Ramon Deleon-Torres Beat The Baby
March 19, 2009 by FlamingFox
Ramon Deleon-Torres
When his girlfriend, Stephanie Hyatt, came home from work on the night of MarchMarch reviews
9, 2009, she found their 10-month old son in his crib crying. When she checked on the child, she noticed a laceration on his face. When she asked Deleon-Torres about the cut, he told her to not worry about it and asked where she had been. She said he was in bed at the time and just rolled over to go to sleep after she asked him again. Stephanie Hyatt called her mother and they took the child to the hospital for observation.
At the hospital, she contacted police and told them Deleon-Torres had a history of abusing her and even kneed her in the stomach when she was pregnant with their son. She told investigators Deleon-Torres has hit her more than 20 times and even admitted to using a lighter to burn baby Ramon on the stomach last NovemberNovember reviews. And…you stayed with him because? (Insert mind-boggling excuse here).
When police questioned Deleon-Torres, he said he beat 10-month-old Ramon because he was mad that the infant’s mother stayed out too late. He admitted to repeatedly striking his son with a belt in the face chest and legs. The child was also hit with a steel belt buckle in the back. Ramon Deleon-Torres was charged with injury to a child, which is a third-degree felony punishable by up to ten years in jail and a fine of up to $10,000 if convicted.
Stephanie Hyatt is speaking out about the incident. She told a reporter, “I don’t know what to think of him right now. He just disgusts me right now. I can’t believe he did this to his son.” Hyatt said she still wants Deleon-Torres to be apart of their son’s life. “Me and his daddy may have a relationship later. But it will be just for the kids, because I believe in they should have their mother and father with them.” Hyatt is also currently pregnant with the couple’s second child. I would congratulate her, but I think the impact of the floor just broke my jaw.
baby Ramon
Child Protective Services has granted Hyatt’s mother temporary custody of baby Ramon. I, for one, am praying that she eventually gets full custody of both children until her daughter can pull her head out of her ass and begin making responsible choices in regards to the well-being and safety of her children.
Stephanie Hyatt has a private myspace you can view here. I found it amusing that her name is GOING TO BE A PROUD MOMMY OF 2 and her status says: pregnant again what do you expect. I expect a whole lot more from you, Stephanie, like using common sense and putting your children’s safety first. I am sure baby Ramon is expecting that too. Here is a link to the video that shows pictures of baby Ramon’s face while in the hospital. It brings tears to your eyes just looking at them.
Thanks again to Special2bme who has this in our forums.
2:48 am on March 19th, 2009
I know why she hasn’t left, it’s fear. I was in a 15 year relationship with the father of my kids and during that time he beat me up, threatened the kids and threatened to tke the kids from me and kill them and that I would never know where they are buried.
I managed to leave when certian circumstances changed, I took my oppurtunity and ran. My kids were old enough to know what was going on and had lots of friends, family and the school to support them and I relied on family and support of others who were in the same situation (for me friends no longer existed, I had to cut ties with them when I was in that relationship).
I was 15 when I started my relationship with him and 30 when I finally got out (I was 17 and 18 when I had my kids) I am 36 now and am in a much better relationship with a mature, loving man who respects me and my kids.
I know that it was a long time to endure a time in my life filled with fear, unhappiness, hopelessness and the feeling that I am all alone, but sometimes there are no other options, until the opportunity arises.
5:01 am on March 19th, 2009
You know he just has that look, like I AM THE TOUGH GUY AND I AM IN CONTROL, Geez how i would like to knock the shit out of him by just the looks of him…..Ramon Rot in HELL and I will pray you die in prison
for the mom GET HELP and my god you are a horrible horrible mother and i hope they do not allow you to keep your child your carrying now, you deserve nothing good in your life either, GET HELP for yourself and then grow up and grow a set of BALLS and take charge of your life, what the fuck ?????
LADIES……If you choose to lay down and have sex WITHOUT protection, your fault, and become pregnant this is your responsibility at this point to become a mother and grow up you knew what you were doing and your full responsibility is to take care of your baby and your baby is now number one in your life, not a PENIS
6:00 am on March 19th, 2009
She shouldn’t get Ramon (baby) back if she continues with her sentimental bullshit. Sure, kids deserve to have both parents – if both parents DESERVE the kids! The “father” in this story does NOT deserve to be in the children’s lives!!! Who the FUCK burns a baby with a lighter? And who the FUCK lets him get away with it??
This has got to be one of the stupidest bitches I’ve read about recently! How much should your children suffer until you say “ENOUGH”? Do they have to DIE before you get a fucking clue??
She should not get him back and the baby she is carrying should also be raised by someone with at least a smathering of common sense! This bitch missed that train so many times… it doesn’t bother coming to the station anymore! She’s hopeless!
6:33 am on March 19th, 2009
Their is already a young g who wants to make money, move up in rank, earn some respect and dignity by killing this chomo (child molester/sex offender).
8:39 am on March 19th, 2009
This happened in my city; I saw it on the news the other night. He is the lowest piece of scum, beating on a baby like that. I hope he gets whipped in the face with a belt in prison.
It’s also fucking disgusting and infuriating that this woman continued to stay with him after he abused her infant. She should be ashamed of herself for saying that she’d allow this piece of shit around her children in the future. I couldn’t believe it when I heard her say that on the news. Sure, kids should ideally have both a mother and a father in their lives, but are they better off with a father who fucking burns them with a lighter and beats them in the face with a belt???? Come on, now! Sounds to me like someone is reluctant to put down the penis. Go out and find a man who isn’t a pussy that beats on babies. They really do exist, believe it or not.
Clearly we are not dealing with a pair of geniuses here, though. I only hope the kids somehow manage to break the cycle.
8:57 am on March 19th, 2009
Just because he is the “father” does not mean he is a good person to be around
this child.
Just because the mother made a bad choice for a mate should not doom the child to a lifetime of abuse. She is neglegent and stupid and if she allows the father further acess she is GUILTY OF CHILD ABUSE as Well.
9:08 am on March 19th, 2009
She can keep his ass. Just tie her tubes and give the children to someone who will keep them safe (plus love). She can die at his hands if she wants too.
9:10 am on March 19th, 2009
Be with him RIGHT NOW? Is she FUCKING crazy! He would NEVER see me OR the kids again!!!
9:36 am on March 19th, 2009
Nope. Just retardation. It’s one thing to stay with someone abusing you because of whatever. But once they abuse or even let on it might happen to the child that you carried for 10 months, pushed out, and are now the only source of everything, and you stay, then you are an EVEN BIGGER PIECE OF SHIT THAN THE ABUSER. sTEPHANIE, YOU STUPID CUNT. Please remove all baby making organs and such NOW!
9:37 am on March 19th, 2009
That’s not a goddam “father”. That is a fucking MONSTER. My husband is a FATHER – fathers get up in the middle of the night to change diapers, feed the baby, cuddle, read to them and PROTECT THEM FROM HARM.
That bitch is a moron. How the hell do you allow someone to care for your precious baby after he has burned him with a fucking lighter? Isn’t that pretty much the antithesis of parenting???
10:18 am on March 19th, 2009
I agree, if she wants to put her life in danger by staying with him, okay but not innocent children.
Canadian girl, I understand (kind of) what you’re saying but she has had opportunity to leave and now she’s got it again but is saying she’ll keep him in her life “for the kids”. Nobody would blame her if she left him, it’s all public knowledge now, she can get restraining orders for herself and the kids (although we all know how well a piece of paper can stop these idiots), she can keep herself and her children safe by staying away from him, calling LE if he calls or comes near, letting neighbors know if they see him to call LE. There are services that will help her relocate, far away from him, if she’s willing to cut the ties.
10:31 am on March 19th, 2009
What an idiot! Kids do not NEED both parents if one of them is beating them to a purple pulp. Yep, she is WORSE than the asshole that did the deed. I agree wholeheartedly Jadedfaded!
10:37 am on March 19th, 2009
NOT THIS PIECE OF SHIT, no child needs this loser in his life. This loser needs Bubba in his life, a long, long time.
11:28 am on March 19th, 2009
“I don’t know what to think of him right now,” Hyatt told FOX 7 News. “He just disgusts me right now. I can’t believe he did this to his son.”
Woman, let me just give it to you simple. Leave the bastard and never look back. Your children don’t need him in their lives. An abusive father absent is far better than a father that is their beating the life out of them. It won’t get better, trust me on this….LEAVE HIM! The only thing you need to think of him right now is the fact that he takes no thought in beating a baby, his son for that matter, and hitting you as you are pregnant…*F* him.
This one is here in my town, seems I’ve been hearing far more of these abuse cases in the news. Sigh….that child is beautiful, just precious. He can’t see that now, he will never see it.
Heal completely sweet Ramon away from your baby beating father.
11:32 am on March 19th, 2009
Oh she is one immature, dumbass bitch. I think one of the things about this that I found so deeply disturbing, beyond everything else, is that this motherfucker beat the baby bc he was upset with the mother???? WTF?? So it wasn’t one of these, “baby wouldn’t stop crying, parent freaked, so on and so forth” situations. That sweet little boy was probably sleeping or maybe playing or whatever and bc daddy decides he’s pissed at mommy, he jerks up baby and starts beating him. This guy is so beyond fucked up….who hurts their own sweet innocent child bc they’re mad at the other parent??? I don’t get these people *shakes head*
12:22 pm on March 19th, 2009
1:16 pm on March 19th, 2009
LOL. You guys are so clever and witty. Aside from the heartbreaks and sometimes tears that overcome me when I read these stories sometimes, it is always a pleasure to enjoy your writing.
In any event, let them all burn!! These children need to be with responsible people while the parents rot. Plain and simple.
2:58 pm on March 19th, 2009
I don’t understand why women stay with men who beat them or their children but I have never been in that type of situation. However, I would never been in that type of situation because the first time a man put a finger on me or my baby/child his ass would be out the fucking door. I hope this woman doesn’t get her children back until she leaves this man and if she is pregnant again I so hope her ass smartens up before she has the baby.
Holy shit, beating an 10 month old with a belt I have never heard such shit in my life this is an fucking out rage. I hope this FUCK HEAD gets the shit beat out of him daily from other prisoners. Bless the baby’s heart may he be loved and taken proper care with Grandma.
9:10 pm on March 19th, 2009
He’s one tough mother fucker – Isn’t he? Men who beat babies and women have a special spot reserved for them in hell. And don’t get me started on the dumb cunt of a mother. Why now?? Why this time?? She should have called the cops the very first time he put his hands on that precious little guy. Fuck her. SHe doesn’t deserve children. In fact, I vote that she should have her uterus removed STAT!
9:46 pm on March 19th, 2009
Unfuckingbelievable!
Aside from this being a sad story, I love the train comment.
11:19 pm on March 19th, 2009
This sounds like a woman who’s going back to him as soon as he’s out of prison. And then will lie to CPS about whether or not he’s around. What sort of twisted thinking can someone be experiencing to think that a person who targets a woman through his own helpless infant will ever be someone who should be intimately involved in their lives. Way to pick a psychopathic gene pool to breed with. Twice.
12:56 am on March 20th, 2009
Poor kid, he is such a little darling! That video made me ill. Just a hair higher and it looks like he might have lost his eye! Sick people, I just don’t understand
11:45 am on March 20th, 2009
I’m GLAD to see on here the kind of rage I am feeling, too..rage doesn’t even begin to describe it. There simply are no words. I just hope and pray and hope and pray that the perpetrator is tortured and then beaten to death in prison. That’s my true hope for our world. And then the dumb cunt of a “mother” – assuming the grandmother, bless her heart, is good with the children and is a mother to them – gives birth to the other child and then dies. The kids would be better off, and so would the world.
8:06 am on March 22nd, 2009
Girl, get you head out of his ass and smell the shit in your face! For the love of God, woman… this guy is headed down the road to NOWHERE!!! Hey, what you want and what you NEED TO DO are two entirely different things. Those kids need that bastard in their lives like you need another knee kick in your belly. Grow up and grow a damn spine… take care of your kids for a change!
1:19 am on March 25th, 2009
To everyone on this topic of the baby being beaten by the father. and think Stephanie is in the wrong too. I’m the grandmother of the baby. I do agree with alot of you. I hope he does get life in prison for the babies sakes and my daughters. The only problem I have is none of you know her and you don’t know what she has gone through. Let me tell you alittle about her. Her father walked out of her life at 13 (went to work and never came back). Has had to help me alot with her disable brother, making sure he didn’t get in trouble. She was sexually assault by a 32 year old when she was 16 and had to deal with being stocked by him and his family for 2 years tell they decided to put him in jail and finally trail him and gave him 1 yr in prison. Deleon-Torres was there for her after as a safety blanket. No she didn’t keep him around after he had kneed her in the stomach, but he was there when his son was born and wouldn’t leave her sight when she almost died giving birth. I wouldn’t of imaged him ever harming the baby from what I had seen as a loving father taking care of him when she worked, took him swimming, always playing with him. But I guess there was another side of him when I wasn’t around him and his son. Now on the burning of the baby she didn’t know he did it, She had thought Deleon-Torres’s mother did it and when she confronted her she left town. Stephanie did take the baby to the doctors and they couldn’t tell her how the baby got the mark. She found out like everyone else after this abuse on the baby that he had done it. Stephanie is only 19 and she works hard to give everything to her baby. Stephanie is seeking help to overcome all this and the sexual assualt too. She is working with everyone to get him convicted of what he deserves. He has been charged with two 3rd degree felonies of injury to a child now. With all my love for the baby and the mother I will not allow this man back into their lives, but she is adult and as a mother/grandmother I will protect them and if I can’t protect her because she doesn’t want it from me. I promise to all the readers I will protect my grandbabies from that monster every harming baby Ramon and the new one. I walk with pride as a grandmother of him in my arms with all my love. He is a sweet baby and he didn’t deserve this and Stephanie and her upcoming baby doesn’t either. I pray with the help from others will open her eyes and become the mother I am, strong and to overcome anything that life will hand us. Don’t condemn her pray for her instead to be a good mother and do think of babies and then herself and to never look back towards his ugly face again, but to remember what her son has gone through and what she will have to go through without him and maybe the new baby too.
1:27 am on March 25th, 2009
12:48 am on March 26th, 2009
Being a victim of domestic violence and abuse as a child is horrible and coupled with having an infant child child at home is even worse. While there is no excuse for what Ramon did to his son, it is very important that the community not ridicule or belittle Stephanie. I am not condoning the events that occurred but if we as a community want to stop child abuse and domestic violence we must help each other learn in a constructive manner, not by swearing and demoralizing another person. We do not know exactly what happen in regards to Stephanie’s knowledge of past events. What we do know is that a child was injured by his father, this father abused his mother. Stephanie may or may not have been protective of her son.
By what Stephanie has said she may not understand the seriousness of what happened to Ramon, Jr. But, if she is to understand, swearing, cussing and ridiculing will not help. Would it help you or does it just make you feel better… As a community should help those who “live in the grey,” see that there is a black and white that may have be obscured by what they have been through in the past. As for Ramon, he had been charged and we need to have faith in the court system to decide his fate.
As for Ramon, Jr., his mother and the unborn baby…
Fortunately Ramon, Jr. has a grandmother whom he knows, taking care of him. She from the previous blog appears to be protective. I am confident CPS will help Stephanie become not only a protective parent to Ramon and the unborn child but also learn to protect herself and have confidence in herself to know no man should beat her no matter what he has done for her in the past.
If you are being beaten by a boyfriend or spouse, do not think that there is no way out, for any reason, especially if you have children. The risk to the children is even higher that is to you because, not only, at times are they not able to speak but most of the time they cannot fight back. There is always a way at any time, do not wait for a time. Seek out the resources you may need, I know it may be hard and difficult but you can. You can call the police get an emergency protective order, call CPS, call the domestic violence hot line, 1-800-799-SAFE. There are shelters for abused women that can go with there kids. If you don/t want to go to a shelter, think about your kids.
2:17 am on March 26th, 2009
Nana: It’s an answer to prayers to read your post and Stephanie is most fortunate to have you as her mother and her babies Nana! I realized by watching the video of her interview, she is still in a bit of denial and shock, not wanting to believe that a father could do this to his own, out of spite. As long as she has you to support her, emotionally, she’ll come to know that she and her children will have a much better life without him in it. Thank you for being there and willing to protect all of them!
I will continue to pray for all and hope that maybe we’ll see Stephanie and her children giving a public testimony of surviving domestic violence, one day, because she had the good sense to walk away and not look back……
1:08 am on April 1st, 2009
Ok so i am stephanie and i can see that yall are talking alot of shit that yall have real info on so let me just explain alittle about ramon ya he has done alot of shit in his life that needs to change and i am not deffending him it just that i believe you should know where he comes from i think he should be in jail for a long time to think about what he did and hopefully it will change him. His parents beat him when he was little and burned him so thats all he knows he was a great father to jr he cuddled with him he put him to bed and he did everything a daddy should for his son he is a jealous man. he gets it because his parents slept with everyone and there was no trust in his family. I know what it all looks like and he did hit me alot because his dad beat his mom and still to this day they beat the other 3 children that still live at home for nuthing the just get the thrill of beating there kids they have a 15 yr old girl a 6 yr old boy and a 5 month old girl that have to go through what ramon had to yall dont understand they burned him everywhere they tied him to chair and beat him when he was a year old until he got to get out of the house and live with me. ramon and his siblings all have mental issuses that need to be helped because they will all turned out to be like ramon. so i know talking shit looks to be nice and all that calms your nerves you need to look at the back ground of it all first when i was with him ya he hit me but i could never see him do wat he did ever. jr was his life and now he will never know his new son because he will be locked up for what he did and my boys may never see him but they will always be reminded of there father and all the good things about him. and not have to worry about there relatives on that side because they have buntly told me they dont want anything to do with me or my kids and that is the best news that i have ever gotten cuz i hate them and blame them for all of this and by the way just so you all know ramon may have said that he had burned jr but i know he didnt do it because he was with me that day and his mom was taking care of jr. so when it all come down to it he just said he did it to save his moms ass. which really pisses me off because she should have her kids taken away and be sitting right next to her so rotting in jail. and i should have my boys because everything i do is for them i work 40 to 50 hours a week to just pay my bills get jr what he wants and needs and dont even worry about myself its my boys first then me so for all yall who said i dont deserve my kids kiss my ass i have been out on my own and taking care of my son me and ramon for the past 3 yrs so i am capable of takeing care of my 2 boys and raising them by myself and still be the best mommy i can be at the age i am at now and forever
9:23 am on April 2nd, 2009
It won’t. At least, not for the better.
Ok – first – this isn’t “texting” — so please use PERIODS!
Next, NOT defending? Seriously? You just gave every excuse in the friggen world for this “man”!! WAKE UP!! He beat your baby boy with a belt!!!
He is blaming his mother? Are you buying that??
I’m sorry Stephanie. But with all you’ve written here – I am more convinced than ever that you do NOT need to be raising your children.
9:30 am on April 2nd, 2009
Hmmm, Austin PD and CPS….I wonder if they’d like to see what you’ve written here. The guy admitted to it and here you are stating that ‘you know he didn’t do it’. WTF…..way to put your kids first. Where are all these ladies finding these magical penises that make them choose them over their own flesh and blood?
9:33 am on April 2nd, 2009
Blah, blah, blah Stephanie. Are you serious? You are all over the place, first he disgusts you, then he’s been through a lot, etc. Obviously he has mental issues, a normal person wouldn’t do something like that. What concerns me is that you feel he can be rehabilitated and just go on in life, it’s not going to happen. Stay as far away from him as you can and since you don’t seem to understand that, your children are in danger, therefore making you a bad Mom for not protecting them.
9:34 am on April 2nd, 2009
I agree with Zibarro.
Stephanie, you say that his mom did this? If you know what type of people his parents are then why the hell was your child being watched by them?! If I knew someone was that way I would never let my child around them (even if I was there), let alone leave my child with them! I can’t believe you guys haven’t called the cops on them for abusing their children that remain in the home. You know their children are being abused and you don’t do anything about it?
If you do get your children back I would hope that you would protect them with every ounce of your being and never allow them around monsters!
10:59 am on April 2nd, 2009
Ugh. This was so hard to read.
What needs to happen for you to stop making excuses for him? You are lucky your kid is still alive. Next time, you might not be so lucky. I really hope that doesn’t happen.
If your kids grow up with this, they might start to think this is ok. You can break the cycle.
11:03 am on April 2nd, 2009
Well all that makes it perfectly OK that the baby got beat… perfectly understandable and excusable. NOT!!! You can justify it in your minds all you want but it still does not make acceptable.
You don’t even need to love a child to want to protect it… but to NOT protect a child you love is no kind of love at all. Protecting yourself is protecting your children. You are all they have.
1:07 pm on April 2nd, 2009
Once I waded through that unpunctuated, misspelled jumble of words, I realized, that there are still children in that house that is suppossedly so abusive. If you know this sort of abuse is going on, why don’t you call CPS and save those poor children? They don’t deserve this anymore than Ramon did when he was a child. Whether he deserves it now, is another story (IMO, he does, tie him to a chair and burn him all you want)
If you knew these people were abusive, why would you ever leave your son alone with them anyways, especially since you are so adamant that his mother burned your child? Why didn’t you report them then?
As a mother, your first priority is to take care of you child. I hope and pray that once he is released from jail, you have nothing to do with him, contrary to this statement.
When Daddy is an abusive man, who almost kills his offspring, he does not need to be apart of his life.
By the way, my husband calls bullshit on the “he was abused as a child, so he has to abusive now” My husband grew up watching is mother get beaten daily, he was put through walls, and bloodied fairly often, and he has NEVER, not once, raised a hand to me, or our daughter. Abuse does play a small part, but a real man knows that it is a choice you make, whether you beat your wife and children, or if you rise above your upbringing, and act like a real father. Ramon made the wrong choice, therefore, he should NEVER be allowed back into you and your childrens’ lives.
1:10 pm on April 2nd, 2009
Stephanie, wake up and smell the coffee! “this is all he knows” but you also said how he cuddled and took care of the baby. So he either learned from his parents and chose to take the high road or he didn’t and guess what – he didn’t! He can blame his upbringing all he wants but he is old enough to know right from wrong.
Nana – you said Stephanie didn’t know about the burn until after he was arrested? The story reads that she called LE and told them about all the past abuses, including the burning. Did he call her from jail and tell her?
If his parents are still abusing children and you are aware of it Stephanie, you are enabling them to continue. Please call LE and report them to save the lives of these children. How can you allow them to continue hurting children?
1:27 pm on April 2nd, 2009
I agree with you sanity. My husband grew up with a very abusive mother, she had beaten his father many times before he left shortly after my husband was born. She was mentally and physically abusive to both of her sons and she wonders why they barely acknowledge her. She has aliented all of her relatives throughout the years. When we got married, my H told me that if we had kids, she would never be allowed to watch them. Well, my boys are 7 and she’s never once watched them. She keeps asking and even had a friend ask me a few years ago – not a chance. Luckily I don’t even have to be confrontational about it (she has no idea I know about the abuse). She’s always boo-hooing about her ill health so I just use that to my advantage.
My husband and his brother are both very passive, which they got from their father. Neither would raise a hand to their wives or children, so they took the life of abuse that they grew up in and chose not to do the same to their families. Stephanie, if he wanted to he could break the cycle, he chose not to.
I incorrectly said that Stephanie called the police after he was arrested in my earlier post, she called LE from the hospital and told them of the abuse, including the burn. This is why I question Nana’s comment that she didn’t know until afterwards.
2:27 pm on April 2nd, 2009
Because of all the conflicting (MUCH) stories from all sides, it is best to have a court decide based upon facts and evidence. To the mom and grandmother: so many people come in here defending the criminals; making excuses for them as to why they do what they do. To think we’re a bunch of candy-asses who sit on our fat butts eating bon-bons while we get a thrill out of blasting other folk to make ourselves feel better about our own lives…. THINK AGAIN!
I am from a family of 5! My siblings and I have been through it all!! We saw things… lots of things little kids shouldn’t see. I don’t know when it happened to me, but I know I wasn’t a virgin when my turn came.
All of us have our ‘quirks’ , but none of us are weak in any sense of the word. We love our kids and we are intelligent enough to know to stay away from dangerous people and situations. We broke our own cycle because we wanted our lives to be NORMAL.
Don’t allow yourself to let your affections cloud the reality that your situation right now is NOT NORMAL. I don’t like talking about private life on forums, but DD is a form of healing for me… the least I can do is give it back.
4:43 pm on April 2nd, 2009
ok first of all dumbasses i cant report them they are in mexico and there it happens all the time so fuck yall up the ass and i am not defending him and cps and apd knows i dont believe he burned my son but since he admited it they cant do anything so yall need to learn how to read i knew he was abusive and shit but i never thought he would hurt our son. he loved him with all his heart and he fucked up you think my situation is bad but what about the ppl who fuck there 9 day old baby ya what about them so maybe yall bitch asses should bother them for wat they do cuz what ramon did was fuck up but at least he refused bail from his parents to get help where he is at.
4:51 pm on April 2nd, 2009
yeah, we jump on their asses too. you are their protector, yet you make an idiotic comment that you wouldn’t mind being with their father because he is their father. OMFG, you would put your child in harm’s way again. And you don’t seem to fucking care either. I have a feeling we’ll be see your child again in the headlines. All due your stupidity.
4:57 pm on April 2nd, 2009
Well Stephanie, if the abuse of your “man” was that bad, don’t you think he would have said, hey I was abused as a kid and I would never do that to my child?? Come on, get off the excuses deary and wake up. This “man” is a piece of shit scum sucking bastard that needs to be castrated, love yourself and your children enough to see that before you end up with another one of these losers. Read over the cases here where this has happened again and again until the child is dead. Is that what you want for your children? If you don’t get mental help it’s inevitable.
Grandma, file for custody of those babies, I don’t think your daughter, as much you may love her, is mentally or emotionally capable of raising those kids if this is the attitude she is going to have towards this man. Do not let it be too late for those kids.
I pray this “mother” wakes up before something horrific, more so than has already happened, befalls these DEFENSLESS children.
5:00 pm on April 2nd, 2009
Ok, why am I being attacked on this site. Lets get one thing start again. Steph came to my apt and called me standing at the door at 2:59am and by 3:00am I had the police on the phone. Steph didn’t call whoever LE is. They went to the hospital in an ambulance and the APD officer and doctors are the ones who called Social Services and then they called CPS. They had already started to look for him that same night. Stephanie never stated she knew of him beating the child before this and she didn’t find out till Ramon confessed on March 13th that he burned the baby and had abused it before the March 8th beating. So we found out pryor to the new case and she never stated a word about any other beatings. She made comments on that night.
Since everyone knows everything why don’t you’ll go find Ramons family in Mexico and see if they can be turned into CPS. I don’t think they have a such place there. If you read my comment on Stephanie confronting her ( Stephanie confronted her and she left town.) Was Steph suppose to chase them down in her car. They don’t stay long enough and if I knew of all this all his parents. Hell if I would had let my grandbaby be with them too.
For as it goes on cases that things have happened in the past. It takes CPS awhile to get on those cases especially when the children are older. I’m not defended Steph’s stupidity of loving this man. I tell you the truth he disgust me from the beginning, and I couldn’t tell her anything for I’m mom and everyone knows to their children we don’t know what we are talking about to them. They think they know it all until something happens.
I pray she listens to me now, but you’ll really need to back off on her or she will get more defensive. This a strong girl and you can put her down and say bad things about her and him too, but its not helping her right now guys.I should know. I have done this in the past and all it did was push her more towards him and not getting help. Give her good comments on her comments on how she takes care of her baby and how much she loves him use that tool and tell her to think of her babies and seek out the good help of others to become a strong mother. She is like her father they take the bad comments and make their lives worst as he has done. Thats why I’m not with him for the past 5 yrs. I could compliment him and he would do good, but his friends and family would tell him something he has done wrong and he would make it worse for me to live with him. He couldn’t take the bad with the good and she is the same way. I have tired to get her to understand how much good is out there in world, but with all this going on. All she has done is endure the bad and has gotten more defensive with everyone talking about how bad of a mother she is with her baby. She loves her baby and she would die for him. This is hard that she can’t have him without me around. She can’t have mommy time and take him shopping or out to eat by herself now.
Do any of you know what it feels like to loose a child? Probably not, my children are grown and have moved to different states with their husbands and everyday I feel I have lost them since I can’t see them as often as I would like. My son lives with me and when he goes and stays with his dad for a day or two. It kills me not knowing what is going on in his life. I love my grandson and I will protect him and the new grandbaby on the way. I pray she can come out and state she is a survivor of this and finds a good person ( a new man) to help her bring the babies up as good fathers and husbands, but she can’t look forward if all of you keep trying to put words into her mouth of her knowing that the abuse was going on with the baby.
The abuse happened to her from him and she should had looked for the signs, even CPS told her that he is the typical abuser. Gave her love when she needed it and showed her what she needed to see on how good of a person he was, but behind her back he was a different person.
So everyone help her get past this so she gets the help she needs for I can’t keep talking to her about getting help or as her mom I will push her in the wrong directions as all of you are doing today. Pray that Our father in Heaven will guide her to the right place. The only good thing about this is she finally does see what he is capable of doing, (which I wish would of never happened) that I could not ever get through her till now.
And to everyone that would like CPS know about what she says they do and they aren’t happy. So let it go for they have given her the warning already.
5:12 pm on April 2nd, 2009
That is without a doubt the dumbest statement ever. You knew he was abusive. You knew it. What the hell do you think abusive people do? Sing lullabies and fart rainbows around children. You knew he had a temper, and yet you let him around your child.
And yes you don’t deserve to have your children. By that one statement alone. You may have taken care of them by yourself until now, but now you have screwed up and then publicly stated you were going to continue to screw up by keep him in you life.
You really should be sitting in jail too you know. Don’t be surprised if LE comes along soon and slaps handcuffs on you for allowing this happen. That is illegal. You should’ve protected Ramon. Because I would almost guarantee that wasn’t the first time that douche bag hit your son.
5:14 pm on April 2nd, 2009
my2boys,
I am assuming that when you say you knew he was abusive that you mean towards you and if so I want to know this…don’t you think that YOU are worth more than that? Aren’t you worth more as a human being than being the victim of abuse? I know it can be hard to leave an abusive situation but it can be done. Nobody deserves to be abused and even if he was only being abusive towards you that is still emotional abuse towards your children to witness those things. Realize that there is more to life than abuse and fear. Rise above all of this, he is locked up right now, take this time while he has no control over you to do the things you need for you and your children. When he gets out you should have things in place to protect you and your children from him, it can be hard but it can happen. And I know some people think “well, he loves me, etc.” but let me tell you from experience, anyone who is abusive towards his family is not loving, there are many more fish in the sea that are truly caring of others. Don’t turn this into a pity party for him, it wasn’t right that he was raised in an abusive home but you can’t have that keeping you from seeing the bigger picture here. Take this time to work on yourself, look inside and see who you truly are and your self worth and what you and your children deserve in this life.
5:14 pm on April 2nd, 2009
Is she blind?
8:18 pm on April 2nd, 2009
AGREE!!!!!!!!!
It’s sad but Stephanie with her no paragraph comment completely convinced me that she does not need to be parenting. Not unless she can remove her head from her ass and wake up. She is as much a danger as he is. She will keep putting her kids with abusive bastards-until she recognizes bullshit.
8:27 pm on April 2nd, 2009
MAjustaMom says: Nana – you said Stephanie didn’t know about the burn until after he was arrested? <<<<<<<<<<<<<<(No, I said she didn’t know he was the one that burned the baby till after he was arrested)
The story reads that she called LE and told them about all the past abuses, including the burning. Did he call her from jail and tell her?<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<(No to this answer for everyone, the Detectives and CPS told us about the other abuse)
Stephanie Hyatt called her mother and they took the child to the hospital for observation.<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<(This part not true)
At the hospital, she contacted police and told them Deleon-Torres had a history of abusing her and even kneed her in the stomach when she was pregnant with their son. <<<<<(The police followed them to the hospital, so how did she contact them when they left my place at the same time and the baby and her was in the ambulance)HMMMMMMMMMMMMM
You need to go back and click on the link for the video. Fox news states: She came to my apartment and I called the police. Nothing about us taking him to the hospital.They sent an ambulance and they took him not I or her. Part of this story is misleading as a few other news stories, calling her his wife. She is not is wife for that is one thing she did right by listening to me.
thatsmallgrl says: Is she blind?
For this comment how can I answer this one. No she isn’t .She would see little bruises she had told me, but because he is trying to walk around on his own she assumed they are from trying to get around and would fall here and there. So she didn’t think of it much, all babies trying to walk on their own do get a few bruises I am told by the doctors.
I tell you all the funniest about her and how much she loves her baby. I left to OKC and they baby was about 2 months old and she sends me a picture of his little booty asking me if I think that the little spot on his booty might be a bruise(we had just been in a car accident at that time) and she wanted to know if that might be something from the accident. I couldn’t real tell, so I told her call the doctor and make an appt. she did. The doctor laughed at her so hard and stated because he is part Mexican some of them get this birth mark on the crack of their booty. She was relieved, but felt stupid and mad because the doctor laughed at her. Stephanie is a good mom, she just has to get through this and go on without thinking of him, but he is the only thing she knew for 3 yrs. She’ll grow out of him, but it will take time and hopefully he will be locked up that whole time I pray.
To everyone lets get the facts and truth out. Not what people would like to hear or think they heard.
8:44 pm on April 2nd, 2009
11:34 pm on April 2nd, 2009
the thing is that this guy is abusive. you can come up with every excuse you want for him. it is what it is. i was abused as a child. i dont beat my daughters. i was sexually abused as a child. i dont touch them wrong. if anyone hurt either one of my children i would probably lay em out. not defend them. i was raped 4 years ago. i had known the guy my whole life. we grew up together. my oldest daughter is the result of that. i dont let her around him. WHY? because not only did he rape me, he sexually abused his sister and had sex with a 12 year old, thats why. This all came out of the woodwork after i found out that i was pregnant with this dickheads baby. i will never let her be around him. i dont want to find out that my child is being abused. i will not make excuses for any of these fucktards. just because “his parents beat him” does not mean that he should be defended. so whats the excuse going to be when he abuses the second baby? “he didnt mean to do it” dont you fucking realize that if he hurt baby ramon jr this bad he could probably kill the next child he hurts? abusive fathers is what leads to dead babies. scratch that. worthless excuses for parents is what leads to dead babies. what are you going to do when this oh so lovely guy gets out of jail and kills you and your two boys because he went to jail. im sure his anger is boiling over right now. he doesnt have any babies to abuse in there. so it will just build up until he gets out. thats how abusive people work. you need to get a clue girl. stop defending your baby daddy and take care of your boys. just because you “love him” does not mean he is a good person. i have NO respect for stupid girls who stay with child abusing assholes! so get out while you still have some dignity
As for the babies Nana- please take good care of that little boy. every child deserves the chance to become something great. kudos on raising your children alone. IM PROUD OF YOU. give ramon jr a big hug for me
As for Ramon Sr. FUCK YOU YOU GOD DAMN MOTHER FUCKING SON OF A BITCH I HOPE YOU FUCKING ROT IN HELL FOR THE THINGS YOU HAVE DONE. I HOPE THEY ASS RAPE THE SHIT OUT OF YOU. I HOPE THEY BEAT YOU BLOODY WITH A BAT WITH BIG FUCKING NAILS STICKING OUT ALL OVER IT. I HOPE THEY PAY YOU BACK AND THEN SOME FOR WHAT YOU DID TO THAT POOR LITTLE BABY. YOU WORTHLESS DICK SUCKING MOTHER FUCKING SON OF A BITCH. i hope you get my message its SPECIAL just for YOU!
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