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Brent Stephens Is A Murdering Coward
Created on May 12th, 2008 by Morbid now with 7,791 views
Tags: baseball bat, Brent Stephens, Denise Stephens, Murder
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LeeMouse
May 14, 2008 at 12:27 pm -wrybread, I agree with you 100%. But I’m also sure that if she didn’t try to “co-parent” with him, some nutjob would be on here screaming about how that’s what drove him to kill her: bitch keeping a man away from his kids, and the damn woman-favoring court system allowing it. There’s just no winning when it comes to a woman trying to protect herself.
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mg2
May 14, 2008 at 2:22 pm -Sydney your post made me cry. I am so sorry for your loss and the loss of all of Denise’s loved ones.
There seems to be so many people around Denise that truely loved and cared for her. From her best friend to her lawyer to the patients at her clinic. She touched so many lives and was obviously a beautiful person inside and out.
My heart hurts for her children becuase it seems she was the perfect mother. Whatever stability they had in her is now gone. I just hope that their father is thrown in jail for the rest of his life and they never have to see him again.
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sydney
May 15, 2008 at 12:34 am -I was contacted by “morbid” today asking that I provide updates on this terrible tragedy and information on the people involved. I have requested a list of questions that he would like answered, and I will do my best to supply all of that. I will try to keep my posts short to avoid information overload. I want every tiny bit I provide to make an impact.
Today, D’s mom went to court (ironically in front of the same judge who issued the protective order) seeking sole conservatorship of D’s children. Not only did she receive this, she also succeeded in barring Brent and anyone in his family from contacting the children in any way. This was a tremendous victory in helping to keep them safe.
Also, D’s poor battered body was released to a funeral home from the medical examiner’s office. D’s mom, another of her dear friends and I will be meeting with them to make arrangements. Her service will be held at her church and I will provide details as they become available.
Thanks to everyone for your kind words. Due to my proximity to this horrific murder, I am constrained in expressing opinions about Brent on the advice of my attorney. This is in the attempt to avoid libel and defamation of character complaints against me. I would, however, encourage you to post yours because I definitely might agree with many of them.
Sydney
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bradnace
May 15, 2008 at 12:50 am -Today, we filed a Petition in Intervention on behalf of Betty Seymour, Denise’s mother. In support, we prepared an affidavit, a suggestion of death (required procedurally) as well as a temporary ex parte order.
In any case, the first issue is standing. That we established without issue. In this case, we requested that Betty be appointed as sole managing conservator; that Brent Douglas Stephens be removed as a conservator; and that Brent Douglas Stephens’ family be denied any communication with the children. The Court granted our requests except as to the removal of Brent as a conservator. The issue as it pertains to communications by and through his family will be taken up with the Court on May 28th. At that time, the Court will hear further argument and evidence in the matter.
Although surprised by Brent Douglas Stephens’ lawyer objecting to our request that his family have no contact with the children, I made clear to the Court in no uncertain terms that once conservatorship for my client was established, that we would be amending our petition to seek to terminate Brent Douglas Stephens’ parental rights. That amendment will take place shortly.
Quick update on contributions. Any contributions should be made to the Denise Stephens Memorial Fund. The contributions may be sent to either North Dallas Bank, 12900 Preston Rd., Dallas, TX 75230, Attn: Amelia Saba or sent to the office where Denise worked for 8 years: 12700 Hillcrest, Ste. 260, Dallas, TX 75230, Attn: Dr. Nace or Dr. Edmundson. These funds will only help to assist these girls in their future endeavors. Any help will be very much appreciated not only by Denise’s mother but most importantly, Denise’s children as they mature in a world devastated by their coward father. I am confident that one day they will be able to look back and appreciate all that you have done.
As requested, I will update this site from time to time with information as it pertains to this case. At this time, we still have our original trial setting in July. I anticipate that that setting will be set off in that this case will now need additional attention to secure a proper verdict.
Until then, Brad Nace
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mbm
May 15, 2008 at 1:48 am -I had a horrible time trying to sleep Monday night, thinking of Denise and the horrible, horrific way she was killed. I could not comprehend it because I knew what a kind, special person Denise was and how she loved her girls. And then I thought…how did - Judge Greg Willis County Court at Law No. 6, Collin County DA John Roach, McKinney Police Chief Doug Kowalski, 265th District Court Judge Mark Stoltz - sleep Monday night??
Does giving probation to a psychopath who time and again will not stop threatening his ex-wife seem like such a good idea now??
Where is Brent’s friends/family?? Did they not see him coming apart?? Or did they just really not want to get involved???
And JD911 since you really don’t know any of the details and I understand that you are just keeping the “father point of view” but in this instance…just shut the fuck up. You have no idea what you are talking about and trying to generalize the normal dad population with Brent is horribly wrong.
Yes, I to wish Brent would of jumped off the bridge or would of gotten a big shove off, he is such a fucking coward. But now my hope is every night in jail he is raped -over and over again - with a broom handle, made to do unthinkable acts while prison officials look the other way. I bet a lot of men in prison will like his filthy mouth and bleached blond hair. Brent - welcome to the first day of the rest of your life!
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bradnace
May 15, 2008 at 1:53 am -Syd, truth is an absolute defense to defamation. And Brent Stephens has no identifiable reputation other than a negative one. Although I cannot speak to what a jury would do if he were ever a plaintiff, if I were a betting man, I would bet against a verdict. What would be his damages? His reputation? And I think he is now a public figure in his own right, so he loses certain claims by that virtue. So far as I can tell, the postings are mere opinions, and justifiable at that.
Okay, maybe we have to back off this for a moment and check out Brent Stephens’ newest space-age maternity costume (convict jumpsuit?) as viewed when he was escorted through the parking garage at the Dallas County Jail. So much for the sunny skies of Florida. I cannot fathom any judge or jury in this country who will be sympathetic to Brent Stephens. Rest assured, the Dallas County District Attorney’s Office will have my full cooperation in this matter to ensure that he never walks this earth again as a free man.
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bradnace
May 15, 2008 at 7:27 am -http://www.dallasnews.com/shar.....2a78f.html
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impqueen
May 15, 2008 at 7:30 am -That’s it. I call Brad as my unofficial IBF. You other beeches step off.
Excellent comment. We’ve been saying the same thing forever, but it just sounds so much cooler when a lawyer says it.
I know, right? Hit me later for something eloquent in re: his sartorial calamity. I’m not caffeinated yet.
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MISSIG
May 15, 2008 at 8:18 am -< I HOPE HE BURNS IN HELL THOSE POOR LITTLE BABIES.
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sydney
May 15, 2008 at 9:20 am -Here is the information on the fund being set up for D’s kids:
Denise Stephens Memorial Fund Information
>
> Donations may be sent to the following:
> North Dallas Bank
> 12900 Preston Rd.
> Dallas, Tx 75230
> Attn: Amelia Saba
> OR
> Dr. Edgar Nace
> Dr. Lacy Edmundson
> 12700 Hillcrest, Suite 260
> Dallas, Texas 75230
>
> Make checks payable to the Denise Stephens Memorial Fund
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jd911
May 15, 2008 at 12:57 pm -LeeMouse, I would love to see the statistics you compiled. I would assume that this information is publicly available? In my own research (albeit limited) of various divorce cases in Collin County, I didn’t see the same trend. Although, I can say that I have seen cases where there was no bias and it was clear that both people in the case were treated as if they were equal. Still, it would be interesting to see facts based on broader research in Collin and surrounding counties if you have it.
As to mothers being more attentive to their children and more involved; well, that’s speculatory. I have not seen that in my experience. But, perhaps others have seen that behavior and it has colored their perception of things just as my own experience has colored mine. Of course, since roles and responsibilities are shifted more to women (as the normal managing conservator in a divorce) and fathers have less time and less control over their children’s lives, this would be the end result. But of course, it is the biased perception that fathers just don’t want it and choose not to be involved as much.
In any case, I would agree that the issue at hand is that a stalker killed an innocent woman. I am certainly not trying to justify his actions or confuse the issue. He wasn’t a good father, he wasn’t a good person, and he will be put to death or put away for the rest of his life which is what he deserves (my vote would be for a quick, cheap death but that’s just opening another can of worms I suppose).
I pray for Denise’s kids and her family. And, as much as people want to blame Brent’s family for his actions, no one can assume that they had any more control over what he did as anyone else did. The kids lost their mother, and their father, why take away more people from them?
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jd911
May 15, 2008 at 1:10 pm -Let me clarify that one before the comments fly. I meant to say that I have not seen that in all cases in my experience. Of course there are great mothers out there. But there are also great fathers. I don’t agree that there is a majority of one or the other.
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jd911
May 15, 2008 at 1:31 pm -Truth may be an absolute defense to defamation but truth in and of itself is not absolute and is open to interpretation until proven. Although this woman could stand in front of a court and pay her lawyer to help her prove the truth, her lawyer is trying to protect her and save her the expense even though her lawyer might benefit personally from that expense. I think that’s good of him. I suspect that not every lawyer would do that.
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sydney
May 15, 2008 at 7:50 pm -D’s funeral will be held at the First Baptist Church in McKinney, on Louisiana, at 2pm on Tuesday, May 20. Our friend ——- and I were able to see her beautiful face for the last time today at the funeral home. I had been firmly ensconced in denial up to this point, but after that…the anger is rising.
I spoke with my lawyer again to clarify what is appropriate for me to post. I was told that it is fine for me to write anything that I saw or heard first hand, and “probably” anything that I heard second hand from D since this would be considered hear-say in a court of law. He did still caution me that I should refrain from issuing any opinions suggesting that Brent is a manipulative, lying, evil, cowardly, murdering, rat bastard butthead scumbag, who will SO get some of what he deserves when he hits general population, so I will stick to the facts.
More to come….
S
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yogaluvr
May 15, 2008 at 8:04 pm -Can I say Brent Stephens is freakishly ugly without getting slammed with some sort of lawsuit? Because he is. Freakishly ugly.
And Denise, well she had eyes that clearly lit up a room. And a smile anyone would envy. Namaste, Denise.
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WryBread
May 15, 2008 at 11:09 pm -He is. Sort of like he’s crumbling. And that expression, what is it? Smug satisfaction?
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EdT
May 15, 2008 at 11:15 pm -We shouldn’t say Brent is a degenerate, lowlife, bungwipe, snake, puke, worthless, murderous, douchebag, sub-human, scumsucking pig…It just wouldn’t be right!
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vigilante2008
May 16, 2008 at 12:49 am -This is such a horrendous crime, it makes me sick to the core. Those poor children, did he not think of those beautiful little girls that love their mother so much? Obviously not. D’s mom is a wonderful woman I know that she will be there for those girls no matter what. They are so lucky to have her there and I wish her luck in the custody hearings to come, which I am positive she will not need my luck as she is the strongest and most caring woman I know. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends at this time…
As for Brent, I hope you get what you deserve you worthless piece of shit. Your a waste of space and you don’t deserve to breathe the same air or feel the sunshine on your ugly mug, I am hopeful that “Big Bubba” will rip your asshole to shreds daily, you are a horrible excuse of a man, little less a father. Rot in Hell
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Harley_Tech
May 16, 2008 at 1:19 am -If he wants to file something against me from jail, have at it Bucko!
Brent, in my opinion you are the lowest form of sub-human existance.
You suck. It’s unfortunate that you were such a coward you coudn’t even kill yourself.
Stop breathing MY air and get out of my home town!!!
See you in hell you coward!
R
(born in McKinney, 1962)
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Harley_Tech
May 16, 2008 at 1:29 am -Brad,
I notice in the linked article, you and D’s employer have the same last name. Coincidence or connection?
Either way, THANK YOU for making this poor girl’s voice heard!!!
R
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bradnace
May 16, 2008 at 3:03 am -There is no coincidence that my father and I are related. My father and I both did what we could do to protect Denise. We are both suffering.
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bradnace
May 16, 2008 at 3:43 am -Regarding the litigation concerns. I keep thinking to myself, when was the last time a prison inmate had his voice heard in a court of law. Nevertheless, I would find it amusing to be a juror sitting in a case whereby the plaintiff was a murderer complaining about what people were calling him. I haven’t ever heard of such litigation. Perhaps someone could fill me in. If someone knows something I don’t, please let me know.
Regarding real litigation, Brent’s destiny is here. I cannot fathom the court denying our request to terminate Brent’s parental rights. Regarding the criminal case, I cannot fathom any judge or jury not sentencing him to either life without the possibility of parole or death. The only problem with my wish is the Texas Penal Code. Unfortunately in Texas, murdering an individual while protected by a protective order is not yet a death penalty offense. I think it should be. In the meantime, interpretation will be pivotal under the current statute to see whether the sentence could include death.
The only reason I reserve my commentary is my continued involvement in this case and in the criminal case as well. Know that I will assist the Dallas District Attorney’s Office to ensure that Brent Douglas Stephens receives the maximum sentence available. From any objective analysis of the facts, that is what he deserves.
I hope that in the end, his destiny as foretold by so many comes true for him. By the way, his real last name is “SEAMAN.” Tell that one to all the prison inmates.
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EdT
May 16, 2008 at 4:51 am -Brad,
You possess the kindness and compassion of your Dad.
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EdT
May 16, 2008 at 5:19 am -JD911,
This is not the proper time or forum to drone on about fathers rights and how the system is unjust to dads in other situations. It lacks tact and treads upon this digusting and cruel tragedy. It doesn’t apply in this situation and I feel you are being disrespectful to the memory of this sweet girl. Enough is enough………Please shut your hole..Pretty please
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impqueen
May 16, 2008 at 9:40 am -Oh, we get threatened a lot, but we have only received one actual email from an attorney. That was a gently worded request from the victim’s counsel, who asked us very nicely if we would redact her name from our post as she was pursuing a civil action as well. We graciously complied, because we are awesomely cool like that.
The majority of our threats read like “STFU Oh nO u DiNt dAt mi BabiDaDDiii HE is INoCeNSe uNtIL pruVen RoNG BiTch”
So.. not something with which we’re overly concerned. You should totally check out our podcast. You’d like it.
Also, for those commenters who are concerned with litigation in re: your opinions on a website, we do have a copyright and disclaimer link above that you should read prior to posting - but also check out our “About Us” page for further details on who we are and what we do here.
Litigation from the dregs of humanity is really about the least of our concerns. Making enough money to stay up is way more important.
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Harley_Tech
May 16, 2008 at 9:49 am -Well in my opinion, both of you are good people.
Maybe one day we’ll meet and I can shake your hand and tell you that again.
R
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thepooh5
May 16, 2008 at 10:03 am -Imp, in a nut shell, it all means, if someone takes offense that I called them an asshat and wants to sue me for liable, whatever - the site is not responsible and I’m on my own. Is that correct?
And, if correct, well then fine by me - opinions are opinions and freedom of speech has not been suppressed, yet. So screw the offenders, as far as commenting opinions - like stated in the Lori Drew case, not only is it not against the law to be an asshole, its a right protected by the constitution. By constitution, you can be an asshole, a gay, a straight, a catholic, a muslim, a turd head, rude, snotty, pecker gnat, etc and not be breaking any laws - anything, as long as you do not harm or infringe on others’ rights.
I full well intend to be the best asshole I can be when referring or commenting on said POS. After all, had they not made the front page for some horrific crime, I wouldn’t be calling them names and in general, publicly shaming them. It is my right to have an opinion about them and to state my opinion.
Its definitely the least of my worries, they all can bite my ass! (figuratively, of course
)
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winsomelosesome
May 16, 2008 at 10:04 am -An interesting point to me and one that hits close to home is that this asshole has bipolar disorder. So does the murdering, dismembering bastard who snuffed out the lives of Lisa Freiberg and her children.
I recently broke off a relationship with someone who I believe has bipolar but is undiagnosed. He would swing from sweet and romantic to nasty, raging, blaming, etc. He was never violent with me but you can see when someone has absolutely no empathy and hatred in their eyes that it’s not much of a reach they could go there at some point.
I, as DDers would say, put down the penis and protected my kid and got this guy out of my life. DS is not his, thank God. Before I knew the extent of his illness, I really wanted to have a family with him. All I can say for Denise is, but for the grace of God there go I.
In my case, both his mother and sister encouraged me to get away from him. I am not judging all people with bipolar disorder. However, this really doesn’t surprise me.
I have shed tears for both of these tragedies and hugged my boy a little tighter.
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Athena
May 16, 2008 at 1:56 pm -This is, by far, the most savage case of spousal murder that I have ever read about and I am absolutely horrified that it has touched so many in such an exceptionally heinous way. My thoughts, best wishes, and soon, some dollars, are with Denise’s children.
For those who are most knowledgeable – Is there, perhaps, a more streamlined vehicle for donation? I’ll send a check if that is my only option, but, perhaps I can call the bank and transfer some money directly? Actually, I suppose I should just call the bank.
Lastly, I’d really like to thank everyone so close to this crime who is going out of their way to keep us updated and informed. While I’d much rather have never come to know any of you under these circumstances, I must say, the thoughtful, articulate communication you folks are providing is a privilege to read.
On a side note, this lawyer is a rockstar. I wish we had lawyers posting in every thread. Actually, I take that back – I wish we had this lawyer posting in every thread.
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thepooh5
May 16, 2008 at 2:25 pm -He’s more than a rockstar. However, I don’t have the words to describe him. I have never encountered an attorney with this much compassion and morals. Mr Nace you are to be commended. You could actually put a good name on lawyers.
I wish you could educate your peers on how to conduct themselves in a moral and compassionate way. Would you like to teach legal ethics? This country is so in need of more lawyers like you!! Rock on, Rockstar!!!!
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vigilante2008
May 17, 2008 at 4:45 am -So has there been any court dates set for anything yet? I do not live in the area but have tried searching online and came up with nothing on pending court dates for this case.
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WryBread
May 17, 2008 at 9:12 am -Well, I guess the argument is that he’s crazy and not reponsible.
But who’s responsible for letting him out on the streets? What’s happened to the treatment of mental illness so that a mentally ill, violent person has “rights” that keeps him among ordinary people until he kills?
We need to roll back this idea of putting the mentally ill in the community and recognize that many need permanent, lifelong, custodial care in institutions.
There was a reason there used to be large, residential mental hospitals. It wasn’t just because people were “unenlightened” about insanity — they knew how people were. And as for modern medications, going off meds is a serious problem. Some people need to be confined in order to make sure they are swallowing their pills reguarly.
How many Denises will die before we take steps?
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winsomelosesome
May 17, 2008 at 9:37 am -I am definitely NOT making that case. He’s as responsible for this murder as he is for taking his medication, getting proper therapy, etc.
I always thought bipolar made you really productive and then really depressed. I’ve been enlightened about what it means to have bipolar. It’s nothing to mess around with.
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WryBread
May 17, 2008 at 9:57 am -I’m sorry, Winsome, to have been unclear. I wasn’t referring to your post at all. I was making the remark to the universal at large.
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bradnace
May 17, 2008 at 10:44 am -Civil. On Wednesday, May 14th, I filed a Petition in Intervention on behalf of Denise’s mother. I advised the Court that morning that I would be there at 3pm that afternoon for a non-docketed emergency hearing. Laura Thompson, the 296th Judicial District Court Coordinator, in Collin County, assisted me in my request. A little after 3pm, I presented through argument, affidavit and testimony 3 requests. The Court granted 2. The one denied was my request to remove Brent Stephens as a conservator. On May 28th, 2008 at 9am, the Court will take up the same requests for full consideration. I anticipate that his parents may be there this time.
We currently have a trial setting of July 14th, 2008. On Wednesday, I asked the Court in chambers for a continuance of that trial setting if I determine that I need it. I will be amending the current petition, now that Denise’s mother has standing, to terminate Brent’s parental rights.
Criminal. No date has yet been set for the criminal case to be presented to the grand jury. Based on what I know, I fully expect the grand jury to indict him. From there, he will either be appointed a lawyer or will have a lawyer retained for him. There will be a multitude of hearings and then of course trial.
Additional. There may be additional litigation. We are considering our options at this point.
Service. Denise’s service will be next Wednesday. Stephanie Lucero of KTVT (Channel 11), Monika Diaz and Jason Whitley of WFAA (Channel
have been a tremendous help for Denise’s family and friends in being able to communicate through the media about Denise. You may go to their websites as well to learn more about this matter. (Search Denise Anne Stephens). I am confident that they will follow up with the activity in this matter in the months to come.
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sydney
May 18, 2008 at 2:51 am -OK, here we go….
Thank you Brad for all you are doing. You are invaluable to D’s family and friends. We are so fortunate to have you fighting for D.
I spent today helping finalize a LOT of things for the service and enlarging a photo of D for the altar (thank you Kinko’s in Allen for giving us two copies for a discounted price of just one). I also enrolled D’s mom, our friend _____ and myself in the Texas Vine program, where an automated system will notify you of any change in the status of an inmate in the state of TX (1-877-894-8463).
Now, the rant…
I have been trying to ensure that there will be law enforcement personnel present in the vicinity of the church during the service to protect D’s girls. First I called the McKinney police department, and was told that since the court order barring Brent’s family from contacting the girls was a civil matter, there was nothing they could do. They suggested I call the Collin County Sheriff’s department. I called the Sheriff’s department, and they said that I needed to call the McKinney police department. After I stated that the police department sent me to them, the sheriff’s department told me that the family would probably need to HIRE an off-duty policeman to provide security. I finally was called by Sgt. ____ in the Sheriff’s office (thank you, kind sir) who said he would make some calls and gave me the name of Major ____ that I could call on Monday. I’m beginning to relive the incredible frustration that D encountered in seeking protection and enforcement.
Finally, I want to thank the pastor of the chuch, who came to the family home to help all of us through the process of setting up a memorial service. He offered us great hope and peace. He also told us that he personally knew some individuals that could help make sure the girls were protected, and he would do everything he could to make that happen. (And as a sidebar to him, thank you for the advice you gave me in private. It really helped to ease my heart.)
THE SERVICE WILL BE HELD AT THE FIRST BAPTIST CHURCH ON LOUISIANA IN MCKINNEY, ON TUESDAY, MAY 20, AT 2PM. It will be a celebration of D’s life, her faith, and what a beautiful, beautiful lady she was.
Oh, and check out the McKinney Courier-Gazette on Sunday. Danny Gallagher is doing a story about D. Thanks, Danny! We appreciate that you care enough to celebrate our lovely D in print.
Please continue to stay tuned. There is much more to come. Once this first really hard part has passed, I’ll be taking a flying leap into anger, which will make the posts quite interesting. Since I have been cautioned to refrain from doing something like calling Brent a repulsive, scum sucking, bottom feeding puke, all those writing classes from college will come in handy……
S
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bradnace
May 18, 2008 at 5:11 am -Syd,
I distinctly recall January 24th, 2008. One would think that after voluminous documentation, charges filed by the McKinney Police Department and the issuance of a Temporary Ex Parte Protective Order, that they would have taken additional efforts to try and protect Denise. Not to say that they could have prevented this tragedy, but, they could absolutely have dealt with it better.
The following is a clip I forwarded the Dallas Morning News yesterday: Following the issuance and service of the Temporary Ex Parte Protective Order (emergency protective order before issuance of a Final Protective Order) that day, Denise called me and the police because Brent disregarded the Order. Denise didn’t know what to do. The McKinney police stated that they couldn’t do anything unless they personally saw him at her residence. I later informed the Judge of the communications. At the time, the police involved told her that they don’t enforce Temporary Ex Parte Protective Orders, including Temporary Ex Parte Orders. I had to call the shift supervisor because one of the officers that night went so far as to tell Denise’s mother that he would arrest her if she didn’t surrender the children to him as demanded. The Temporary Ex Parte Order stated in no uncertain terms that he was not permitted to have any contact with them.”
In the future, I would hope that the McKinney Police Department would use more tact and discretion. How difficult is it to communicate with the offender and assess the situation before it escalates? You can only imagine how powerless I felt that night when I am having to speak with the shift supervisor because some low rank officer not only ignored a valid court order but threatened Denise’s mother with arrest if she didn’t comply. Illiteracy is a terrible thing in this country.
I have been a resident of Plano, Collin County for a bit more than a year. Our neighbors had an issue with their teenage child leaving their residence. I personally observed a state trooper appearing several times over the weekend to follow-up to ensure that she returned and that she wasn’t ignoring his advice. And issue while that situation was concerning, it did not rise anywhere near that of Denise’s situation.
We’ll communicate in the next day or so to determine those avenues necessary to publicize the extreme lapses in judgment in this matter. You may also want to forward this site to others so that they can review the information posted and to form their own opinions.
Regarding protection, I think there will be enough people present to intercede if there are any problems. First Baptist Church is located at 1615 W Louisiana St., Mckinney, TX 75069 (972) 542-3416. It would be a kind gesture of the very department that declined to act on Denise’s behalf to be there in her support. Calling the Mayor’s office is a start. Perhaps also to contact someone in authority there or at the Sheriff’s Department to see whether they could be of further assistance.
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yogaluvr
May 18, 2008 at 9:18 am -I think I love you, Mr. Nace.
namaste
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jd911
May 19, 2008 at 2:03 pm -EDT,
In my last comment, I was responding to some prior comments that were made. As a public forum, it was my right to do so. As I stated in the following part of my last comment, I realized that my comments were contrary to the theme of this thread:
I said a lot more than what you have heard. Several of the things I have said had very little to do with father’s rights. But, I realized that my comments were merely adding noise and so I was attempting to change the tone. So yes, I was attempting to “shut my hole” in at least my comments about what I thought might have contributed to all of this. Hopefully this clarifies things and now you understand.
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jd911
May 19, 2008 at 2:19 pm -Wow, that amazes me. Even with a certified copy of the court order and no valid reason for a denial I have seen denials of visitation on many, many occasions with the police (in fact the same department) not doing anything and stating that all they can do is document so that it can be brought into court. In fact, one officer stated how he too was having the same issues.
It’s strange. In this case all they had to do to uphold the order was do nothing and yet they acted against it. Very strange.
And I too have seen that with threats, harassment, and stalking that the police can do very little to help. It makes sense though; they can’t sit outside your place 24/7. I would agree with the prior comment that in such a case it’s great to have a concealed carry license and have it loaded and ready to go.
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sydney
May 21, 2008 at 3:43 pm -I wrote this last night, but wasn’t able to post it until today…..
OK, so it’s official. D’s really gone. She was cremated and her memorial service was today. Even though I saw her on Thursday and got to kiss her lovely face one last time, it just didn’t seem real. Until now.
It was a lovely service, which was attended by so many. Thanks to everyone who came and to those who helped ease the process for us. One of the hardest parts about today was having to hold myself together in order to get up and speak of D without blubbering, while the 3 strong, powerful, handsome men around me cried for the loss of our beautiful D……
I will be unavailable for a few days. I have had to help D’s family through this terrible time, and I have not yet been able to start to grieve for her myself. So, I’m now going to go cry really hard, and then I’m going to scream, and then I’m going to smash some dishes, and then I’m going to cry really hard some more.
I’m also now being cautioned by persons other than my attorney, that I should keep my mouth shut and my fingers still regarding this case, so I need to figure out exactly what I can post before I share any more information.
Vaya con Dios, D. You are safe now, and you can rest and have some peace. We will never, ever forget you!
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WryBread
May 21, 2008 at 4:10 pm -Sydney, thank you for posting to us. We understand that you have to be careful of the information about the murder. I will be thinking of you.
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thepooh5
May 21, 2008 at 4:50 pm -Good luck Sydney and I hope you can find some sort of piece.
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Chrissey
May 21, 2008 at 5:48 pm -Sydney - Thank you for sharing your thoughts of D with us. She sounds like a wonderful, amazing woman. I understand your caution in posting here, but please understand that you have all of our support. And, we can call him an asshat, twatwaffle, shit-for-brains, bastard for you.
Mr. Nance - Thank you for taking the time to share your knowledge with us. You have done such a wonderful job keeping us updated and explaining the legal procedure. I know Denise was a friend of yours and this has got to be incredibly difficult for you.
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bradnace
May 21, 2008 at 5:57 pm -Actually, it is Nace (one “N”). My father Edgar Nace, M.D., and Dr. Jeff Warren together along with Denise’s friends paid a wonderful tribute to Denise.
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Harley_Tech
May 21, 2008 at 8:05 pm -I was touched last night watching Dr. Nace on the news. You could see it in his eyes and hear it in his voice that this man was truly shocked and hurt by the loss of Denise.
It’s a rare thing for an employer to be touched so deeply by the loss of an employee. He struck me as a very special man who really cares for those around him.
Dr. Nace’s compassion seems to have spread to his sons as well.