a handful of minutes? You have to remain vigilant in your own home, with your own husband? That there’s a real possibility he’d make it to DD without proper supervision? I’d call that a Bad Decision. Most of us would prefer to have, let alone raise, children with a partner equally invested in, committed to, and protective of the children we’re jointly raising. Maybe he treats you great, maybe he’s a good provider, maybe he was your best choice of a number of not-so-great options,and maybe it *is* youth. Maybe in 10 or 20 years he’ll have a firm handle on his temper and be a good father. But next time? (And I figure there may well be a next time given your youth and the part where you’re married, yet still single parenting,) Don’t marry a guy (or have his babies,) unless you trust him with not only your life, but your kids’ and his kids’ lives as well. It sounds like your judgement is sound enough to know when that is, anyway. Meanwhile, kudos for making the best of your situation and knowing what it takes to keep your babies safe as things stand.

I do understand your concerns. Like i said I love him, but the longer time i spend with him, the more i see the bad decision that i have made. I dont like to be controlled, im a very independent and free spirited person. We recently moved back to where i grew up after having my kidney removed. Now that i am back around my support group im starting to become who i once was. Only more mature and improved, honestly i dont see him and i being together long term. however when not if but when this happens i wont get into another relationship. Its not fair to the girls at least not right away. Maybe in a few years, Once i go to college and they are old enough to better cope with big changes. I dont plan on having anymore children any time soon. I got the best birth control to ensure this. I want to give my girls the best, They are my main focus in life. I love them wholeheartedly. A person can only put up with so much before they cannot take it anymore. Im just afraid of the outcome.

I have a hard time letting ANYONE watch my daughters. Its rare that i even let my husband watch them. I dont go out. If i leave the house i have them in tow. The only one he has actually watched is the oldest. who is turning 3 next month. thats only if im running somewhere really quick. He is the type of guy that gets frustrated. I see that as a red flag and know not to leave him alone with them. I love my husband dearly. but i WILL NOT be on a site as awesome as the dreamin demon unless i am posting comments.

You sound like a fantastic and dedicated mom who’s looks out for her kids. But at the same time you tell us you moved away from an extended support network to live with, marry and have another baby with a man whom you do not trust with your kids, whom you would not leave alone with a baby. He gets “frustrated” and it’s red flag enough to never leave him responsible for the children but for the oldest a handful of minutes? You have to remain vigilant in your own home, with your own husband? That there’s a real possibility he’d make it to DD without proper supervision? I’d call that a Bad Decision. Most of us would prefer to have, let alone raise, children with a partner equally invested in, committed to, and protective of the children we’re jointly raising. Maybe he treats you great, maybe he’s a good provider, maybe he was your best choice of a number of not-so-great options,and maybe it *is* youth. Maybe in 10 or 20 years he’ll have a firm handle on his temper and be a good father. But next time? (And I figure there may well be a next time given your youth and the part where you’re married, yet still single parenting,) Don’t marry a guy (or have his babies,) unless you trust him with not only your life, but your kids’ and his kids’ lives as well. It sounds like your judgement is sound enough to know when that is, anyway. Meanwhile, kudos for making the best of your situation and knowing what it takes to keep your babies safe as things stand.

The boy’s grandfather, Bill Searles, believed his grandson was being abused and neglected. The home the child was living in was filthy and littered with dirty diapers. He was so concerned with his grandson’s safety and well-being,  he contacted CPS just one month before the 2-year-old was hospitalized. CPS visited the house just days before the child was beaten and found nothing wrong. ‘We did everything by the system to help protect these kids in the beginning through CPS,’ Bill said. Grandpa Bill now has custody of that 2-year-old child.

yeah a lot of losers out there, but non more
than CPfuckingS
Child Services FUCKS-UP again & again & again & again. No hope for abused children CPS is useless
unless it’s a middle class and up family and money to be made CPS don’t give a shit
if the Grandparent tried anything on his own he’d be in jail and CPS would testify against him. Useless piece of shit department

http://mikeschneider.org/about.htm

Related????? Two men with the same name, opposites???? I wonder if one was confused for the other????

ALSO…. how and the world do i get a picture up instead of that silly grey and white guy?

You can find the answer to that question here….

http://www.dreamindemon.com/gunshot-by-computer/#gravatar

I don’t understand how/why these women have the time to be out finding and engaging in new relationships when they are caring for newborns–and in many cases, trying to hold down a job, to boot. I barely had time to date when I was in school; how can anyone juggle a newborn and a social life? This one had a 6-month old by another man, yet was apparently already in a “serious” enough relationship to trust her new boyfriend with her baby. In another case, Mr. “Give Me Marijuana Money” assaulted a 3-month old that his “girlfriend” had by a different man. Three months after giving birth, and already in a relationship with another man? A lot of strong, committed marriages are sorely tested by the demands of caring for a newborn; how can a brand-new relationship possibly work out? Maybe I’m old-fashioned…but if you haven’t been able to make a relationship work out with the FATHER OF YOUR CHILD, shouldn’t you maybe take some time to figure out what you’re doing wrong in your choice of partners before you leap into bed with someone else? If you were serious enough about the previous relationship to be having sex, then how can you possibly be over it and emotionally healthy enough to have a mature relationship with a chance in hell of working out just a few months later? I know the health of the mother’s relationships isn’t the primary point here, and really, the one who must bear the brunt of blame for the crime is the one who did the hitting…but for fuck’s sake, these women have GOT to start thinking like adults and making better choices in their lives. Even if these babies hadn’t been abused, the best-case scenario for them is still: a steady stream of deadbeat loser mama-boyfriends in and out of the door, teaching the girls that they don’t deserve a committed, long-term partner, and teaching the boys that Men Don’t Stay.

Leemouse,
There are parts of your comment that i do agree with. What really pisses me off are these really young girls that go out at 13 14 15 16 and sleep around. Then they get pregnant. So what do they do??? Imediately get on welfare and keep them babies coming. Honestly it makes me sick. Not only do they do this but they continue to go out and “serial Fuck”. These repeat offenders really make me want to slap them upside the head and ask them what they are thinking.
But my question for you is why are you stereotyping all single mothers. At 17 i was raped. By a guy i had known my entire life. Our fathers were best buds growing up. Its been a little less than a year since we got the official results. I have been with my current partner for almost 3 years. I never dated my rapest. never had any sexual contact with him before that horrible day in august. but i started talking to my current partner a month after she was born. All the while going back to school, Raising my daughter, and working 2 jobs 7 days a week. Yet i still had time to grow a relationship.
Granted it was a long distance relationship. He is related to my best friend. So i up and moved out of state. 4 states away to be with my friend and a guy i had never officially met. Craxy you might think. It WAS hard. I left everything i knew at the fragile age of 18.
Now we are MARRIED, We have a second daughter, AND im a stay at home mom. It was very difficult starting a relationship after what happend. But sometimes you have to take a chance. Good can come of bad situations.
I have a hard time letting ANYONE watch my daughters. Its rare that i even let my husband watch them. I dont go out. If i leave the house i have them in tow. The only one he has actually watched is the oldest. who is turning 3 next month. thats only if im running somewhere really quick. He is the type of guy that gets frustrated. I see that as a red flag and know not to leave him alone with them. I love my husband dearly. but i WILL NOT be on a site as awesome as the dreamin demon unless i am posting comments.
I dont see how anyone could hurt a child. i dont see how anyone could hurt another person. The guy with the creepy picture above us needs a labotomy. Who gets a thought in their head that says ” hey, im mad, there is a child here, i think im going to beat the fuck out of it.” sad sick mother fucker. HOW THE FUCK COULD YOU BEAT A TWO YEAR OLD LET ALONE A 6 MONTH OLD BABY????? WHAT THE HELL WERE YOU THINKING YOU IRRITATING WASTE OF FLESH. i would like to beat the fuck out of him. How would he feel then. an eye for an eye. he doesnt deserve to live, he doesnt deserve to breathe. I want to take a butcher knife and cut off his hands and feet. that way if they set him free this fucking cuntlicker cant beat another baby.
My heart goes out to the two children that were beaten by this demon. to the families.
dear michael and kelly, I HOPE YOU ROT IN MAGGOT INFESTED CELLS AND PARASITES EAT YOU FROM THE INSIDE OUT. I HOPE JUSTICE IS SERVED AND YOU NEVER SEE THE LIGHT OF DAY AGAIN. FUCK YOU!!!> YOUR FUCKING ENEMY