Amanda Sherland Was Selfish
May 8, 2008 by Morbid

Alyssa and Ryan Sherland
INDIAN TRAIL – Conrad Sherland had been divorced from his wife Amanda Sherland, 43, for 4 years. He was supposed to pick up his two kids 9-year-old Ryan Sherland and 7-year-old Alyssa Sherland on FridayFriday reviews
to spend the weekend with him at his home. After not being able to contact them over the weekend, he filed a missing persons report on SundaySunday reviews
. When deputies went to the home of Amanda, they found her and the two children dead in an apparent murder-suicide.
Amanda had recently moved from Florida to NC and bought a house in AugustAugust reviews
. Conrad then followed and bought a house 10 miles away. Conrad had been trying to contact Amanda on Friday morning to inform her that he would be late picking the children up from Hemby Bridge Elementary School. What he didn’t know is that neither Ryan or Alyssa were in school that day, although neighbors report seeing them outside of the home that afternoon. Conrad went by the home on Friday night where he saw no vehicles in the driveway and no one answered the door.

When deputies arrived at the home on Sunday, they found the front door unlocked. Upstairs, they found Alyssa in her bedroom and Ryan in his room, both shot to death. Amanda Sherland was beside Ryan on the bed, dead from a self-inflicted gunshot from a 9mm pistol. A suicide note was found, but it’s contents were not revealed at this time.


10:21 am on May 8th, 2008
I saw this yesterday and it just breaks my heart. I don’t understand how anyone can shoot a child..well hell I don’t understand how they kill them at all, but for some reason to me shooting seems so much more violent. And for it to be your own kids? I don’t see how a mother can do that. Selfish is an understatement. Fucked up bitch twatwaffle is more like it.
10:26 am on May 8th, 2008
I saw this a couple days ago since it was local, but just didn’t have time to get it posted. I just do not understand it. I cannot wrap my brain around why she would do this.
I do not know anyone involved with this, but just from the little bit we know, it seems as if this Conrad fellow loved them kids. Enough to move to another state to be close to them.
I cannot imagine what he and the connected families are going through with this one.
4:12 pm on May 8th, 2008
well, this is a weird twist on the parental murder-suicide. you don’t usually hear about women doing this, especially not with a gun.
what a sad, fucked up scene. those poor kids.
4:21 pm on May 8th, 2008
Why the kids???
4:39 pm on May 8th, 2008
It’s adults wanting to get back at their exes so much that they figure, “Hey, I’m gonna kill myself, but no way am I going to let that b@#ch/a$$-hole enjoy having our kids by him/herself!! I’ll take them with me! MUUUUAAAAAAHaHa!!!!!!” Very sad and pathetic. Taking your own life is one thing, but how can you murder your own children! Seems worse than being murdered by a total stranger. I mean, would you ever expect death to come from your parents hand?
4:51 pm on May 8th, 2008
I can’t imagine the horror in the last few moments of their short little lives. Fucking makes me sick. This woman was obviously miserable. I wish she’d botched her own suicide and ended up living to see what she’d done to her babies.
Actually, fuck that. I’m glad she’s dead.
6:51 pm on May 8th, 2008
I don’t think I can comment on this case because we don’t know the contents of the suicide note nor what drove her to commit the act. Surely there was some reason to offing her own kids? Abuse from the husband maybe, maybe he was abusing the kids and she didn’t want her children to live with the psychological demons? Could be anything, really…
7:17 pm on May 8th, 2008
I would like to see the note too but there is no damn good reason for using a gun on your family members regardless – this so sucks !!!
12:12 am on May 9th, 2008
Why is it if a woman does it somehow the husband/man is still responsible twisted? There would be no sympathy if the father had done this in cold blood but the mother doing it somehow the father was abusive blah blah millions of other excuses that would be used. Women, including mothers can kill in cold blood just as much as men can. I wil say on the record that she’s a cold blooded killer, nothing more, nothing less
7:10 am on May 9th, 2008
Are you reading the same article I just did? Looks to me like Morbid placed all the blame squarely on the mother on this one, and the comments that have followed so far indicate that those who have commented feel pretty much the same way. Clearly you haven’t read our site much. Look around. Check out Morgan Hite and Heaven Kristina Smith for two recent cases in which we lay the blame solely on the mother.
You’re right that women can and do kill – but I don’t see that we hold them less responsible when they do.
9:02 am on May 9th, 2008
Think Kdogg was refering to Brokenandtwisted comment, not the article, Imp.
Maybe something else was going on with this situation, we may never know. However, no way in hell can putting holes through your children by even a thought if you really cared that much for them. Guess it’s another case of children are property.
9:16 am on May 9th, 2008
Could be. It was early, and I don’t function prior to caffeine, so if that was the case, mea tarda.
8:40 pm on May 9th, 2008
I was refering to brokentwisted’s comment impqueen. As a viewer of this site I know there is no sympathy shown to women killers
11:09 pm on May 9th, 2008
I know people will disagree but after 4years…..thats a long time for a woman to think to kill herself and her kids……..I personally think the husbands story sounds a little off…maybe it is too many lifetime movies….(one actually quite like this) where the husband kills the family because he can no longer have them and she threatens to take them away….and then he makes it look like a sucide….
I want to know if the note was hand written or not……and I want to know why if the door was unlocked why the husband did not go in the house if he was so concerned….he filed missing persons report…….
something about the story just does not add up for me…..
10:09 am on May 10th, 2008
I don’t see why she had to kill the kids….. No matter what she wrote in the note, why the kids? poor little angels…
2:55 pm on May 10th, 2008
as in every murder/suicide, there is/was no “reason” to kill the kids… no rational reason. I think a mother who does this is functioning in an irrational, insane manner that can’t be explained or understood by anyone else. even if it was along the lines of extreme hatred/revenge for bio dad, that still doesn’t really make sense; it’s truly crazy. I’m not arguing she was legally insane. Who knows? it’s moot now, she can’t be held legally responsible.
I’m not trying to excuse this evil, heinous act. I’m just saying that I think it cannot be understood in any rational sense. which is kinda good. I’d actually be a little scared if I understood how someone could murder her own kids.
2:04 am on May 12th, 2008
the door unlock and why he didn’t go in stumps me too
don’t you think they tested him for gun residue to eliminate him from a suspect?
7:36 am on May 13th, 2008
She probably planned it that way – door unlocked. It was Conrad’s visitation weekend. She probably wanted to frame him! My husband would never enter the home of his son, even if the door was unlocked. Ex-wives can be crazy!!
8:03 am on May 13th, 2008
Also, the door may have been locked when he went by the home as I am pretty sure he stated that when he went by, there were no cars in the driveway. She and the kids may have actually left for that period of time.
9:20 am on May 13th, 2008
You’re so right, I never what to comprehend “how” people can commit such acts against children. I’m doing fine just hating them for their actions. I don’t care about their mentality – understanding “how” would not bring any of the children back. I, however, do know the cure.
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