I can only hope that he is put into the general population in jail. It’s time for some Karma to head his way.

Yea, I just hope nothing happened to my kids and it pains me to know that I will never know for sure. I could have my oldest interviewed but I’ve already questioned her and she keeps saying no.

He worked at a school as a teacher and I think he worked with younger autistic kids or something.

NOT to minimize the poor child’s experience; it was terrible, but the first thing I thought was that I was glad it wasn’t worse. We’ve all seen worse stories of children (god, and babies) being horribly molested: raped and physically hurt & damaged from it. If she wasn’t caused any physical pain and if she wasn’t really frightened: maybe she is young enough to not be permanently scarred – that’s what I’m hoping. And thank GOD she mentioned it to her Grandmother.

I was touched so I know how it is. My friend’s Dad had sexual intercourse with her when she was like 5 so I know. I have two kids and I am worried. One child can say yes or no to my specific questions and so far she’s said no and my other one is sadly not able to do this. I just wonder about my youngest because there’s no way to find out.

Please put the focus on the Schneider’s and the innocent girl because I have enough to deal with right now with my own family and relationships.

I’m sorry but the word bummer means any unpleasant or disappointing experience and this crime and loss associated with it fits the word bummer.

Thanks for coming and sharing more details with us, but I still think that you are minimizing how awful this truly is. It’s not unpleasant or disappointing. She didn’t step in dogshit…That is unpleasant and disappointing. She was molested and that is repulsive and inexcusable. There is no justifying it. I don’t care if she is 1, 3, 7 or 11. If it was my daughter I wouldn’t be thinking, “Wow. That’s really unpleasant. I’m very disappointed that my daughter was licked and sucked on by a person that I paid to take care of her. By the way, will they get a refund?

The fact it was done and he admitted to it is enough. Lets see what happens on Monday.

I didn’t think memory started until four and someone else on another board stated that because of her age and how he may have been doing it in a playful way that maybe she wouldn’t realize it was wrong or bad. Maybe some people at age 3 will remeber and maybe some won’t.

I remember things from when I was 2 1/2 – 3 years old. If she thought he was doing it in a playful way, she more than likely wouldn’t have said anything. But then again, there’s nothing playful about doing oral sex on (or even putting his mouth on the vagina of) a 3 year old.

I didn’t think memory started until four and someone else on another board stated that because of her age and how he may have been doing it in a playful way that maybe she wouldn’t realize it was wrong or bad. Maybe some people at age 3 will remeber and maybe some won’t. I think it depends on the crime and how tramatic it is and whether or not people repeat the story as you grow. Sorry for those who had to experience such an event and remember it at such an early age. I had no idea one could remember at 3 so that’s good to know.

As far as I know it’s been about a couple years.

She probably doesn’t understand what happened to her, but as she gets older, she will. The memory will disturb her even more.