
South Bend, IN - Joshua Kati is currently serving a twenty-year home detention for dealing cocaine. At least, he was until early Saturday morning, when he killed a man. James E. Muddiman Sr., 63, was working his first night as a security guard at South Bank Bar in South Bend. When Kati’s girlfriend tried to leave with a drink in her hand, Muddiman stopped her.
James Muddiman got hit for his trouble. Hit hard. With one massive punch, Joshua Kati clocked Mr, Muddiman in the side of the head and sent him falling to the concrete floor. Muddiman’s head bounced, and it was lights out for the man who was just trying to do his job. He died later on Saturday of his injuries.
Joshua Kati’s Myspace has been made private - too bad. But it does show a picture on the front, and his “mind is on his money”. Kati has a record. He’s been convicted of theft, domestic battery, harassment, and resisting arrest - all that aside from his 2004 conviction for selling 30 grams of cocaine to an undercover cop. And what the hell kind of home detention lets people go to bars? I’m just curious, because if that’s the case, I’m moving to Indiana before I commit any felonies.
James Muddiman, Sr. has a record, too. He was a Vietnam veteran who served his country well, raised his family, and ran a private investigation company, Infinity Investigations. He also worked as a part-time security officer for Indiana University South Bend. Not really the same kind of record, is it?
Joshua Kati is charged with aggravated battery and reckless homicide. He is being held in the St. Joseph County Jail on $100,000 cash bond.
Thanks, Kathy, for the link in our forums!





























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megamum
May 20, 2008 at 11:08 am -I wish I could kill a$$holes like this.
Just not my character.
To bad for me.
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SqueakyClean
May 20, 2008 at 1:00 pm -Asshole.
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Miss. Hill
May 20, 2008 at 1:04 pm -He’s a winner!
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Wonder
May 20, 2008 at 2:28 pm -so before mr mudman started working at the bar - they were permitted to taking out drinks …
God Bless Muddman’s family for their loss.
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impqueen
May 20, 2008 at 2:41 pm -No. In Indiana it’s illegal to leave a bar with an open alcoholic beverage.
Mr. Muddiman was doing his job.
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Peeperann
May 20, 2008 at 2:45 pm -Well, Megamumm I do have the type of personality that I could kill these asshats!! Anyone who could punch an elderly man hard enough to kill him, and any of the baby rapers and murderers, I could kill them very cheerfully!! And trust me, i’m not a violent or crazy person. But these scumbags get off on everything so easily and then the next thing they do is worse. I have an nice 9mm that could easily do the trick
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Barbara
May 20, 2008 at 3:18 pm -Stupid fukwad loser.
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Wonder
May 20, 2008 at 3:24 pm -hehe i knew that imp, just meaning they didn’t enforce it as far as joshua was concerned… why else would he get sooooo upset. I kinda know what it feels like when you do something all the time and then someone tells you that you can’t.
When we went to Indiana, I learned to take out food in a restuarant was not permitted unless they had a license for carry out. (I’d never heard of that before) I had to wrap up my other half of sandwich in a napkin and put it in my purse - yuck
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Harley_Tech
May 20, 2008 at 4:48 pm -29 year home detention? That goes so far beyond stupid I can’t wrap my head around it.
I say cut this puss gut from nads to nose and let the vultures finish him off. Better still, shove a fence post up his arse like the guy in the bass boat story. (see forums under “dude gets impaled on a post” in the strange but true section)
R
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Lilbay
May 21, 2008 at 9:04 am -What the hell!
Who gives someone with a record that dealt that much coke to the police HOUSE ARREST for 29 years???
what in hell kind of punishment is that??
Obviously since he was at the bar partying it was not a good one.
On another note this story may actually come in handy for me
I think I will print this and go post it in the hall and slide it under the doors of the two dealers we are trying to get out of my building Maybe they will pack and move to Indiana.
I may just get these asshats out of here after all
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WryBread
May 21, 2008 at 10:13 am -And yet he still has a girlfriend. Geez, it’s embarrassing sometimes to be female. I can’t understand the female idiots who overlook this sort of stuff and date perps. Yeah, she may not have known the details, but I’ll be you it showed in his behavior. Maybe she thought he was “manly” and “strong.” Or maybe she just wanted someone to buy her a drink. No excuse in either case.
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krystal
May 22, 2008 at 1:44 pm -OK WELL LETS START OFF BY LETTING YOU PEOPLE KNOW THAT YOU DONT KNOW HIM AND YES I HAVE BEEN WITH HIM FOR 8 YEARS AND WE HAVE 2 KIDS HE IS NOT A MURDERER. IT WAS AN UNFORTUNATE SITUATION. JOSH IS NOT TRYING TO MAKE EXCUSES FOR WHAT HAS HAPPENED. WE’VE ALL MADE MISTAKES BEING INTOXICATED. WE SEND OUR CONDOLENCES TO MR MUDDIMAN AND HIS FAMILY BUT THIS IS A LOSE LOSE SITUATION. ON BEHALF OF THE KATI’S FAMILY WE APOLOGIZE FOR THE WHOLE INCIDENT THAT TOOK PLACE AT SOUTH BANK. BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN JOSH SHOULD BE SLANDERED BY OUR COMMUNITY AND LOOKED AT AS A MENACE. PEOPLE DO CHANGE AND HE HAS BEEN DOING HIS BEST TO TURN HIS LIFE AROUND AND BE A BETTER MAN. JOSH FEELS EXTREMELY HURT BY HIS POTENTIAL ACTIONS AND WILL FOREVER HAVE TO LIVE WITH WHAT HAPPENED THAT FRIDAY NIGHT. BEFORE YOU JUDGE JOSH OR THE SITUATION TAKE A MINUTE AND THINK ABOUT THINGS THAT HAVE HAPPENED IN YOUR OWN LIFE THAT YOU HAVE DONE AND REGRETED. YOU CANT CHANGE THE PAST BUT WE AS A COMMUNITY CAN COME TOGETHER AND CHANGE THE FUTURE. ALL THE NEGATIVE COMMENTS AND ACCUSATIONS ARE TEARING OUR FAMILY APART AND POSSIBLY THE MUDDIMANS FAMILY. LIFE CAN CHANGE IN THE BLINK OF AN EYE. THIS SITUATION COULD HAVE HAPPENED TO ANYONE WHO DOES LIVE A SOCIAL LIFESTYLE. WE ARE NOT SAYING JOSH IS A SAINT (BUT WHO IS). BUT HE IS A GOOD FATHER,A GOOD FRIEND, A GOOD BROTHER, AND A GOOD SON ,AND A GOOD BOYFRIEND AND ALWAYS HAS BEEN NO MATTER WHAT KIND OF PERSON THE MEDIA HAS MADE HIM OUT TO BE. SO PLEASE BEFORE YOU JUDGE KNOW YOUR FACTS.
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Morbid
May 22, 2008 at 1:47 pm -We do know the facts. His drunk ass killed a man doing his job.
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nurseronda
May 22, 2008 at 1:55 pm -Let’s see how good this man is. First, he killed a man. He’s been convicted of theft, domestic battery, harassment, and resisting arrest - all that aside from his 2004 conviction for selling 30 grams of cocaine to an undercover cop. Yep, I agree he is such a good man, good at being a complete fucking jerk his whole life.
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Mandella
May 22, 2008 at 2:12 pm -Krystal,
I believe there is good in everyone. Really, I do. I’m sure that your boyfriend Josh is no exception to that rule. I’m sure there’s good in him.
HOWEVER, having “some good” in them isn’t enough to justify some people’s existence on this planet. And it’s definitely not enough to justify their stupid behavior for an entire lifetime.
I’m sorry that Josh is stupid. Really, I am. I’m sorry that he acts before he thinks.
But I’m GLAD GLAD GLAD that he feels bad for what he did. Because he should. He killed an old man for merely trying to keep your dumbass from walking outside of a bar with a drink.
If I saw every bouncer killed that stopped a drunkass from stumbling out with a drink, I’d have seen a lot of murders in my day.
But I’ve seen no murders. Luckily, I don’t hang around with dumb fucks who merely posess a “little bit of good” inside of them. I hang around with people who also posess a great deal of intelligence and have a high degree of ethical and moral judgement.
Perhaps you should follow suit.
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Kathy
May 22, 2008 at 2:34 pm -Krystal, i have made many mistakes in my life. I have been drunk many times…(many many) but I have never been responsible for killing someone. This was not an accident or an innocent mistake. He struck a 63 year old man! What an ass!
That is some cowardly shit and any hell he has to live with is well deserved. I hope he feels every bit of it.
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krystal
May 23, 2008 at 8:05 am -well like i said you people dont know him and you have your right to your opinion and all the charges they are mentioning are from when he was younger and im trying to justitify what he did, its wrong i agree and he has to live with that all his life and the next 20 years. and it was not because i was walking out of the bar with a drink if you knew your facts it was because he tried to come back in the bar after he was already outside at closing time i was already outside he just didnt realize it and thats what it says in the police report so until you know your facts. maybe you should do your research and find the real truth because alot of what they are saying in the news is from when he was a teenager. you should at least have a little sympathy not for josh but for his 5 and 4 year old children that have no dad because of a stupid mistake you people act like he did this on purpose like he had intention he dont even remember. this would have never intentionally hurt mr muddiman. and like i said until you know the facts and the trial is over,then you can say whatever you want he has changed his life around every since he got caught for the drug case he has custody of our kids and work a good job and complied with his 20 years house arrest sentence he made a bad choice and he has to live with it and so do his kids parents and myself
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impqueen
May 23, 2008 at 8:25 am -Seriously, what was he even doing in a bar if he’s supposed to be on house arrest?
And you’re lucky. Josh GETS to live with what he did. James Muddiman doesn’t. Josh killed a man because he was so drunk he didn’t even know where you were? What a waste. What a senseless, stupid waste. I’m wondering whether public intoxication is okay under the rules of his home detention.
We do know the facts. Your boyfriend, who has a rather lengthy criminal record, was non-compliant with the terms of his house arrest, was intoxicated, and killed a man who served our country for your and Josh’s freedom. And you want to whine at us over the bad choices he made when he was younger, like that’s supposed to make it all better?
You’re an idiot. Bite me.
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impqueen
May 23, 2008 at 8:26 am -Oh, and you know what? I am sorry for your children. Their father is coke-dealing murderer, and their mother is an insipid, vapid moron. Sucks to be them.
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Lynn
May 23, 2008 at 8:35 am -Krystal? Your saying Josh had custody of YOUR kids? Says alot about you if they would give custody to someone with his record over you. I really pray for your kids. I hope neither of you ever see them again. I also Josh rots in hell.
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sum 1
May 23, 2008 at 9:33 am -LET ME START OFF BY SAYING YES WHAT JOSH DID WAS WRONG BUT YOU PEOPLE DONT KNOW HIM JOSH IS A GOOD PERSON HE DID NOT SET OUT TO KILL ANY ONE HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE BEEN IN A FIGHT HE DID NOT BEAT HIM YES JOSH SHOULD NOT OF EVEN HIT THE MAN JOSH LOVED HIS BOYS AND FOR ANY ONE WHO THINKS OTHER WISE THAT JUST SHOWS YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT UNLEESS YOU WERE AT SOUTH BANK THAT NIGHT AND KNOW ALL THE FACTS (AND NOT JUST WHAT YOU READ) YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO SLAM JOSH HIS GIRLFRIEND OR HIS FAMILY
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sum 1
May 23, 2008 at 9:40 am -KRYSTAL DONT LET WHAT ANY OF THESE PEOPLES COMMENTS GET TO YOU OR HIS KIDS ANY ONE THAT KNEW JOSH KNOWS THAT HE LOVES HIS FAMILY AND MADE A MISTAKE IT IS VERY SAD TO KNOW THAT THERE IS 2 LIL BOYS THAT HAVE LOST A FATHER THAT THEY LOVED SO VERY MUCH
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impqueen
May 23, 2008 at 9:53 am -We have every right. Josh KILLED A MAN. If I say it in all caps does that make it easier to understand for you?
I don’t care if it was an accident. Was he even supposed to be at a bar in the first place? He’s a coke dealing murdering maggot, and anyone who will defend him instead of being outraged at the death of a Vietnam veteran who was just doing his job is beneath contempt.
You Josh-defending people amaze me. It doesn’t even occur to you that what he did was a heinous, horrendous act. He punched a 63 year old man in the head, for fuck’s sake! For that act alone he should be forced to give rim jobs to chimpanzees for life.
He hit a man hard enough to kill him with one punch. He didn’t think twice before punching the guy - he just punched him. Josh is clearly a violent asshole who should be beaten with baseball bats until his brains turn to mush and he exits the planet. James Muddiman should not have had to pay with his life for your buddy’s assholish behavior. Now your buddy needs to pay for his incredible dumbassery and years of continuous bad choices. And if that’s inconvenient to his family, imagine how James Muddiman’s family is feeling and fuck off.
I don’t doubt that he “loves his boys”, but I totally doubt that Josh has any ability to be a decent human being. He certainly has yet to show that.
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Kathy
May 23, 2008 at 9:59 am -Thanks Impqueen. I was trying to put my outrage into words, but my head exploded instead.
I’ll never understand these people. This man is a murderer, not a victim.
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sum 1
May 23, 2008 at 10:05 am -when the man fell to the ground and hit his head on the ground is what killled him that shows that you really have no clue what you are talking about you are making it sound like his ONE punch was the cause of death does it make you think better of your self judging a life you dont know how can you say in the same setence that you dont doubt the love for his kids but that he decent human being instead of our system getting josh the help that he needed in the first place they put him back on the streets they have failed every one
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sum 1
May 23, 2008 at 10:10 am -its really sad to know that instead of people wanting to help others they would rather just talk shit about what they dont know take your rage to the system and not his family say what you would like but you are nobody to judge any one
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Kathy
May 23, 2008 at 10:12 am -Seriously. He knocked him down with one punch. Knocked him down hard enough to cause a fatal injury to his head when he fell. Most people are able to put their arms out, etc to soften their fall and protect their heads. This man was hit so hard, he was not able to. Get it?
This man was 63 years old for God’s sake.
And now you are going to blame the system for not rehabilitating this piece of shit? It isn’t the systems responsibility to keep all fucktards on the straight and narrow. Personal responsibilty seems to be a foreign concept to you coddlers. He failed himself. He failed his kids. He failed society.
DO you not feel at all for Mr. Muddiman’s family? All he did was go to work that day and do his job. They have suffered a far greater loss than any of you have.
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funkmama
May 23, 2008 at 10:20 am -Truth hurts, doesn’t it?
As much as it may hurt, he did kill someone. I can identify with you girl, more that you can imagine. But the fact is: He was drunk. He killed a man.
No amount of niceties will ever change that. Sentiments cannot bring that man back to life. Its tragic for his family as I’m sure it is to yours. But facts are facts. I had to come to that conclusion the hard way, too. I am sorry that you have to go through this, but excuses will not bring that man back to life. Period.
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sum 1
May 23, 2008 at 10:24 am -yes i do feel for mr. muddimans family but do you even know what you are talking about do you know all the facts and yes it is our system that is responsibility to help for those in need what the hell is our system there for and what the hell is my tax dollars going for if not to help people do you even have a heart to think that nobody should help those who need help im soory you must think that you are on top of the world to sit there and judge
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solange822001
May 23, 2008 at 10:27 am -Those who need help??? You mean like the poor, ill, young, and needy??? Those folks do need help. A jackass like this who commits crimes because it suits him needs to help himself. Get a fucking job and some responsibility, idiot! I know, too late now, have fun in prison!
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Dakota Valkyrie
May 23, 2008 at 10:33 am -Hallmarks of an upstanding decent person?
Tired of house arrest? Go to the bar.
Don’t like someones actions? Cold cock them upside the head.
Someone talking smack online? Stick up for the idiot.
Setting an example for kids you love so dearly should include accepting punishment for you past “oopsies”. Abide by the rules of said punishment. Avoid situations where you know trouble could happen (like getting shit faced). Take it like a man and show your kids how to have a BETTER life.
Those poor kids - going to grow up thinking anything is OK if you have good in your heart. Shame on you, so-called mom.
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Kathy
May 23, 2008 at 10:40 am -Social Security, health care, national defense, social services such as food stamps and housing, public schools, safe highways, police and fire protection and prisons. That is what taxes go for. sure they use some of that money to TRY and rehabilitate criminals, but sometimes some people are beyond help.
Your friend is one of those people. Apparently, his first brush with the law did nothing to deter him from fucking up again.
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SqueakyClean
May 23, 2008 at 10:40 am -Why is it that everyone who comes here to defend murderers and baby rapists has a complete inability to use punctuation, correct spelling of any kind, or even coherent phrases? (Yes, Sum 1, the bell tolls for you.)
I don’t understand why people choose to make babies with career criminals, thus giving those kids a life sentence of sorts, of not having any kind of a normal family. You’re damn right I feel sorry for his kids. They’re in the situation they are in because of choices Mr. Kati made.
Mr. Muddiman’s family is also in the situation they’re in because of choices Mr. Kati made.
Mr. Kati has made choices his entire life that say, “Screw society, I’m going to do whatever I want, no matter the consequences to me or anyone else.” Now his choice to violently hit an old man who was just doing his job (while publicly intoxicated even being on house arrest?? Still waiting for the explanation on that one) has led to the death of an innocent human being. It’s about time Mr. Kati faces some real consequences. Our calling him names like asshat, dickwad, twatwaffle, etc (all of which he is) should be the least of your worries.
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WryBread
May 23, 2008 at 10:53 am -How fun. Reams and reams of cliches and non-think.
“YOU DONT KNOW HIM” - Oh, I think we do now!
“HE IS NOT A MURDERER. IT WAS AN UNFORTUNATE SITUATION.” — Situation! Situation! Great! Punching a man so that he dies is a situation!
JOSH IS NOT TRYING TO MAKE EXCUSES FOR WHAT HAS HAPPENED. — But baby, you sure are.
WE’VE ALL MADE MISTAKES BEING INTOXICATED. — But few of us have killed a man with one punch.
WE SEND OUR CONDOLENCES TO MR MUDDIMAN AND HIS FAMILY — I’m sure they are just thrilled to receive them!
BUT THIS IS A LOSE LOSE SITUATION. - Joshy is still at home, the guard is dead. I’d say this is win-lose, with Joshy winning.
ON BEHALF OF THE KATI’S FAMILY WE APOLOGIZE FOR THE WHOLE INCIDENT THAT TOOK PLACE AT SOUTH BANK. — Hey! You all! All the Katis are real sorry ’bout the death and all!
BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN JOSH SHOULD BE SLANDERED BY OUR COMMUNITY AND LOOKED AT AS A MENACE. — Oh, no?
PEOPLE DO CHANGE AND HE HAS BEEN DOING HIS BEST TO TURN HIS LIFE AROUND AND BE A BETTER MAN. — When did he start this? Five seconds after the security guard died?
JOSH FEELS EXTREMELY HURT BY HIS POTENTIAL ACTIONS. What the hell does this mean? Josh’s feelings are hurt by his “potential actions?” What? That he might go out and do it again?
AND WILL FOREVER HAVE TO LIVE WITH WHAT HAPPENED THAT FRIDAY NIGHT. And the security guard will be forever dead.
BEFORE YOU JUDGE JOSH OR THE SITUATION TAKE A MINUTE AND THINK ABOUT THINGS THAT HAVE HAPPENED IN YOUR OWN LIFE THAT YOU HAVE DONE AND REGRETED. How many security guards have I punched in my life? None. How many elderly people doing a job have I hit? None. How many people weaker than I am have I sucker punched? None. Nope, nothing like this has ever happened to me or anyone in my life.
YOU CANT CHANGE THE PAST BUT WE AS A COMMUNITY CAN COME TOGETHER AND CHANGE THE FUTURE. — I love this! A call for a big hug-in. Hey! Let’s bond over asshole’s murdering ways! Let’s get out the pinatas shaped like old security guards and the pin the punch on the security guard game and sing the Kumbayah “Someone’s drunkie, Lord, Kumbayah” verse and dance naked and make a BIG “Feel Better!” card to send Joshy in jail and have the entire COMMUNITY sight it with XXX and OOOs.
ALL THE NEGATIVE COMMENTS AND ACCUSATIONS ARE TEARING OUR FAMILY APART AND POSSIBLY THE MUDDIMANS FAMILY. — How dare you? It’s Joshy’s actions that are tearing your family apart and have torn the Muddiman’s family in its heart. It’s his actions, not anyone’s comments.
LIFE CAN CHANGE IN THE BLINK OF AN EYE. THIS SITUATION COULD HAVE HAPPENED TO ANYONE WHO DOES LIVE A SOCIAL LIFESTYLE. — Social lifestyle of a violent and irresponsible drunk, maybe.
WE ARE NOT SAYING JOSH IS A SAINT (BUT WHO IS). BUT HE IS A GOOD FATHER,A GOOD FRIEND, A GOOD BROTHER, AND A GOOD SON ,AND A GOOD BOYFRIEND AND ALWAYS HAS BEEN — No, no one on 20 years home arrest has been a good any of the above.
“… it was not because i was walking out of the bar with a drink if you knew your facts it was because he tried to come back in the bar after he was already outside at closing time i was already outside he just didnt realize it” — This doesn’t even make sense. Are you typing this while drinking to forget?
“you should at least have a little sympathy not for josh but for his 5 and 4 year old children that have no dad because of a stupid mistake you people act like he did this on purpose like he had intention he dont even remember. ” — Looks like Daddy will be home for 20 years to raise his boys. Won’t they be proud that he can’t leave the house? And that he was so drunk that he doesn’t remember killing an old man?
JOSH IS A GOOD PERSON HE DID NOT SET OUT TO KILL ANY ONE HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE BEEN IN A FIGHT — Not with a 63 year old man. Besides, what fight? He hit the guy and the guy fell down. That is an assault, not a fight.
HE DID NOT BEAT HIM — Woop-de-doo-de-do. Ain’t he a saint? You’re grasping at straws because your argument is drowning.
This is WryBread writing now. I give up. I can’t wade through any more of this, hilarious as it is. I hope CPS is reading this site and seeing what kind of ass they gave those boys to — and what kind of asses hang around with this ass. Those kids need a new home.
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Dakota Valkyrie
May 23, 2008 at 11:17 am -Thanks Wrybread! and someone has finally found a use for tardcaps. Makes it so easy to read the dissection and gutting of lame ass excuse making. Those poor kids - I hope they grow up smarter than mom and dad because if they don’t they will end up just like them - sorry excuses for humans.
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Kathy
May 23, 2008 at 11:22 am -Wry-
I want to have your babies.
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mom of 4
May 23, 2008 at 11:28 am -I’m still waiting for someone to answer Imp’s question. What the fuck was he doing out at a bar if he is on house arrest???
Oh wait let me guess the answer. It goes something like this right?
YOU ALL DONT NO HIM AT ALL HE IS REALLY CHANGED FROM ALL THE BAD STUFF HE USE TO DO HE IS A GOOD DAD AND YOU DONT NO HOW HARD IT IS FOR HIM TO BE COOPED UP IN THE HOUSE ALL THE TIME ITS NOT FAIR HE DESERVES TO GO OUT AND HAVE SOME FUN TOO AND YOU ALL DONT NO HIM SO YEA YOU DONT NO WHAT A GOOD GUY HE IS AND HE DIDN’T PUNCH THAT OLD MAN CUZ HIS BABY MAMA HAD A DRINK NO HE DID IT CUZ HE THOUGHT SHE WAS STILL IN THE BAR SO THERE HE HAD A GOOD REASON AND HIS PUNCH DIDNT KILL THE GUY CUZ IF THE GUY WASNT SO OLD HE COULD HAVE STOPPED HIMSELF FROM FALLING ON THE CEMENT AND HITTING HIS HEAD AND HE WOULDNT BE DEAD SO YEA NOW JOSH HAS TO LIVE WITH THIS FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE AND THAT AINT FAIR CUZ WE HAVE SYMPATHY FOR THE OLD GUYS FAMILY AND THAT SHOULD BE ENOUGH.
YOU FAT BITCHES DONT KNOW NOTHIN ABOUT JOSH HE IS A GREAT GUY.
Did I cover all the bases there? I did my best, no puncuation, all caps and spelled the words like they sound.
God Damn illiterate Fucktards!
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Nell
May 23, 2008 at 11:29 am -That was awesome! I think Wrybreads new job should be Bubbakus and translating idiot speak, so we can all understand it. Thank you for saving me the migrane I usually get trying to read their crap.
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WryBread
May 23, 2008 at 12:05 pm -Thanks, everyone. It was my pleasure. I wanted to do all the stupid he’s-not-a-bad-guy posts, but I got dizzy.
Mom of 4, you have got it down pat. I wonder what use you could put this skill to?
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funkmama
May 23, 2008 at 12:23 pm -ROTFL! Mom of 4, you rock…
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Chrissey
May 24, 2008 at 1:34 am -I do feel a lot of sympathy for those children. I’m sorry they have to grow up knowing their father is a murdering drug dealer.
And, he made a “mistake?” Really? You think it was a “mistake?” No, a mistake is forgetting your keys and locking yourself out of the house. A mistake is not buying milk while you were at the grocery store. What good ole Joshy did was cold-blooded murder!!!!
He complied with the sentence? Since when does house arrest allow you to get shit faced in a bar?
Well, boo-fucking-hoo. I think what the Muddiman family is dealing with is a little more serious.
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Lizard
May 24, 2008 at 2:26 am -You’re saying Josh no longer loves his boys? Fucking illiterate morons, can’t keep their fucking tenses straight.
I’ll assume you meant that Josh loves his boys. But guess what, idiot? He didn’t love them enough to spend time contemplating how any potential actions on his part might impact their lives. “I’m on home detention for a crime I committed in the past, is it in my children’s best interest for me to be in a bar, like, drinking and stuff?” “Some guy is trying to prevent my girlfriend from leaving the bar with a drink, what should be my response to this, considering that anything I do will influence the lives of my children and considering that it’s just a goddamn drink?” No, apparently these thoughts didn’t cross his mind, so with one blow he kills a man who–considering his line of work–may have one day crossed paths with these children and acted in a way to protect their interests. Josh can be sorry all he wants, but it isn’t going to bring James Muddiman back to life, fill the empty spaces in the hearts of James Muddiman’s loved ones, nor change the fact that for THE REST OF THEIR LIVES, his children will know that their father killed someone.
And as if this didn’t make me sick enough, to claim that somehow this is “the system’s fault”! Yes, the system should step in and be helpful and apologetic when one tries to sell cocaine to an undercover officer or resists arrest! He needs, uh, therapy, right?
C’mon, ya’ll, his mind was “on the money.” He may love his children…but he loves that money more. I hope while he’s in custody he gets exposed to all kinds of new forms of “love”! Too bad you moronic posters can’t be subject to the same.
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HeatherLeann
May 24, 2008 at 5:08 am -That is totally, totally on-point–just wanted to highlight it.
Also, didn’t James’ kids lose a father? What about them?
AND what kind of a fuck-wad hits an elderly man? A fuck-wad that deserves to get locked up for the rest of his life.
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HeatherLeann
May 24, 2008 at 5:29 am -So, gravity killed him? Damn that gravity. Murderer. If only this occured on the moon.
Seriously, how many excuses can you make for this piece of shit? I don’t know what pisses me off more: your defending him or your hatred of punctuation.
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MommyOfMason
May 24, 2008 at 7:48 am -Thank you! My brain still hurts from reading that wall of words.
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Morbid
May 24, 2008 at 8:41 am -Bwuahahahahahah! Goddamn thanks you for that laugh! I cannot wait for some lawyer to use this defense!
“Ladies and gentlemen of the jury, I implore you to consider the fact that my client did NOT kill the victim, the BULLET that went through his brain did”
or
The true tragedy of this case is that the state is trying to prosecute an innocent man. HE is not the one who killed the victim. Yes, he was intoxicated and behind the wheel, but it was the FORD bumper that cracked open the head of that young child”
BTW, we address these types of people in the podcast. Personally, it is simply a “birds of a feather” scenario. People like Kati are usually surrounded by friends who are a lot like…well, Kati.
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WryBread
May 24, 2008 at 9:29 am -That’s exactly right, Morbid. Did nasty old bullet make the killer point the gun at the victim — yes! It did! Did nasty old hard cement floor make Joshy strike the guard and direct him to the floor so the floor could be unyielding and finish him off? Yes, it did!
Thanks to the supporters of Joshy for clearing this up. Millions of criminals are about to be set free with an apology!
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WryBread
May 24, 2008 at 9:34 am -Or in DD parlance: “Assholes of a feather flock together.”
That’s quite a mental image. I see a bouncing crowd of little pink and brown rosettes, each with a coronet of stiff feathers.
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krystal
May 24, 2008 at 10:59 am -you guys can say whatever you want but the facts is it was not intentional you can think whatever you want you just want something to talk about because you have poor Petty life and a waste of human air if you want to think like that!!!!and for whoever wants to talk shit about why he had custody of my kids is not because i was taking from me you insensitive assholes its was in the best intrest of child support issues and he did work a full time job for the last 3 years.you people act like he’s not bothered by this he is very hurt and feels terrible so unless you fucks know the facts and keep your nose to your own business you fuckin lames and keep the shit up because i will hire a lawyer to sue whoever this is running this website for slander and go ahead a test me ive already talked to my lawyer about it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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tray-bay-bay
May 24, 2008 at 11:26 am -Thanks! I don’t need your permission. Face it, you made babies with a murderer. What’s worse is that he murdered a 63 year old man doing his job!
The best thing you could do at this point is concentrate on your children. I’m assuming Josh doesn’t have custody of them in jail? Before you go finding a new man to be the baby daddy, please let us all tell you to “put the p