Denise Milcetic Hits The Bottle – And A Pole
April 28, 2008 by impqueen
Wading River, Long Island – Why do people think they need to take their kids with them when they go out driving after a drink or eight? Denise Milcetic is our D’D Drunk Drivin’ Mommy of the Day. Congrats, Denise! You win public shaming and a sad-looking souvenir mugshot!Â
On Saturday night around 7:00 p.m., Denise Milcetic went out for a drunken excursion with her three year old daughter.  By 7:24, her 2003 Chevy truck was flipped. A wasted Milcetic had swerved and missed the road, smacking a pole at an intersection. The toddler was not seriously injured, but was taken to the hospital to be checked out before being released.  Way to go, Mom!Â
Denise Milcetic is charged with driving while intoxicated, child endangerment, refusal to take a breathalyzer, adn aggravated unlicensed operation of a motor vehicle. As of this morning she remains in custody in Suffolk County in lieu of $5000 bond, of which $2500 must be paid in cash.
3:31 pm on April 28th, 2008
I’m newly addicted to the D’D, and I’m still overwhelmed by mostly every story I read here. And the pictures. And the myspaces.
I went to a fundraiser at an elementary school over the weekend, and when the little dance troop was performing, I couldn’t help but know that there was a pedo in the crowd. Thanks to the D’D. Ugh.
Anyway, what’s overwhelming to me in this story is the picture. This woman’s eyes are so very sad and scared and helpless/hopeless.
Yeah, she’s a dumbass who risked her child’s life. Don’t get me wrong; I know that.
It’s just striking to me how I feel so sad for her.
4:01 pm on April 28th, 2008
I don’t feel sad for her. The nicest emotion I can dredge up for this sorry excuse for a parent is disgust. She risked her child’s life, not to mention the lives of everyone else on the road that night. She is a selfish bitch, and deserves whatever the courts throw at her – and I hope it’s a lot!
Oh, and I have no doubt that this woman is sad and depressed. But, I believe the only reason for her sadness/desperation is because she got sent to jail, and doesn’t have the money to bond out. The only thing she is sorry for, is getting caught.
4:07 pm on April 28th, 2008
At first glance at the picture, and then reading the article, I immediately lump her in with the other DUI dumbasses. But then as I look at her picture, her drunken, teary-eyed picture…I see her in that mugshot and I just cannot help but notice the sadness in her eyes I am then overcome with a feeling that gets me right in the pit of the stomach.
I then realize it is gas, fart loudly, then go back to lumping her in with the other DUI dumbasses.
4:11 pm on April 28th, 2008
This is the kind of cynicism which flows through the D’D frequently….and on one hand, I’m giving you a hi-five. It’s the other hand, the one that’s floating a “peace” sign, which is confusing.
See, I’ve been coming more and more to the conclusion that we are all one. It’s perhaps the most beautiful and the ugliest sentiment ever.
If we’re all one, and everyone deserves love, how am I to deal with all these people doing horrible things?
(Pardon me for the cheesiness, I just read Stranger in a Strange Land and I’m filled with “Thou Art God”)
And I don’t assume that this woman is only apologetic for being caught. Yeah, she risked her life and the kid’s and every-other-driver-on-the-road-that-day; maybe she’s actually sorry about that.
I mean, her guilt is obvious. But, her sentiments and regrets are not.
I can’t just assume the worst.
Even in the case of the dirty fucking pedophiles, who I’m inclined to hate and murder single-handedly, I feel saddened by the sickness which has filled them and compelled them to do harm to children.
And in her case, those eyes are just pitiful. In my opinion.
4:12 pm on April 28th, 2008
Mandella, you’re not the only one to feel sad for some of people on here, which is a much better place to find yourself than around Morbid when he farts.
4:13 pm on April 28th, 2008
LOL
Why can’t I be more like you, Morbid?
4:21 pm on April 28th, 2008
Welcome to the site Mandella
4:24 pm on April 28th, 2008
Thanks, Morbid.
I’ve been reading for months; commenting for a week or two. Still ajusting to the fact that I am literally addicted to this site, and wondering if there’s something wrong with me…
But, thanks for the welcome!
4:27 pm on April 28th, 2008
There well may be something wrong with you, Mandella. I’m still working on a name for it, but I kind of think Demon Addictive Disorder is fitting.
So just say, “Hi, my name is Mandella, and I have DAD.” Most people will look at you oddly, nod, and say “of course you do.” But those of us who know will offer you a moist towelette for the couch and a drink for chat night.
4:37 pm on April 28th, 2008
We may all be ‘one’, but even that ‘one’ has different parts. If I’m gonna look at it as a ‘oneness’, I am gonna need to put a ‘body’ on that oneness. And all bodies are made up of many parts. You have your ‘brains’ and ‘hearts’ and ‘eyes’ and ‘ears’. Then you have the other parts. Like the ‘assholes’, ‘cunts’, ‘dicks’ and so forth. While I will have to agree with you that all parts probably have at least one ‘function’ in society, that does not mean that they are all necessary, or that they should be considered to have any redeeming qualities. While the asshole is necessary for biological waste removal, so is the CDC, and HAZMAT. But I wouldn’t want to live next door to either of them any more than I would the asshole, because of the possibility of a biological ‘leak’.
There are also those parts which serve no purpose, other than to self destruct the host organism. One that springs to mind is the appendix. While it may be a ‘backup’ waste removal organ, in actuality it really only provides an opportunity for ‘body’ to destroy itself from within. I have heard many stories of people dying from a burst appendix, but I have NEVER heard a story in which the presence of the appendix was the only thing responsible for saving a life. It is therefore expendable; much like the pedos, rapists, and child abusers profiled here at D’D. The only function these people seem to perform is to destroy society from within, and cause pain and suffering. At the first sign of inflammation, they need to be surgically removed from the ‘host’ body (society) in order to prevent the ‘body’ from going into self-destruct mode.
4:42 pm on April 28th, 2008
And Welcome, Mandella! Even if I do disagree with you sometimes, that doesn’t mean I don’t like you. I enjoy reading about different perspectives on issues. And yes, there IS something wrong with you, but you’re in really good company, as all of us here are at least a little fucked up – and some (like me) are REALLY fucked up! But at least I get to have fun!
4:49 pm on April 28th, 2008
Welcome Mandella!!!! All I can say – you know the company you keep…
. Actually we are a great bunch unless you’re a murderer or pedophile or a drunk driver – then we don’t skimp on the public shaming.
4:53 pm on April 28th, 2008
WHOAH, Angel. That’s a helluva response. You really put a lot of thought into that….and while I do truly appreciate the attempt at enlightenment, I must decline to accept that harsh outlook.
I can’t believe that any humans are born evil (nor can I value-compare the human life to that of a lousy appendix). Therfore, humans (in my estimation) are either a) born with genetic defects which may or may not include inclinations towards alcoholism, pedophilia, or any other range of mental and physical illnesses OR b) develop mental illnesses OR c) are ruined by society, socialization, bad parenting, etc, etc, etc.
She was sad and depressed BEFORE she got behind the wheel; it’s not just because she was caught doing something wrong. She was drunk at 7 PM, with her kid in the car. Why was she drunk at 7PM? Because she’s a miserable and unhappy human. And she’s a part of me.
She’s obviously fucked up, I’ll grant you. But I can’t say that I’d have her “elminated” from the body of the collective ME or WE or whatever you wanna call it.
I don’t know what to do, other than be filled with sadness that a part of me (we) is so sick and sad and wrong.
5:07 pm on April 28th, 2008
Thanks for the warm welcome, everyone.
I’m a fan of literally everyone who’s posted in this thread. Yes, even you, Angel.
5:13 pm on April 28th, 2008
Of course! How could anyone NOT love me? I’m an ANGEL. *bats eyes* A sweet ANGEL (with horns, and forked tongue).
5:39 pm on April 28th, 2008
[chokes on Diet Coke]
5:43 pm on April 28th, 2008
Lizard, you know you love me long time, baybee…….
5:47 pm on April 28th, 2008
What?! I didn’t say anything!
8:11 pm on April 28th, 2008
pathetic. i feel sorry for her kid.
8:51 pm on April 28th, 2008
Whoa. I look at her and I feel as if I’ve had too much to drink. Is it just me, or does she look “fuzzy”???
8:58 pm on April 28th, 2008
I noticed that about her picture, too, but figured it was just because I am taking allergy meds, so I don’t drown in my own snot. I guess it’s not the allergy meds, after all, huh?
9:03 pm on April 28th, 2008
They probably make it more palatable, though. Urgh. I think I need a drink.
9:07 pm on April 28th, 2008
Make what more palatable – my snot, or her picture?
9:40 pm on April 28th, 2008
Ummmm…..both????
6:39 am on April 29th, 2008
Her nose has taken a few shots as well – got a nice curve to it. Age estimate? 38-45, but if her hair was grey you’d think she was 60. Ahh, liquor – it gives a little, takes a lot.
8:30 am on April 29th, 2008
Mandella welcome and I really can appreciate your feelings. I too believe we are all one, all connected in the web of life. I wonder how these motherfuckers fit in? I really don’t get it. I suppose I’ve come to the conclusion that some of us here are not the same. Something has fucked up. Maybe an alien invasion, maybe these fucktards aren’t human….or maybe they are and we’re not. I know in my heart I try to love all folks, and then I look here everyday at these motherfuckers and I cannot love baby killers. I cannot love pedophiles. I cannot accept these individuals are anything like me. Their brains are different, their total makeup is different and really, truthfully, the whole fucking mess of it scares the fuck out of me. Which I suppose is why I try to live in my Hippie bubble, and why I live on a farm in the middle of fucking nowhere. I feel lost sometimes in a world I do not recognize. Alone in a place where brothers and sisters seem to have the coldest fucking hearts.
You mentioned being addicted to the site, my friend. Let me tell you, all of us feel that way. I think part of it for me, is the connection to other people who are as horrified as I am. I feel I communicate with loving humans here. (yeah we can all get shitty with these asshats and perverts but the hearts here are strong, loving and courageous.) Most of the regular posters here on the DD, I absolutely treasure.
Again, welcome. Glad to have you!
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