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Jeffrey Sollman Shook Things Up

March 9, 2009 at 5:04 am by  

Jeffrey Sollman Shook Things Up

Jeffrey M. Sollman (Myspace)

Decatur, IL–Sometimes it sucks to be the bearer of bad news all the time, especially on a Monday…but I have discovered yet another asshole who deserves to have his face and story forever plastered on the Dreamin’ Demon. Meet Jeffrey Sollman: Baby Shaker Extrordinnaire.

When Jeffrey’s wife, Laura Sollman, walked in the door after work Wednesday evening, Jeffrey told her that he had hurt their baby, 6-month-old Caden. He mentioned to his wife that he may have ‘jerked’ Caden to hard and she better take the baby to the hospital post-haste.

Little Caden was in bad shape…he was unresponsive. After his mother took him to St. Mary’s Hospital, he was immediately flown St. Francis in Peoria. An assessment revealed he was suffering severe bleeding on the brain and brain swelling, which are consistent with sustained, violent shaking. Caden was placed on life support.

When questioned, Jeffrey told investigators that Caden had been fussy all day Wednesday; he wasn’t eating and he wasn’t napping. Jeffrey stated ‘he was seated on a couch feeding Caden and placed the boy next to him before grabbing the baby by the sides under his armpits.’ Growing increasingly frustrated with the child, Jeffrey forcefully put Caden against his shoulder, walked him to his crib, and laid him down. He said he left the child alone for about 5 minutes before returning to check on him. Caden was lethargic and breathing differently.

Jeffrey tried to soothe the child and watched over him to see if his condition improved. It didn’t…but Jeffrey kept his hopes up. Then, instead of calling 911, or his wife, or even a fuckin’ neighbor, Jeffrey decided to take the dying baby for a ride. He figured he should spend time with Caden in case it was their last day together and also because he thought the lake might soothe the boy. You know, I have heard some stupid shit in my life, but damn. Jeffrey admitted during his interview that he injured Caden but would not state what he actually did to cause the injuries.

Jeffrey was arrested Wednesday evening and charged with aggravated battery to a child. On Thursday morning, his bond was set at $250,000. Caden died on Thursday. Jeffrey Sollman, 38,  is now being charged with first-degree murder. His bond has been raised to $2 million. Rot, fucker.

UnamusedCat is covering this one in our forums.

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    • http://www.myspace.com/dneil73 Dneilz

      Stupid piece of shit.

    • HotReadingMama

      Wow. The taking him for a drive part just rendered me…speechless.

    • Special2bme

      When Jeffrey’s wife, Laura Sollman, walked in the door after work Wednesday evening, Jeffrey told her that he had hurt their baby, 6-month-old Caden. He mentioned to his wife that he may have ‘jerked’ Caden to hard and she better take the baby to the hospital post-haste.

      More like SHOOKED you JERK, FUCK HEAD! WTF, You know how to drive why couldn’t your ass take the baby to the hospital post-haste.

    • bahaley4e

      Im …………. speachless………

    • Kimberix

      Stupid piece of shit.

      says it all right there.

    • captainhowdy

      What a fucking idiot. His excuses for not getting help are ridiculous. You know he was just trying to keep himself from getting caught as long as possible. If he was remorseful, he’d admit to what he did. Fucking baby-murdering waste of skin.

    • tutkill

      wondering what he was thinking about the lake? Baby drowned? wonder boy trying to cover his ass?

    • biteme

      What a fucking idiot. His excuses for not getting help are ridiculous. You know he was just trying to keep himself from getting caught as long as possible. If he was remorseful, he’d admit to what he did. Fucking baby-murdering waste of skin.

      It’s always me first with these assholes or they wouldn’t be assholes to begin with

    • FlamingFox

      It’s always me first with these assholes or they wouldn’t be assholes to begin with

      Perfectly said!

    • Insomniac

      This douchebag will be someone’s bitch in prison.

    • thismomrocksx3

      Hi all! I am new to this site and don’t know how many more of these stories I can stomach! What the hell is wrong with these people? Hurting an innocent, DEFENSELESS child due to their inability to cope….I have 3 children, a job and go to school full time. I have never thought of hurting my babies!

      There is a special place in hell for these assholes! RIP baby boy…you will be missed!

    • FlamingFox

      Hi all! I am new to this site and don’t know how many more of these stories I can stomach! What the hell is wrong with these people? Hurting an innocent, DEFENSELESS child due to their inability to cope….I have 3 children, a job and go to school full time. I have never thought of hurting my babies!

      Hi and welcome! I understand what you’re saying and it is difficult reading these stories every day. I hope you stay and even pay a visit to the forums. You’ll find there’s a lot of great threads and fun going on in there and it can become addicting. I find that the forums help alleviate some of strain one feels from reading about these asshats on a daily basis. Mostly because we have some of our most hilarious members posting in there and I have learned not to drink while reading their posts unless I want it coming out of my nose. :)

    • Abroad

      Jeffrey tried to soothe the child and watched over him to see if his condition improved. It didn’t…but Jeffrey kept his hopes up. Then, instead of calling 911, or his wife, or even a fuckin’ neighbor, Jeffrey decided to take the dying baby for a ride. He figured he should spend time with Caden in case it was their last day together and also because he thought the lake might soothe the boy. You know, I have heard some stupid shit in my life, but damn. Jeffrey admitted during his interview that he injured Caden but would not state what he actually did to cause the injuries.

      Who else thinks he was desperately trying to come up with a likely scenario that involved the child tragically dying in an accident with no blame on him during this final car-ride? If he had had anything else on his mind he would have driven the freakin’ car to the hospital!

      Loser!!

    • RunecirE

      There is a special place in hell for these assholes! RIP baby boy…you will be missed!

      Yes, It’s called the Seventh Circle, if your up on your Dante, and its for Betrayers like Judas and Mark Antony and so forth.

      I choose to banish all family members, friends, teachers, etc. to this Circle when they have betrayed the trust of a child, and this man is no different. They have earned their way in when they abuse, murder, maim, etc OR when they witness such atrocities and do or say nothing about it.

      Welcome to DD, thismom. I hope your stay will be long, if not pleasant. Feel free to hit the archives, if your soul can handle it. Some of the worst-of-the-worst can be found there, as well as some of the most famous. Zip over to the Forums for some real interaction.

    • RunecirE

      Who else thinks he was desperately trying to come up with a likely scenario that involved the child tragically dying in an accident with no blame on him during this final car-ride? If he had had anything else on his mind he would have driven the freakin’ car to the hospital!

      Pretty sad scenario, but I have to agree with you. Methinks he was trying for a drowning scheme but chickened out. Autopsy would have found the true cause anyway. Drowning doesn’t hide bleeding to the brain.

      RIP little Angel. Time to take your place over your momma. She’ll need you.

    • MadeaBecBec

      This was Solmans first blog on his myspace…..

      Thursday, May 31, 2007
      Dirt
      I have learned one thing in the last few months, we are a dirty race. I used to put people close to me up on a pedistal, i thought they were better than me. Especially when they call themselves christian. When i saw them in their element i was dissapointed, hurt, confused… How can we tell eachother how to live, then go out and do exactly what it is we despise. People are dirty, and raw, and none of us are any better than a crack whore who sells her body for a fix, at least she’s honest. I dont hate people, i just see them for who they are. The dirt in my life has cost me the woman i love, and trying to clean it will never help. All any of us can do is try to live each day honestly, try to keep out of the dirt, and when your loved one falls, lift them up, if you truly love them, see past the dirt, after all, we are only human.

      Now to Jeffrey, Why didn’t you call someone to come help for a while, if you were feeling frustrated and overwhelmed? Why not take that drive before you hurt that poor Little defenseless baby? You Mr. AssClown are the one that is dirty and raw and incapable of controlling your temper….

      God, take Sweet Caden in your arms and show him the love that he did not receive from his earthly father, allow Caden a peaceful rest, Amen!

    • Abroad

      Pretty sad scenario, but I have to agree with you. Methinks he was trying for a drowning scheme but chickened out. Autopsy would have found the true cause anyway. Drowning doesn’t hide bleeding to the brain.

      I wonder whether a traffic accident would have worked? If he hadn’t been too afraid for his own precious skin to drive his car into the path of an on-coming semi, that is?

    • RunecirE

      I wonder whether a traffic accident would have worked? If he hadn’t been too afraid for his own precious skin to drive his car into the path of an on-coming semi, that is?

      I think he would have been to much of a coward for that. Maybe belted in tight and hitting a phone pole? Less chance of self injury, but how would he explain losing control?

    • Abroad

      A white dog ran across the road? I gather police men joke about a ubiquitous white dog that causes the majority of the single vehicle accidents……

      But would hitting a telephone pole have made injuries to a child similar to what little Caden had?

    • RunecirE

      But would hitting a telephone pole have made injuries to a child similar to what little Caden had?

      If the seat was a face-forward and he hit at enough speed…it could give a sufficient jolt to the childs brain. However, if the autopsy showed bruising and bleeding to the rear of the cranium cavity, then NO, probably not. All speculation, of course.

    • AMinFH

      Who is the child on his MS profile? Its obviously not Caden…RIP sweet child.

      This guy is a fucking moron loser. I hope enjoys getting shook up and passed around in prison. I hope he hears the cry of baby Caden, that he replays that scene over and over, that it torments him all his days and nights.

    • http://www.myspace.com/justdazin So Jaded

      Who is the child on his MS profile? Its obviously not Caden…RIP sweet child.

      He has a 5-year-old daughter that doesn’t live with him.

    • Uvgottabkiddin

      He has a 5-year-old daughter that doesn’t live with him.

      I wonder why?

    • http://www.myspace.com/kelli_laine_doa mom_of_Kelli

      his blogs and lack of pictures on his myspace of baby Caden, say a lot about this baby killer.

    • Shizz

      I want to stomp on his fucking head.

    • StrangerDanger

      First clue of him being a douche is that fucking shirt. Jebus!

      I have a daughter about his sons age laying next to me right now. Smiling at me any time our eyes meet.

      Do this guy a favor, and shoot him in the back of the head. If he doesn’t want to die, he has no soul and should be put down anyway.

    • mipmop

      I am Flabergasted FUKIN PEICE OF SHIT i hope they fuk you to death in prison you FUK!!!

    • lostlilgirl

      Stupid fucking piece of shit. Rot in HELLLLLL!

      RIP baby Caden, no one can hurt you now.

    • mrsjohann

      As Laura’s cousin i can tell you we agree with everything you said here. And personally I believe in vigilanty justice. And please keep laura in your prayers.

    • Itsmebrady00

      A website dedicated to the degradation of those who make, or have made mistakes.

      I am Caden’s Uncle, brother-in-law to the man who killed my nephew. It is saddening and discouraging to see such hateful words and comments about a situation that has directly impacted my life, and the lives of those I love most.

      This is an experience that has humbled me, both as a future husband and father. Most of the people here leaving comments I hope are fathers, mothers, husbands, and/or wives. I hope every one who has commented negatively about my family’s situation is spotless (by the way, you’re not.) And I’m not. I have no hate in my heart, and neither does the mother of Caden, my older sister. Some of the words in this forum represent hate, and to an extent, utter disgust. “Drive in to a semi”, “Rot in Hell”… I love how some people here are proposing scenarios that may have helped Jeffrey’s situation post shaking. Come on…

      What happened, happened. No matter what is said, none of you are promoting forgiveness, or the avoidances of things like this happening again. Do the world a favor, and instead of searching for stories to comment on, work on making your own story beneficial to the ethical and moral society. Work on helping those who are susceptible to doing the same things my brother-in- law did. I have no answer for why Jeffrey did the things he did, and neither do any of you. The answer is forgiveness.

      Your words serve no justice. The justice is the regret and loneliness Jeffrey will have the rest of his life in prison. And that’s good enough for me. God does forgive, as easily as he forgives those who download music illegaly, or one who lust on pornographic sites, or even those who judge others of sin.

      God Bless every one and I appreciate all of those who are truly praying for my sister and family. Caden was a beautiful boy and he was loved, by all.

    • Zibarro

      itsmebrady00 -

      It’s your place to forgive – afterall, he was your nephew.

      It’s our place to shame – afterall, what your brother-in-law did was shameful.

      Although I am so very sorry for your loss … please don’t come on here judging and proselytizing to us. We don’t all believe in the same “god” or heaven and hell. The more stories like this we read, the harder it becomes to believe there is a “god” that allows it to go on and on and on… infinitely. If there is … I, personally, have no use for him.
      We shame, we cuss, we call names and we damn those responsible because — that’s all we can do. We do this publicly in hopes that anyone who even remotely contemplates treating a child badly will read these stories and THINK before they act. You never know. We may have already stopped someone – or not. But preaching a sermon to us will not change how we feel or how we respond one iota. It won’t change what happened or stop it from happening again, either. And we DO want them all to rot in hell. Whether it’s a hell on earth or a fiery pit – so long as they suffer – as they made others suffer.

      I truly hope your family finds peace – however you need to find it. I am deeply sorry for your loss. Thank you for visiting with us.

      I am sorry for speaking for anyone who doesn’t agree – or offending anyone’s beliefs.

    • RunecirE

      What happened, happened. No matter what is said, none of you are promoting forgiveness, or the avoidances of things like this happening again. Do the world a favor, and instead of searching for stories to comment on, work on making your own story beneficial to the ethical and moral society. Work on helping those who are susceptible to doing the same things my brother-in- law did. I have no answer for why Jeffrey did the things he did, and neither do any of you. The answer is forgiveness.

      I cannot forgive anyone who takes an innocent life, especially that of a child. I am a Foster Parent and a Mentor. I pick up the pieces that people like your brother-in-law leave in their wake. I think you would be surprised how many of us have made life choices to help children and at-risk adults. Why do you think we get so PISSED OFF? No matter how hard we do try, there are always pricks like Jeff to make it more difficult. We will never be out of business, sad to say.

      Finally and more importantly, I am very sorry for your loss. Most of us have lost also, some have even experienced directly what you are going through, either as “friends of” or as “family of” or as victims. There are no words of comfort that could possibly console you if you care as much for this lost child as you say you do. This child is amongst the angels now, and he is hopefully watching over you and yours.

    • RunecirE

      God does forgive, as easily as he forgives those who download music illegaly, or one who lust on pornographic sites, or even those who judge others of sin.

      “Thou shalt not kill”

    • Abroad

      I am sorry for speaking for anyone who doesn’t agree – or offending anyone’s beliefs.

      You spoke for me, Zibarro. Thanks!

    • Athena

      Brady, we are terribly sorry for your loss. Our best wishes are with this child’s mother.

      That said, I hope you will pardon us for having difficulty seeing eye-to-eye with an individual who terms the intentional abuse, failure to obtain medical attention and subsequent death of a child a mere “mistake”. A mistake is an err in judgment caused by either a lack of knowledge or carelessness. This episode was neither. It was quite intentional.

      The bible gives us all sorts of permission to hate evil, which is exactly what we’re doing, here. It says far, far less about forgiveness… and that’s mostly God’s job, anyway.

    • tutkill

      Work on helping those who are susceptible to doing the same things my brother-in- law did. I have no answer for why Jeffrey did the things he did, and neither do any of you.

      Did you help dear ole jeff? Jeff is a baby murderer because he hurt his baby. Not because someone didn’t help him (Jeff). Jeff made his decision, he did not bring the baby to you to watch and ask for help. He didn’t even walk into another room. He didn’t even leave the baby alone and go to a bar. He killed his child-He shook it to death. There isn’t alot to that story.

    • Itsmebrady00

      First.

      Proselytize? Come on… I was not trying to CHANGE or pursuay any beliefs, I was refuting hateful comments and offering my own remarks.

      Second.

      Thou shall not kill… Okay, I agree. Thou shall not murder. That is the extent. And although he did murder an innocent child, the situation is still forgivable (note: forgiveness is universal, has nothing to do with religion.)

      Third.

      The act of murder is typically an act of hate. The same hate that is portrayed when you use phrases like “rot in hell”, “mother fucker”, “piece of shit”… I am dumbfounded by those who ridicule murderers and rapers and child molesters… Why are they the way they are? One reason, because they have hate in their hearts. You dont have to be a freakin’ psychologist to figure out the basics. Live, love, and forgive… You maintain these three and the world becomes a better place to live. Would it suprise those who have since commented that I am not religious? Because I’m not. I am not affiliated with any church nor do I practice religion. But one thing…. Morals teach ethics, ethics do not teach morals.

      Lets all be moral and just give up on judging and shaming those who do wrong. You focus on the wrong and it does nothing but offer opportunities to dwell on problems in this world. And lets all agree, there are way too many problems in this world, like murder. The problem is there are too many talkers and not enough doers. You dont have to pat a person on the back and say “everything is going to be okay”, just because you forgive some one who doesnt deserve it. It’s called mercy. There are many people in this world that if weren’t shown mercy, may have not made an impact, detrimentally.

      I remember there being a martyr a couple thousand years ago when a man was MURDERED for his defense of people like me and my brother-in-law. I think his name was Jesus. Pretty good example. For those who dont believe in Jesus’ existence, umm… use it as a metaphor.

    • Itsmebrady00

      The act of murder is typically an act of hate. The same hate that is portrayed when you use phrases like “rot in hell”, “mother fucker”, “piece of shit”… I am dumbfounded by those who ridicule murderers and rapers and child molesters… Why are they the way they are? One reason, because they have hate in their hearts. You dont have to be a freakin’ psychologist to figure out the basics. Live, love, and forgive… You maintain these three and the world becomes a better place to live. Would it suprise those who have since commented that I am not religious? Because I’m not. I am not affiliated with any church nor do I practice religion. But one thing…. Morals teach ethics, ethics do not teach morals.

    • tutkill

      this is not the mercy or forgiveness for murderers website-

    • Itsmebrady00

      No but thats a great idea… why dont you get on that!

    • AlwaysInFlyoverCountry

      I remember there being a martyr a couple thousand years ago when a man was MURDERED for his defense of people like me and my brother-in-law. I think his name was Jesus. Pretty good example. For those who dont believe in Jesus’ existence, umm… use it as a metaphor.

      I am so glad you brought Him up. May I commend to your attention Mark 9:42?

      –Al

    • Itsmebrady00

      While we’re on the metaphors, how about Matthew 25:40?

      And then Matthew 5: 44-45; 11:25

      Luke 17: 3-5

      Hebrews 8:12

      1 John 2:9

      Romans 12:19 (its up to God to bring shame, not this site)

      There is a reason for our Justice system… I’m sure it will do enough bringing shame and uncomfort to Jeffrey.

      These are my last comments. I dont believe in a site like this. It’s ethically, morally, and socially degrading. One thing we have in common, we all agree that it is wrong to murder innocent children.

      My sister has a beautiful angel watching over her the rest of her life. What more of a blessing. God Bless!

    • Zibarro

      Would it suprise those who have since commented that I am not religious? Because I’m not. I am not affiliated with any church nor do I practice religion. But one thing…. Morals teach ethics, ethics do not teach morals.

      While we’re on the metaphors, how about Matthew 25:40?

      And then Matthew 5: 44-45; 11:25

      Luke 17: 3-5

      Hebrews 8:12

      1 John 2:9

      Romans 12:19 (its up to God to bring shame, not this site)

      My sister has a beautiful angel watching over her the rest of her life. What more of a blessing. God Bless!

      Yep. It would surprise me. No one can claim to be “not religious” and spew bible verses one after another after another … and then close with “God Bless”. It’s obvious you do believe in God – so why are you ashamed to admit it?

      I think you’re just very confused.

      Sorry you don’t like this site. Although it does a lot to shame and curse those who commit these heinous crimes (as do we, the posters) it also does a lot of good. We help each other as well as strangers as often as possible. You may not see it here, but if you took the time to visit the forums … well … I’m sure that’s just too much effort for you. I mean – you’d rather not believe that there could be anything positive that could come from a “site like this”. Just remember – you came looking for us. We didn’t drag you in here kicking and screaming. You are free to stop reading and responding anytime you’d like.

      I wish your family peace and healing. I hope that, whatever you believe in, it will help you all to get through this. Again, I am sorry for your loss.

    • Itsmebrady00

      Umm… a theist is not one of religion. Religion is not entirely associated with one God either. So yes, I can claim not to be religious. I can also SPEW Bible verses considering I read the Bible. And I get pretty offended when people use them out of context. I think the literary world would agree. Know your defense twice as well as your offense.

      Oh, and did you read any of those verses? You’ll understand why I posted them.

    • Lavonna

      If you want to quote bible verses then don’t forget Matthew 18:6 But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.

      You brother-in-law murdered his own son, your nephew and you seem to forgive him and hold no anger toward him… I don’t understand it. He was a 6 month old helpless child that was SHAKENED not loved and hugged but SHAKENED!
      I’m sorry that you are offended by our anger towards your brother in law and I do know that God forgives but to get forgiveness you have to mean it when you ask for it.

    • http://www.dreamindemon.com Morbid

      I can also SPEW Bible verses considering I read the Bible. And I get pretty offended when people use them out of context.

      What a coincidence. I get offended when people use them at all. Fucking fortune cookies have better advice and are better written to boot. Here are a few I have collected:

      Much more grows in the garden than that which is planted there.

      You were born with the skill to communicate with people easily.

      You should be able to undertake and complete anything.

      You are going to have some new clothes

      Ignorance never settles a question

    • Zibarro

      Umm… a theist is not one of religion. Religion is not entirely associated with one God either. So yes, I can claim not to be religious. I can also SPEW Bible verses considering I read the Bible. And I get pretty offended when people use them out of context. I think the literary world would agree. Know your defense twice as well as your offense.

      Oh, and did you read any of those verses? You’ll understand why I posted them.

      Romans 12:19 (its up to God to bring shame, not this site)

      Romans 12:19 Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,” says the Lord.

      Vengeance: Infliction of punishment in return for a wrong committed; retribution.

      Shaming: # To cause to feel shame; put to shame.
      # To bring dishonor or disgrace on.

      Although, technically, you could argue we are “inflicting punishment” – I doubt seriously that it is harming your brother – in – law. Perhaps whatever your “god” has in store will accomplish that. Perhaps not. Seems to me that the “god” or “gods” you pray to are more about coddling these criminals than punishing them.

      “Spew” all the bible verses you can find that may seem to “fit” your position. I’ll never understand. I don’t want to understand how “god” or anyone else can say “It’s O.K. that this happened – as long as the killer is sorry enough.” Fuck that.

    • Zibarro

      I can also SPEW Bible verses considering I read the Bible. And I get pretty offended when people use them out of context.

      “Context”? Are you kidding me? What a joke – considering the bible is ALL about interpretation! You get 100 people in a room to discuss the bible and I will guarantee that you will get dissenting opinions on each and every verse you give them. Whether it’s 90/10, 60/40 or even as close as 99/1 – there will always be those who understand things differently than the rest. Politics and religion seem to be the biggest issues where people tend to NOT embrace diversity.

      After you’re dead you can tell me who was right and who was wrong about all of this. Until then, we are BOTH just speculating.

      I get offended when people use the bible to defend despicable behavior.

    • RunecirE

      Lets all be moral and just give up on judging and shaming those who do wrong. You focus on the wrong and it does nothing but offer opportunities to dwell on problems in this world.

      Are you looking for Utopia or simply trying to get us off your BIL’s case? We must focus on the problems, how else can we hope to fix them.

      Having Morals means judging, implies judgement…therefore we judge something to be immorall that which goes against our morals. If we do not judge and shame as a society, how can we hope to deter and thus prevent people, such as your BIL, from committing such terrible crimes in the future.

      Bury your head, your non-religious head, in the sand or behind spewn Bible verses or under the rubble left behind by your precious BIL. WE, however, WILL CONTINUE TO CAST THAT RUBBLE AT ALL THOSE WE CONSIDER TO BE DETRIMENTAL TO THE SAFETY AND WELL BEING OF THIS SOCIETY.

      Oh and, God does not forgive murderers; that is why there is a hell. The Devil will keep him company, but not the Angels.

    • tutkill

      From there Elisha went up to Bethel. While he was on his way, some small boys came out of the city and jeered at him. “Go up baldhead,” they shouted, “go up baldhead!” The prophet turned and saw them, and he cursed them in the name of the Lord. Then two shebears came out of the woods and tore forty two of the children to pieces. (2 Kings 2:23-24 NAB)

      The people of Israel are stricken. Their roots are dried up; they will bear no more fruit. And if they give birth, I will slaughter their beloved children.” (Hosea 9:11-16 NLT)

      “Then I heard the LORD say to the other men, “Follow him through the city and kill everyone whose forehead is not marked. Show no mercy; have no pity! Kill them all – old and young, girls and women and little children. But do not touch anyone with the mark. Begin your task right here at the Temple.” So they began by killing the seventy leaders. “Defile the Temple!” the LORD commanded. “Fill its courtyards with the bodies of those you kill! Go!” So they went throughout the city and did as they were told.” (Ezekiel 9:5-7 NLT)

      If even then you remain hostile toward me and refuse to obey, I will inflict you with seven more disasters for your sins. I will release wild animals that will kill your children and destroy your cattle, so your numbers will dwindle and your roads will be deserted. (Leviticus 26:21-22 NLT)

      ok-these are just a few verses that deal with killing children in the Bible(just a few-there are many more)

      so itsmebrandy- Jeff only read this part of the Bible? and I guess he took it literally. If your baby cries and offends Jeff and maybe God its ok to kill it.
      Stop the debate-bible verses can be twisted in any direction and used.

      Jeff killed his son and you can’t expect others to forgive him just because you have.

    • tutkill

      Bury your head, your non-religious head, in the sand or behind spewn Bible verses or under the rubble left behind by your precious BIL. WE, however, WILL CONTINUE TO CAST THAT RUBBLE AT ALL THOSE WE CONSIDER TO BE DETRIMENTAL TO THE SAFETY AND WELL BEING OF THIS SOCIETY.

      can I second that?

    • Zibarro

      can I second that?

      Third!

      Well put, RunecirE!!

    • SoUncool

      God does forgive, as easily as he forgives those who download music illegaly, or one who lust on pornographic sites, or even those who judge others of sin.

      I love pirated music! And pornography! And lust!

    • Harley_Tech

      Your words serve no justice. The justice is the regret and loneliness Jeffrey will have the rest of his life in prison. And that’s good enough for me. God does forgive, as easily as he forgives those who download music illegaly, or one who lust on pornographic sites, or even those who judge others of sin.

      Jeff could not find it in his heart to forgive his child for crying and being a little cranky, I’m having a lot of trouble forgiving him for killing his child. How about we just match HIS forgiveness one for one? That be OK?

      Here is an idea, I’ll hate this cowardly cocksucker, and you just forgive me for it. Deal?

      I’ll forgive you for coming here judging and attempting to ridiculing us, and our way of thinking.

      True forgiveness lives in your heart. You should be careful not to confuse failed attempts to show us what a forgiving person you are, with true forgiveness.

      Had you come here and simply shared information, and then if ASKED how you and your family are dealing with this tragedy simply said “we are hurting, but we forgive Jeff for his sins.” and said nothing more about it, I might come away thinking you are a true man of faith with true forgiveness in your heart.

      Instead you decided this was your pulpit. That tells me you don’t really carry the faith your profess. You may carry the knowledge of the book, but not the spirit of the book you claim to believe in. There in lies the hypocrisy of religion in general.

      Its very hard to hear your message, when you can’t practice what you preach.

      R

    • Zibarro

      I love pirated music! And pornography! And lust!

      LOL

      He equates all THREE with Jeff’s murder of his nephew. Gotta just love it when people compare apples and oranges (or in this case apples and lamp shades – cuz that’s about how similar they are) I could see forgiving someone who pirated music, watched porn or lusted after another – I CANNOT see just outright forgiveness of someone murdering a 6 month old helpless BABY!

    • Zibarro

      Very well said Harley! *applause*

    • AlwaysInFlyoverCountry

      Very well said, Harley.

      –Al

    • MadeaBecBec

      Harley; Excellent, Excellent post!

    • tutkill

      Harley-superlative

    • RunecirE

      Well said, Harley

    • Itsmebrady00

      The “spirit” of the “book” I base my ideals on is based on love. I love my family, I love my nephew, and I love my brother-in-law. Maybe its those who can’t accept the fact that I have enough love in my heart to forgive a person who has killed an innocent child, a beautiful boy. My whole defense rests on the fact that little things lead to large incidents like this, and the little things involve the problems that every one here, including myself, ignore. Like the examples i’ve listed in my previous posts. Currently, one out of every 5 children are homeless. Maybe it was a blessing my nephew didnt have to grow up in a world where people call other people “cocksuckers”, “niggers”, “sickfuck”, and all of the other degrading references I have read while visiting this site. I am not preaching, I’m offering suggestions to any who read this. To forgive is not to forget, and I will never forget the amazing impact Caden’s life and death has made on my life. And it in part was because of Jeffrey. Saddened Caden was taken away, but blessed to have him even a short time.

      So Harley, well said, very well said… Im glad you feel better about your own life because of the ability to freely comment on others downfalls. And by the way, caden was the 7th shaken baby syndrome case in 2 weeks at St. Francis Hospital in Peoria, IL. Its happening, and it will continue to happen with or without this site. If people are SHOWN LOVE, then it may change, or save a life. Are any of the people commenting in this forum working for the justice dept’s terrorizing the child molestors, rapers, murdererers? If not, then why talk about it. If the justice system cant prevent these happenings, there is only one other way… Us.

      And even if this was my pulpit, I wouldn’t expect any one to listen. If people listened, we wouldnt have the problems for many of the reasons these forums are started. So the precedent must be set eventually, DONT HATE, through your words, through your actions, for any reason… It shouldnt be that hard.

    • Harley_Tech

      My whole defense rests on the fact that little things lead to large incidents like this, and the little things involve the problems that every one here, including myself, ignore.

      You sure seem comfortable making assumptions you don’t really know about.

      This site has in fact been an active participant in bringing more than one criminal to justice. I’ll leave it to you to read and research it if you would like to know how. I don’t expect you to do that since it is so much easier to just fling those baseless accusations around, or to somehow suggest we are part of “the problem”.

      This site and its members have come together to provide support and assistance, both financial and emotional, to countless family members and victims of the scumbags you read about here. I have no problems with the moral compass of this site.

      I do agree that of all the people reading here, you may well have been in a position to prevent this senseless murder if you saw signs of his broken mind and ignored them.

      Did you ignore signs of your brother -in-law’s sickness? Did you “forgive” his minor transgressions that lead to this horror? Is the true motivation here absolution for yourself?

      I suppose if I ever kill my child, I might need some reason to “feel better about myself”.
      If I ever turn my back on my brother-in-law, and he kills his kids, I might need a reason to “feel better about myself”. Until then, I feel just fine about myself and what we do here at DD.

      Ignoring the fact that these scumbags like your brother-in-law are in fact scumbags, simply allows then to scurry around in the dark like cockroaches. This site serves a purpose in that we turn the lights on and expose them for exactly what they are in a lot of cases.

      Evil is like a cancer, ignore it and it will kill the host. We choose not to ignore the cancer.

      Yes, we do vent our frustrations here. Sometimes we even get a bit carried away. It is very therapeutic. Give it a try, we won’t judge you harshly.

      There was a time when people had shame and feared exposure of their horrible actions. That time has passed and the world is still an evil place. It’s high time some of that shame is re-introduced to the world.

      There used to be a header on all these pages that quoted Albert Einstein. “The world is a dangerous place; not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don’t do anything about it”. Albert had it right!
      (note to Morbid, put it back!)

      I like to think we are doing our small part to “do something about it”. It may not be a lot in your eyes, but it seems to be working for us. Your approval is not required.

      If your heart is true, and you are capable of true forgiveness, I applaud you. So far, you have not convinced me either is true.

      On another subject, I think you exposed your prejudice when you typed “nigger” above. If that word has been used outside of one discussion in out forums, I’ve rarely ever seen it here. Last time, believe the poster was banned if I recall correctly.

      If you look around, you’ll see that skin color does not gain you a free pass here. Evil comes in all colors. We call people a lot of things, some quite creative, but it would be extremely rare to find a racial epitaph such as “nigger” on these pages. Maybe that heart of yours is not as pure as you would have us believe.

      I’ll sleep just fine tonight. You?

      R

    • AlwaysInFlyoverCountry

      While we’re on the metaphors, how about Matthew 25:40?

      No. I’m not going there. Anything I could say in interpretation could only add to your misery and I refuse to do that.

      I do think that at this time that this is not the right web site for you to be visiting.

      –Al

    • Itsmebrady00

      “You sure seem comfortable making assumptions you don’t really know about.”

      I just have to watch the news to find the same material posted in this site, except im not hearing the news reporters’ personal opinions.

      Im the one making assumptions??? You are implying that I am racist… And I used the word in collaboration of other degrading words like the ones found in this website. It has nothing to do with the issue of racism, dont bring other subjects up just to prolong this “debate”. I apologize if it is misread, but the word IS offensive for ALL, like you said. It is used just as lightly as the ones used in this forum. It sounds like you keep up on every thing, so you probably know.

      “If your heart is true, and you are capable of true forgiveness, I applaud you. So far, you have not convinced me either is true.”

      Dont you get it? I already FORGAVE my BIL. I am not forgiving him daily, nor living in it… Its done. Im not here to convince you. My self-esteem, nor my SLEEP is based on how good or bad I feel before I go to bed. Its when I wake up that I anticipate and hope to some how make this world a better place to live and raise a family. I dont plan on talking through the problems, I plan on WORKING through them. Some people come here for pleasure, some people for relief, some people like me who were just both directly, and then indirectly offended. I chose to read this forum first and after a few posts, noticed the consistency of disrespect, hate, and depravity.

      I think its much easier to hate than it is to love… Try forgiving some one who killed your sister’s 7 month old child, or maybe watch the mother hold her child as nurses and doctors constantly attend to a child who will never have another diaper changed, will never say “mommy”, will never take his first steps… Picture that because I do every day, yet I still forgive. I am not a saint, I am a human being and I hope to lead by example, not through my conversation on sites like this. Good luck changing the world one forum at a time, freedom of speech is a right, not a convenience, use it respectably.

      I have a hard time leaving conversations opened without a mutual agreement, but I see the number of people against my argument and Im not willing to “fight” it. Good luck all (instead of God Bless) and I hope every one knows that this site is susceptible to any one viewing it, including young children or family members who WILL be offended. When defending it, you represent it. And to me, it represents immaturity and disrespect.

    • wicked_mary_jane

      his pre-trial is 5/12/2009 at 01:30 p.m.

      hmm… & this is my former hometown. I think I may have to schedule a visit to the family around this time to watch this asshole squirm. OMG & it’s in front of Judge White? *dies laughing* he’s done. If Spence picks it up, as he is wont to do in cases of child abuse, he should get the time he deserves.

      & he took Caden down to Lake Decatur because it would soothe him? He probably thought about throwing the poor thing in the Lake knowing no one would probably ever find him.

      & if anyone cares to follow the case – http://court.co.macon.il.us/cgi-bin/db2www/qsys.lib/wwwcgi.lib/macros.file/macon.mbr/output?Action=RS&Year=2009&CaseType=CF&CaseSeq=000368&LitType=D%20&LitNum=001

    • friendofthefamily

      A couple things to consider:
      The house where this happened is less than a half mile from Saint Mary’s Hospital Emergency room. Right accross the lake. You can see the hospital from the front door. If they went to the Lake Decatur Marina (I dont know if they did) they drove past the hospital to get there. Jeffery was and is a licensed First Responder through the Department of Public Health. He is trained to provide emergency medical care. He is a mandated reporter.
      I forgive jeffery, wich is acctually between me and God, not me and jeffery, but that does not mean that i dont want to see justice served. It just means that I want God to handle this, as I know He will. God will forgive Jeffery also, if he askes. God will give grace where and when He wants too. He dosn’t ask us when to do that. Jeffery’s ultimate fate is between him and God. His imediate fate  is up to the judge or jury.  The Word tells us to forgive, but it doesn’t tell us to put murderers back on the street. May justice be served. May Caden rest in peace, and may the families forever affected by this horiffic act find peace.

    • friendofthefamily

      friendofthefamily:
      A couple things to consider:
      The house where this happened is less than a half mile from Saint Mary’s Hospital Emergency room. Right accross the lake. You can see the hospital from the front door. If they went to the Lake Decatur Marina (I dont know if they did) they drove past the hospital to get there. Jeffery was and is a licensed First Responder through the Department of Public Health. He is trained to provide emergency medical care. He is a mandated reporter.
      I forgive jeffery, wich is acctually between me and God, not me and jeffery, but that does not mean that i dont want to see justice served. It just means that I want God to handle this, as I know He will. God will forgive Jeffery also, if he askes. God will give grace where and when He wants too. He dosn’t ask us when to do that. Jeffery’s ultimate fate is between him and God. His imediate fate  is up to the judge or jury.  The Word tells us to forgive, but it doesn’t tell us to put murderers back on the street. May justice be served. May Caden rest in peace, and may the families forever affected by this horiffic act find peace. On May 11th, Jeffery Sollman was charged with 6 counts of possesion of child pornography.

      friendofthefamily:
      A couple things to consider:
      The house where this happened is less than a half mile from Saint Mary’s Hospital Emergency room. Right accross the lake. You can see the hospital from the front door. If they went to the Lake Decatur Marina (I dont know if they did) they drove past the hospital to get there. Jeffery was and is a licensed First Responder through the Department of Public Health. He is trained to provide emergency medical care. He is a mandated reporter.
      I forgive jeffery, wich is acctually between me and God, not me and jeffery, but that does not mean that i dont want to see justice served. It just means that I want God to handle this, as I know He will. God will forgive Jeffery also, if he askes. God will give grace where and when He wants too. He dosn’t ask us when to do that. Jeffery’s ultimate fate is between him and God. His imediate fate  is up to the judge or jury.  The Word tells us to forgive, but it doesn’t tell us to put murderers back on the street. May justice be served. May Caden rest in peace, and may the families forever affected by this horiffic act find peace.

    • tutkill

      I guess some people will have something else to forgive ole Jeff for.

      Imagine that a child murderer is into child porn. Who would have guessed it??

      DECATUR, Ill. (AP) – A 38-year-old Decatur man charged in the death of his infant son now faces child pornography charges.
      Jeffrey M. Sollman was arraigned Wednesday on five counts of child pornography. A preliminary hearing is scheduled for May 20.

      Wonder if it was home made porn or just searching kiddie sites. Either way looks like Jeff  was a sick puppy.

    • freenrgy2

      First, I know of Jeff Sollman as we both attended the same church for awhile. But, I didn’t really know him…more of an acquiantance.

      I’ve read some of the comments here and some of them are just hateful. Now, before the flames and daggers start coming my way, let me first and foremost state that I am not defending this individual’s actions. Nor am I going to throw bible verses at any of you. It seems as soon as the bible is brought up, the comments deteriorate into garbage.

      I’m not asking anyone to forgive Jeff. What is done is done. What we have to remember is that we *hopefully* live in a land of laws and when those laws are broken sufficient justice is served. If Jeff is imprisoned for the rest of his natural life, then that is justice enough. Nothing will bring this child back and wishing Jeff dead does nothing but satisfy the animal nature in all of us. Revenge is bittersweet.

      The horror and knowledge of what Jeff did will haunt him the rest of his days. And, some might argue that this is punishment worse than death because death is the easy way out.

      What I do pray for is that the child’s family can eventually find peace in this. This isn’t all about Jeff. There are many, many people affected by this and they too will have to live with the horror of this the rest of their days.

    • Not Always what it seems

      One thing to remember though is that if your PC was infected by a virus, someone can take over your PC or use you as a “bot” to move CP back and forth. There was a case not too long ago where this actually happened. From what I knew of Jeff, I find that this is highly unlikely that he was into that. I'd venture to say, something got on his PC without him knowing about it.

    • Eracsurfer

      Uh-huh…and I was it a computer virus that shook the baby too?

      Was the virus written by the cat that downloaded the child porn to the Keith Griffin's computer?

    • Slim