Melissa Jelks Thought Wrong
March 3, 2009 by FlamingFox

Melissa Jelks
Milwaukee, WI- After years of arguing, Melissa Jelks and the father of her two children, Timothy Adams, learned just how quickly lives can be changed when people make the wrong choices. Especially when it is two people who don’t get along and they add alcohol to the mix of a relationship that is already on the rocks.
On the evening of February 25, 2009, Melissa and Timothy went to her sister’s house to play cards and dominoes. Before leaving their home, Timothy drank three beers and two cups of vodka. While they were at the sister’s house he had at least two more beers. Melissa drank a couple cups of vodka during the visit. Around 10 p.m., when these two returned home, they began arguing. Don’t you just love those drunk and loud neighbors who begin an argument just when you’re ready to go to bed?
The thing is, is that Melisa and Timothy never just argued. Their fights usually escalated into a physical confrontation between the two, which resulted in some serious injuries. This fight, though, ended up being the most serious one of all because Timothy died.
During the argument, Melissa demanded that Timothy leave the residence and she called police. Before officers arrived, Timothy came out of a bedroom with a small, wooden toy bat. Melissa quickly armed herself with a knife. The two struggled over the knife in their children’s bedroom, where Melissa was cut on a forearm when Timothy tried to pull the knife away from her. He dropped the bat and Melissa pushed him against a bedroom wall. When Timothy came at her again, Melissa stabbed him in the abdomen.
Timothy ran out of the room and lay on the living room floor. Melissa followed him and applied a wet cloth to his wound and, again, called the police. Timothy R. Adams died on his living room floor that evening. Melissa told police she thought Timothy would “catch the knife” when she lunged at him with it because he would “typically catch it” during such incidents.
Melissa stated there had been violence between her and Adams in the past, saying that he had bitten her on the face and she had bitten him in the chest. She said he had a scar on his left arm and side from where she had slashed him with a razor, and that she once stabbed him in the back of the neck with a screwdriver. No record of these attacks could be found in online state court records.
Melissa M. Jelks, 30, was charged with second-degree reckless homicide with $15,000 bail.
Thanks to Dakota_Valkyrie who has this in the forums.


12:38 pm on March 3rd, 2009
“Domino Mother Fucker”
Ok now that I got that out of my system this really is a sad story. They both abused each other and now one is dead. The violence that happened in that house is incomprehensable to me and very alarming especially since kids are involved. I think this women will be punished twice, knowing she murdered her partner and then jail time. I think jail time is justifiable though.
12:41 pm on March 3rd, 2009
Hope Rihanna reads this.
1:11 pm on March 3rd, 2009
I’m so glad Mike and I are happy drunks.
If only they could have taken each other out, instead of just the one dying.
1:44 pm on March 3rd, 2009
Damn I usually become extra friendly after a couple of drinks. But then again, I don’t drink very much. This story sure is scary and sad for all involved. Why stay in a relationship if all you do is bicker and kick each other’s ass? I will never understand that.
2:28 pm on March 3rd, 2009
Please do NOT get me started on this topic! OMFG!!!! I have those downstairs…
LMFWAO…I was thinking the SAME thing, lol
Right!
2:45 pm on March 3rd, 2009
She scares me and I am sober.. damn
2:47 pm on March 3rd, 2009
I have never understood these explosive ultra violent relationships. A black eye just doesn’t say I love you to me. Stabbing? Slicing and dicing? I just cant imagine being in a relationship where I have to sleep with one eye open. I thought home was supposed to be a safe haven.
And its most devastating for the innocent parties involved. Those children have lost both parents. I guess that it is a blessing in disguise though. Who knows what kind of lessons on life those babies were learning from their abusive parents.
3:07 pm on March 3rd, 2009
kind of proves there’s someone for everyone out there, no matter how insane they are
5:07 pm on March 3rd, 2009
How often do you need to do this to be able to ASSume what’s going to happen next in the argument?
She really puts the fun in dysfunctional, doesn’t she?
5:07 pm on March 3rd, 2009
Instead, we get to see possibly the WORST mullet on the face of the earth. Thanks a LOT!
It would be nice if she did.
7:40 pm on March 3rd, 2009
Okay do any of you jerks even know this girl to be making comments about a situation that you just read in the damn paper!!!!! How many on you on here can say that you were in a situation somewhat like this?? Did we miss the part that she called the police first needing their help to respond to her situation and the police had to be called a second time after he was dead, it was also not mention in the paper that he was chocking her and threaten to kill her if she left him, yes I’m a woman, and I’ve been in that type of situation, and I also live here in milwaukee where the police do not respond for the black community unless someone is killed. You all are probably saying once less black to worry about too right??? Please don’t make the comment that this could of been avoided if she would of left him, cause in these types of situation that’s is not, and that was not cool to make a comment about they should of taken each other out instead of one dying.. How would you feel if you was in her shoes and this was happening to you??? Oh btw I work with melissa and she’s my friend, she is nothing like what is being said about her. I’m not justifying the situation and I understand that people is entitled to their opinion but don’t judge a book by its cover…
8:39 pm on March 3rd, 2009
He sure did catch it, but just not in the way she had hoped I guess….
8:54 pm on March 3rd, 2009
oh boy missie, you’re opening a can of worms here…
I would never find myself in a relationship such as this one, ever! I would leave the sorry piece of crap as soon as they laid a finger on me (well, if it was to cause intentional harm).
They were both abusive alcoholics, plain and simple… either way one or the other would be in jail.. and in this case it’s your friend for murder.
maybe she will learn from this experience and HOPEFULLY she will stay away from alcohol as she doesn’t do well with it.. some people can be asses, just add alcohol and some people go beyond that.
You know, one thing I hate about alcoholics is that they blame it on the alcohol intake.. I blame the person.
8:58 pm on March 3rd, 2009
not saying that here… what I will say is ….
one less ignorant alcoholic person to worry about.
… they can be white, brown, black, yellow, pink, purple, green.. i don’t care.
9:15 pm on March 3rd, 2009
Both my parents were alcoholics, and they ended-up just like this… one dead! My daddy thought he killed my mom; she was just unconscience, then he killed himself. Both were drunk as skunks. We ended-up in an orphanage (5 of us). So you’ll have to excuse me if I don’t have one shread of sympathy for the woman or the man. They have left their kids nothing but bad memories. They chose to booze themselves into fist fights at the expense of their kids. I’m white as the driven snow, so the racial implications you imagine are of your own paranoia. My parents had lots of “friends”, too; they didn’t give a shit about us kids… just having a good ole’ time. Is that the kind of friend you were? Give me a f…king break lady!
7:34 am on March 4th, 2009
how does one catch a knife?
9:10 am on March 4th, 2009
This is no loss. The man is dead and will not be fathering any more children, nor abusing any more women. The only tragedy here is that he didn’t manage to fatally wound the woman before he died.
9:11 am on March 4th, 2009
He did catch it — with his abdomen.
I think the ignorant freak may mean that he would seize her arm or wrist when she lunged at him and prevent the knife from reaching him.
9:54 am on March 4th, 2009
Me and my hubby as well, Athena!
We get a little more wine or beer than normal and grab the kareoke machine at home. Fun is had by all, well, except for the neighbors….
10:10 am on March 4th, 2009
Glad to know I’m a happy drunk instead of a mean nasty one. And WTF was up with these too? were they masochists or something?
10:35 am on March 4th, 2009
Somebody ALWAYS has to bring up the racial thing. They fired me cause im black,They pulled me over cause im black blah blah blah, Dreamin demon is the MOST NON-racial board Iv’e ever been on and im a proud member. Why do people always gotta bring racism or religion into it?
These two asshat alcoholics are just that! alcoholics. Dont mix the booze with the bad relationship baby~
6:32 pm on March 4th, 2009
I see know there’s a new group of people trying to respond to what I said, first all if you read the fukin story correctly it said nothing about them being alcoholics, it said how much he had to drink, not here, secondly what they reported here is not what was told to the damn police in the first place, but like usual people believes everything they read and hear on the news.
7:02 pm on March 4th, 2009
I’m curious. Do you have any evidence or links to back up this statement? If you do, please share them. I would like to see them.
7:10 pm on March 4th, 2009
Maybe you should go back and read it again.. It said she was drinking vodka.
7:16 pm on March 4th, 2009
7:19 pm on March 4th, 2009
maybe you need to look alittle further…..
7:21 pm on March 4th, 2009
What? You think your life has been so bad and hard that no one else can walk a day in your life?
Hate to tell you this but when you are feeling like it can’t get worse, stop, look around because there is always someone who is worse off than you..
7:22 pm on March 4th, 2009
A little further for what?
7:29 pm on March 4th, 2009
No. Alcoholics attend meetings.
I believe they would. They also would probably be wondering if there was any alcohol, drugs, or mental problems to explain the reason why this tragedy occurred.
9:08 pm on March 4th, 2009
.
9:08 pm on March 4th, 2009
oh there you go! my sentiments EXACTLY!
9:17 pm on March 4th, 2009
9:44 pm on March 4th, 2009
LOL@hello?
11:34 pm on March 4th, 2009
Why do I have to read something that I already know what really happened? None you of you were there, so you are making your comments off story that was printed, nor do I have to tell what really happened cause what’s that going to change, nothing. And why do they have to be asshats?? I asked a question and the best you can do is alcoholics goto meetings! Come on you can do better than this….
Now if story went like this, (hypothetical story and I’m just curious) he went out partying while she was at home with her kids minding her own business, when he came to visit, they started arguing, he started beating on her, she called the police, he came at her with a bat, so she armed herself for protection to fend him off until the police arrived, and then she ended up stabbing him?? Is she still an asshat then or is it self defense??? What if that situation happened to a family member or a good friend of yours, What would the comments be then?? Would you be upset if you saw something like this about your friend or family member, meaning the comments???
6:57 am on March 5th, 2009
She’s still an asshat. THEIR FIGHTS USUALLY ENDED IN A PHYSICAL CONFRONTATION BETWEEN THE TWO, AND YET SHE CHOSE TO STAY WITH HIM. She is a murdering asshat.
Quit blaming the police. Seems that the murder happened so fast after she originally called them that they didn’t have enough time to respond to the first call before she made the second call.
9:57 am on March 5th, 2009
when you comment you really need to pay attention to who said what and comment to them. Im not the one who said “alcoholics go to meetings” someone else said that and Im pretty sure when they said that they were joking. No you did not ask any questions at all, all you have done is defend defend defend. You refuse to tell us the “truth” yet you can come on this board and defend because “you know the truth”. You still to enlighten us with your grammatical errors and whit so keep it coming. In the words of bogustoo,she’s still an asshat.
10:44 am on March 5th, 2009
It’s called humor and I was hoping you could do better instead of coming on here saying we don’t know the true story because we were not there. Were you?
I asked for you to show some proof to your statements about what really happened and all you can come back with is:
I have no problem with revising my story if you can show me some proof that the version I wrote was incorrect, but I have the feeling you really do not know what truly happened yourself and are only going by what was told to you.
I am sorry for the pain you must feel about this situation and I can understand why you feel the need to defend your friend, but she admitted herself that they had a violent relationship and it was a normal thing for them to inflict injuries upon each other.
This was a bad situation to begin with and it ended with a horrific outcome.
3:29 pm on March 6th, 2009
tim was a very good friend of mine he was like a little brother. melissa had a problem. she would get very jealous and accuse tim of cheating. he left her at one point but he stayed because of his kids.
4:10 pm on March 6th, 2009
Sorry for your loss, Adreap.
It is a pity that he didn’t stay away. It seems even the children would have been better off with an absent father rather than a dead father and a mother in gaol.
Was it common knowledge among friends and relatives that the relationship was so volatile? Did this end come as a surprise, or was it one of those cases where the people who care shake their heads and say “it was only a matter of time….”?
5:29 pm on March 6th, 2009
thanks ! and yes it was a surprise to me and some of our friends. he was very funny, and loving.some times he was a pest but over all he was a very good person, and i would have help him when ever he needed me.
6:04 pm on March 6th, 2009
I am very sorry for your loss. The kids have another Angel watching over them now.
7:47 pm on August 19th, 2009
Always wondered what happened to Biz Markie.
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