Melissa Calusinski Loves Kids
January 18, 2009 by Jaded
Melissa M. Calusinski (MyspaceMySpace
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Carpentersville, IL–After 16-month-old Benjamin Kingan suddenly died on Wednesday, both the family and the police thought that perhaps a seizure or something congenital caused his unexpected death. The family put death notices in newspapers and began funeral preparations. His funeral was to be held SaturdaySaturday reviews
…friends and family were coming in from out of town to say good-bye. Then the coroner called. Benjamin was the victim of a homicide.
Lincolnshire Police Chief Randy Melvin: ‘Our initial investigation seemed to indicate that it was natural causes, or possibly something congenital. Further investigation revealed … the infant had suffered a severe fracture to the top of the head.’ The funeral was canceled and the investigation continued.
Benjamin died at the hands of Melissa Calusinski, a teacher’s assistant at Minee Subee Child Care Center, where Benjamin was enrolled. Minee Subee attorney Matt Walsh said Saturday that Calusinski has been placed on administrative leave and ‘will not be returning to the facility pending resolution of this matter.’ The center is well regarded in the community and there are no prior incidents or complaints.
Melissa, who had worked at the center for over a year, was in a room with Benjamin, another adult, and seven other children. Shortly after 3:00 p.m., in a fit of rage and frustration, Melissa picked Benjamin up and threw him onto the floor. She was upset because he was ‘making noise and stuff like that.’ Yeah, he’s a KID you idiot bitch! Police said the other adult in the room didn’t see it happen.
After being thrown to the floor, Benjamin was able to grab a blanket and crawl to a bouncy chair, where he passed out minutes later. That one sentence broke my heart.
Less than a half-hour later, Melissa realized that the baby was unresponsive and she called for help. Benjamin was pronounced dead at the hospital an hour later. Lake County Prosecutor Steve Scheller said the boy’s skull was fractured with ‘force consistent with a drop from the top of a one- or two-story building.’
Lake County Coroner Richard Keller noted that because it takes time for swelling and bleeding in the brain to reach fatal levels, it’s not unusual that the boy had the ability to crawl after being thrown to the ground. ‘These injuries are not immediately fatal,’ he said. The autopsy showed no outward signs of injury, the bruising was beneath the skin.
Melissa Calusinski, 22, is being charged with two counts of first-degree murder. Her bond has been set at $5 million.
Special2bme and Tazzzz are tearing the bitch up in the forums.
10:32 am on January 18th, 2009
I find this part hard to believe.
Oh and while I’m here – fuck your pity party pimple face mug shot Twatlissa!
10:35 am on January 18th, 2009
Her mug shot would blend in well with all of her dumbass Myspace pouty pics.
10:54 am on January 18th, 2009
Burn, bitch, burn.
That or kill yourself first you miserable, pimple-faced monster.
FUCK OFF.
11:06 am on January 18th, 2009
Ugly, mousy, stupid whore.
Probably got frustrated that the kid interrupted her taking yet another cell phone pic of herself in the daycare bathroom! Good fucking grief!
Thrown the equivalent of falling from a 2 story building??? OMG! That would take tremendous force – therefore tremendous rage!! She’s got some serious issues and she never needs to be free or around children again!
RIP baby boy. So very sorry for the parents on this one. Heartbreaking.
11:06 am on January 18th, 2009
I can’t imagine being a mother and knowing that’s how your child spent it’s last moments of life… it’s devastating.
That bitch deserves to rot, however I’d really like to know what make up combinations she used to hide all that acne in her myspace pictures
11:42 am on January 18th, 2009
Me too…I’m still to heartbroken to really think straight, godamn I hope that bitch suffers….horribly for the rest of her pathetic life.
Minee Subee DayCare standard of safety:
Drop your child off each day knowing that she/he will always be safe within the walls of Minee Subee Early Education and Care facility.
The poor family…
11:56 am on January 18th, 2009
Lord, had this been my baby boy, I would have killed this woman where she stands.
My heart just broke…just so incredibly sad. Baby boy passes out never to wake again, and this bitch was the last person that he saw….she deserves death.
My deepest sympathies to the family and friends.
Rest in peace baby Benjamin.
12:58 pm on January 18th, 2009
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1:18 pm on January 18th, 2009
I’m very familiar with DCFS regulations in Illinois as I am a early chidlhood educator.
True enough, picking up kids and throwing them is not proper “guidance” for children
and this skank should spend the rest of her days been thrown on her head, but that center also needs to be looked into. As well as the other teacher. Because the priomary bitch isn’t the only one wrong in this situation.
For children that age, it should be 1 teacher for every three children. They have those ratios because kids that small can wear on your nerves and its easier to deal with a small amount than an entire group.
Secondly, to the other teacher in the room…WTF! There is a reason you are there. If you see your co-worker THROW A FUCKING CHILD, you are supposed to bring that to their attention.
I don’t know about other states but in Illinois when you become a daycare teacher they make you sign a paper that says you are a mandatory reporter. That means, IF YOU SEE ABUSE REPORT ABUSE. I’ve turned people in for not strapping their kid into a car seat and this bitch doesn’t think she has a duty to report?
What’s funny to me is that I’ve worked at a lot of places with good reputation in Chicago and the suburbs. I’ve quit all these places because what the parents fail to see is that while the owners are kissing up to the parents, they don’t know how to run a daycare and/or don’t care about the children. It’s all about the benjamins.
Parents: surprise the daycare that your children goes to. The best time to do so is right after lunch before they put the kids down for nap. You will get to see your child’s teachers true colors because that is the final stretch when the teacher only has a bit of patience left. If the teacher can keep their cool then they are most likely able to keep their cool the rest of the day.
Also your child is mostly to be left alone with only one teacher after 5 pm so if you can, pick your child up before then.
1:33 pm on January 18th, 2009
My thoughts exactly.
I can’t either. My deepest sympathy goes out for the family and friends of that poor baby.
R. I. P. little angel
1:37 pm on January 18th, 2009
Wow, seriously? I work in Tennessee and our ratio for ones is 1 to 6, with a maximum of twelve one-year-olds in a room. Which can get interesting, as you said, when one teacher is alone with six toddlers.
3:23 pm on January 18th, 2009
If this BITCH ever gets out I hope that she will be beat to death by the relatives of this child..
3:42 pm on January 18th, 2009
As the mom to a 14-month old boy that sentence breaks my heart too. Even in his last moments he was seeking comfort and refuge from the storm of rage that his poor little cries had unleashed. My thoughts and deepest sympathies are with Benjamin’s family during this dark time.
And for this pissy little fuck murderer…you are lucky as hell that you are still living to make your pity party ugly little faces at the cops taking your picture. No one feels sorry for you you useless little cunt. I can only hope that the women in the shithole prison you end up in that miss their babies every day that they’re behind bars hear about your crime. Maybe then YOU’LL be the one that ends up broken.
4:12 pm on January 18th, 2009
I will provide transportation and lodging to all of them that want a part in it
I can almost guarentee shes going to wish she was dead by the end of her first full day in jail/prison
4:14 pm on January 18th, 2009
This is so sad and a big reason why I stay at home with my my baby girl. You can’t trust anyone these days. I can’t believe she hurt that little baby and the other adult didn’t hear or see anything happen!! Bullshit!
4:20 pm on January 18th, 2009
oh yeah that sentence broke my heart too
and wth is going on with her face ?
4:39 pm on January 18th, 2009
It’s called crack/meth pimples
5:05 pm on January 18th, 2009
If you can’t deal with screaming and crying, don’t work with children. It’s that simple.
5:12 pm on January 18th, 2009
Unfortunately, to quote Voltaire, “Common sense is not so common.”
After looking through her myspace pics, I have never seen someone so damn in love with themselves. Picture, after skanky-face picture of her nasty self. Who the hell lied to her? I wanna kick their ass too!
5:26 pm on January 18th, 2009
Her myspace says, “sad”… She must have put it on Sad before they picked her dumb ass up for murder!
I feel so bad for the family of this innocent child. Also, I can’t believe he didn’t cry or something…. how did NOONE notice that this child was injured to this capacity?
5:34 pm on January 18th, 2009
MY GOD!
I want to kick this bitches ass.
Who the hell throws a baby?
Also,I must add that she looks just like my husbands ex wife..a wretched pile of white trash shit.
I hope she gets the maximum sentence and I think the child’s parents should sue the ever loving piss out of the daycare for not hiring descent people and insuring their child’s safety.
6:00 pm on January 18th, 2009
Hey, hey, hey–nothing wrong with being a bit mousy.
I find it hard to believe that none of the other adults in the room heard anything. Throwing a baby with a force equivalent to falling off a building? As much as it hurts me to say it, wouldn’t the sound of a child being hurled to the floor make a pretty loud thumping sound?
Between this one and IncestMom, it’s apparently Zitface Weekend at DD–
6:06 pm on January 18th, 2009
This is why I work from home and never trusted anyone other than family to care for my kids when I couldn’t. My son is 14 months old. I would hurt that woman in ways she’s never imagined if that were my baby.
6:15 pm on January 18th, 2009
LOL
The parents should not only sue but they should have the right to throw her like she did that baby.
6:19 pm on January 18th, 2009
No shit. How in the hell could another adult in the room notice NOTHING throughout the course of this???
6:20 pm on January 18th, 2009
Off the top of a ten-story buliding, of course!
7:21 pm on January 18th, 2009
The thing is… looking at her myspace, she doesn’t seem white trash, meth’d out, or crazy. Okay, maybe a few too many self photos (and man, she needs to lay off the face shot and stick with full body to flatter herself.) But altogether, she seems perfectly early 20-s ordinary. Which is what makes this whole story so much more of a nightmare to every working mother utilizing child care out there. That nice, everyday, regular (if slightly plain,) girl at the daycare? Even she might kill your baby while you’re off trying to pay the rent.
8:09 pm on January 18th, 2009
Was the other person fucking deaf??? Jesus, I have heard my daughter fall in her bedroom and I in another…. a thud loud enough to crack this little boys skull had to have been very loud. Where was that other adult because if she didn’t hear it, she wasn’t where she was supposed to be!!!!! There is no way she didn’t hear it. Also, you’d think some of the other children that were older (kids 3 and under were there) would have said something. I know my daughter who is almost 3 would have been over to him and in his face saying, “are you okay baby”….. she asks me if I am okay if I just look sad…. sooooo, wtf?
8:25 pm on January 18th, 2009
This whole damn thing stinks. I’m having doubts about this daycare period. How many other kids has this psychohosebeast thrown around? How many other employees at this daycare are abusive? Makes me wonder because it’s starting to sound like someone is covering her ass and why would they unless they were same kind shit she is.
9:26 pm on January 18th, 2009
If she did that too my child the bitch wouldn’t be going to jail because I would have killed her.
She needs Proactive for her pimply ass fucking face.
10:33 pm on January 18th, 2009
Take your kid to daycare and you take your chances. When my daughter was born, we decided for my wife to stay home.
If you stick your kid in daycare, they will get sick more often. They will learn behavioral problems. They will be exposed to scum. Years ago when my wife and I were in college, she worked at such a place.
Ownership always puts their staff over ratio for the given age groups. The fines are cheaper than hiring more daycare providers.
I met many of these women through my wife. Many are morally bankrupt low class people. A glance at this cum dumpsters myspace alludes to the same type. Party all the time. Fuck anything that moves and still expect to be treated like virgin white snow.
Who wants to bet that the previous night to the incident involved alcohol and little sleep?
I heard countless stories af absolute trah working in these places. Plus the scum that would dump their children there for 12 hours and go out drinking and clubbing.
I heard one time where another child was given breast milk from a different mother. Oh yeaaaah…
Keep your children away from such places. Get a trusted family member to watch them if you must. No, not Chester the Molester.
10:48 pm on January 18th, 2009
This is such a Sad Story. I thank The Creator that my daughter is now grown. Daycare can be a nightmare for any parent and being a single parent did not make things better in my case.
I can not even begain to think of how the call went down with the parent of this poor defenssless child. Over the past couple of days, just reading about how children have been killed by adults is really starting to wear on my mind. I can hear the children calling for their mothers and wondering why mommy is not there to help me or why mommy IS there and letting these things happen to me. I know because I was one of these children. But I was able to survive it all. I lived a nightmare that I carry with me daily and it kills me to read these real life horror stories.
I just had to comment on this case and I pray and ask that the seraphins protect this child’s soul and that if this “Child Care” personnel is quilty may she Phucking die by tomorrow’s light. Not by her own hand but by that of another.
My God! how can you hurt any child and one that you have no blood ties to, that you are supposed to have in your care/protection.
When my daughter was young, I would go to work and be on pins and needles until my daughter was back in my arms.
I hate all of these sorry shits. That includes my babysitter and her deranged brother and mother-the real ghetto Chain Saw Massacare family.
10:49 pm on January 18th, 2009
She loves kids!!! I can see the babysitter motto: I can make your kids quiet….. FOREVER!
You can not tell me that nobody else saw or heard anything, they need to be right next to her in jail, what about the other kids? None of them said anything to their own parents (because it took the autopsy to find out what happened) so it must have been common place.
FUCKING BITCH. I HOPE THE GIRLS GET HER.
11:01 pm on January 18th, 2009
No kidding! After looking at all of these myspace profiles the past few days, I have taken note to not only be checking the myspaces of the kids my own kids hang out with, but of their parents too and anyone else on their friends list! They can post all the meaningless “fake” garbage they want about how they really love kids, love their own kids, and stand behind our troops, but eventually some of the truth about who they really are slips through. I like to party, I don’t mind posting that I am a slut of a mother who loves giving blowjobs, and I am an illiterate ignorant bitch who doesn’t know how to delete my first myspace, so I have to make another, and another, and another!
Definitely something to keep in mind folks! Start checking the myspaces and everything else you can find on the internet about the people in contact with your kids and their friends! Even teachers!
11:11 pm on January 18th, 2009
Fo sho.
11:26 pm on January 18th, 2009
After being thrown to the floor, Benjamin was able to grab a blanket and crawl to a bouncy chair, where he passed out minutes later. That one sentence broke my heart.
Mine too. It just broke mine too. Maybe it is me….but if small children “making noises” irritates you to the point of brutality then perhaps a daycare is not the best vocation for you….Ugly bitch
9:16 am on January 19th, 2009
She threw him to the floor because he was making noise?? WTH?? He was a toddler!! You evil, stupid skank bitch!! He was a baby!
And how the hell could the other adult not see anything? If you pick a child up in a fit of rage, some at least had to hear something!
Rest with God Benjamin. I hope you get full and true justice. And I will pray for your family.
9:23 am on January 19th, 2009
Can you imagine the poor parents…my heart goes out to them. “You would think” you could ATLEAST trust a day care. Ugh.. this is repulsive. She’s lucky that “the law” got to her before the parents of the child. I tell ya, if those parents are anything like me and my bf …that crazy sleez would have beaten within an inch of her inch. There would have been no stopping me and ABSOLTLY NO REMORSE!!
Thats true…
Yea that should raise some questions and maybe a red flag in itself. This day care and the people employed there should be THOROUGHLY investigated.
10:31 am on January 19th, 2009
I’d love to see this bitch pay for what she did, I’d love to throw her off a building myself. At the same, not all daycares are bad & not all parents can afford to stay home or have family watch their kids. I’m sure some workers/chidcares are incredibly GREAT
While others are terrible. Parents need to really check out anyone they’re going to leave their child with.
12:12 pm on January 19th, 2009
Here is the only picture I could find of him. I don’t know which one he is in the picture but this is him with his family
[IMG]http://i39.tinypic.com/1z5kapu.jpg[/IMG]
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=1z5kapu&s=5
12:15 pm on January 19th, 2009
Obit
Benjamin Kingan of Deerfield The funeral service for Benjamin Kingan, age 1, will be at 11 a.m. Wednesday, at Kolssak Funeral Home, Ltd., 189 S. Milwaukee Ave. (two blocks south of Dundee Road), Wheeling. Interment will be in Vernon Cemetery. Visitation will be from 3 to 8 p.m. Tuesday, at the funeral home. He was the beloved son of Andrew and Amy (nee Drueck) Kingan; loving brother of Danielle Mock, Jacob Kingan and Emily Kingan; cherished grandson of Charles (Jane) Drueck and David (Geraldine) Kingan; fond nephew of Laurie (Greg) Bond and David (Maria) Kingan; and cousin of five. In lieu of flowers, donations to WINGS Clinical Services at http://www.wingsprogram.com, appreciated. For information, 847-537-6600 or http://www.funerals.pro.
12:30 pm on January 19th, 2009
Poor parents – I imagine it’s heartbreaking enought to have your child die… But to find out that it was PREVENTABLE!!!! I bet they would love a few minutes alone with crater face. I think they should lock her in a room with the mother.
12:38 pm on January 19th, 2009
Genius idea. You got my vote.
1:01 pm on January 19th, 2009
You know what it is, how innocent they are, that’s what tears us all apart. They cannot understand an adults rage and speaking for myself I have a hard time with that. Knowing the sadness and confusion he must of felt. All he wanted was his security blanket. God! I am going to take a break and cry now.
2:48 pm on January 19th, 2009
Which is exactly why the mother should be allowed to beat this whore within an inch of her pathetic life. She had not right to put he hands on that child. She had no right to rob that mother of her pride and joy. GUH!!
4:18 pm on January 19th, 2009
If that had been my child bitch killed she would be damn lucky to be in jail. Screw death, I would be playing spanish inquisition with her ass. I am not a mean or cruel person by nature but when it comes to my son he is my top priorty. His safety, his happiness, his wellbeing..ect all else is second. Mess with my child then and you will see a true mothers reaction of protection, hate and revenge. I really feel for his parents I can not even imagine what they are feeling.
Children make noise, they cry, and they often do things that they shouldn’t ..that does not give anyone the right to harm them in any way shape or form. I am so tired of reading how people use that as the reason they snapped. No the truth of the matter is that they themselves have failed at being a human being, and because of that they should be removed from the human race.
4:54 pm on January 19th, 2009
I am so sick over this story. I read on another site and this one similar details how after being thrown to the floor that he crawled to his blanket and pacifier and then collapsed in his “comfort zone” bouncer chair. My son is the same age and I would just die if something happened to him. If anything at all happened.
I wish I could have stopped this. There are a handfull of stories that just made me sick and this is one of those. Why…..
6:52 pm on January 19th, 2009
melissa was my best friend i never in my wildest dreams ever thought she was capable of this! she was great with kids and all the kids loved her!! it hard for me because i dont know how to react to this im still in shock!!! she knows that all her friends still love her!!! i feel so bad for that little boys parents noone derserves to lose their baby like that. i dont know how she had the strength to throw him down so hard she is a tiny girl.. she should have just walked away
6:58 pm on January 19th, 2009
Britney – I am relieved that you are spewing statements of how she is innocent. We see that all too often. I’m sorry that you are dealing with this. She hurt more people than just the family of the child. We forget that sometimes.
BTW – I wonder how hard you have to slam a baby on the floor to kill them. That is frightening. Poor baby.
7:04 pm on January 19th, 2009
im not trying to defend her i just wish i knew what the fuck she was thinking when she did that!!! its like i love her cuz she was my friend but i hate her so much for doing that!!! it wasnt teh first time she killed a baby!!! she also got 2 abortions in less then a yr.
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