Comments on: Jessica Alejandro Killed By One Too Many Joshuas

By: fair AndBalanced

fair AndBalanced — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 09:14:17 +0000

…restraining orders don’t work. Call one of the women’s rescue shelters and set up a time when they (and the cops) can move you out, along with your stuff and your kids.
You get exactly one chance to get this right, don’t miss it by using half-measures. If he is NOT a problem and IS going to be part of your life, he will be whether or not you leave for a women’s shelter.
If he is NOT going to be part of your life, it is immeasurably better to physically separate yourself in one swoop by going to a (secret location) safe house run by a women’s shelter.

By: saltwatergirl

saltwatergirl — Sat, 06 Sep 2008 20:11:19 +0000

How come it is so easy for a no good POS to take the live a a decent young woman who was making a difference in the world?

By: Abroad

Abroad — Sat, 06 Sep 2008 15:47:38 +0000

They donâ€™t always work anyway, trust me, I have very personal experience with that. But she still should have done it. And she shouldnâ€™t have let him anywhere near her or the children.

I was about to say they don’t always work.

Sorry to hear that you have personal experience of that, Peeper. I forget how many Denizens come her through some form of victimhood. They all seem so strong to me.

By: nellymed

nellymed — Sat, 06 Sep 2008 15:41:01 +0000

I grew up in a house with an evil stepdad that pulled out guns and threaten my mother all the time. To this day I still wake up sweating and scared because i think i hear muffled screams. Ladies if your in a relationship with an abusive bastard your not the only ones hurt by him but your kids hurt seeing that. So the point of this is just saying that if you dont have kids and want to put up with abuse thats your call. But if you’re a mom its your responsibility to get help for those kids. Im sorry that these kids had to witness their father kill their mom and I hope one day they will heal from the wounds.

By: CSI CantStandIdiots

CSI CantStandIdiots — Sat, 06 Sep 2008 08:36:41 +0000

Very sad this happened.

I really hope the kids stay together. It’s tragic to have one parent taken away from you let alone two. These kids will forever be traumatized with this. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family and close friends. She sounds like she was a giving woman and helping others.
So sad…

Thank you Ruby for posting this…

The family is asking you to donate any old clothing you can to the children left behind via the Laff House, a comedy club in Philly.

You can drop off donations at the Laff House located at 221 South Street, Philadelphia PA you can call (215) 440 – HAHA and ask for Kristina. Thank you for your helpâ€¦ monetary donations are also accepted.

By: nadine

nadine — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 18:17:47 +0000

Very sadand tragic and my prayers for Jesse’s family go out, Yes he is a coward for the actions he took, and i hope the children can adjust somewhat to a normal loving surroundings. very sad

By: Ruby

Ruby — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 18:17:29 +0000

I found this posted today, and thought people in the Philly area might be interested.

The family is asking you to donate any old clothing you can to the children left behind via the Laff House, a comedy club in Philly.

You can drop off donations at the Laff House located at 221 South Street, Philadelphia PA you can call (215) 440 – HAHA and ask for Kristina. Thank you for your helpâ€¦ monetary donations are also accepted.

By: kratesis

kratesis — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 17:56:55 +0000

So sad when people meet their untimely death due to a horrible relationship and not listening to their loved ones. I will echo what was said in the report, PLEASE if others are begging you to get away and to get a restraining order, there’s probably a reason, DO IT, better to be safe than sorry. I feel so bad for all those kids who have lost both their parents.

By: WryBread

WryBread — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 13:17:02 +0000

What’s with naming all the boys Joshua? That’s freaky right there.

I suppose he thought, “If I can’t have any more Joshuas and Jessicas with her, no man will have any Joshuas or Jessicas with her!” Bang, bang.

I hope for the best for the little kids. I wonder if the Joshuas will eventually change their name(s).

By: 4realtho

4realtho — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 01:44:02 +0000

What a Prickâ€¦â€¦He should of just shot himself.Those poor kids.

Exactly what I was thinking. Fucking coward, couldn’t take just his own life, had to destory the life of the mother and the kids…..not to mention other family members.

By: Pixie

Pixie — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 19:38:59 +0000

They donâ€™t always work anyway, trust me, I have very personal experience with that. But she still should have done it. And she shouldnâ€™t have let him anywhere near her or the children.

I agree completely! You’re right, she should have gotten those kids to safety.

By: Peeperann

Peeperann — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 19:29:41 +0000

Itâ€™s super sad and you know, they donâ€™t always give you an order of protection when you need one anyway.

They don’t always work anyway, trust me, I have very personal experience with that. But she still should have done it. And she shouldn’t have let him anywhere near her or the children.

Those poor little kids. I too hope they can stay together and grow up to be good productive people. I’ll pray for them…..

By: katyk

katyk — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 18:53:31 +0000

This story almost made me cry. Those poor children.

By: Trish

Trish — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 18:43:34 +0000

What a Prick……He should of just shot himself.
Those poor kids.

By: Not So Speechless

Not So Speechless — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 17:29:31 +0000

Selfish prick- selfish for naming the boys all Joshua and selfish for killing all of the Josh’s mom. So sad.