How do you think they’ll feel knowing that their own dad killed their grandma? It’s not our fault he decided to kill her. It’s too late to change the comments at this article was dead ages ago. I’m sorry for your loss but you have to understand that this type of stuff comes with the territory of killing your own mother.

Do you wanna know what I am thinking? I think you sick people need to get a life!! Do you people ever think about how your comments or this page may affect his daughters and his family? I am the mother of his daughters and yes, my husband and I have done everything in our power to help them through this entire ordeal, however, are you not aware that they will always be searching for answers and when they run across this page, they not only have to deal with the truth, they will be reading all these lies and bullshit! The situation is hard enough to deal with. Please try considering the family and friends of those you think you should make comments about! Especially in troubled situations like this one!!

She sure did. She made the best decision for her and the children. They’re doing great.

Sounds like his ex made a very wise decision to high-tail it with the kids.

He beat the woman he claimed to love long before the accident!!!!

Its me again and the more I read the sicker to my stomach that I get. This man is the evil one and I just wish you could of seen what he had done to this wonderful woman that I know. He deserves to be in prison for the rest of his life. It is a miracal that he has not killed anyone else. Just keep in mind that the man before the accident was just as mean and evil as the man after the accident. The accident is what gave my friend the balls to finally leave and raise her girls in loving enviroment.

Hi, I just want everyone to know that Jake was a crazy asshole before the accident. So this poor Jake had brain damage is a load of crap. One of my best friends is the mother to the two beutiful girls that Jake help create. I just thank God that thier mom was finally brave enough to leave that very abusive man before it was to late for the three of them. He was capable of murder even before his accident. So do not let anyone fool you that the accident turned him into what he is today.

He beat the woman he claimed to love long before the accident!!!!

. It is in-excusable what he’s done, but not unforgivable. That’s what his mom would say.

the system for the mentally ill in this country is criminal in itself. We always hear the line after an incident like this that they can’t put away unless they are a danger to themselves or others and even then they don’t get put away sometimes. That is why incidents like this occur..

Hi, I just want everyone to know that Jake was a crazy asshole before the accident. So this poor Jake had brain damage is a load of crap. One of my best friends is the mother to the two beutiful girls that Jake help create. I just thank God that thier mom was finally brave enough to leave that very abusive man before it was to late for the three of them. He was capable of murder even before his accident. So do not let anyone fool you that the accident turned him into what he is today.

Somehow, to me.. this makes more sense. Sounds like it was just a matter of time before he went too far.

Hi, I just want everyone to know that Jake was a crazy asshole before the accident. So this poor Jake had brain damage is a load of crap. One of my best friends is the mother to the two beutiful girls that Jake help create. I just thank God that thier mom was finally brave enough to leave that very abusive man before it was to late for the three of them. He was capable of murder even before his accident. So do not let anyone fool you that the accident turned him into what he is today.

I don’t think you are saying he shouldn’t be held responsible for his crime; I think you are just giving more information that makes the whole picture a little clearer. The psych exam will determine if he is competent, and if not, he will be held and treated until he is competent. If he is, it may explain some of the circumstances leading up to his crime, but it is not an excuse for his crime. And I think you understand and agrees with that, judging by your comments.

It’s easy for you all to hate him and judge him, not knowing anything about him. If you knew him before he lost his life, you couldn’t hate him. They will both be OK now. He will get the help he has always needed and she is finally at peace.

Come on! Look here http://www.dreamindemon.com/gunshot-by-computer/ they almost look identical…although our boy here looks a litlle rode hard and strung up wet.

I hope his sisters and daughters don’t come across this page. This nightmare is tough enough to deal with, without hearing outsiders opinions on a story they really don’t know anything about, except for what was written by a journalist.

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You say it was only a matter of time before one of them went too far. This sounds co-dependent.

Anyway, Mel, sorry about all this. Bad times.

No joke. I bet Jesus would have no trouble jamming a large-print KJV right up someone’s ass.

I agree with you, Wry. Keep us all safe! People used to do the long-term thing more–but insurance companies want them out as soon as possible. Of course, back in the day, long-term did get abused–poor Frances Farmer, the beautiful bi commie actress who got raped by orderlies and finally was lobotomized, is a famous example. But this guy shouldn’t have been anywhere near anyone w/out a straight jacket on!

There is a long story behind all of this. Jake has not always been that way. He was once a wonderful father, son, friend and boyfriend (not mine, my friends). Then he died in a car wreck. The EMTs brought him back. He spent a long time in a coma. He has never been the same since.

Most of us wanted her to put him in a hospital, but they had no money after the medical expenses. She even lost her home and property. She loved her son very much and would not institutionalize him.

This is why we need long-term, live-in mental institutions. It sounds to me as if Mel would have been happier there than moving around with someone he fought with and his mother would have been safer. Off-loading the mentally ill onto their unprepared families is cruelty by a medical CARE system that has become medical BUSINESS system. I could go on and on, but I am very sorry for what happened in this situation. It must have seemed a miracle that he survived and then this happened.

Bwuahahahahaha! I KILL me!

I’m sorry to report that the mental health care in prison isn’t what I would consider “help”.

I find it more offensive that Jesus was portrayed as a long-haired white-man…

lol Oh thats right. Jesus is a Black Woman. Which is the complete opposite of what MOST think.

They will both be OK now. He will get the help he has always needed and she is finally at peace.

Seriously, if Jesus were here today I think he would do more than just flip the bird at a lot of us.

I find it hard to believe that nobody in the hospital system got Jake Medicaid or SSI. Either of those things would have paid for residential care - IF Jake was disabled enough, either psychiatrically or physically, to qualify. And believe me, the vast majority of brain injured patients get both, simply because brain injuries require months or years of rehab and the loss of function is nearly always enough to make employment difficult if not impossible. And you’re telling me that Jake had none of those benefits? That makes no sense to me.

Jake lost everything while he was in a coma - his girlfriend left him and she had the kids. He also lost a good 2 years of his memory, so he didn’t even remember his youngest being born - nor did he know he and his girlfriend were having trouble. All he knew is that he woke up and nothing was like he thought it was.