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Felicia Mikels Is Dead - Thanks, Uncle Chris!
Created on January 21st, 2008 by impqueen now with 17,196 views
Tags: Christopher Mikels, Douglas Mandichak, Felicia Mikels, Incest, Miciana Ramos, Missing Person, Murder, Rape
Category Abduction| Incest| Missing Person| Murder| Rape| Sexual Abuse| Sexual Assault |
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impqueen
Jan 23, 2008 at 6:07 pm -200. heh.
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bogustoo
Jan 23, 2008 at 7:23 pm -I was definitely teasing about the South Jersey thing. It’s a joke. Relax.
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Hippiepoet
Jan 23, 2008 at 8:03 pm -What is wrong with this little girl. I swear, my ass looks better than that, and shit fire, I’m 43. This girl was living some hard ass life. I wonder how young she was when she had her first sexual encounter? It looks like she never had the chance to be a healthy, young, teen-ager. I could not imagine posting my naked ass where my dad or uncles would see it, especially at the young age of 17. How old was she when first sexually abused? With all this behavior this young lady displays she has definitely been abused somewhere along the way. If that baby goes into this home, my guess, the same things are going to happen. This is such a sad story.
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waldorffuzzy
Jan 23, 2008 at 8:19 pm -I can not believe that the brother is 18 years old as he claims on his MySpace page. He looks to be around 10 or 11. Is he throwing up gang symbols in his pictures . Do they think they are black ? What are they thinking ? Are they confussed ? Are they Wiggers?
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WryBread
Jan 23, 2008 at 8:19 pm -I followed up on the most important aspect of this case — what kind of name is Miciana, anyway?
It’s not in baby name sites that I’ve searched.
There IS, however a teen named Miciana, and here is her webpage:
http://caramelstar89.buzznet.com/user/
Perhaps little Miciana will grow up to pout like her.
And here is a page that has the word Miciana first on it. It’s translated from the Italian. But the Bablefish online translator could not translate “miciana” for me, so who knows what it means here:
http://translate.google.com/tr.....%3D1I7GGIH
Thus, babyname category:
Molestation of innocent alphabet letters
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waldorffuzzy
Jan 23, 2008 at 8:21 pm -look at her heals in that one picture they are all dryed out and cracked ..she needs a pedicure
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waldorffuzzy
Jan 23, 2008 at 8:26 pm -I think Miciana is the white trash version of Shaniqua
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impqueen
Jan 23, 2008 at 8:38 pm -Kinda hard to get a pedicure when she’s dead. And before that, I don’t think anyone was handing her $20s telling her “go take care of yourself, honey.” Taking care of Felicia was the last thing on her parents’ mind, near as i can tell.
I think it’s sort of pretty. Felicia was calling her “Missy”, which is cute. Born to a seventeen year old mother, just be glad her name isn’t Mary Jane Fourtwenny or Fergie.
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mg
Jan 23, 2008 at 11:47 pm -is this really her? (from the boyfriend’s myspace)
http://viewmorepics.myspace.co.....geID=57605
the last time he logged in was Aug 05 so the pic is 2-3 years old. What she must have gone thru to change so much in that amount of time? I really hope that the baby has a better chance than her momma had.
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ells9824
Jan 24, 2008 at 12:01 am -I really hate to point out that even 2-3 years ago there are NO SHEETS ON THE BED.
She was very cute, its a shame that she got pulled into such a sick situation.
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DeathToBarbie
Jan 24, 2008 at 8:15 am -Good Morning all, had to hit my favorite new site! This site Rocks!
Well they have not found the body as of yet and here is a theory on her death that is… Maybe Felica wasn’t fully dead when they dropped her off that creek bridge (let’s face it neither of these guys look capable of finding a pulse spot unless it smells life fish)…
With that, wouldn’t it be sad to find out that she didn’t die from the blunt force of the wood, but from drowning because the tarp was caught on wood at the bottom of the creek?
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Kathy
Jan 24, 2008 at 8:41 am -Dammit, I didn’t want to do this, but I got to!
I know it is hard to feel sorry for this victim because she seemed so trashy, but WHAT THE FUCK?!?! She was 17 years old for fucks sake! She, through no fault of her own, was born into a poor family with the morals of Bonobo chimps and half the fucking brain cells. Her uncle raped her, impregnated her and then participated in her murder!
Call them “wiggers, ” trying to be “ethnic” whatever. That has nothing to do with the choices the adults made or whether she was asking for it or not. There are tons of people out there that embrace the “urban ” lifestyle yet still raise good families and contribute to society. Jeeezus people.
Whether she acted like it or not, she was a little girl, who was sexualized probably at a very early age by incest. She was doomed from the get go. Her baby probably would have been raised the same way. Now she has a chance. Who gives a fuck that her name is Miciana. Would you all be happier if her name was Lindsey or Britney? We all know how names like those guarantee a good turnout.
Shit, I’m the voice of moral outrage here. I hate you people for bringing this out in me. I need to go kill a puppy or something.
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Hippiepoet
Jan 24, 2008 at 9:13 am -Just go take a big dump on the couch or something, Kath. (of course I do know someone who’s got a pup connection, man, just saying)
Really Kathy, I am glad you spoke up. I too, have been noticing the trashing of that poor baby’s name. I didn’t want to say anything for fear of getting violently flamed….Ummmm but my middle name is ummm
Miciana, and I think it’s beautiful.
So there, my god I am glad I got that off my chest.
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thepooh5
Jan 24, 2008 at 9:17 am -Exactly, that is why she has my sympathy, she was a child that never had a chance. I’m sorry the little girl had to lose her mom - maybe in this tragedy, some good will come for little Miciana. I hope DFS will keep her out of that horrid home. Then perhaps she will have a chance her mother did not have - a loving, caring family.
Now, there is the Kathy we all know and love.
There is a litter of kittens, that has been dropped at the local KFC - if kittens will do?
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impqueen
Jan 24, 2008 at 9:19 am -Don’t choke a bitch, girl
I know what you’re saying. I’ve kind of said the same thing myself, although never as well as you do. The gangsta stuff is funny, but it’s window dressing. Lots of perfectly good people write that way or talk that way and don’t rape or kill their family members.
Felicia never had a chance. It’s clear that poverty is an overwhelming issue for this family. Education is not an option for them. Choices were made by the parents and grandparents that led to at least one child being raped by a family member living in the home - probably all of them were.
The girls have sex very young (thanks to family!) and don’t know squat about contraception or don’t have the funds to get any. Somebody took those pics of Felicia in her home. With most of her clothes off. Her eyes never look happy, but I think she really believed that was her worth in this world - what she could offer the men around her.
If you read her Myspaces and weed through the crap, she seemed too smart to drop out of high school, but she needed the job. At least she was working and not a welfare mom. The whole family is incredibly dysfunctional, but I guarantee you they don’t think so. I hope baby Miciana gets a chance at a more normal life, ’cause her mama’s was just damned tragic.
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jenjen0135
Jan 24, 2008 at 10:51 am -REPLY From MS. Coogan!
It is my understanding that the child is in foster care and will remain there for the time being. Once placed into foster care the child will have a law guardian appointed to represent her interests and a judge will be looking at the case.
Mary E. Coogan, Esq.
Assistant Director
Association for Children of New Jersey
35 Halsey Street
Newark, New Jersey 07102
Ph: 973-643-3876
Fax: 973-643-9153
mcoogan@acnj.org
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ab
Jan 24, 2008 at 11:08 am -Yes, I received the same reply from Ms. Coogan. I wrote back requesting that she forward the Myspace links to the appropriate authorities that are overseeing Miciana’s case. Let’s hope…
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pms.247
Jan 24, 2008 at 11:09 am -CNN reported last night that the baby was back with family. I hope CNN was wrong!
Perhaps they are tidy and wash their bedding daily??? Nah….although there’s no doubt their bedding SHOULD be washed daily.
I just weeded through the myspace sites and feel so sad for this girl. The site I think is her 16 year old brother’s sitename is “ima changed niggah”
Her father’s sitename is “I Needa Woman to help my Christmas Fun”
(since his daughters were in “the motherly way” and were out of commission for awhile) - sick, nasty looking man
On her sister Laura’s site (well, one of them) there are lots of pictures. One of them is a picture of either Laura or Fee, but I’m thinking Laura and her father. One of her male friend’s wrote this as his comment on that picture: WOW I NEVER SEEN U LIKE THAT..U LOOK LIKE U WANNA CRY (he capped it, not me…) In the pic, her father is hugging her from behind and she really does look sad.
More pics show a baby shower thrown for Fee on 10/16//07. Fee looks like a little kid - so innocent and cute - not all gangsta at all. She’s also VERY pregnant in the pics, and wearing no maternity clothes. Tight pants down on her hips (which, as we mothers know, would be horribly uncomfortable while pregnant) and her ass is probably hanging out the back, but you can’t see it – thank goodness, since we’ve all seen enough of that. Anyway, again, she looks so very innocent in those pics - and hurt.
Lastly, Fee and Laura’s mom commented on one of the pictures of Laura and her baby: “my ganger chick grand baby i love u”
Obviously, this lifestyle was condoned in this family.
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pms.247
Jan 24, 2008 at 11:10 am -Okay, now I need a nap…a looooooong nap!
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impqueen
Jan 24, 2008 at 11:26 am -Kathy’s lagging on my 200 post present. Just wanted to get that in there.
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ells9824
Jan 24, 2008 at 11:30 am -Kathy -at least for me- the more we point out differences from the people involved is this, the more sense it makes. Its comforting to think my brother won’t decide to take a niece for a wife. I dunno…
As far as this poor kid: my husband pointed this out- she is all about showing off her ass, but it never occurs to her to show her chest, which LOTS of people do. Just that one red dress, which really isn’t that revealing. His exact words were- she’s been abused bad because she doesn’t know that boobs are fun. He’s got a point… thats what got her attention in the past, may as well show it to try to get more. Most rapists whether they are your neighbor or uncle are about what’s in it for them, not really about your pleasure.
There is a major disconnect in this family, and if Missy goes back to it she’ll be living the same life, and that family tree will lose another couple forks.
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thepooh5
Jan 24, 2008 at 11:34 am -WTH - can I personally knock the hell out of both her parents? STUPID STUPID!!!!
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Kathy
Jan 24, 2008 at 11:38 am -Aw fuck Imp!!! Soo Sorry. I got Pukey the Wondergurl at home today!
Here you go, extra personalized just for YOU!!
http://i76.photobucket.com/alb.....ecouch.jpg
RAWR!
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Morbid
Jan 24, 2008 at 11:45 am -Actually, shouldn’t the presents go to the actual page turn post? 51? 101? etc?
Just saying, it seems more award-worthy to be the first on a new page, rather than the last on an old one.
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Kathy
Jan 24, 2008 at 11:56 am -You know, you are right Morb. And since you have pointed that out, I have a VERY special prize for you.
A cute baby with a personalized message. Enjoy!
http://i238.photobucket.com/al.....0_2391.jpg
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ashdavus
Jan 24, 2008 at 12:02 pm -Been there, done that. Mine is barely old enough to lean over the barf bowl and when she did her aim was incredibly off. I feel for you!
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Morbid
Jan 24, 2008 at 12:03 pm -Awwww…for me? You do know, that in my language, that personal message is actually a mating call? Just warning ya’.
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Kathy
Jan 24, 2008 at 12:08 pm -Mine is a champ. She doesn’t cry or anything, just walks around the house with her puke bucket.
A mating call? How do you ever make it through rush hour traffic?
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impqueen
Jan 24, 2008 at 12:09 pm -You do love me. If only Eddie did, my life would be complete. Le sigh.
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impqueen
Jan 24, 2008 at 12:15 pm -Just saying, I’m gonna find WonderDomme and have her choke you with her corset laces. Then, while she’s holding you down, i’ma step on your trachea with my Eddie Izzard Brand platform slut boots. Do not jack with Kathy’s award system, yo, or I will do my next post in Gangsta, and it will be entitled “Morbid Found Dead In Mary Kate’s Apartment - Imp Calls Everyone Before 911.”
So we’re clear.
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ashdavus
Jan 24, 2008 at 12:16 pm -*putting eyeballs back in skull*
How did I get behind and miss that yesterday? MAN! And here I thought only chicken was finger lickin good!
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Kathy
Jan 24, 2008 at 12:18 pm -I think you just gave Morbid wood…
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impqueen
Jan 24, 2008 at 12:19 pm -PS, Kathy, hope your girl feels better soon.
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impqueen
Jan 24, 2008 at 12:22 pm -What? I didn’t even flip him the bird.
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solange822001
Jan 24, 2008 at 12:27 pm -Thanks Kathy. I know I’m not the kindest person around here, but I too feel alot of compassion for this poor girl. She was just a little girl, and I can’t help thinking that Miciana would have changed her life. It seems like she really loved that baby. Besides the uncle molesting her, she has a father who obviously couldn’t care less for her well-being. I wish that her sister would speak out more on MySpace or maybe on here, I would really like to know more about Felicia and the situation.
For example, why did they really kill her? It has to be more to it than a little bit of money. I mean, how much money could a 17 year old owe, or vice versa? I wonder if there was some jealousy involved. I started thinking this when I read her dad say that Doug might have had a crush on her. I wonder if Doug didn’t know that Felicia had slept with her uncle, and when he found out, he became enraged with her? Maybe it started out with a ploy to get her to come so they could scare her about money or whatever, and then Doug used the opportunity to vent some of that rage? I know it sounds stupid, but it might be something similar…
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solange822001
Jan 24, 2008 at 12:40 pm -Holy shit! I think I found ANOTHER myspace page for Felicia. And guess what? Another half-naked profile pic…
http://profile.myspace.com/ind.....d=94322044
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solange822001
Jan 24, 2008 at 12:42 pm -And STILL no sheets on the bed
http://viewmorepics.myspace.co.....ID=5051055
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ab
Jan 24, 2008 at 12:56 pm -No, we had found that site already. However, I wouldn’t be surprised if there were others. IMO, Felicia was another victim of a very sick family. I hope that Miciana is saved, at least.
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solange822001
Jan 24, 2008 at 12:58 pm -Really? I didn’t see it in the list of her websites that someone had posted.
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solange822001
Jan 24, 2008 at 1:02 pm -This shit sounds like such a copy and paste standard reply. She probably sends that to every email she gets about every child that comes their way. I just hope Ms. Mary Coogan knows that people are watching this closely, and if that child gets molested, neglected, or hurt, it’s going to be her ass on the line!
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solange822001
Jan 24, 2008 at 1:14 pm -Nevermimd, I see it on Deathtobarbie’s list. There are FIVE!? I thought there were only three! I wonder what she was up to?? I heard that you can sign up with different websites, where if you let them advertise on your personal site, they pay you by the click. I wonder if that is why she had so many, and with partial nudity on the profile click? Maybe she was making money doing that.
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WryBread
Jan 24, 2008 at 1:17 pm -Kathy! Sorry to offend you. But I think it’s really stupid that celebrities name their kids “Apple” or “Satchel,” and that “urban lifestyle folks” and “rural lifestyle folks” sit around masturbating with vowels and consonants and come up with weird sounds that they then think makes their baby somehow special.
And as for people who embrace the stereotypical gangsta lifestyle (as fed to us by the music industry) and still raise great families — they are doing their kids no favor by encouraging the motto thinking (Got your back, don’t take flak), bad grammar, attention to g3ttiNg their bad spelling down wid them jes right instead of working on good grammar, attitudes of violence and emotional excess (Mess with my man, I’ll KILL you, LOVE him forever!!!!!!!!), and oversexualized daily life (I need a woman to celebrate Christmas). This is a destructive outlook that does not lead to anything good in the long run.
I can still feel badly for the victim and point out that her family is trash. I can still feel badly for the baby and try to make a little humor by looking up her name in a baby name site. I’ll do the same for Tiffany, Tifny, Tiphany, Lakeshia, Britny, Apple, Satchel, and the hundreds of spellings that come from what — misplaced creativity or now knowing how to spell — that grace my local school rolls.
I hope your baby is feeling better. I vomited down my mother’s back three times in one afternoon. She kept having to change her shirtwaist dresses — and that was last week. If I knew how to make an emoticon, I’d put a smiley face there because I really life your posts and am sorry that you are mad at me.
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ab
Jan 24, 2008 at 1:18 pm -Lastest to me from Ms. Coogan:
I forwarded your email to someone at the state DYFS office who is going to forward to the local office. You may hear from someone from DYFS directly if they have questions.
Mary E. Coogan, Esq.
Assistant Director
Association for Children of New Jersey
35 Halsey Street
Newark, New Jersey 07102
Ph: 973-643-3876
Fax: 973-643-9153
mcoogan@acnj.org
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Kathy
Jan 24, 2008 at 1:37 pm -It takes alot to offend me Wrybread. No problems here. Seriously, would I be spending ANY time here if I got offended easily?
My point was simply this, YES her family was trash, YES Miciana is a different name (but its not a made up one - there are others, you would probably not like my daughter’s name to be honest) and YES she showed her ass off to other people.
It still didn’t make her any less deserving of her life and a chance to be a mother to her baby. People here seemed to be using that as a reason to say she deserved this. It bothered me. She was a product of her environment.
I DO have a problem with people saying that they acted “ethnic” and like “wiggers” because seriously WTF? They all meant BLACK, so quit hiding and fucking say it. If you are going to stereotype, have some balls and just DO IT ALREADY. What do black people act like? Its a stereotype that really has no basis in reality and fuck, these people were not black and they acted like trash. So can I say they acted like white people? NO, because hell I know not all white people act like that.
And yeah bad grammar and stuff like that, most adults (there aren’t many - people tend to grow out of it) embracing the urban lifestyle KNOW it has its place. These people were just dumbfucks. There is a pic in one of the profiles that has someones “hubby” pointing a gun directly at the camera for god’s sake. Just.Plain.Stupid. Still doesn’t make her deserve to die.
Dammit, there I am again, ranting. Fuck. Now I need to go vandalize a church or something.
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Miss. Hill
Jan 24, 2008 at 1:38 pm -Did you all catch the coments under that half naked pic? I threw up in my mouth. Nasty
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solange822001
Jan 24, 2008 at 1:39 pm -Good, that’s a little bit better. I hope she follows through
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pms.247
Jan 24, 2008 at 1:56 pm -http://profile.myspace.com/ind.....d=64640543
I think this is yet another site for the mom. This person responded to Felicia’s naked picture with something along the lines of “delete this pic ma” and that page is full of more family stuff. It’s really sad what these kids went through.
Is she wearing panty hose in that picture? Her waistband is a whole different color than the rest of her body. Kinda odd, but everything with this family is odd. I wish one of them would come on this site and post.
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Miss. Hill
Jan 24, 2008 at 2:06 pm -Kathy, I agree with everything you have said. I like unique names my self. Mine is a little different not unheard off. I always liked that it was unique. If I had a girl I would have went with something unique also. I have boys so, not so much to choose from. I also feel for her as well as her sister who is still alive and has more than likely endured the same sexual abuse.
It looked like a thong to me!
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impqueen
Jan 24, 2008 at 2:06 pm -That’s actually Felicia’s aunt’s page. “Ma” is a term that seems to get thrown around a lot and applies to almost any girl of childbearing age.
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WryBread
Jan 24, 2008 at 2:40 pm -Wiggers - means white people who want to act like urban, hip-hop, gangsta crap. It is not a code word for black. Of course, there are decent families in the city who are neither hip-hop nor gangsta. And these decent families come in all races. I’m not going to say in code that all blacks act like anything. When I mean all blacks, I’ll say all blacks. Until then I’ll use whatever phrase I believe delineates the group that I mean — if it’s white gangta wannabes, I’ll say wiggers.
Of course this girl didn’t deserve to die. She was a victim before she was murdered, and I’m not going to hold back on commenting on her family.
Yes, I think odd names have become a cliche. I always want to ask people, “Do you think burdening your child with the task of spelling, “Kathhrienn,” for the rest of her life is doing her a favor?”
But to be honest, I’ll tell you why you really shouldn’t care about my opinon on names — I have had strange-name trauma in my life. When I was in Hollywood, everyone had a weird spelling to their name, the famous, the not-yet famous, and there no-chance-of-ever-being famous alike. And we assistants had to get it right or there’d be hell to pay. Screaming, yelling, diatribe hell. So I’d have to waste my work time, during my long, tense, overworked days, placing three or four or more phone calls to confirm it if it was, say, Britney, Britny, Britnnny, Bretnnnie, and if it was pronounced, BRIT-ny,