MySpace Hoax Leads To Megan Meier Suicide

If that was MY daughter, those piece of shit adults would have to take out a restraining order on me. I would be there for every waking moment for the rest of their lives making sure everyone KNEW what they were responsible for. If I ever got close enough for physical contact I would beat the living shit out of them. They could put me in jail, but every time I got out, I would be at it again. What they did was so petty and disgusting. I KNOW lots of parents like that. For some reason they feel its ok to get involved in their teens’ drama. My younger (much younger) sister was actually CONFRONTED by the mother of some girl when she was in high school. It was over a boy that had no interest in her daughter but was seeing my sister. I had to show up to that dumbasses job and straighten that bitch out. She was in her 30s, I was in my early 20s. It was really funny how I had to tell her to grow up and let them handle it themselves. She lost all her courage when I showed up.
I think the adults here need to be prosecuted or at least pursued in civil court. They had prior knowledge of her condition and they actively pursued her. There was no reason for it. It was just plain malicious.

I just read the article then I called my neice she lives in that area her daughters knew megan and said she was a very nice girl I didnt know her though I think its just sad when parents feel they need to gat into their childrens tiffs and they should be made to pay the mother who caused this actually told the cops she did’nt feel guilty what a cold hearted bitch I hope to god she sees megans face every time she closes her eyes I am a christian may i suggest that we all say a prayer for megans soul suiside is wrong but in her case i believe it should be classfied by attempted murder at the very least they drove her to it a perent like that should have her child removed from the home HMMMMMMM i just wonder how high her daughter holds her head up at school now that he mom caused the death of megan

Does your neice know the other family involved?

I wonder how long before the other family involved has their name plastered all over the web by investigative bloggers?

Dig Morbid dig!! Since the mother that started this whole thing doesn’t seem to feel guilty, I’m sure she won’t mind having her and HER daughter’s names posted online. I want photos and links to their myspace accounts as well. Heh.

I am pretty sure I found them. There were enough clues and info in the articles and comments that it really wasn’t that hard. But since I cannot 100 percent verify…

If the ADULT mother of the teen, knew Megan suffered from depression, created Josh, as stated, and then began to work on her mentally – then this woman is directly responsible for her death. All premeditation does not mean to plan to shoot or stab or break in. What better way to get rid of an enemy, than to have them kill themselves – no suspect, no murderer.

The adults involved in this are guilty of murder just as I would be IF I pointed a blind man in the direction of an oncoming car or in the direction of a cliff. True, I did not push him in front of a car or off of the cliff BUT – HE IS STILL DEAD AND MY INTENTIONAL ACTIONS CAUSED IT. The same applies to this case – if someone knows for a fact how depressed someone else is….. and they INTENTIONALLY feed on this weakness and cause that person to commit suicide then that person caused their death – THEY ARE MURDERERS AS WELL.

In this particular situation, since the families were involved with each other, the mother was privy to Megan’s illness and knew how to use it. That is PREMEDITATED any way you look at it. Just because she didn’t shoot her means nothing to me – SHE AND THE OTHER ADULT AND HER DAUGHTER ARE DIRECTLY RESPONSIBLE FOR MEGAN’S SUICIDE! This should not be allowed to go to a civil court. This was a PREMEDITATED MURDER because she knew of the girl’s fragil state.

Go Morbid Go – You are great at investigating!!! Can’t wait to see what you turn up!

Someone? Anyone? Can you please help Morbid 100% verify? This story has pissed me off and I feel like stooping to their level. I wonder how much cyber-bullying it would take to push THEM over the edge?

Kathy – I would swear I’m kin to you, if you weren’t in Missouri – although, I heard dad got around, LOL! It seems that people like us are in the minority – you know the ones who think “IF YOU DON’T WANT NOTHING DON’T START NOTHING!”

Had this been my child, none of them would be safe. Perhaps, that is because I only have one child to worry about – there would be nothing else for me to lose. The cops or their families would not be able to protect them. I hope the whole community turns on those sicko pyschos.

This should also include a FIRST DEGREE MURDER INVESTIGATION ON ALL PARTIES INVOLVED AND APPROPRIATE FIRST DEGREE MURDER CHARGES FILED FOR ALL. Does anyone know how old the other teen involved was before I pass judgement on her?

How could the mom who caused this say she doesn’t feel guilty – she caused a child she knew to kill herself. So, maybe her daughter, doesn’t know the difference between right and wrong – maybe she has never seen an example of it judging from the mom. Do we know anything on the other adult yet?

They should certainly be held responsible, to what extent I don’t know but they definitely played an active part in this girls death. Odds are if it wasn’t for their actions, she’d still be alive today.

It took about 30 minutes to find out who the bastards are that did this. The article *did* give excellent clues in order to find the folks responsible. I will defer to Morbid though as he has more experience and will probably double and triple check his sources.

If you want to know how I found them Morbid just email me

The mother stated that her daughter was depressed but that had changed. I’m sure the “monster mother” knew that Megan was improving – since the “monster mom” knew Megan and her family. The “monster mom” stated that “she just wanted to see what Megan was saying about her daughter, if anything”. BULLSH*T!!! Grow up that stuff went out when you graduated, STUPID!

If “monster mom” thought there was something so serious between the two teens, why didn’t she go to the other parents and sit down with their daughters and hash things out. Let’s face it, that b*tch was acting worse than a teen. How many parents create a character to see what others are saying about their kid? “Sick and Stupid”.

As for her not feeling any guilt, well I don’t even know how to respond to that. Where is her human instinct just to hate the fact that some poor girl in her life killed herself. Had I known Megan, I would be broken hearted about what had happened, much less knowing I caused it. I never knew any of the involved and I sit here heartbroken for Megan and her family. Prayers for the whole family.

I sent you an email, Medic.

Morbid we are anxiously waiting. But, I admire your resolve for the facts and verification of information. Good Job!!!

Me and Medic have the same family. But again, it is impossible to verify 100 percent unless someone actually gets the original complaint filed about the foosball table, or if someone from the area verifies. The complaint about Ron running through their yard is available, but the case is St. Charles vs Ron Meier. The family is not listed.

morbid soory my neices dont know the other family they just went to school with megan at ft zumwalt when she went there from what i understand the have been hush hush about the other families idenity for fear of vigalantie justice and for the safty of the other girl at school

“for fear of vigalantie justice and for the safty of the other girl at school”

Soo, they can dish it but they can’t take it eh? Cowards.

Medic, looks as if we were right.

http://bluemerle.blogspot.com/2007/11/what-you-said-to-megan-meier.html

thats just pretty freakin sick. I hope charges are eventually brought against monster mom but its too late for poor Megan. Why is it that no one seems to value a childs life anymore?

Here is the whole story link -http://stcharlesjournal.stltoday.com/news/sj2tn20071110-1111stc_pokin_1.ii1.txt

Please someone tell me I read it wrong. I understood it to say there would be no charges filed because they didn’t have one to fit the crime.

From what I read, it is called PREMEDITATED MURDER!! I am going to repeat part of my post yesterday — IF I POINT A BLIND MAN INTO ON COMING TRAFFIC OR I POINT HIM IN THE DIRECTION OF A CLIFF – THEN HE IS HIT BY A CAR OR FALLS TO HIS DEATH – I WOULD BE GUILTY OF MURDER! True, I didn’t push him out into traffic or over the cliff, but he is still dead. HE IS DEAD BECAUSE OF MY INTENTIONAL ACTIONS!!!

The bitch monster mom knew of Megan’s depression and used it. She said she did not feel guilty “once” she found out poor Megan had tried suicide before. BULLSHIT!!! The teens were friends and had been for a while. I bet Megan and the other teen had discussed it before and I bet at some point, during one of the teens’ tifts, she told monster mom. That bitch used that knowledge. If she did not have any malicious intent – why didn’t she stick to name calling and other juvinile things. There was a post purposely stating “the world would be a better place without you”!!

Come on community cry out to the law and law makers!! It could be your teen next time. Those three murdered poor Megan the same as if they had shot her between the eyes. And furthermore, what justice system allows the other side to charge Ron and take him to court for driving thru their lawn and busting a fooseball table after what that sorry bunch done to his family. PLEASE!! Stupid shit like that is why Tina should be able to beat the hell out of the monster mom and the other 18 yr old without any consequences. And Ron should be able to kick the dad’s ass, too.

Ron and Tina if you were divorcing before Megan’s tragic end then maybe it is the answer – But if not, please find a way to cling to each other in this awful time. Don’t let that sorry bunch down the street take you marriage – they already took your daughter. Hang on guys. Prayer to you for Megan and your marriage.

And to Kathy, Amen!!! Like I said yesterday – IF YOU DON’T WANT NOTHING DON’T START NOTHING!!!

Again, does anyone know who old the other teen girl was?

Suppose there was as suicide jumper standing at the edge of a building, and I began shouting “Jump! Jump!” and then he did in fact, jump to his death. I would be a morally bankrupt human being, for sure, but not a murderer. This other family, the ones who were aware of Megan’s mental state, are vile human beings to be sure. But to charge them with murder? They didn’t kill her, nor did they intend to.

Lastly, there are a plethora of things that lead to someone committing suicide, we have no clue (nor will we ever) know EXACTLY what all was going on in this girls life. We have one side of a story. But to say that 100 percent without a doubt that the actions of this other family are the sole cause of her suicide is ludicrous.

If the community wants to ostracize this other family because of their actions, so be it. I am all for it. A good shunning works wonders. If the Meier’s ever decide to take the family to civil court, the that is their right as well. But if they are to bring this other family to court for their shameful actions, to blame them for their daughter’s suicide, then it is only fair that they are put on trial as well, for what part they may have had in Megan’s mental state. For as the article stated Megan described herself as:

M is for Modern

E is for Enthusiastic

G is for Goofy

A is for Alluring

N is for Neglected.

I am not apologizing for the other family. They are despicable. I am just saying that people may want to check themselves and ensure that they are not placing their frustration and anger over a needless death on one portion of the total equation.

I agree, murder charges may be going over the top, but they do need to be held accountable. Since the people responsible already lawyered up, they must know something is coming.
From the link you provided above, I believe they are REALLY getting it from their community. The hate they made that poor girl feel was only imagined. The hatred beign directed towards them is REAL. I hope they like it.

http://tinyurl.com/38cyt4

A St. Charles County teen commits suicide after being targeted by an online attack, but those who instigated it face no criminal charges, or could they? The county prosecutor says he never saw the complete case file. He doesn’t want to give anyone false hope, but he says it’s not yet case closed. “Me personally, I’ve never seen anything on this case,” says St. Charles County Prosecutor Jack Banas. He says from what he’s heard he knows hearts are broken, but he doesn’t believe laws were.

Morbid to discuss your comment about the jumper – kinda of interesting point, but the difference is you did not know he was depressed BEFORE he went to the roof, you did not intentionally use that information of depression in a way to make that person feel even worse – so to me JUMP JUMP is not in the same catagory. This was an adult messing with a teen’s mind. And, I don’t mean to be critical, but you or I neither know what their INTENT was. We cannot read minds.

And, if I am wrong, which is highly possible, about the first degree murder – it should be at least 2nd or the highest manslaughter possible.

When someone uses a persons mentallity against them it is as much of a crime as any. Example, if I trick a mentally handicapped person into signing and cashing their SSI check and giving me the money – I am a guilty of robbing them as if I held a gun on a regular person and demanded their money.

AGAIN, if they did not want to see if they could get her to kill herself – why add that last statement “the world would better off without you” – why not stick the name calling and insults,….your fat – no one likes you, hell, what teen hasn’t heard that. I believe the mean statements were used to weaken her mentallity and get her to an unstable train of thought and then they went in for the kill. People who have car accidents while drinking, if someone dies they can be charged with murder because they were drinking – they didn’t go out planning to drink, drive, kill somebody – but they did and they go to jail. I believe monster mom’s actions carry a whole lot more INTENT than someone being crazy enough to drink and drive.

I guess my point is simply that we do not know that the words actually existed, nor do we know ALL the details of this girls life.

For example. Let’s say I abuse my kid on a daily basis. A little physical, a lot mental. My kid begins suffering from depression, expresses thoughts of suicide, and then begins seeing a therapist and taking anti-depressants. I continue my daily routine of neglect and verbal abuse. One day, while at school, my son is targeted by bullies, who ae aware of my kid depression, who tease him about whatever…his clothes…his looks..He then goes home and hangs himself in the basement. Now, are you saying it was the bullies fault?

I think people have a right to be mad at that other family for what they did, as their actions were horrid, but to equate them with the ones solely responsible for her death just doesn’t wash. A 6 week on-line friendship, albeit a fake one, does not drive one to suicide. This girl had issues LONG before then.

I know it sounds as if I am excusing the other family, but I am not. Had Megan been my child, I would have probably hurt them physically. But on the other hand, I would hate to see the day that people can be brought up on ANY type of murder charges for something they SAID, not DID.

No, I’m not saying its the bullies fault. Apples and oranges. These adults were directly involved in Megan’s life and knew how to play her. Now, I do agree she had issues LONG before. And, Morbid, I’m sorry but you can be brought up on murder charges by what you say not do … it’s called “conspiracy to commit”.

My reasons for saying its murder is because of their mean intentions – that bitch no more wanted to see what was being said about her daughter than I did. If that had been true, if Megan was making comments about the other teen, then monster mom could have addressed the issue with Megan and her parents. But, NO she created a fake boy to build Megan up and then jerked the rug out from under her. How many “normal” teens commit suicide after a break up much less already depressed ones – after finally finding a light at the end of a tunnel? If she didn’t want her to die she was at least trying to send her over some kind of edge. Her intentions were to hurt that girl whether it was physically or mentally. And she got what she wanted.

She wanted to nose in on teen business and from what I understand their arguements weren’t serious enough to warrent parental intervention. Parental intervention, if needed, should have been with Megan’s parents – both sets of adults and let the teens sling shit to each other like all teens do from time to time.

The account was accessed by more than the mom. Yes it was created by the mother, but more than she had access to it. The young girl who came forward even admitted to posting her own messages. The password to the Josh account was given out to others. So now ALL of these people wanted this girl to kill herself? Should ANY of the people who posted mean things to this girl be brought up on murder charges as well?

Conspiracy to Commit is if I did more than say something, it is if I actually PLANNED something. Not even close to what my comment was about. I can sit here right now, look at my friend across from me and tell him “I Want To Kill You” and the most I would be charged with, if at all, would be some form of threat charge. Not murder.

There is no way you will convince me, unless you were actively there with them, that this group of people intentionally tried to kill this girl. Hell, we don’t even know the extent to what the other family knew about this girls issues. We know only one side of the story, and the knee-jerk reactions it has created.

It is a modern-day stoning.

Some very good points Morbid. I will mull them over a minute. Finally, I do not think everyone wanted her dead,but were playing a mean game. I do believe the mother had malicious intentions. She was the adult and why dirty your hands more when teens will do it for you (after all mom set it up it must be alright) and the mom not be as accountable? Like I said, what better way to get rid of an enemy than to drive them to killing themselves.

This ADULT PLANNED to do some sort of harm to a teen. Our laws from NC and MO must be completely different. Let me give you an example of one I was arrested for — I was standing outside of a car that had two girls in it. I was standing on the driver’s side talking to the driver. We were not fighting but disagreeing – the passenger decides its her business and starts saying fuck that bitch. I let it ride for several times, while continueing to talk to the driver. Finally, I lost it, I pointed my finger, from the driver’s side of the car at the passenger and asked, “do you want to step your ass out of the car?”

Later, I was arrested for attempted assault. And, as is everything else, this is public record. I did not threaten her. I did not cuss her. And the quote of “do you want to step your ass out of the car?” is exact and witnessed. Did I attempt to assualt anyone? No, I asked her IF she wanted to step out of the car.

Both the adult (so called Josh), and the dead girl’s parents should be shot.

O-kay I’m with you on the “adult pretending to be Josh” – not clear on why you think the parents are to blame as well. Can you elaborate or will you? Do you have information that known of the rest of us are aware of? And, is it fact, or opinion?

Thanks.

It’s purely an opinion, but if researched well enough, it can evolve into a fact I think. I hold parents 100% responsible for their children’s fuck ups. Most of the times it’s how they’re raised, which turns them into what they are. But, also IF they have mental issues, depression, psychosis etc. parents have the responsibility to fully attend to their child’s issues and work on it instead of hoping for the best, which majority of the parents tend to do.

Again, opinion, not a fact.

O-kay I’m still following you – but other than not listening to see what Magan was so upset over – how are the parents at fault? Not saying you’re wrong – just trying to understand.

I was impressed of how the mother had monitored – what I count – extra closely Megan’s my space account and when she had done something inappropriate that the mom suspended her priviledges – most parents may check the content here and there but these parents ONLY had the password after her priviledge to use myspace was reinstated. I do not know of any other parents that are “on top” of the children’s internet use that much. I am not defending only pointing out what was posted in a story. The only fault I have seen so far, is the mom stated how angry she was because Megan had not logged off instead of noticing just how upset she was,especially given her history. I feel that the mother should have addressed Megan’s issue first and bitched about “not getting off line when told” later after she was calmed down. I’m sure the mother already feels just what I have stated. And, probably feels more guilt than you or I could place on her.

I did not or do not know anyone involved, so I have no loyalities to anyone other than Megan – but as we all know its too late for that. I just hope “whoever had any responsibility” is pursued aggressively by the police.

I do not think for a second that this was as simple as – “we’ll just see what she is saying about my daughter” or just playing games. I believe with all of my heart the “adult” (and I use that term loosely) had malicious intent from the start – she knew Megan’s history – and if she didn’t mean for her to commit suicide she was certainly trying to push her over some kind of edge.

“On the night the ambulance came for Megan, the single mother said, before it left the Meiers’ house her daughter received a call. It was the woman behind the creation of the Josh Evans account. She had called to tell the girl that something had happened to Megan and advised the girl not to mention the MySpace account.”

The above is copied and pasted from the link above at the top of the page – if the other family holds no responsibility – then why did they call the teen girl (who was adult enough to come forward) and tell her not to mention the account? Obviously, the adult, knew she had done something horribly wrong. And, furthermore, if it was before the ambulance left – how did she know it had anything to do with Megan?

I’m the mother of a suicide and let me explain a few things. First, unless you know that the parents wern’t trying to get help for this poor girl you can’t say she was neglected. Second, yes, there is civil recourse in this type of situation, as good and caring parents we had no fear when it came to opening up our lives as parents to the defendants. One more thing, at least here, encouraging suicide is a crime. We literally brought them up on assisted suicide charges and won. Granted, no one served time but it’s there on the record for all to see. Please remember, no matter why a child commits suicide, those parents will blame themselves no matter how or what the circumstances were. I know my daughter’s father and I do.

I hope that nothing I stated would be misconstrued into thinking I was blaming the parents. I was simply pointing out that the girls stated she felt neglected. Whether that feeling was warranted or not, no one knows. But unlike you and your husband’s scenario, JUSTAMOM2 (my condolences, btw), no one attempted to drive this girl to commit suicide. In fact, the foosball police report shows that. The mother stated to police that she felt less guilty about her role after she learned that the girl had mentioned suicide before. A somewhat callous statement, yes, but it shows that she did not know Megan was suicidal.

But again, I am reserving any further judgment towards the other party only AFTER I have heard their side of things.

What a pretty girl. It’s a shame the neighbor can’t be charged with stalking/harassment. What kind of a psychobitch would torment her daughter’s former friend? Christ, mental age of 12, or what? Can her daughter be taken away from her because she’s an irredeemable asshat?

This story was on Good Morning America today. My husband was stunned by what happened and was in disbelief that no charges were filed. I had told him about this story on Friday but as usual he didn’t listen. I think most tragic stories never get told. The press is so fickle in their coverage of these things. The good thing about this site is that it gives us information on the sad and tragic stories that the national press never cover. Thank you for that!

No charges were filed because the other family didn’t do anything illegal. All they did was create a false account on Myspace. Megan did the same by lying about her age. If I am not mistaken, she was not even old enough to have an account to begin with.

The one recourse Megan’s family will have is a wrongful death suit. If they are in any way questionable as parents, believe me, that suit will bring it out. When we were in litigation they investigated us completely.

Lori Drew set out to humiliate Megan in front of her peers, and succeeded. But now the entire nation knows what a giant douche Lori Drew is. Boy, that stunt really blew up in her face.

Wrongful death how? The other parents are not even the ones who sent the mean messages. Other kids did that. If a wrongful death suit were filed, god forbid anyone ever boo a musician on stage. You may get sued if they turn around and kill themselves.

If the actions of a person or group inflicts mental distress by which death results, that’s one way to define wrongful death. This wasn’t a boo, it was a deliberate act to cause distress to this young girl. It is to be expected that another parent has reasonable knowledge that this act would cause pain. The other parent knew this would cause distress and pain and as an adult she should have known better. Did she expect this girl to commit suicide, I’m sure she did not. It is, however, reasonable to expect responsibile behavior by this woman, she is an adult, she knew it would hurt Megan, it is presicely why she created the page and had contact.

I respect your opinion, it is one shared by many.

I guess I am just trying NOT to jump to any decision when we have yet to hear from the other side. All we know is that the mother created the page to see what Megan was saying and that other kids had access to the account and admitted to sending the mean messages. We also know that the mother did not know that Megan was suicidal and that the parents of Megan allowed her to have a Myspace page, even though she was not at the age to have one.

That’s a tough sell to get any type of conviction, civil court or not.

I’m sorry but I had to laugh a bit. Most parents don’t know much about computers and even fewer are up to date about myspace and other pages. Never give parents credit when technology is involved, they’re usually 10 steps behind. 13 is so hard for kids and parents too. It is the age when, if a child is having mental health issues, they start to become very apparent. It is hard to know when a child is being a typical teenager or is real danger for depressive disease.

This is just a no win situation. It’s just so sad. I’m probably more likely to side with her parents for obvious reasons. It may very well cloud my judgement on the reality of this situation.

Morbid- I read in the article that the mother DID know about Megan’s depression and that she was on medications for it. She used to vacation with this family UNTIL she had a falling out with their daughter.

You have to prove malicious intent. So far, the only people who think she intended malice are you guys. The more logical scenario is as stupid as it was. She wanted to see what Megan was saying about her daughter. You have heard one side of the story and have knee-jerk reacted. You all have half of a story.

You can continue to use her name and assume you know exactly what her plans were, but you and I both know that this is impossible. You are assuming, I am going by what was stated.

Ah screw it, malicious intent or not. I still think Megan’s mom should be allowed to kick her ass.

Kathy, that is entirely different and I wholeheartedly agree.

The main reason teenage depression is so difficult is the very behavior that is “normal” in a 13 year old is also the very warning signs of depression. My heart breaks for her parents. I’m also willing to admit my bias in regard to this story. This one makes me so angry at the other so called mom involved, maybe even somewhat unjustly but I really don’t think so. It’s a pretty good bet that the other family will sue and that the publicity will get the local DA involved. As I mentioned..this story was on GMA this morning.

TELL THE MAJOR NEWS NETWORKS ABOUT THIS DISGUSTING BLOG BY THE DREW’S AND HOW THEY ARE INSULTING THE MEMORY OF THIS POOR GIRL:
NEWS TIP ADDRESS FOR FOX NEWS:
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,77538,00.html
NEWS TIP ADDRESS FOR CNN:
http://www.cnn.com/exchange/ireports/topics/forms/breaking.news.html
NEWS TIP ADDRESS FOR NBC:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/18616878/
HERE IS A MESSAGE YOU DON’T HAVE TO TYPE UP:
Title: Myspace hoaxers shrug responsibility in girl’s death
News Tip Description: In regard to the case of the girl in Missouri who committed suicide of the myspace hoax:
The parents and or daughter who are responsible for the poor girl’s suicide have posted an internet blog where they completely shrug responsibility in the girl’s death and instead blame her for her own suicide. It is called “megan-had-it-coming.” Here is the link, it has become somewhat of an internet sensation and I recommend you cover this:
http://meganhaditcoming.blogspot.com/2007/11/set-record-straight.html

Are people positive that it is their site? Or is this just more knee-jerk bullshit. It is blocked from where I am, could someone check it and post here if it is a crock of shit or not.

It isn’t, it clearly has explicit details regarding the soap opera that went on between all of the teenagers at the highschool. Family members of the maiers have confirmed that the language used is almost identical to the way lori talks and she even uses the same pseudonym “sara” for a girl that she called that on the fake myspace. This has been CONFIRMED as the real deal, just read the comments on that blog they number in the hundreds.

Clues that lori wrote this (confirmed by several people):
use of the word “whatev”
use of the same pseudonyms used by lori on the fake myspace
well written by an ADULT and not the kid she is claiming to be

there are many but you have to read the blog basically im not feeling like typing the whole thing out

I’m very sure the family lawyer told them under no circumstances to post anything or even talk about this case. I don’t think this was the other girls mom doing this. Just someone wanting attention and trying to stir the pot. This story is getting a lot of press and people love to have their 15 minutes.

Regardless of what you may** be sure of the post was made anonymously claiming NOT to be the family, but several people close to the family of the maier’s and or living in the neighborhood have indeed pointed out that this blog was created by the Drew’s (read the comments). You can read the comments but you can’t simply discount this because of what you think they SHOULD be doing (and again the blog is anonymous but can be subpoenaed at any time.

The point is to get the news to report this so the case stays alive, not to discredit it.

I just read the blog and the comments. I don’t know who is worse…the mother of the other family, or the people who fell for that shit.

NOW we start to see the other side. And the other family looks even more like a bag of stinking dicks. There is a mention in the report of the conversation turning sexual. I wonder if they can charge her for that?

Here is the police report:
http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/years/2007/1120072megan1.html

Morbid, if I read and understand the report correctly, the sorry bitch, Lori stated she wanted to “explain her part in Megan’s suicide” — She knows and admits she contributed to the child’s death.

It states, she wants to “confront” the victim’s family” — the sorry bitch has done enough – can’t she just leave them alone! The Meiers are the ones who should be allowed legally to confront that POS and give her what is called in my world “a thorough HorseCreek asswhipping” – (which, in the past, has never killed or permanently disfigured or permanently disabled anyone) – it usually means the “DESERVING PARTY” winds up with a week or so hospital stay, with their jaw being broke – in this case, break those typing fingers of that bitch instead of her jaw or both doesn’t matter – she deserves it. Megan will never get over it. POS Lori will heal and get over it.

And, finally, still no sadness or remorse about Megan – she only wanted it noted in the event of damage being done to her property. The sorry bitch did not at any time say she fears for her own teen – only her property. After all her daughter was a part of this, too. The neighborhood kids may want to retalliate against her as well – but Lori wasn’t worried about that only PROPERTY!

She is a self-serving bitch that has no regard for anyone other than herself and her property. No mention of worrying about her daughter or even her husband.

To me, by her lack of basic human compassion, she has shown malicious intent.

A lack of compassion does not show malicious intent at all. She is simply an asshole.

Morally reprehensible, yes, legally responsible for her suicide? Nah.

However, what the report does show is that if there was actual sexual talk between the 13-year-old and the 47-year-old woman…there has to be something there, right? But that also backs up other opinions that this girl was NOT being monitored by her parents, and that if a 13-year-old girl has entered into sexual discussions with a boy online she has never met, well, some would say the parents may have some ‘splainin’ to do as well.

Not all 13-year-old girls who are on-line are having cyber-sex.

A lack of compassion does not show malicious intent at all. She is simply an asshole.

Morally reprehensible, yes, legally responsible for her suicide? Nah.

However, what the report does show is that if there was actual sexual talk between the 13-year-old and the 47-year-old woman…there has to be something there, right? But that also backs up other opinions that this girl was NOT being monitored by her parents, and that if a 13-year-old girl has entered into sexual discussions with a boy online she has never met, well, some would say the parents may have some ‘splainin’ to do as well.

Not all 13-year-old girls who are on-line are having cyber-sex.

That is true about the compassion – sometimes my thoughts run faster than my fingers – Lori stated she wanted to “explain her part in Megan’s suicide” — She knows and admits she contributed to the child’s death. That, to me, seems she is admitting she is at fault.

That is true about the compassion – sometimes my thoughts run faster than my fingers – Lori stated she wanted to “explain her part in Megan’s suicide” — She knows and admits she contributed to the child’s death. That, to me, seems she is admitting she is at fault.

Wow,…new here,..this makes me physically ill,…FYI,..my 12yo daughter (who begs daily for a myspace space and can not have one) is monitored by a program called Spector Pro,.it keeps track of email, chat, takes screen shots of everything she sees,.keeps track of every key stroke she types,.keeps a log of all sites visited, how long and when she’s online and is customizable to block sites. Another parent recommended it,.$100,.downloaded and installed it in minutes,..and you’re right Morbid, not all 13 yo girls online are having cyber-sex!!

Be parents,.watch your kids,.who are they talking to,.where are they going,.who are their friends,..

Wow,…new here,..this makes me physically ill,…FYI,..my 12yo daughter (who begs daily for a myspace space and can not have one) is monitored by a program called Spector Pro,.it keeps track of email, chat, takes screen shots of everything she sees,.keeps track of every key stroke she types,.keeps a log of all sites visited, how long and when she’s online and is customizable to block sites. Another parent recommended it,.$100,.downloaded and installed it in minutes,..and you’re right Morbid, not all 13 yo girls online are having cyber-sex!!

Be parents,.watch your kids,.who are they talking to,.where are they going,.who are their friends,..

MOGal, you’re a good parent.

MOGal, you’re a good parent.

Well, as to be expected, no charges will be filed as no laws were broken on the part of Lori Drew, her daughter and the 18-year-old employee. I think one of the biggest issues is the “supposed” last message that no one but the father of Megan saw. Also, there is no real way to prove which of the three main people said what and when. Oh well, lesson learned. Also, for a parent to have such an involvement with her MySpace activities, where was Megan’s mother when the talk between her and “Josh” turned sexual?

Lori Drew may be a calloused bitch, but there is more than enough blame to go around in regards to this girls death.

Morbid, I dont agree with you in regards to the blame. Lori Drew is the only one who deserves the blame. Just because Megan’s mom didnt monitor every single email between her and a boy who was supposed to be her age, doesn’t put any blame on her whatsover. And although I know technically there is nothing that they can charge Lori with, there should be. I sincerely hope that the Meier’s file a civil lawsuit against that lady. And I hope they win.

“This is just a no win situation. It’s just so sad. I’m probably more likely to side with her parents for obvious reasons. It may very well cloud my judgement on the reality of this situation”

Justamom, the only thing “clouding” ypur judgement is the fact that you are a kind and generous person. I do not have anyone in my family who commited suicide, and I still think that Lori Drew should be held responsible, in some way. Like someone pointed out before, she was aware of Megan’s depression.

Lori Drew is a bad person. She will feel the wrath.

Below I copy and pasted part of that article. Look at what Lori Drew says. According to her, even the police report that she filed was “wrong”. Give me a break, that lady is an evil lunatic:

“I will tell you that the police report is totally wrong,” the mother said. “We have worked on getting that changed. I would just be very careful about what you write.”

Lt. Craig McGuire, spokesman for the sheriff’s department, said he is unaware of anyone contacting the department to alter the report.

“We stand behind the report as written,” McGuire says. “There was no supplement to it. What is in the report is what we believe she told us.”

We do not know exactly why she committed suicide, and unless Megan pulls a Jesus, we never will. We know that she was in a middle of a fight with her online boyfriend. She was never aware that she was duped. We know that she got into an argument with her mom about the language Megan was using in her comments, and we know that 20 minutes before she hung herself, she had a conversation with her dad. I still fail to see what Lori did was illegal or what civil charges could be filed. You cannot even prove if she typed anything at all.

But from what you all are saying, is that if a neighbor, or Lori, or a relative, yelled at Megan for some reason, and she then committed suicide, they should be sued in civil court. Regardless of Lori and Co.’s deception, from what I have read, Megan was never aware the she was having anything but an argument with a boy. Thousands of people, even teens, are on anti-depressants or are depressed. They don’t all kill themselves after an argument with a virtual boygirl. And the ones who do shouldn’t have family members who are allowed to clog the court systems with civil suits against people who were being “meanies”.

We do not know exactly why she committed suicide, and unless Megan pulls a Jesus, we never will. We know that she was in a middle of a fight with her online boyfriend. She was never aware that she was duped. We know that she got into an argument with her mom about the language Megan was using in her comments, and we know that 20 minutes before she hung herself, she had a conversation with her dad. I still fail to see what Lori did was illegal or what civil charges could be filed. You cannot even prove if she typed anything at all.

But from what you all are saying, is that if a neighbor, or Lori, or a relative, yelled at Megan for some reason, and she then committed suicide, they should be sued in civil court. Regardless of Lori and Co.’s deception, from what I have read, Megan was never aware the she was having anything but an argument with a boy. Thousands of people, even teens, are on anti-depressants or are depressed. They don’t all kill themselves after an argument with a virtual boygirl. And the ones who do shouldn’t have family members who are allowed to clog the court systems with civil suits against people who were being “meanies”.

It isn’t the same as some neighbor or whoever just yelling at the girl. This was a drawn out scheme where a “relationship” was formed involving the feelings of an unstable minor. She had prior knowledge of this girls mental problems and engaged in sexual conversations with her. Then PUBLIC bulletins were posted with all the bullying messages.

I have known more than one teenage girl who wanted to kill herself over some boy. Fighting with parents does not have the same effect on them.

I don’t know what they can be sued under in civil court either. And I think that SUCKS. I sure as hell wish her parents would get a free pass to stomp a mud hole in that bitch’s ass though.

It isn’t the same as some neighbor or whoever just yelling at the girl. This was a drawn out scheme where a “relationship” was formed involving the feelings of an unstable minor. She had prior knowledge of this girls mental problems and engaged in sexual conversations with her. Then PUBLIC bulletins were posted with all the bullying messages.

I have known more than one teenage girl who wanted to kill herself over some boy. Fighting with parents does not have the same effect on them.

I don’t know what they can be sued under in civil court either. And I think that SUCKS. I sure as hell wish her parents would get a free pass to stomp a mud hole in that bitch’s ass though.

My issue is this. If the girl was that unstable, then she should have never been allowed online, and definitely not in a relationship with a boy the parents have never met. If there was no way for the parents to actually know that Megan was that unstable, then I would like to know how a neighbor would have known.

And again, we have no clue what was said during the TWO altercations Megan had with her parents or if they said anything that we, the outside parties, would interpret as insensitive. Loris is a petty, callous, ass. No doubt. But that isn’t illegal.

My issue is this. If the girl was that unstable, then she should have never been allowed online, and definitely not in a relationship with a boy the parents have never met. If there was no way for the parents to actually know that Megan was that unstable, then I would like to know how a neighbor would have known.

And again, we have no clue what was said during the TWO altercations Megan had with her parents or if they said anything that we, the outside parties, would interpret as insensitive. Loris is a petty, callous, ass. No doubt. But that isn’t illegal.

I was all kinds of up in arms about this when the story first broke. Its still horrible,but you just can’t charge someone for being a bitch. There are laws popping up here in regards to this,and lawyers are already saying they aren’t going to hold water if they try to enforce them.

http://tinyurl.com/26vlwp

The main point I saw in the presser,is that the intent to cause harm,or cause Megan to harm herself, was not there.

Lori should keep her fat ass out of her kids business for sure,Lori should grow up, I’ve a suspicion that Lori was a “Megan” in her childhood,but she can’t be prosecuted for this.

I wrongly believed that the sex talk,and/or the gaining trust, could be stalking or some other charge. I was informed by a detective in this area that is incorrect, its the act of meeting them-think about it….adults pose as kids to get these predators TO meet them. It can’t go both ways.Sucks for sure,but “mean as cat-dirt” and not having the sense God gave a goat are not criminal offenses.

I was all kinds of up in arms about this when the story first broke. Its still horrible,but you just can’t charge someone for being a bitch. There are laws popping up here in regards to this,and lawyers are already saying they aren’t going to hold water if they try to enforce them.

http://tinyurl.com/26vlwp

The main point I saw in the presser,is that the intent to cause harm,or cause Megan to harm herself, was not there.

Lori should keep her fat ass out of her kids business for sure,Lori should grow up, I’ve a suspicion that Lori was a “Megan” in her childhood,but she can’t be prosecuted for this.

I wrongly believed that the sex talk,and/or the gaining trust, could be stalking or some other charge. I was informed by a detective in this area that is incorrect, its the act of meeting them-think about it….adults pose as kids to get these predators TO meet them. It can’t go both ways.Sucks for sure,but “mean as cat-dirt” and not having the sense God gave a goat are not criminal offenses.

Dammit Morbid, quit being the voice of reason!

Just nod your head like a good little boy and say “Yes, Kathy. We should destroy his woman in every way possible just because it would make you feel better.”

Well, personally, I feel that Lori is getting what she deserves by being shunned and ridiculed across the United States. That is a far more fitting punishment than a civil suit. I loathe people like Lori, and I do get a degree of satisfaction at seeing her current plight (too bad about the rest of her family, though.), if it is fair or not.

The simple fact is that Lori stooped down to a teenagers level instead of stepping in like an adult. The fact that she was able to do what she did, and the comments she has made afterwards is a strong example of her overall character. She deserves everything she is getting at the moment.

Please correct me if I am wrong…but does creating a my space account under a false name using a picture of a teenage boy when you are, in fact, a grown woman not constitute an act of fraud?

“Please correct me if I am wrong…but does creating a my space account under a false name using a picture of a teenage boy when you are, in fact, a grown woman not constitute an act of fraud?”

If that were true can you imagine the kind of trouble people would be in? I mean I personally would never misrepresent myself online. And the fact that I am a 20 year old tall blond Brazilian bikini model has nothing to do with it.

Besides, wouldn’t you have to have something to gain from the misrepresentation for it to be considered fraud? I’d have to look that up.

“Please correct me if I am wrong…but does creating a my space account under a false name using a picture of a teenage boy when you are, in fact, a grown woman not constitute an act of fraud?”

No. What they did is called “lying”. Fraud is to lie in order to take someone’s possessions (yes, I simplified it, but you get the idea)

If what the Lori’s did were considered fraud, then Megan and her mother committed the same offense when they lied about her age to have a MySpace page to begin with.

I stand corrected on that count.

HOWEVER, I would be hard pressed to believe that they did not have malicious intent when they turned the comments and discussion to cruelty.

Here is a great article that explains a LOT better exactly what transpired:

http://www.ksdk.com/news/news_article.aspx?storyid=135706

Does that change any of your minds, now that you have gotten a bit from the other side as well? The fact that the majority of the negative messages came from other girls? The fact that after her argument with her mother, Megan accused her mother of being on their side? The fact that for the most part, every negative thing that was said to Megan was done by other teenage girls, mainly, the 18-year-old girl currently under psychiatric care? Just curious.

I see your point Morbid. I just hope that they do invent some kind of enforcement for cyber-bullying in general, as it seems to be becoming a problem lately. I still cant believe that the disgusting pig Lori is claiming that the police falsified parts of the police report, or put words in her mouth. YEAH, Lori, everyone is against you! Megan killed herself, just to get you in trouble! Stupid biatch

Although I agree with you that there is nothing that was criminal done, I’m not 100 percent sure that I believe that the mother and father (neighbors) werent there for any of the messages. It was the mother’s idea, and what about the phone call that she made right after Megan hung herself? Where she asked the girl not to tell anyone about the MySpace account? To me, that still shows that the mother was largely involved. So, I still think she is a biatch

Well, if you look at the police report, then look at the actual statements made, there are some things that do not mesh…especially concerning he 18-year-old. The way things are looking, the more and more the 18-year-old girl is looking a lot more involved than previously thought.

But seriously, if my kid were to tell me that him and his friends were pulling a prank on another kid, I probably wouldn’t have got involved as I would have thought it was pretty stupid. Have any of you seen the crap they write back and forth? It’s pretty…teenage-ish.

Ok, I see a little better. The 18 year old should have known better and the fact that she has ended up hospitalized , I’m assuming for her role in this, in a psychiatric hospital makes me feel some justice is being served.

The mother (and employer of the 18 year old) is still a shitty person and they still didn’t quite get the stories straight – probably to shift some of the blame.

Sooooo, I will lean towards your opinion that no charges should be filed and there are no grounds for a civil suit.

But I will stand by my opinion that there are still grounds for a good old fashioned ass-whooping.

Take it in this perspective. If an adult were to talk this child into a sexual favor then they would be arrested for statutory rape, even if there was consent and no history of mental illness. This is becuase a child does not have the mental stature of an adult. Hence the term “statutory rape”. This petty, pathetic, excuse for a woman talked the child into much worse. She should be held accountable. She used tactics and methods of degradation that only come with age and a sick and twisted, miserable existance.

Misterman, you are 100 percent wrong. Lori may be a lot of things, but she didn’t talk a girl into suicide. Even the parents of Megan have stated that they do not believe that Lori, or any of the others, intended to hurt Megan in the way that it did.

Also, your analogy is ridiculous. Unlike an adult knowingly talking to a child sexually, it is not illegal for an adult to simply talk to a teenager, even if the adult (or the child) were mis-representing themselves. It is also not illegal for someone to be mean to someone on the internet. Thank fucking god.

Well morbid, you obviously don’t have kids, and for seemingly apparent reasons. Their sole perpose was to hurt this little girl. Kind of like if I have a fight, knock a guy down. He hits his head and dies. I did not mean for this to go this far. I only wanted to hurt him, but I still get the manslaughter charge tacked on for good measure. You don’t hurt people, it’s wrong.

Misterman, as many people here know, I do have kids. I am also an active parent. I am also a responsible parent.

If I have a depressed kid who cannot handle simple life issues. A kid who expressed suicide in 3rd grade, a kid who is taking anti-depressants, a kid with low self-esteem, I sure as hell wouldn’t let them get on fucking MySpace under a fake age to talk with a boy I have never fucking met. If those are good things in you parenting handbook, Misterman, you are just as dumb as your analogies, as well as your assumptions.

Yeah, unfortunately Im starting to see that Morbid is right (damn you mr. knowitall!), and that there just isnt way to charge someone for being cruel and immature. I think the result of the prank is what has shocked so many of us into demandind justice, but the fact that Megan didnt even know that the boy was fake pretty much sums up the fact that she commited suicide because a boy was mean to her, and not because these people conspired to pull a cruel joke on her. If the boy had ended up being real, she still would have commited suicide. So for now, we will all have to be content with the fact that LORI DREW has been outed, and is now known by many as the petty, immature, heartless bitch that she is!

BTW, does anyone have a picture of her? I want one

Exactly what I expected. Seriously.

“Exactly what I expected. Seriously.”

LMAO!!! Me too!!

First of all I am a parent, and 13 year olds have no business dating. But that is just my opinion. I concede that it is not likely that criminal charges can arise from this. However, the precedent has already been set in the civil courts. Mental anguish damages have been awarded to spouses and employees. Just so you understand, I am not speaking on what will happen in a court of law, I am merely stating that the fact that there are no legal grounds on which to prosecute, does not in anyway mitigate the malice or the cruelty that surrounds this case. And just because I may have some lapses in judgement when it comes to parenting, does not give you the right to exploit my child! Humbly Submitted to Mr. Know-it-All

“And just because I may have some lapses in judgement when it comes to parenting, does not give you the right to exploit my child!”

Just because they don’t have the right to doesn’t mean they won’t. As a matter of fact, chances are, if you are even a mildly negligent parent, someone WILL exploit or victimize your child in some way.

I guess I am from the old school of personal responsibility.

If I choose to let my kid ride a bike without a helmet and he cracks his head. My fault alone.

If I choose to let my kid go to the local park unsupervised and he gets into troubledisappears. My fault alone.

If I do not monitor the musictvgamesmovies my kid is watching and suddenly little Susie is talking about sucking dicks, using the word fuck, and enjoying shooting hookers on the Xbox…my fault alone.

If I let my kid get on a social network that they are not supposed to be using (because come on, all my friends are!) and do not prepare them with ground rules, and situations that may come up and how to deal with them..again, my fault.

I am not one to excuse people’s personal responsibilities in any situation, but a lapse of parental judgment does not give that parent a right to blame every other person connected to it…or shirk their portion. I understand this couple lost a child. It sucks. But ultimately, they got the wheels turning, and they failed to stop it when they should have.

I guess I am from the old school of personal responsibility.

If I choose to let my kid ride a bike without a helmet and he cracks his head. My fault alone.

If I choose to let my kid go to the local park unsupervised and he gets into troubledisappears. My fault alone.

If I do not monitor the musictvgamesmovies my kid is watching and suddenly little Susie is talking about sucking dicks, using the word fuck, and enjoying shooting hookers on the Xbox…my fault alone.

If I let my kid get on a social network that they are not supposed to be using (because come on, all my friends are!) and do not prepare them with ground rules, and situations that may come up and how to deal with them..again, my fault.

I am not one to excuse people’s personal responsibilities in any situation, but a lapse of parental judgment does not give that parent a right to blame every other person connected to it…or shirk their portion. I understand this couple lost a child. It sucks. But ultimately, they got the wheels turning, and they failed to stop it when they should have.

Trust me, her parents do hold and will ultimately hold themselves accountable. Nothing can shrink there portion of the blame. No one can be harder on them than they will be on themselves. But the fact remains that some childish adult served as a catalyst for this whole episode that spiraled out of control. Speaking of the ole’ skool, if I may be so ethnic, couldna been mine. somebody would have did time. Them or me. I know it’s not right, but that’s how I role. Oh yeah Morbid, I bet you are the most polite person in person, because people who talk strong on blogs are timid in person. You probably can’t even look man in the eye. Peace, I’m out. MM337

Trust me, her parents do hold and will ultimately hold themselves accountable. Nothing can shrink there portion of the blame. No one can be harder on them than they will be on themselves. But the fact remains that some childish adult served as a catalyst for this whole episode that spiraled out of control. Speaking of the ole’ skool, if I may be so ethnic, couldna been mine. somebody would have did time. Them or me. I know it’s not right, but that’s how I role. Oh yeah Morbid, I bet you are the most polite person in person, because people who talk strong on blogs are timid in person. You probably can’t even look man in the eye. Peace, I’m out. MM337

“because people who talk strong on blogs are timid in person. You probably can’t even look man in the eye.”

Speechless. I am speechless. Mostly because I am laughing my ass off right now and can’t breathe.

“because people who talk strong on blogs are timid in person. You probably can’t even look man in the eye.”

Speechless. I am speechless. Mostly because I am laughing my ass off right now and can’t breathe.

My 13 year old wanted a my space page. I told him he could have one when he’s an adult, or when monkeys fly out my butt…whichever comes first. I told him the same thing when he wanted me to let him buy a DOOM game. He’ll thank me someday.

Agreed, Ash. My 11 year old wants one…nope. Her 9 year old cousin has one,but I am not her cousin’s mother and if I were she wouldn’t have one
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I’m not a complete wench. She has email, and uses it for chat(gmail),of course after she goes to bed I read through it. So I’m a mean mom, sue me when you get enough allowance saved up to hire a lawyer.

My 22 year old nephew has one that I have looked at occasionally and I am utterly shocked at some of the little tramps that leave him messages…not to mention the things they say!! Many of them aren’t even 18 yet. OUCH!!

My 22 year old nephew has one that I have looked at occasionally and I am utterly shocked at some of the little tramps that leave him messages…not to mention the things they say!! Many of them aren’t even 18 yet. OUCH!!

Too bad they can’t do something, yes the parents should have been watching their daughter better, but that lady knew that this girl was not all there and pushed her over the edge. If I call someone a asshole that is assault.

Main Entry: 1as·sault
Pronunciation: ə-ˈsȯlt
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English assaut, from Anglo-French, from Vulgar Latin *assaltus, from assalire
Date: 14th century
1 a: a violent physical or verbal attack b: a military attack usually involving direct combat with enemy forces c: a concerted effort (as to reach a goal or defeat an adversary)
2 a: a threat or attempt to inflict offensive physical contact or bodily harm on a person (as by lifting a fist in a threatening manner) that puts the person in immediate danger of or in apprehension of such harm or contact

I think what they did was a verbal attack and they should have been charge with at least assault.

Too bad they can’t do something, yes the parents should have been watching their daughter better, but that lady knew that this girl was not all there and pushed her over the edge. If I call someone a asshole that is assault.

Main Entry: 1as·sault
Pronunciation: ə-ˈsȯlt
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English assaut, from Anglo-French, from Vulgar Latin *assaltus, from assalire
Date: 14th century
1 a: a violent physical or verbal attack b: a military attack usually involving direct combat with enemy forces c: a concerted effort (as to reach a goal or defeat an adversary)
2 a: a threat or attempt to inflict offensive physical contact or bodily harm on a person (as by lifting a fist in a threatening manner) that puts the person in immediate danger of or in apprehension of such harm or contact

I think what they did was a verbal attack and they should have been charge with at least assault.

Misterman, again, I am not anonymous. I actually do talk to members of this site on the phone and in person. Some members here actually are sitting in the same office with me. What you see is what you get. You, on the other hand, may not actually be as stupid in real life as you seem in your replies, but I am doubting it.

The actual definition of assault does not equal the legal definition. Please, people, don’t embarrass yourself over this. You don’t actually believe that you would would be jailed for assault for calling someone an asshole, do you? Really?

Misterman, again, I am not anonymous. I actually do talk to members of this site on the phone and in person. Some members here actually are sitting in the same office with me. What you see is what you get. You, on the other hand, may not actually be as stupid in real life as you seem in your replies, but I am doubting it.

The actual definition of assault does not equal the legal definition. Please, people, don’t embarrass yourself over this. You don’t actually believe that you would would be jailed for assault for calling someone an asshole, do you? Really?

Misterman your comments are (how can I say this politely)….well, damned fucked up, especially #103. Man, I got to go with my brother, Morbid on this here shit. (and by brother, I don’t mean blood, I mean in a Earthly kinship…thought I’d get that out in the open there misterman..Hippie talk )
This mother didn’t send her over the top, that child was spiraling there on her own. I just don’t get why ya try to place blame on this woman. What she did was juvenile, idiotic, distasteful, mean…but it wasn’t illegal. She didn’t kill that girl.
I’m a manic depressive man…so let’s Just say I wake up today and I am damn pissed at the world, I feel like shit, lower than shit. I go to the local store for a soda pop, some guy tells me I am an ugly piece of shit, and I stink…I proceed to go home and hang myself. So this brother, should be held responsible for my mental state? His words killed me? Come on, that’s senseless. If people are to the point of wanting to commit suicide, it is an accumulation of stuff, not just one incident. Shall we gather up all the motherfuckers that made a suicidal person’s life hell, and convict the asses for a death “they ALL caused”? Oh that’s hilarious.
Peace
Hippie (who tends to appreciate and kinda sorta likes that Morbid guy)

Misterman your comments are (how can I say this politely)….well, damned fucked up, especially #103. Man, I got to go with my brother, Morbid on this here shit. (and by brother, I don’t mean blood, I mean in a Earthly kinship…thought I’d get that out in the open there misterman..Hippie talk )
This mother didn’t send her over the top, that child was spiraling there on her own. I just don’t get why ya try to place blame on this woman. What she did was juvenile, idiotic, distasteful, mean…but it wasn’t illegal. She didn’t kill that girl.
I’m a manic depressive man…so let’s Just say I wake up today and I am damn pissed at the world, I feel like shit, lower than shit. I go to the local store for a soda pop, some guy tells me I am an ugly piece of shit, and I stink…I proceed to go home and hang myself. So this brother, should be held responsible for my mental state? His words killed me? Come on, that’s senseless. If people are to the point of wanting to commit suicide, it is an accumulation of stuff, not just one incident. Shall we gather up all the motherfuckers that made a suicidal person’s life hell, and convict the asses for a death “they ALL caused”? Oh that’s hilarious.
Peace
Hippie (who tends to appreciate and kinda sorta likes that Morbid guy)

OK, now that I have had a chance to compose myself I will comment on Mistermans comment. It is fucking hilarious that you would speak so strongly on a blog about someone speaking so strongly on a blog. Heh. I guess I can assume that you are a shy timid person that can’t look people in the eye.

Hence the screen name “Misterman.” The complete opposite character of who you probably are.

I didn’t want Morbid to be right, but he is. Dammit.

Peace, I’m out too.
Kathy (Who’s name really is Kathy and is as strong in person as she is on this blog.)

Assholes!

Uhh, oops. Do I hear sirens?! *runs and hides under bed*

Morbid!!How the heck did you get that picture??? When I asked for it, I didnt expect anyone to actually find it! You never cease to amaze me

People you’ll see in hell had Lori and Curt both. Unfortunately, Curt’s real estate company removed the link to his picture…darn,hope that doesn’t effect his sales.

People you’ll see in hell had Lori and Curt both. Unfortunately, Curt’s real estate company removed the link to his picture…darn,hope that doesn’t effect his sales.

And Morbid will be posting Misterman’s myspace picture on here in 3…2….1…..

And Morbid will be posting Misterman’s myspace picture on here in 3…2….1…..

I for one am sending evil Lori Drew a Christmas card… and I’m telling her what I think of her…no matter what way you cut it, this girl was 13 & vulnerable. Lori Drew knew that, took advantage of it for her own “humour”… and to tell Megan’s family to “give it a rest?” How disrespectful, cold, heartless can you get?!
If Lori Drew was willing to go “that far” to supposedly protect her daughter, can you imagine whatr lengths Mrs. Drew would’ve gone to had it been HER daughter that committed suicide?????
Lori Drew is sick & evil & I cannot fathom that they couldn’t even drum up a misdemeanor to charge her with? On another site I read Lori has some “friends in high places”. Convenient….
I live in Canada, but if I lived in her town, I’d boycott her & her husband’s business. Isolate the Drews likwe they did to Megan!

I for one am sending evil Lori Drew a Christmas card… and I’m telling her what I think of her…no matter what way you cut it, this girl was 13 & vulnerable. Lori Drew knew that, took advantage of it for her own “humour”… and to tell Megan’s family to “give it a rest?” How disrespectful, cold, heartless can you get?!
If Lori Drew was willing to go “that far” to supposedly protect her daughter, can you imagine whatr lengths Mrs. Drew would’ve gone to had it been HER daughter that committed suicide?????
Lori Drew is sick & evil & I cannot fathom that they couldn’t even drum up a misdemeanor to charge her with? On another site I read Lori has some “friends in high places”. Convenient….
I live in Canada, but if I lived in her town, I’d boycott her & her husband’s business. Isolate the Drews likwe they did to Megan!

Morbid, check this out. What do you think, is there any possibility with this route?:

On Wednesday, the city’s board of alderman unanimously passed a law that makes cyberharassment a misdemeanor with a maximum 90 days in jail, $500 fine or both for each violation. It’s the most stringent punishment available to the city.

“We’re all in shock,” Mayor Pam Fogarty said. “If I have anything to say about it, we’ll never have our hands tied legally like this again.”

Morbid, check this out. What do you think, is there any possibility with this route?:

On Wednesday, the city’s board of alderman unanimously passed a law that makes cyberharassment a misdemeanor with a maximum 90 days in jail, $500 fine or both for each violation. It’s the most stringent punishment available to the city.

“We’re all in shock,” Mayor Pam Fogarty said. “If I have anything to say about it, we’ll never have our hands tied legally like this again.”

New laws are not retro-active. So, if I pick my nose and wipe the contents on theater seats before I leave, you cannot pass a law against that and then charge me with it because of my past actions. You can only use the law to charge whoever gets caught doing it from the point it is passed.

But let’s say that the law existed already. Who would be charged? Lori for knowing about the page, or the young girls who actually sent the messages? How would you prove who sent what? Is it considered harassment if you are not forced to read it? If someone posted a bulletin on MySpace saying Morbid is a big, fat asshole, should I be able to sue? What if it is was true?

New laws are not retro-active. So, if I pick my nose and wipe the contents on theater seats before I leave, you cannot pass a law against that and then charge me with it because of my past actions. You can only use the law to charge whoever gets caught doing it from the point it is passed.

But let’s say that the law existed already. Who would be charged? Lori for knowing about the page, or the young girls who actually sent the messages? How would you prove who sent what? Is it considered harassment if you are not forced to read it? If someone posted a bulletin on MySpace saying Morbid is a big, fat asshole, should I be able to sue? What if it is was true?

This is what SUCKS about this case:

A Moscow Mills man was sentenced Monday to 20 years in federal prison for e-mailing pornographic images to a 12-year-old girl in 2004.

Steven Kiderlen, 38, smashed two computers from his house and threw the hard drives into the Mississippi River after investigators questioned him, but investigators still found a record of the chat and an e-mail containing eight images.

Kiderlen will be on supervised release for life, prosecutors said.

IF ONLY LORI HAD SENT HER PORN!

http://tinyurl.com/2az2sp

This is what SUCKS about this case:

A Moscow Mills man was sentenced Monday to 20 years in federal prison for e-mailing pornographic images to a 12-year-old girl in 2004.

Steven Kiderlen, 38, smashed two computers from his house and threw the hard drives into the Mississippi River after investigators questioned him, but investigators still found a record of the chat and an e-mail containing eight images.

Kiderlen will be on supervised release for life, prosecutors said.

IF ONLY LORI HAD SENT HER PORN!

http://tinyurl.com/2az2sp

Aww, Morbid, stop making so much sense and let us get on with our righteous indignation party-there is too much pain and suffering for kids on this board and in almost every case an adult had a (physical) hand in it. Lori Drew is cotton pickin’ mean and incredibly immature considering her age-she makes a great target.

Wow Misterman did you really just challenge Morbid to a debate, pretty much loose the battle, and then retaliate by stooping so low and childish as to begin name calling? And then to continue on by calling him timid, and suggest he is not man enough to look someone in the eye? And here’s my favorite part, you the BIG Misterman sign off and run away before Morbid has a chance to reply!!! LMAO!!!

The next time you feel up to a duel, or feel like you want to personally attack someone’s character, maybe you should be MAN enough to stick around!

“IF ONLY LORI HAD SENT HER PORN!”…that’s funny as hell ells!

Wow Misterman did you really just challenge Morbid to a debate, pretty much loose the battle, and then retaliate by stooping so low and childish as to begin name calling? And then to continue on by calling him timid, and suggest he is not man enough to look someone in the eye? And here’s my favorite part, you the BIG Misterman sign off and run away before Morbid has a chance to reply!!! LMAO!!!

The next time you feel up to a duel, or feel like you want to personally attack someone’s character, maybe you should be MAN enough to stick around!

“IF ONLY LORI HAD SENT HER PORN!”…that’s funny as hell ells!

Misterman didn’t challenge me to a debate, they just disagreed with me. I love disagreements. Me and swivel argue constantly on stupid shit, me and Athena do not agree on the immigration issue, me and my boss argue about our local school system. Disagreeing is great and welcomed. It brings about discussion and the chance to possibly show something in a different light or have someone do the same for you.

My only issue in regards to Misterman is the constant assuming in what, three posts? They assume what Lori intended, they assumed I had no kids, they assumed I am timid, etc. They have absolutely no clue on the first, and were completely wrong on the latter two. In other words, they are the type of person who basis there decisions on assumptions. Good for Misterman…that’s how Misterman “roles” lol! Personally, I like facts.

But let’s lay off of Misterman and get back on topic, as heshe may get ethnic on us again and “ole” skool us with more misspelled slang.

Peace Out, Boyeezzzzz!!

Morbid, I have no doubt you love the “discussion”. When I said debate, that is what I was referring to. Poor choice of words I guess on my part. Guess I sort of think of some of these discussions as debating our point. And for the most part they are freindly and informative and often times eye opening, for me at least.

But what I was trying to get at was that he made his point and when you made yours and he didn’t like it, instead of accepting that we don’t all have to agree all the time, he resorted to insult and then ran away. Ironic I thought.

That’s all just my observation…

Kristi, sorry, I didn’t mean to come off as if I was correcting what you said. My bad. I was just using that opportunity to express that I know that I may come off as a know-it-all, but I do welcome disagreements. The only time I do not like disagreements is when someone is using rumor, or assumptions to back up what they are saying. I just don’t want people thinking that I am in the mindset of “what I say is the absolute truth and how dare anyone disagree with me.” But in the case of Lori Drew, I just get aggravated when anyone disagrees with me based purely on the fact that they “know” what she intended and what she was thinking. That’s bullshit.

Besides, if anyone out there thinks I am an asshole, then I would love to see them argue with swivel.

To all interested, I did not run away. During the time I was absent, I was busy produceing liquid American sovereignty. Some of us have to work. Kathy, one could not be timid and survive were I come from. Just what is the name of this group anyway? “Morbid and the Morbidteers, the Morbidettes.” Kristi, Morbid is the one using Profane language, just who is stooping here.

Misterman-
FYI, this is Morbid’s blog.

And we are not Morbiteers, we are members of the church of Morbid and we all want to give birth to as many little Morbids as the welfare system can possibly handle.

With all seriousness though Misterman, I don’t know where you come from, but I can assure you, you are not the only one out there that comes from a tough background. Believe it or not, we are not all skinny pocket protector wearing computer geeks. The internet is home to all kinds of people now. Its not 1990 anymore.

Also, I come here specifically FOR the profanity. So please don;t discourage its use.

Misterman-
FYI, this is Morbid’s blog.

And we are not Morbiteers, we are members of the church of Morbid and we all want to give birth to as many little Morbids as the welfare system can possibly handle.

With all seriousness though Misterman, I don’t know where you come from, but I can assure you, you are not the only one out there that comes from a tough background. Believe it or not, we are not all skinny pocket protector wearing computer geeks. The internet is home to all kinds of people now. Its not 1990 anymore.

Also, I come here specifically FOR the profanity. So please don;t discourage its use.

Don’t worry, Kathy, I love profanity and will never be discouraged.

erm.. is there a line for illegitimate Morbidbabies? ‘Cause, y’know, if so, i’m there, uterus at the ready.

impqueen, talk to Kathy. She pimps me out on a regular basis. But be forewarned, I am a lousy lay and will drool on your back. But I do aim to please.

Let Kathy handle the uterus line,Morbideers get in my line. M-O-R___B-I-D Gooooooooooooooooooooo MORBID!!!!!!! whooo {C jump} yay yay

Duh, I know this is Morbid’s Blog. But, I would have figured that his opinions would be at the most shared not cloned.

Duh, I know this is Morbid’s Blog. But, I would have figured that his opinions would be at the most shared not cloned.

No laws broken in MySpace-suicide case
No criminal charges filed because none could be applied under current law
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22082080/
Todays Question?
Should criminal charges be filed in the case of the teen who committed suicide after being harassed on the Internet?
Go here to vote http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/3032633/

As i write this,her parents speak out on the Today Show.
This cruel,heartless poor excuse for a human being Lori Drew needs to pay

From her attorney”Shes happy with that desicion” that she’s not being charged

No laws broken in MySpace-suicide case
No criminal charges filed because none could be applied under current law
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22082080/
Todays Question?
Should criminal charges be filed in the case of the teen who committed suicide after being harassed on the Internet?
Go here to vote http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/3032633/

As i write this,her parents speak out on the Today Show.
This cruel,heartless poor excuse for a human being Lori Drew needs to pay

From her attorney”Shes happy with that desicion” that she’s not being charged

Well Mister,look at it this way. When you decide to spend an evening out,or home with friends…do you spend the time with people you can’t stand? Of course, you don’t(relatives excluded)

The blogosphere is a big place. You are going to find like-minded people at them because they agree with the writers. There is always room for debate,sure,but you will probably find the dissenter piled upon by the like-minded thinkers…which is why they chose to frequent said blog.

Please stick around and play devil’s advocate,or just stick around. You may find yourself agreeing on other subjects.

The people are generally nice,although cat fights do erupt now and again just like in the real world.

Well Mister,look at it this way. When you decide to spend an evening out,or home with friends…do you spend the time with people you can’t stand? Of course, you don’t(relatives excluded)

The blogosphere is a big place. You are going to find like-minded people at them because they agree with the writers. There is always room for debate,sure,but you will probably find the dissenter piled upon by the like-minded thinkers…which is why they chose to frequent said blog.

Please stick around and play devil’s advocate,or just stick around. You may find yourself agreeing on other subjects.

The people are generally nice,although cat fights do erupt now and again just like in the real world.

Misterman, seriously, you are being dumb. Had they all disagreed with me, and agreed with you, would they then be cloning? Have you ever thought that maybe the reason no one is agreeing with you is because your arguments are so embarrassingly bad and your analogies so off the mark?

Misterman, seriously, you are being dumb. Had they all disagreed with me, and agreed with you, would they then be cloning? Have you ever thought that maybe the reason no one is agreeing with you is because your arguments are so embarrassingly bad and your analogies so off the mark?

Misterman-
Morbid’s ideas were not cloned. Go back and read all the comments from the beginning. You will see this.
Once we got to know more facts about the case, we reluctantly agreed with him.

Misterman-
Morbid’s ideas were not cloned. Go back and read all the comments from the beginning. You will see this.
Once we got to know more facts about the case, we reluctantly agreed with him.

So. basically, if i said “heh heh, he said ‘aim’”, and then proceeded to give Morbid some, er, aiming target suggestions, and Morbid became so horrified with my perversity that he called me a slut, and then I became so despondent over my tendency toward run-on sentences and that Morbid thought I was a slut that I hung myself in the closet, Morbid could not be charged in the state of Missouri for my offing myself and I could not be charged either prior to or after my offing with sending Morbid pornographic suggestions because (a) he is over 18, I hope and (b)there’s no law against suggesting stuff. That’s pretty much the way I understand it.

But cloning Morbid for the express purpose of enacting slutty behavior and/or breeding illegitimate Morbidbabies seems a pretty good idea to me, or am i missing the point?

Yeah. More coffee. Morbid, you have my number, in a manner of speaking.

So. basically, if i said “heh heh, he said ‘aim’”, and then proceeded to give Morbid some, er, aiming target suggestions, and Morbid became so horrified with my perversity that he called me a slut, and then I became so despondent over my tendency toward run-on sentences and that Morbid thought I was a slut that I hung myself in the closet, Morbid could not be charged in the state of Missouri for my offing myself and I could not be charged either prior to or after my offing with sending Morbid pornographic suggestions because (a) he is over 18, I hope and (b)there’s no law against suggesting stuff. That’s pretty much the way I understand it.

But cloning Morbid for the express purpose of enacting slutty behavior and/or breeding illegitimate Morbidbabies seems a pretty good idea to me, or am i missing the point?

Yeah. More coffee. Morbid, you have my number, in a manner of speaking.

Ells9824,to be honest, I am a very nonchalant person. This just so happens to be an emotionally charged issue. When it come to kids I blow a fuse. July 4, 2002, Danariah Finely was adbducted from her home and murdered like an animal. This 4 year old girl just happened to be my cousin. Back to the original discussion. The first amendment assures freedom of speech. However, if I yell out fire in a crowded theater when there is no fire and someone get trampled to death, then I will be helled liable.

Ells9824,to be honest, I am a very nonchalant person. This just so happens to be an emotionally charged issue. When it come to kids I blow a fuse. July 4, 2002, Danariah Finely was adbducted from her home and murdered like an animal. This 4 year old girl just happened to be my cousin. Back to the original discussion. The first amendment assures freedom of speech. However, if I yell out fire in a crowded theater when there is no fire and someone get trampled to death, then I will be helled liable.

Ells9824,to be honest, I am a very nonchalant person. This just so happens to be an emotionally charged issue. When it come to kids I blow a fuse. July 4, 2002, Danariah Finely was adbducted from her home and murdered like an animal. This 4 year old girl just happened to be my cousin. Back to the original discussion. The first amendment assures freedom of speech. However, if I yell out fire in a crowded theater when there is no fire and someone get trampled to death, then I will be helled liable.

Mister,

Really, I think most of us are incensed and righteously pissed at Lori Drew. Many of us have family members who have been crime victims, or have been crime victim ourselves. As a group, I don’t think I’ve seen a more intelligent, articulate group of commenters on any blog than I’ve seen here.

Does Missouri law sort of suck? Um, yes. I live in the 417 and I’m appalled every day. The low cost of living keeps me from being appalled enough to move, but that’s another thing.

What happened to Megan Meier was despicable, but not really the same thing as what happened to your cousin. Nobody abducted her or killed her – she killed herself. It was a horrible tragedy that shouldn’t have happened, but the covergence of events that led to Megan’s suicide was such that I understand why no single person is being charged. That said, Lori Drew is a heinous bitch and her husband is an asshat, and the teenaged girls who snarked their way into Ecyclopedia Dramatica history deserve to be smacked in the head.

But yelling fire in a theater is is no way comparable to pissing off a kid enough to kill herself. And in Missouri, you’d be charged with a misdemeanor if anything at all.

Mister,

Really, I think most of us are incensed and righteously pissed at Lori Drew. Many of us have family members who have been crime victims, or have been crime victim ourselves. As a group, I don’t think I’ve seen a more intelligent, articulate group of commenters on any blog than I’ve seen here.

Does Missouri law sort of suck? Um, yes. I live in the 417 and I’m appalled every day. The low cost of living keeps me from being appalled enough to move, but that’s another thing.

What happened to Megan Meier was despicable, but not really the same thing as what happened to your cousin. Nobody abducted her or killed her – she killed herself. It was a horrible tragedy that shouldn’t have happened, but the covergence of events that led to Megan’s suicide was such that I understand why no single person is being charged. That said, Lori Drew is a heinous bitch and her husband is an asshat, and the teenaged girls who snarked their way into Ecyclopedia Dramatica history deserve to be smacked in the head.

But yelling fire in a theater is is no way comparable to pissing off a kid enough to kill herself. And in Missouri, you’d be charged with a misdemeanor if anything at all.

to edit because i am as yet not caffeinated enough to be posting:

victimS.

and by “nobody abducted her”, i mean nobody abducted Megan. Clearly something awful happened to Mister’s cousin and I didn’t intend to imply otherwise by my poor usage.

My Starbucks seems weak this morning.

to edit because i am as yet not caffeinated enough to be posting:

victimS.

and by “nobody abducted her”, i mean nobody abducted Megan. Clearly something awful happened to Mister’s cousin and I didn’t intend to imply otherwise by my poor usage.

My Starbucks seems weak this morning.

Sorry about your cousin, but the issue I have with this entire incident is the witch hunt mentality demonstrated by people who still do not have all the facts, yet want to see this woman drawn and quartered. Just because it is an emotionally charged issue shouldn’t mean people throw logic and reason out of the window.

Sorry, but I can honestly tell you that I would not have been one of the ones holding a torch while screaming “burn her!” while some hapless woman was burned alive tied to a stake. I’ll take facts over hearsay, assumptions, and emotionally charged accounts any day of the week. There is a reason no charges were filed…they could not find anything Lori did as illegal. And from the more info that is coming out about the other side of this issue, thank god for that.

Mister,I too was close to a child who was horribly abused and murdered. I feel guilt over it,although there was nothing more I could do. I was not blood related,I certainly could not steal the child..as a mandatory reporter I had done all I could. These stories KILL me,down to the very soul,even moreso now that I have children of my own.

I was nine kinds of mad when this story broke,don’t think I wasn’t. I said get her for harrassment,child endagerment,talking sex with a teen,child abuse,throw every thing at her and hope something sticks.

I’ve since found out,simply talking about sex with a teen is not punishable. Pretending you’re someone you are not on the web to gain trust,is not punishable(think the predator series on MSNBC)

Lori did not sit at her kitchen table and say Ashley,lets do mean things and make this kid kill herself. Lori Drew did a very crappy thing. She is guilty of many types of bad behavior in this,but it just simply does not fall under the current laws. You can’t jail someone for being mean. You just can’t.And the key thing that Banas said was this- we don’t have the evidence to win-he never condoned what she did,or what she put into place-depending on what story you believe.

I am with you-what she did was horrible. It will(and has)incite alot of emotional outbursts from people who just can’t quite grasp (including me) how there is not a crime somewhere in this sordid story.

Cat mean,stupidity,denial…not criminal offenses.

Mister,I too was close to a child who was horribly abused and murdered. I feel guilt over it,although there was nothing more I could do. I was not blood related,I certainly could not steal the child..as a mandatory reporter I had done all I could. These stories KILL me,down to the very soul,even moreso now that I have children of my own.

I was nine kinds of mad when this story broke,don’t think I wasn’t. I said get her for harrassment,child endagerment,talking sex with a teen,child abuse,throw every thing at her and hope something sticks.

I’ve since found out,simply talking about sex with a teen is not punishable. Pretending you’re someone you are not on the web to gain trust,is not punishable(think the predator series on MSNBC)

Lori did not sit at her kitchen table and say Ashley,lets do mean things and make this kid kill herself. Lori Drew did a very crappy thing. She is guilty of many types of bad behavior in this,but it just simply does not fall under the current laws. You can’t jail someone for being mean. You just can’t.And the key thing that Banas said was this- we don’t have the evidence to win-he never condoned what she did,or what she put into place-depending on what story you believe.

I am with you-what she did was horrible. It will(and has)incite alot of emotional outbursts from people who just can’t quite grasp (including me) how there is not a crime somewhere in this sordid story.

Cat mean,stupidity,denial…not criminal offenses.

First of all, if I doubted the intellect of this group, I would not waste my time here. Secondly, the prior knowledge of this girls mental state considerably changes the scope of Lori’s actions. She should be held liable at least in the civil system. No monetary relief can ever get things back the way they were, which is the purpose for the civil system, but at least there would be some legal tangible proof of Lori’s wrong doing.

If Lori is to be held accountable for her “possible” knowledge of Megan’s mental state (after all, we know that Lori did not know she was suicidal), then the parents should be held accountable as well for letting her get on Myspace to begin with ESPECIALLY since they were completely aware of the issues going on between her and “Josh” and the first time Megan used Myspace, she got into trouble then as well.

Has anyone ever thought that Megan, who described herself as NEGLECTED, committed suicide purely because she felt her mother, in her mother’s own words, had turned against her?

If Lori is to be held accountable for her “possible” knowledge of Megan’s mental state (after all, we know that Lori did not know she was suicidal), then the parents should be held accountable as well for letting her get on Myspace to begin with ESPECIALLY since they were completely aware of the issues going on between her and “Josh” and the first time Megan used Myspace, she got into trouble then as well.

Has anyone ever thought that Megan, who described herself as NEGLECTED, committed suicide purely because she felt her mother, in her mother’s own words, had turned against her?

well, Mister, y’know, make up your mind. Either we’re a relatively intelligent bunch, or we’re Morbid’s parrots. And before you go all saying “parrots are smart”, I call shenanigans.

As to liability, they can try. I haven’t yet heard of counsel filing civil suit in this case, but I’m behind on my reading. The Meiers might get an emotionally charged jury to award damages in a wrongful death suit or harassment suit. Last I heard the Meiers were too busy retaining divorce lawyers to file on behalf of their daughter, so it may be that it’s not about the money or about making Lori Drew pay legally at this point.

But if we’re going to make Lori pay, what of the other teenage girls who also knew that Megan was on antidepressants? What about the makers of those antidepressants? What about the doctors who prescribed antidepressants for a teenager in the face of warnings about suicidal behavior in teenagers who are taking them? What about the parents who did not turn off the computer and sit their daughter down right then to talk about what was happening?

As much as I hate it, I can’t really see how Lori Drew was any more at fault than any of the above factors. I’m not even sure how a thirteen year old makes a decision to kill herself and implements the plan in the space of twenty minutes. That alone tells me that she was either so highly emotional that she should not have been left alone, or that she already had the plan in place.

I still think Lori Drew is a heinous bitch.

So far as Megan’s parent’s, they will be paying for this long after we have moved on to other issues. Long after Lori has moved on with her life. And to Morbid, I am not saying that I agree with how the Meiers raised Lori. I don’t know about internet at school, but at home the computer is strickly for homework. And the only computer in the house with internet access is in our bedroom which the kids are not allowed in without us. What we have her are two groups of parents at opposite ends of the spectrum. In one case you have a parent that comes off neglectful, and in the other case you have a parent that has blurred the line between parents and children, being her child’s peer instead of being an authority figure. Both have liability in this situation. But only one is paying right now.

So far as Megan’s parent’s, they will be paying for this long after we have moved on to other issues. Long after Lori has moved on with her life. And to Morbid, I am not saying that I agree with how the Meiers raised Lori. I don’t know about internet at school, but at home the computer is strickly for homework. And the only computer in the house with internet access is in our bedroom which the kids are not allowed in without us. What we have her are two groups of parents at opposite ends of the spectrum. In one case you have a parent that comes off neglectful, and in the other case you have a parent that has blurred the line between parents and children, being her child’s peer instead of being an authority figure. Both have liability in this situation. But only one is paying right now.

Um, Mister,

Not to be a raucous bitch or anything, but Dannarriah Finley’s name is totally misspelled in your above post, so I’m just kind of wondering how close a cousin she really was if you can’t spell her name. I’m not saying she isn’t a relative of yours, but if you’re gonna invoke the child to make your point the least you could do is get her name right.

Um, Mister,

Not to be a raucous bitch or anything, but Dannarriah Finley’s name is totally misspelled in your above post, so I’m just kind of wondering how close a cousin she really was if you can’t spell her name. I’m not saying she isn’t a relative of yours, but if you’re gonna invoke the child to make your point the least you could do is get her name right.

If anyone thinks Lori Drew and her entire family is not paying for their involvement in the suicide of Megan, is quite delusional or uninformed of what complete strangers are doing to them. We report on abused children every day almost, we have parents killing their children almost every week. But do any of you people calling for Lori’s head on a platter harass them? Lead some anti-crusade against them? No. You pick a woman who killed no one, who abused no one. The only thing Lori is possibly guilty of is having a retarded personality and making a bad judgment call.

If anyone thinks Lori Drew and her entire family is not paying for their involvement in the suicide of Megan, is quite delusional or uninformed of what complete strangers are doing to them. We report on abused children every day almost, we have parents killing their children almost every week. But do any of you people calling for Lori’s head on a platter harass them? Lead some anti-crusade against them? No. You pick a woman who killed no one, who abused no one. The only thing Lori is possibly guilty of is having a retarded personality and making a bad judgment call.

Point well taken. Very close indeed, her dad and I were raised like brothers. Both of us are from Starks, La. Dannarriah lived in Orange, TX. I never use a child to make a point unless I feel it may awaken some other parent to pay closer attention. Close enough in fact that me and her paternal grandmother went to her grave site the Monday after her Saturday burial and put flowers on her grave on what would have been her 5th birthday. July 22.

Point well taken. Very close indeed, her dad and I were raised like brothers. Both of us are from Starks, La. Dannarriah lived in Orange, TX. I never use a child to make a point unless I feel it may awaken some other parent to pay closer attention. Close enough in fact that me and her paternal grandmother went to her grave site the Monday after her Saturday burial and put flowers on her grave on what would have been her 5th birthday. July 22.

Had this all come out a week after Megan died,I’m sure there would still be outrage, but I doubt it would be as bad. Had Pokin said her name in the original article,it wouldn’t be as bad. All this names have been changed to protect those that aren’t quite guilty,etc, caused normal”you need to be slapped”anger to turn into “angry mob” outrage.

Sorry,media helped propagate this one,too.

Had this all come out a week after Megan died,I’m sure there would still be outrage, but I doubt it would be as bad. Had Pokin said her name in the original article,it wouldn’t be as bad. All this names have been changed to protect those that aren’t quite guilty,etc, caused normal”you need to be slapped”anger to turn into “angry mob” outrage.

Sorry,media helped propagate this one,too.

*working on my “Morbid for Fucking President” t-shirt* Fucking tie-dyed of course.
Morbidette….that is so funny…and oh god I love the profanity here.
Peace to all you fucking Morbideers! ROFLMAO

*working on my “Morbid for Fucking President” t-shirt* Fucking tie-dyed of course.
Morbidette….that is so funny…and oh god I love the profanity here.
Peace to all you fucking Morbideers! ROFLMAO

Well anybody who is harassing Lori, is just as wrong as Lori. That is the purpose of our justice system. Sometimes things fall in between the cracks and there is no way to address them. But that in no way negates that magnitude of what has happened.

Well anybody who is harassing Lori, is just as wrong as Lori. That is the purpose of our justice system. Sometimes things fall in between the cracks and there is no way to address them. But that in no way negates that magnitude of what has happened.

Have you guys logged into her confessional on meghanhaditcoming.com? She finally admitted to being the author of the blog. This lady is clueless.

Have you guys logged into her confessional on meghanhaditcoming.com? She finally admitted to being the author of the blog. This lady is clueless.

I would like to see if it changes Morbid’s opinion of her and her responsibility as an adult member of society.

Who did she admit it to?

Who did she admit it to?

I read it earlier this morning,found it rather self serving…

Again-kids have been doing this to kids from the time kids existed. You are an adult. Stop it.Rinse.Repeat.

I read it earlier this morning,found it rather self serving…

Again-kids have been doing this to kids from the time kids existed. You are an adult. Stop it.Rinse.Repeat.

I read it earlier this morning,found it rather self serving…

Again-kids have been doing this to kids from the time kids existed. You are an adult. Stop it.Rinse.Repeat.

She stated on the blog that she set it up and was the author.

This is all true and if no criminal charges can be brought trust me, a civil case will happen.

This is all true and if no criminal charges can be brought trust me, a civil case will happen.

This is all true and if no criminal charges can be brought trust me, a civil case will happen.

http://meganhaditcoming.blogspot.com/

correct link

http://meganhaditcoming.blogspot.com/

correct link

And of course it is self serving-although I admire the”rinse.repeat” line..I need to use that with your permission, ells. I think Lori is enjoying her prolonged 15 minutes of fame…her daughter is in a psychiatric institution btw. Lori would like everyone to stop picking on her.

And of course it is self serving-although I admire the”rinse.repeat” line..I need to use that with your permission, ells. I think Lori is enjoying her prolonged 15 minutes of fame…her daughter is in a psychiatric institution btw. Lori would like everyone to stop picking on her.

Is it Sarah in there? I thought it was Ashley Grills. If it is Sarah, leave her in there until she’s old enough to not live under her cheerleader mom’s roof.

I am aware of the blog, but I am blocked from it at the moment. My question is, the person who made the blog is saying she is Lori Drew? That is far from something I would immediately believe. I could say I am Lori Drew as well.

But let’s say she did create it, and is the author, my viewpoint would still not change. She still looks like a tub of shit both physically and mentally, but she did not do anything illegal.

Unless she admits it, or one of you can prove it, there is no way you can say she intentionally, willfully set out to have Megan kill herself. But I have stated my opinion multiple times, I have asked legit questions to those of you who think Lori should be held criminally responsible (that have remained unanswered) throughout. I think I am pretty much done with this one. If anyone wants to, just go back an re-read what I have already stated and asked.

I find the entire thing scary. The demonstration of mob mentality, actions that smack of the pitchfork and torch type lynching of days of old, and that people really want someone taken to court for being aware of, and possibly participating in, some mean messages sent via Myspace. Actually, it does more than scare me, it sickens me.

I am aware of the blog, but I am blocked from it at the moment. My question is, the person who made the blog is saying she is Lori Drew? That is far from something I would immediately believe. I could say I am Lori Drew as well.

But let’s say she did create it, and is the author, my viewpoint would still not change. She still looks like a tub of shit both physically and mentally, but she did not do anything illegal.

Unless she admits it, or one of you can prove it, there is no way you can say she intentionally, willfully set out to have Megan kill herself. But I have stated my opinion multiple times, I have asked legit questions to those of you who think Lori should be held criminally responsible (that have remained unanswered) throughout. I think I am pretty much done with this one. If anyone wants to, just go back an re-read what I have already stated and asked.

I find the entire thing scary. The demonstration of mob mentality, actions that smack of the pitchfork and torch type lynching of days of old, and that people really want someone taken to court for being aware of, and possibly participating in, some mean messages sent via Myspace. Actually, it does more than scare me, it sickens me.

Morbid,
My little sister got arrested and charged with assult for calling another girl in school a fucking bitch, she had to go to court and was fined $100.00 in 1984. so you can be charge with assult for calling someone names and that is why I brought it up. I thought it was fucking crazy but the girls parents filed the charges and my sister said yes I called her names and that was enough. The assult charge would have been something and maybe it would have shut everyone up about this, but your right the charge would not have been enough for the girls parents and this all would have come out anyway. I don’t believe that Lori should be charged with anything else, because this girl was just looking for a reason to kill herself. The world is a fucked up place and if she kill herself because someone online is talking shit about her, there was no way that she would have ever made it in the real world.

To tell you the truth, I think what is happening to Lori is punishment enough, man it would suck to be her right now.

Morbid,
My little sister got arrested and charged with assult for calling another girl in school a fucking bitch, she had to go to court and was fined $100.00 in 1984. so you can be charge with assult for calling someone names and that is why I brought it up. I thought it was fucking crazy but the girls parents filed the charges and my sister said yes I called her names and that was enough. The assult charge would have been something and maybe it would have shut everyone up about this, but your right the charge would not have been enough for the girls parents and this all would have come out anyway. I don’t believe that Lori should be charged with anything else, because this girl was just looking for a reason to kill herself. The world is a fucked up place and if she kill herself because someone online is talking shit about her, there was no way that she would have ever made it in the real world.

To tell you the truth, I think what is happening to Lori is punishment enough, man it would suck to be her right now.

Morbid,
My little sister got arrested and charged with assult for calling another girl in school a fucking bitch, she had to go to court and was fined $100.00 in 1984. so you can be charge with assult for calling someone names and that is why I brought it up. I thought it was fucking crazy but the girls parents filed the charges and my sister said yes I called her names and that was enough. The assult charge would have been something and maybe it would have shut everyone up about this, but your right the charge would not have been enough for the girls parents and this all would have come out anyway. I don’t believe that Lori should be charged with anything else, because this girl was just looking for a reason to kill herself. The world is a fucked up place and if she kill herself because someone online is talking shit about her, there was no way that she would have ever made it in the real world.

To tell you the truth, I think what is happening to Lori is punishment enough, man it would suck to be her right now.

As a morbideer,I have had to back off my statements -I KID!

I was furious at first,but after investigating I see where my mistakes were. My “investigating” including talk to a relative who is a detective in this area,so not just a random opinion.

I stand behind my statement that the way this was presented to us caused alot of the hooplah. People spent hours searching property records trying to identify Tub of Goo Lori,and when they succeeded, it wasn’t enough. Not for me anyway. I went further. I found pictures. I did not;however,contact her husbands work,put her on rotten neighbor,give her company bad reviews. “Knowing and seeing” was enough for me. It’s not enough for some others.

Had Pokin wrote: this is a sad story of overprotective parents gone bad on both sides, we would not be talking about this right now.

I, for one, am not screaming for blood. I just would like for some one to be held accountable. I know that no law will be made retro-active. But if more legislation is put in place, and adminstrative controls strengthened, then Megan’s death won’t be in vain. Maybe death can lead to a safer place, much like Amber Hagerman, and Adam Walsh.

Misterman,

What if we were friends,and you were having a bad day and I said oh get over yourself,and you slit your wrists. My fault?

As much as I hate it,this was not all that was wrong with Megan’s life. Megan was 13,and 13 year olds cannot enter contracts or agree to sex for a reason, they have an immature thought process.

warrman69, no offense, but there is more to your story. I find it even harder to believe that a minor was charged with calling another minor a name, and was taken to court.

Any actual legal people reading? I got someone I can call, but I was under the impression that assault, even verbal, was the threat of bodily harm. Not calling someone a name.

warrman69, no offense, but there is more to your story. I find it even harder to believe that a minor was charged with calling another minor a name, and was taken to court.

Any actual legal people reading? I got someone I can call, but I was under the impression that assault, even verbal, was the threat of bodily harm. Not calling someone a name.

There is no safe place for a teenager with mental illness. That’s the sadest thing of all. Doctors don’t know how to treat it, they are afraid of medication, the slightest disturbance can cause a crisis of huge proportions. Megan’s family were getting her help, she was on medication and she was high risk. Most teenagers diagnosed with depression are. Just a sad story and my heart goes out to Megan’s family. I know their pain and I know that nothing is going to help them, not criminal charges, not civil charges, nothing.

Believe this, as a parent of a suicide, you relive every second of your child’s life, every wrong word, every missed oppurtunity. That is what is saddest about this, that as much as Megan’s parents want to blame someone else, when this all settles down, they will live with the blame themselves.

There is no safe place for a teenager with mental illness. That’s the sadest thing of all. Doctors don’t know how to treat it, they are afraid of medication, the slightest disturbance can cause a crisis of huge proportions. Megan’s family were getting her help, she was on medication and she was high risk. Most teenagers diagnosed with depression are. Just a sad story and my heart goes out to Megan’s family. I know their pain and I know that nothing is going to help them, not criminal charges, not civil charges, nothing.

Believe this, as a parent of a suicide, you relive every second of your child’s life, every wrong word, every missed oppurtunity. That is what is saddest about this, that as much as Megan’s parents want to blame someone else, when this all settles down, they will live with the blame themselves.

I can’t stand the today show-so I missed this:

Briscoe said this morning that Lori Drew has had to close her advertising business and her daughter has dropped out of school in the wake of the publicity and criminal investigation of the cyberspace bullying. Briscoe also said it was not clear if the Drews would be able to continue living in their Dardenne Prairie neighborhood, four doors down from the Meier house.

Ron and Tina Meier also appeared on ‘Today’ this morning. Ron Meier claimed that Lori Drew has changed her story since a year ago, and he still believes “it was instigated by her, in my mind.”

http://tinyurl.com/2cjelh

I can’t stand the today show-so I missed this:

Briscoe said this morning that Lori Drew has had to close her advertising business and her daughter has dropped out of school in the wake of the publicity and criminal investigation of the cyberspace bullying. Briscoe also said it was not clear if the Drews would be able to continue living in their Dardenne Prairie neighborhood, four doors down from the Meier house.

Ron and Tina Meier also appeared on ‘Today’ this morning. Ron Meier claimed that Lori Drew has changed her story since a year ago, and he still believes “it was instigated by her, in my mind.”

http://tinyurl.com/2cjelh

I can’t stand the today show-so I missed this:

Briscoe said this morning that Lori Drew has had to close her advertising business and her daughter has dropped out of school in the wake of the publicity and criminal investigation of the cyberspace bullying. Briscoe also said it was not clear if the Drews would be able to continue living in their Dardenne Prairie neighborhood, four doors down from the Meier house.

Ron and Tina Meier also appeared on ‘Today’ this morning. Ron Meier claimed that Lori Drew has changed her story since a year ago, and he still believes “it was instigated by her, in my mind.”

http://tinyurl.com/2cjelh

No offense taken. It was 23 years ago so maybe there was more to it. I only ever heard my sisters side of the story, but there are some really stupid laws and it did happen in school.
I will shut up now because I did not go to Law school and I was not in the court room with her!

No offense taken. It was 23 years ago so maybe there was more to it. I only ever heard my sisters side of the story, but there are some really stupid laws and it did happen in school.
I will shut up now because I did not go to Law school and I was not in the court room with her!

Morbid, I think I clearly stated my feeling in comment #110. This woman is an idiot but she did not kill this young woman….Suicidal folks have things, many things going on, this one fucking incident is not what made her kill herself. So, I do believe I agree with you, yet again. Lori is an asshole, a bitch, juvenile, but she did NOT kill Megan. Megan and all her head demons, killed Megan.

Morbid, I think I clearly stated my feeling in comment #110. This woman is an idiot but she did not kill this young woman….Suicidal folks have things, many things going on, this one fucking incident is not what made her kill herself. So, I do believe I agree with you, yet again. Lori is an asshole, a bitch, juvenile, but she did NOT kill Megan. Megan and all her head demons, killed Megan.

and warrman69 if cussing someone out were a crime, why am I still walking the streets. I tend to be verbal, I let people know how I feel. I am honest as fuck and can’t help it. When I was 16, let’s see that would of been 1980-81, I got in trouble for telling my teacher he was acting like an asshole towards another student. I got sent to the office of course. (I also wasn’t some stoner kid with shit grades either, I was a stoner kid with damn good grades)any who…the principal threatened to swat my butt. I’m 16 I say “Touch me you fucking pervert and I’ll call my mom” Of course the wooden paddle went back into his desk drawer and he called my mother alright, I got in school suspension for using inappropriate language towards my “elders” in school. I got into a hell of a lot of trouble at home as well, but my point is, calling the cops NEVER even entered this equation, so I have a hard time believing that’s all that happened to your sister. My god when I think of all the times I’ve gotten into a verbal conflict/debate and said “you fucking bitch” “you fucking narrow minded asshole” whatever, man that is freedom of speech. I was taught by my mother to kick ass with your words and mind, not your fists, although when you are a wordy fucker as myself, well it’s caused more than a few physical “debates”. *rolls eyes* I do so hate violence.

Hi all-I do not think she killed Meghan and have stated the same on other blogs-I disagree with the people who are picketing her home etc…I would not participate in it or support it. But we have a scapegoat type world we live in and people are looking for someone to be a poster-child of a monster…Lori Drew is tailor made. People are venting spleen-but guess what, Lori has brought some of that on herself as well. I do not claim to know what her motives or thoughts were-but even if you discount her “confession” on the meghanhaditcoming site as fictitious, she should have shut up regarding this case long ago. She has not disputed the accuracy of some of her statements in the media, and if they were accurately reported then she has the conscience of a 2 year-old.

What we should be debating is how the general public can be so incredibly manipulated by the media (biased as it often is) that on the basis of this story, people are threatening the home, safety and liveliehood of a family. We are such sheep…

And yes, Meghan’s parents are equally responsible for their daughter’s death-it happened on their watch!!!

Hi all-I do not think she killed Meghan and have stated the same on other blogs-I disagree with the people who are picketing her home etc…I would not participate in it or support it. But we have a scapegoat type world we live in and people are looking for someone to be a poster-child of a monster…Lori Drew is tailor made. People are venting spleen-but guess what, Lori has brought some of that on herself as well. I do not claim to know what her motives or thoughts were-but even if you discount her “confession” on the meghanhaditcoming site as fictitious, she should have shut up regarding this case long ago. She has not disputed the accuracy of some of her statements in the media, and if they were accurately reported then she has the conscience of a 2 year-old.

What we should be debating is how the general public can be so incredibly manipulated by the media (biased as it often is) that on the basis of this story, people are threatening the home, safety and liveliehood of a family. We are such sheep…

And yes, Meghan’s parents are equally responsible for their daughter’s death-it happened on their watch!!!

Hi, I’m new, and a parent of two kids, 7 and 5.

Morbid, you mentioned awhile back that you wouldn’t allow your child access to Myspace until that child was ready for it. Remember that Megan’s mom had encouraged this contact because, finally, she was getting boosts of self esteem that did not come from a shrink or a drug.

I can empathize with her in this case. These are incredible turning points for kids, especially as this was the first “monster love.” Can you imagine how happy her mom was to hear about this boy? The new bounce in Megan’s step, and the new self-confidence she never had?

But we all know what happened.

The fact of the human crap at the other end of these exchanges is simply tragic.

Brain went way faster than fingers – ex. #1 – I asked the girl if she wanted to step out of the car? – that will get you an attempted assault charge in NC. Middle paragraph was ex. #2

Brain went way faster than fingers – ex. #1 – I asked the girl if she wanted to step out of the car? – that will get you an attempted assault charge in NC. Middle paragraph was ex. #2

Morbid, you have totally convinced me that Lori cant be charged with a crime. But you make it sounds like you dont think she is a piece of shit (in the last several comments, anyway). I get the impression that you consider what she did an “oopsie”. You do agree that she is a horrible parent and a horrible person, at least, right?

Morbid, you have totally convinced me that Lori cant be charged with a crime. But you make it sounds like you dont think she is a piece of shit (in the last several comments, anyway). I get the impression that you consider what she did an “oopsie”. You do agree that she is a horrible parent and a horrible person, at least, right?

Morbid, you have totally convinced me that Lori cant be charged with a crime. But you make it sounds like you dont think she is a piece of shit (in the last several comments, anyway). I get the impression that you consider what she did an “oopsie”. You do agree that she is a horrible parent and a horrible person, at least, right?

Hello, moscow

My point still stands. regardless of whether or not that the parents were happy Megan was acting normal, they of all people should have known how fragile she was and have been knowledgeable enough to inform Megan of what happens with first crushes, especially a virtual one, and prepare her.

Again, Megan didn’t kill herself because she found out Josh was Lori. Megan killed herself because over the course of one morning:

1. Josh said he heard she wasn’t nice to her friends
2. Megan started messaging people she thought had talked to Josh
3. Bad messages started going back and forth between Megan and other girls
4. Bulletins started getting posted stating she was fat, etc
5. Josh sends her the “world would be better without you” message
6. Megan argues with mom, feels mom is taking the other people’s side
7. Hangs herself

This was standard, juvenile bullshit that happens every single day in every single school in America. The fact that Megan was far worse off than anyone could have possibly imagined is no ones fault. I am sure that even Megan’s family would have never thought she would have killed herself over this, so how could have anyone else? I mean, if Megan’s mother thought this was enough to push her over the edge, why yell at her, why let her go to her room by herself? Simple, she, like everyone else involved, was unaware of just how bad off Megan was.

And I still don’t understand why people keep saying it was Lori at the other end of these exchanges. It was at least 3 teenage girls at the other end. They have admitted to what they have sent. They were the ones who started with the mean messages.

Hello, moscow

My point still stands. regardless of whether or not that the parents were happy Megan was acting normal, they of all people should have known how fragile she was and have been knowledgeable enough to inform Megan of what happens with first crushes, especially a virtual one, and prepare her.

Again, Megan didn’t kill herself because she found out Josh was Lori. Megan killed herself because over the course of one morning:

1. Josh said he heard she wasn’t nice to her friends
2. Megan started messaging people she thought had talked to Josh
3. Bad messages started going back and forth between Megan and other girls
4. Bulletins started getting posted stating she was fat, etc
5. Josh sends her the “world would be better without you” message
6. Megan argues with mom, feels mom is taking the other people’s side
7. Hangs herself

This was standard, juvenile bullshit that happens every single day in every single school in America. The fact that Megan was far worse off than anyone could have possibly imagined is no ones fault. I am sure that even Megan’s family would have never thought she would have killed herself over this, so how could have anyone else? I mean, if Megan’s mother thought this was enough to push her over the edge, why yell at her, why let her go to her room by herself? Simple, she, like everyone else involved, was unaware of just how bad off Megan was.

And I still don’t understand why people keep saying it was Lori at the other end of these exchanges. It was at least 3 teenage girls at the other end. They have admitted to what they have sent. They were the ones who started with the mean messages.

thepooh, that is insane! You are totally right in the fact that some cops really have their priorities mixed up. just so you all know my background, and why I have a trust problem with cops (before you say “oh, the only people who hate cops are people who have broken the law), I called the police on my exboyfriend, because he was throwing things in our apartment, threatening me, and when I attempted to leave with our infant son, he locked himself in the bathroom with him and wouldnt let me in. I wont go into the details, but when the cops came, they ended up calling me a liar, defending my ex, wwouldnt let me leave the apartment because my ex lied and said that my license was suspended, and when I asked them if they could please take my son and I to my mom;s house, they said they werent a taxi service. I called my mom, and as I was crying her and telling her what was happening, one of the cops said to my ex “Look, she is lying to her mom about what we said, now I know she is lying about what you did!!” My mom demanded to speak to the cop, who reluctantly took the phone, and begged him to please stay there until she got there to get me, as she was afraid my ex would do something to me or our son. The cops said they werent sure if they could, as they were very busy. Anyway, my parents got there before they left, they didnt say much to the police, we all just left. I never did report them, and to this day I regret it. Oh, and btw, if I ever see them again I would like to inform them that my ex is now serving 20 years in prison for later breaking into my parents house when I was out with another guy, hiding in my shower until I came home and went to sleep, and then coming out and attacking me. I wonder if they’ll still think that I was lying that night

Solange, I think I have called Lori every name in the book in this thread. She is an example of everything I hate about busybody, nosey, parents. She emodies why I stopped going to the PTA.

Also, thepooh, I am not saying you cannot be charged for words. Of course you can. I am saying you cannot be charged with calling someone a name, or being mean to them. If I walk into a Wal-Mart, and the retarded greeter says “Welcome to Wal-Mart!” and then I say “Shut the fuck up you stupid retard.” There is no crime commited. I am just an asshole.

However, if I were to reply “Shut the fuck up you stupid retard, and if you look at me again, I’ll punch you in your stupid looking face.” well, then I am an asshole and have committed a crime.

Morbid, I understand the fact that the teenagers are the ones who posted some of the messages (I still dont believe that Lori didnt send ANY or had no knowledge), but I still believe the whole deception what orchestrated by Lori. I mean, she enlisted her EMPLOYEE to take part in this, to me that says that she was very much involved. It’s not like it was just her daughter and some friends sending those messages. Also, I do not advocate violence or vandalism, but I dont think that there is anything wrong with people knowing who they are and encouraging other people not to do business with them. If you are so afraid of people not liking you or your image, why the hell would you fuck with an innocent, depressed 13 year old girl? And althought they may not have known she was suicidal, I am pretty sure Lori was aware that Megan suffered from depression. Anyway, most of us want to do business with honest, reliable people, so if these people have proven to be dishonest, selfish, and irresponsible, then I think we have the right to know and take our business elsewhere.

Morbid, I understand the fact that the teenagers are the ones who posted some of the messages (I still dont believe that Lori didnt send ANY or had no knowledge), but I still believe the whole deception what orchestrated by Lori. I mean, she enlisted her EMPLOYEE to take part in this, to me that says that she was very much involved. It’s not like it was just her daughter and some friends sending those messages. Also, I do not advocate violence or vandalism, but I dont think that there is anything wrong with people knowing who they are and encouraging other people not to do business with them. If you are so afraid of people not liking you or your image, why the hell would you fuck with an innocent, depressed 13 year old girl? And althought they may not have known she was suicidal, I am pretty sure Lori was aware that Megan suffered from depression. Anyway, most of us want to do business with honest, reliable people, so if these people have proven to be dishonest, selfish, and irresponsible, then I think we have the right to know and take our business elsewhere.

Ok, i feel much better now Morbid, thank you

Morbid, you are right.

But Megan’s mom probably never conceived that this kind of s*it was going on at the end during the day-to-day communication. How much could she, in good conscience, actually monitor the back-and-forth word for word?

Mom probably also thought that there was some credence to the arguments against Megan, and wanted to use it as a way to encourage her to break out and become accepted in her peer group. I have dealt with my own children coming home from school dejected because of a bad classroom encounter. The difference here is that no-one could have foreseen the triad of idiots who unknowingly made this girl feel she should die.

Morbid, you are right.

But Megan’s mom probably never conceived that this kind of s*it was going on at the end during the day-to-day communication. How much could she, in good conscience, actually monitor the back-and-forth word for word?

Mom probably also thought that there was some credence to the arguments against Megan, and wanted to use it as a way to encourage her to break out and become accepted in her peer group. I have dealt with my own children coming home from school dejected because of a bad classroom encounter. The difference here is that no-one could have foreseen the triad of idiots who unknowingly made this girl feel she should die.

If you are telling me that no parent could foresee the train wreck this was headed towards, then every single adult involved should be shot for the safety of all of our children. Kids are mean. Always have been and that will never change. Look at how the adults are acting even now after the fact.

She was too young to have an account. She had her account (supposedly) monitored by her mother. Her mother allowed her depressed, 13-year-old daughter to have a friendship with Josh Evans, a 16-year-old boy she had never met. I mean the levels of fail just keep going and going. Not one adult in this story acted like one and Megan hung Megan.

WOW, i totally didnt even register the fact that Josh was supposedly 16. I am beginning to see now the mistakes that Megan’s parents themselves made. Not trying to say that they purposely neglected their daughter or anything, but there definitely were some bad judgement calls made… I hope this story helps to convince parents to strictly enfore the age limit for these type of social accounts, especially considering all the pervs and sickos who are on the other end of the computer screen just waiting to find a impressionable child to manipulate

WOW, i totally didnt even register the fact that Josh was supposedly 16. I am beginning to see now the mistakes that Megan’s parents themselves made. Not trying to say that they purposely neglected their daughter or anything, but there definitely were some bad judgement calls made… I hope this story helps to convince parents to strictly enfore the age limit for these type of social accounts, especially considering all the pervs and sickos who are on the other end of the computer screen just waiting to find a impressionable child to manipulate

Wow, let me say this. I totally disagree with the treatment these business ownders are getting. I completely think that Lori’s business should be boycotted, but these other business had no way of knowing that the advertising firm they were using was run by a psycho. Also, I dont buy that shit that her lawyer said, about her not sending ANY of the messages. And how she is so sorry and all that shit. From what I’ve read, she has not shown any remorse or publicly apologized. Any person with half a heart, who may have been dumb enough to start this account to find out what someone was saying about their daughter, would have been apologizing from the beginning. I would be everywhere stating how sorry I was, what my real intentions were, how I never meant for Megan to be insulted, blah blah blah. This lady is a piece of work. I keep going back to that article where she told the reporter that the police report was incorrect, and how they were working to change it. And then you have a quote from the police chief, saying that NO ONE had contacted them to change it, and how they stand by the report 100 percent. I call *cough* bullshit *cough* on Lori Drew!

It’s really the same callous indifference the Drews’ gave Megan’s life.

What fucking responsibility did they neglect? Her having a myspace account? Wow. Ya know, reading how parents are killing their kids, raping them to death etc, etc and by allowing her a my space account that’s being irresponsible? Saying no one gives 2 shits about Megan, that’s incorrect, I give 2 shits about Megan and her family, I know how my family suffered after my daughters suicide and I saw my daughter suffer daily. I’ve never said one word about killing this woman. I have to laugh, reading parents beating kids to death and you seem to have want to blame these parents for Megans suicide because of the dreaded my space account. Interesting.

Morbid, here is a handful of Xanax just for YOU.

AND here is a handful for everyone else to share…

Where is Hippie when we need her? We need to have a love in or something.

That is why you are the voice of reason, Morbid. You’re right, some of these people we will never care for. It’s just vicarious entertainment. But, I do care that heinous acts like these will never be carried out again. Some people don’t want to drill down to the hard facts. It’s just a gut reaction to the horror of mankind. I will have to think twice, maybe three times, before I try to incite others. Thanks for making me think. I’m actually learning something here. I will most likely fly the flag of hypocrisy. What else are we gonna talk about around here? Jennifer Love Hewitt’s size 2 ass?

Xanax…..where there’s a pill there’s a way baby!

Jennifer Love Hewitt is a fat bitch.

Discuss.

Lafave was arrested again,we can talk about that! OR…The movie based on the book based on Sylvia Likens came out on dvd yesterday. Its truly terrifying.

JUSTAMOM2, I don’t blame ANYONE for Megan’s death. That’s why I am different. She was broke. She hung herself over something 98 percent of all teenagers go through at some point.

But if blame is to be handed out, her parents should get a nice heaping spoonful of it as well. Out of all the people who knew of Megan’s mental state, THEY were the closest. Not Lori, not some teenage girls on a website. THEY allowed Megan to have an account she had proven she was too immature for already, and they let her enter into a relationship with a 16-year-old boy they never met. Period. Had none of those steps been taken, Megan would either still be here, or hung herself after she failed her drivers license test. Who knows. But again, I am done with this subject as in all honesty, I have no personal investment in it aside from not wanting to see laws passed that keep people from being mean.

Xanax kicking in….Jennifer Love Hewitt now has legs the size of tree trunks, but I would still hit it like Austin Schmidt.

JUSTAMOM2, I don’t blame ANYONE for Megan’s death. That’s why I am different. She was broke. She hung herself over something 98 percent of all teenagers go through at some point.

But if blame is to be handed out, her parents should get a nice heaping spoonful of it as well. Out of all the people who knew of Megan’s mental state, THEY were the closest. Not Lori, not some teenage girls on a website. THEY allowed Megan to have an account she had proven she was too immature for already, and they let her enter into a relationship with a 16-year-old boy they never met. Period. Had none of those steps been taken, Megan would either still be here, or hung herself after she failed her drivers license test. Who knows. But again, I am done with this subject as in all honesty, I have no personal investment in it aside from not wanting to see laws passed that keep people from being mean.

Xanax kicking in….Jennifer Love Hewitt now has legs the size of tree trunks, but I would still hit it like Austin Schmidt.

“but I would still hit it like Austin Schmidt.”

AH-HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

“but I would still hit it like Austin Schmidt.”

AH-HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

Morbid, no worries, Megan’s parents will feel responsibilty no matter. As for Love-Hewitt, my goodness, I saw a picture and suddenly felt so much better about my ass. Thanks Jennifer for showing us that all women, even stars, can have a bad butt day! I’ve got valium if anyone needs it, adds a little kick to the xanax.

lol. Multiple blows and all that bedding.

Well at least he was gonna clean up after he killed her. Damn decent of him I say!

I was referring to Morbid. lol There would be no killing, just the massive clean up.

And the marquee reads, Morbid, We Know Who You Did Last Summer.

This is boring. Let’s get back to LORI DREW sucks! LORI DREW sucks! LORI DREW sucks! Two four six eight! Who do we love to hate! Looooori Drew! Loooori Drew!

Just kidding, I better stop before Morbid bans me from this site

This is boring. Let’s get back to LORI DREW sucks! LORI DREW sucks! LORI DREW sucks! Two four six eight! Who do we love to hate! Looooori Drew! Loooori Drew!

Just kidding, I better stop before Morbid bans me from this site

Nothing makes me feel better about my ass. Damn Double Damn – how many Xanax does it take?

Nothing makes me feel better about my ass. Damn Double Damn – how many Xanax does it take?

I would never ban anyone from this site for disagreeing with me. Never. Besides, if I get that pissed off, I’ll either take one of Kathy’s Xanax, or at the ver least, yank on her hair.

I know you’re not like that Morbid, and true about the Xanax. Kathy, do you deliver?

I know you’re not like that Morbid, and true about the Xanax. Kathy, do you deliver?

Sure Solange, I’ll send them to you UPS. But we NEVER had this conversation…

Morbid, all this talk of yanking my hair is only going to lead to bad things. Bad, horrible, wonderfully disgusting things…;)

Sure Solange, I’ll send them to you UPS. But we NEVER had this conversation…

Morbid, all this talk of yanking my hair is only going to lead to bad things. Bad, horrible, wonderfully disgusting things…;)

Promises, promises…

Promises, promises…

Pffftttt.

Pffftttt.

Pffftttt.

Oh yeah, I forgot. DEATH TO LORI DREW! SHE KILLED EARTH!

Packs the bong….can’t we all just get along? Hippie hugs to all. (and I still agree with Morbid on this shit…Megan killed Megan)

Packs the bong….can’t we all just get along? Hippie hugs to all. (and I still agree with Morbid on this shit…Megan killed Megan)

Haha, stop it Morbid! Actually, I think you’re on to something. Who’s to say this bitch didn’t cause global warming???? Thanks alot Lori!

Haha, stop it Morbid! Actually, I think you’re on to something. Who’s to say this bitch didn’t cause global warming???? Thanks alot Lori!

Oooo got a few extra Xanax to share as well.

JUSTAMOM: Did you say in 197 that you lost a daughter to hanging, too? Did I read that right? If so, I am so very sorry. How old was she? How long ago was this?

I’m sorry if I’m being nosy. I just read your post, and read all the comments after, and it seems like everyone else zoomed right by that without noticing, or perhaps I’m misreading it???

Ruby, here is JUSTAMOM’s daughter’s page:

http://lillwild1.50megs.com/custom.html

I don’t think she will mind me posting it, as she tried to a while back but the Spam filters snagged her post.

Ruby, here is JUSTAMOM’s daughter’s page:

http://lillwild1.50megs.com/custom.html

I don’t think she will mind me posting it, as she tried to a while back but the Spam filters snagged her post.

Ruby, here is JUSTAMOM’s daughter’s page:

http://lillwild1.50megs.com/custom.html

I don’t think she will mind me posting it, as she tried to a while back but the Spam filters snagged her post.

Oh, man! I guess it’s good/cleansing to have a cry like I just had every once in a while. A beautiful girl, JUSTAMOM, and a beautiful tribute to her.

I have an Amy, too. And she’s golden-haired. And I can’t stop crying.

Oh, man! I guess it’s good/cleansing to have a cry like I just had every once in a while. A beautiful girl, JUSTAMOM, and a beautiful tribute to her.

I have an Amy, too. And she’s golden-haired. And I can’t stop crying.

Yeah..suburbs are really lame…one less useless retard in the world…

Amy’s page made me cry. I cannot imagine the loss of a child. Damn.
Hugs to you JUSTAMOM. My condolences. I won’t say too much more here, except I totally understand the depression and the need to write. I started writing after my father died, I was 10. I would love to read some of her poetry, would you want to share any? You can email me if you want. jerrygarcialover@yahoo.com
Peace and hugs

Amy’s page made me cry. I cannot imagine the loss of a child. Damn.
Hugs to you JUSTAMOM. My condolences. I won’t say too much more here, except I totally understand the depression and the need to write. I started writing after my father died, I was 10. I would love to read some of her poetry, would you want to share any? You can email me if you want. jerrygarcialover@yahoo.com
Peace and hugs

Amy’s page made me cry. I cannot imagine the loss of a child. Damn.
Hugs to you JUSTAMOM. My condolences. I won’t say too much more here, except I totally understand the depression and the need to write. I started writing after my father died, I was 10. I would love to read some of her poetry, would you want to share any? You can email me if you want. jerrygarcialover@yahoo.com
Peace and hugs

Bwuhahahahaha! The laws passed because of this incident with Megan Meiers will be used to help Lori Drew. Goddamn how ironic. As suspected, the blog was a fake that the sheeple fell for. Prosecutor Banas confirmed to FOXNews.com that the St. Charles County Sheriff’s Office is investigating whether the “Megan Had It Coming” blog and other postings falsely attributed to Drew have violated any online harassment laws.

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,315684,00.html

Bwuhahahahaha! The laws passed because of this incident with Megan Meiers will be used to help Lori Drew. Goddamn how ironic. As suspected, the blog was a fake that the sheeple fell for. Prosecutor Banas confirmed to FOXNews.com that the St. Charles County Sheriff’s Office is investigating whether the “Megan Had It Coming” blog and other postings falsely attributed to Drew have violated any online harassment laws.

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,315684,00.html

Bwuhahahahaha! The laws passed because of this incident with Megan Meiers will be used to help Lori Drew. Goddamn how ironic. As suspected, the blog was a fake that the sheeple fell for. Prosecutor Banas confirmed to FOXNews.com that the St. Charles County Sheriff’s Office is investigating whether the “Megan Had It Coming” blog and other postings falsely attributed to Drew have violated any online harassment laws.

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,315684,00.html

The Drews have disappeared, leaving their home and their jobs. Their current whereabouts are largely unknown.

The Drews have disappeared, leaving their home and their jobs. Their current whereabouts are largely unknown.

Ruby, Hugs right back to you! In 2003 my daughter hung herself. I don’t mind talking about it, she was a rapid cycling bi-polar and suffered so much in life. She was more concerned about the pain she was causing her family and friends, she didn’t realize the pain of losing her was worse. Kids have it hard enough at that age, you add mental illness and it’s a struggle everyday for these kids. She lost her fight, Megan lost hers as well. Their suffering is over, my sympathy is with the family of Megan.

Thanks for posting it Morbid, I’m proud of my Amy, she was an amazing creature. HippiePoet, her poetry went with her, it was highly personal and we felt she’d want it that way. I journal as well, I bought her her first diary when she was 7 and she wrote constantly. Hugs back to you and thank you!

Ruby, Hugs right back to you! In 2003 my daughter hung herself. I don’t mind talking about it, she was a rapid cycling bi-polar and suffered so much in life. She was more concerned about the pain she was causing her family and friends, she didn’t realize the pain of losing her was worse. Kids have it hard enough at that age, you add mental illness and it’s a struggle everyday for these kids. She lost her fight, Megan lost hers as well. Their suffering is over, my sympathy is with the family of Megan.

Thanks for posting it Morbid, I’m proud of my Amy, she was an amazing creature. HippiePoet, her poetry went with her, it was highly personal and we felt she’d want it that way. I journal as well, I bought her her first diary when she was 7 and she wrote constantly. Hugs back to you and thank you!

Ruby, I knew about Justamom’s daughter, and I saw that post, but I didnt say anything because a while back I had posted a comment asking her about it, and she didnt reply so I figure she may not want to talk about it. I think now she may have just not seen my post.

I’m so sorry Justamom that that happened, as many of us have said, you seem to be the best mother in the world, I have no doubt that you did everything you could and all the right things.

Ruby, I knew about Justamom’s daughter, and I saw that post, but I didnt say anything because a while back I had posted a comment asking her about it, and she didnt reply so I figure she may not want to talk about it. I think now she may have just not seen my post.

I’m so sorry Justamom that that happened, as many of us have said, you seem to be the best mother in the world, I have no doubt that you did everything you could and all the right things.

I’m sorry I didn’t reply solange I really didn’t see your post! Thanks for your sweet message!

I’m sorry I didn’t reply solange I really didn’t see your post! Thanks for your sweet message!

I’m sorry I didn’t reply solange I really didn’t see your post! Thanks for your sweet message!

I’m sorry I didn’t reply solange I really didn’t see your post! Thanks for your sweet message!

Don’t be sorry at all, please. I love Amy’s Page, she reminds me so much of me at that age. I also suffered from depression, so I know some of what she went through. I remember a psychiatrist I went to when I was a teenager told me that many people who suffer depression are much more sensitive than others, and it also means that they are more caring and compassionate. At the same time, it makes it harder to deal with life because we feel more strongly than other people. There are two sides to the coin, I guess. Back then, anti-depressants werent as popular, so although a doctor recommended I take them, my mom was afraid to let me. I suffered for many years, until my early 20′s, which is when I started taking them on my own. My little brothers suffer from depression, but they are much younger, so by the time they were in high school, my mom felt more comfortable allowing them to take them. It has made a big difference in their lives. I hope that nowadays there may be more ways to help kids who suffer like Amy and I did.

Don’t be sorry at all, please. I love Amy’s Page, she reminds me so much of me at that age. I also suffered from depression, so I know some of what she went through. I remember a psychiatrist I went to when I was a teenager told me that many people who suffer depression are much more sensitive than others, and it also means that they are more caring and compassionate. At the same time, it makes it harder to deal with life because we feel more strongly than other people. There are two sides to the coin, I guess. Back then, anti-depressants werent as popular, so although a doctor recommended I take them, my mom was afraid to let me. I suffered for many years, until my early 20′s, which is when I started taking them on my own. My little brothers suffer from depression, but they are much younger, so by the time they were in high school, my mom felt more comfortable allowing them to take them. It has made a big difference in their lives. I hope that nowadays there may be more ways to help kids who suffer like Amy and I did.

The lithium they prescribed for Amy “slowed her down” as she used to say. They made her sick and set off her migrains so she’d skip taking them, just toss the pill in the toilet. She started cycling so rapidly, nothing we did helped, they wouldn’t hospitalize her, we couldn’t get her stablized and that was it. She just wanted it all to stop. I’m glad you got the help you need, so many people just don’t understand that mental illness is just that an illness. In Amy’s case it was a terminal illness.

The lithium they prescribed for Amy “slowed her down” as she used to say. They made her sick and set off her migrains so she’d skip taking them, just toss the pill in the toilet. She started cycling so rapidly, nothing we did helped, they wouldn’t hospitalize her, we couldn’t get her stablized and that was it. She just wanted it all to stop. I’m glad you got the help you need, so many people just don’t understand that mental illness is just that an illness. In Amy’s case it was a terminal illness.

That’s right, I just remembered you said she was bi-polar. That is much much harder to treat, from what I’ve heard. I can’t believe they wouldnt hospitalize her, poor thing. Did they say why?

That’s right, I just remembered you said she was bi-polar. That is much much harder to treat, from what I’ve heard. I can’t believe they wouldnt hospitalize her, poor thing. Did they say why?

solange, she was 17 and they wanted her in an addiction center, we had done that and it didn’t work. Bi polars have higher addiction rates because of loss of implulse control. They told us unless we sent her to an addiction evaluation they wouldn’t admit her. The addiction counsellor said she needed to be admitted again into a for profit addiction center, we tried to make them realize she is bi polar and is cycling out of control, to no avail.

solange, she was 17 and they wanted her in an addiction center, we had done that and it didn’t work. Bi polars have higher addiction rates because of loss of implulse control. They told us unless we sent her to an addiction evaluation they wouldn’t admit her. The addiction counsellor said she needed to be admitted again into a for profit addiction center, we tried to make them realize she is bi polar and is cycling out of control, to no avail.

Witch burning is back.

http://www.kmbc.com/news/14794438/detail.html

Witch burning is back.

http://www.kmbc.com/news/14794438/detail.html

Witch burning is back.

http://www.kmbc.com/news/14794438/detail.html

You know, I hate this situation but this is wrong. If you don’t like what this woman did, don’t socialize with her but to threated her life IS against the law. I’m not going to pretend to have all this sympathy but things are getting out of hand. The DA said no charges can be brought, let it be. If Megan’s family files suit, let it be. We were lucky, we were able to bring charges, we were able to sue and we were able to make changes in the hospital policies.

Megan’s family might feel better finding a way to better their community and those in the community should do the same. Make the world a better place in Megan’s name, it helped my ex husband, my surviving daughter and myself to give in our community.

You know, I hate this situation but this is wrong. If you don’t like what this woman did, don’t socialize with her but to threated her life IS against the law. I’m not going to pretend to have all this sympathy but things are getting out of hand. The DA said no charges can be brought, let it be. If Megan’s family files suit, let it be. We were lucky, we were able to bring charges, we were able to sue and we were able to make changes in the hospital policies.

Megan’s family might feel better finding a way to better their community and those in the community should do the same. Make the world a better place in Megan’s name, it helped my ex husband, my surviving daughter and myself to give in our community.

20/20 just did a feature, too, tonite…
the drews are gonna have to move soon…
lori drew’s business had to shut down and the neighbours hate her…
i know i’d hate looking at her evil fat face myself….

20/20 just did a feature, too, tonite…
the drews are gonna have to move soon…
lori drew’s business had to shut down and the neighbours hate her…
i know i’d hate looking at her evil fat face myself….

20/20 just did a feature, too, tonite…
the drews are gonna have to move soon…
lori drew’s business had to shut down and the neighbours hate her…
i know i’d hate looking at her evil fat face myself….

I just watched it,too. Saw this a little bit ago

http://tinyurl.com/37wprn

The Drew family is already gone.

The Drew family is already gone.

Good riddance. Just dont move to Florida, please!

Wonder if tax dollars went towards that under some kind of relocation program.

Wonder if tax dollars went towards that under some kind of relocation program.

Wonder if tax dollars went towards that under some kind of relocation program.

Wonder if tax dollars went towards that under some kind of relocation program.

Wonder if tax dollars went towards that under some kind of relocation program.

Wonder if tax dollars went towards that under some kind of relocation program.

Wonder if tax dollars went towards that under some kind of relocation program.

Also, something sounds really fishy about “Oh, the girls just approached me with this idea….” Yeah, your daughter, who is what 13?, got together with your employee, who is 18, and they came to you? So your 13 year old daughter and your 18 year old employee like to hang out together, they must have SO much in common, one being in middle school and the other about to graduate high school (notice sarcasm in my voice?) No, more like SHE came up with the idea with her daughter, and enlisted her employee to help. And let’s face it, she isn’t going through all that trouble just to see what Megan was saying about her little girl. They were doing it to be CRUEL, to embarrass her, to be able to laugh behind her back. There is NO DOUBT in my mind of this. I know Morbid would jump down my throat and say that I have no proof of this, but until someone shows me proof otherwise, this is what I think (oh, and sorry, her lawyer going on Good Morning America and saying that she didnt write the messages or come up with the idea does not qualify as proof to me. It sounds like she knew she better change her story around before she looks like more of a bitch than she already is)

Also, something sounds really fishy about “Oh, the girls just approached me with this idea….” Yeah, your daughter, who is what 13?, got together with your employee, who is 18, and they came to you? So your 13 year old daughter and your 18 year old employee like to hang out together, they must have SO much in common, one being in middle school and the other about to graduate high school (notice sarcasm in my voice?) No, more like SHE came up with the idea with her daughter, and enlisted her employee to help. And let’s face it, she isn’t going through all that trouble just to see what Megan was saying about her little girl. They were doing it to be CRUEL, to embarrass her, to be able to laugh behind her back. There is NO DOUBT in my mind of this. I know Morbid would jump down my throat and say that I have no proof of this, but until someone shows me proof otherwise, this is what I think (oh, and sorry, her lawyer going on Good Morning America and saying that she didnt write the messages or come up with the idea does not qualify as proof to me. It sounds like she knew she better change her story around before she looks like more of a bitch than she already is)

Also, something sounds really fishy about “Oh, the girls just approached me with this idea….” Yeah, your daughter, who is what 13?, got together with your employee, who is 18, and they came to you? So your 13 year old daughter and your 18 year old employee like to hang out together, they must have SO much in common, one being in middle school and the other about to graduate high school (notice sarcasm in my voice?) No, more like SHE came up with the idea with her daughter, and enlisted her employee to help. And let’s face it, she isn’t going through all that trouble just to see what Megan was saying about her little girl. They were doing it to be CRUEL, to embarrass her, to be able to laugh behind her back. There is NO DOUBT in my mind of this. I know Morbid would jump down my throat and say that I have no proof of this, but until someone shows me proof otherwise, this is what I think (oh, and sorry, her lawyer going on Good Morning America and saying that she didnt write the messages or come up with the idea does not qualify as proof to me. It sounds like she knew she better change her story around before she looks like more of a bitch than she already is)

Also, something sounds really fishy about “Oh, the girls just approached me with this idea….” Yeah, your daughter, who is what 13?, got together with your employee, who is 18, and they came to you? So your 13 year old daughter and your 18 year old employee like to hang out together, they must have SO much in common, one being in middle school and the other about to graduate high school (notice sarcasm in my voice?) No, more like SHE came up with the idea with her daughter, and enlisted her employee to help. And let’s face it, she isn’t going through all that trouble just to see what Megan was saying about her little girl. They were doing it to be CRUEL, to embarrass her, to be able to laugh behind her back. There is NO DOUBT in my mind of this. I know Morbid would jump down my throat and say that I have no proof of this, but until someone shows me proof otherwise, this is what I think (oh, and sorry, her lawyer going on Good Morning America and saying that she didnt write the messages or come up with the idea does not qualify as proof to me. It sounds like she knew she better change her story around before she looks like more of a bitch than she already is)

Read the police report.
She even admitted that the converstation took on a sexual nature.

Read the police report.
She even admitted that the converstation took on a sexual nature.

Gothabella, taxes better have not gone towards that. They can pay for their own damn relocation. If they are short on funds, they could always write a book about their experience, something along the lines of “How to Drive A Teenager to Suicide, For Dummies”

Gothabella, taxes better have not gone towards that. They can pay for their own damn relocation. If they are short on funds, they could always write a book about their experience, something along the lines of “How to Drive A Teenager to Suicide, For Dummies”

Yeah, but now the police are saying that it was a rumor. But this is on a police report? How is that possible?

Yeah, but now the police are saying that it was a rumor. But this is on a police report? How is that possible?

You’re right…but any book they write, the proceeds BETTER go to the Meiers family. I watched them on 20/20 tonight. They still aren’t doing well.

You’re right…but any book they write, the proceeds BETTER go to the Meiers family. I watched them on 20/20 tonight. They still aren’t doing well.

You’re right…but any book they write, the proceeds BETTER go to the Meiers family. I watched them on 20/20 tonight. They still aren’t doing well.

You’re right…but any book they write, the proceeds BETTER go to the Meiers family. I watched them on 20/20 tonight. They still aren’t doing well.

the question is why are so many of you out there making these emotionally challenged children..who cant cope think there fuk-ups but r actually normal (whatever that means..something the parents r doing NOT BLOGGERS! stop medicating and instead SPEND TIME ON THE KID’S SELF ESTEEM..give them challenges…not dope!!!

the question is why are so many of you out there making these emotionally challenged children..who cant cope think there fuk-ups but r actually normal (whatever that means..something the parents r doing NOT BLOGGERS! stop medicating and instead SPEND TIME ON THE KID’S SELF ESTEEM..give them challenges…not dope!!!

THANK YOU misfit82nd! It still doesn’t detract from the Drew’s culpability.

THANK YOU misfit82nd! It still doesn’t detract from the Drew’s culpability.

THANK YOU misfit82nd! It still doesn’t detract from the Drew’s culpability.

THANK YOU misfit82nd! It still doesn’t detract from the Drew’s culpability.

I’m sorry, I think it is a damn shame how people are treating this woman. She did not kill Megan. Megan decided to end her life all by herself. She was suicidal, who knew? If it wasn’t this woman and her daughter that set her off, eventually it would of probably been something else. It has been stated that Megan was on medications, she was depressed. Damn, anyone could of said something to her during this time in her life and in her depressed state, set her on a downward spiral. How can we blame someone for someone else’s suicide? It means taking YOUR OWN life. She made a choice to put a rope around her neck and hang herself. No one made her do it. Goddamn I cannot imagine what this woman’s husband and daughter feel. When one of them strokes the fuck out, or gets so depressed they kill themselves, is every person that has ridiculed them going to get the blame? I think not, that would be ludicrous.
I can speak from a bit of personal experience here. I’ve been treated off and on for years with anxiety/depression disorder, or another fancy name for it BiPolar disorder. I couldn’t even openly admit it, until a few years ago. Only close friends and family members knew. (yeah, call me crazy, believe me I’ve heard it before) I went through the usual teen-age bull-shit, except I’d lost my Dad with brain cancer at nine, and at 14 my mother was diagnosed with lung cancer. Believe me, when you are feeling lower than low, when you are feeling like a piece of fucking shit…one little thing can set you off. One thing. If that one thing is someone telling me, I am a worthless piece of shit that ought to off myself and I go and goddamn do it then what the fuck, you gonna charge them for my death. I’m fucked up, and I took my life….well dammit, it’s sad as hell, but Megan took her own life. Yes the neighbor lady is crude, rude, unpleasant, but she is not a murderer. Megan murdered herself, and yes it is tragic, I feel sorry for all the families.
Peace

I’m sorry, I think it is a damn shame how people are treating this woman. She did not kill Megan. Megan decided to end her life all by herself. She was suicidal, who knew? If it wasn’t this woman and her daughter that set her off, eventually it would of probably been something else. It has been stated that Megan was on medications, she was depressed. Damn, anyone could of said something to her during this time in her life and in her depressed state, set her on a downward spiral. How can we blame someone for someone else’s suicide? It means taking YOUR OWN life. She made a choice to put a rope around her neck and hang herself. No one made her do it. Goddamn I cannot imagine what this woman’s husband and daughter feel. When one of them strokes the fuck out, or gets so depressed they kill themselves, is every person that has ridiculed them going to get the blame? I think not, that would be ludicrous.
I can speak from a bit of personal experience here. I’ve been treated off and on for years with anxiety/depression disorder, or another fancy name for it BiPolar disorder. I couldn’t even openly admit it, until a few years ago. Only close friends and family members knew. (yeah, call me crazy, believe me I’ve heard it before) I went through the usual teen-age bull-shit, except I’d lost my Dad with brain cancer at nine, and at 14 my mother was diagnosed with lung cancer. Believe me, when you are feeling lower than low, when you are feeling like a piece of fucking shit…one little thing can set you off. One thing. If that one thing is someone telling me, I am a worthless piece of shit that ought to off myself and I go and goddamn do it then what the fuck, you gonna charge them for my death. I’m fucked up, and I took my life….well dammit, it’s sad as hell, but Megan took her own life. Yes the neighbor lady is crude, rude, unpleasant, but she is not a murderer. Megan murdered herself, and yes it is tragic, I feel sorry for all the families.
Peace

Drew’s are guilty of this: 100% cheeseballs.

Yeah, I guess Lori is one hell of a roper, considering she got that rope around Megan’s neck from across the street. She be damn good out on the farm.

What the fuck did ya have to mention cheese ball for, now I got the damn munchies. Thanks Death Watch. *sticks tongue out childishly*

Yeah, I guess Lori is one hell of a roper, considering she got that rope around Megan’s neck from across the street. She be damn good out on the farm.

What the fuck did ya have to mention cheese ball for, now I got the damn munchies. Thanks Death Watch. *sticks tongue out childishly*

well I have been reading all of these post and I have a confession I more than anyone know first hand what deperssion and bipolor can do to your mind the cycles at times are unbearable and you can be set off to want to kill your self over the stupidest shit I was diognosed with bipolor manic deprssive ilness several years ago and i am here to tell you it dose’nt go away I take my med’s every day I have been to therpy and have learned coping skills and yes I think about suside on a weekly basis some times more just depends on my moods and it is so fregging hard when your on a down ward sprial and your crying every day and some one ask why are you crying ans you have to tell the you dont know why you feel like a freak and you know nothing is gonna make it better except when you cycle back up I know what amy went thru and what megan went through I just wish everyone would quit calling her a whack job who offed her self amy had a supportive family as do i but unfourtunitly megan did’nt some time the family evn with all the support and love cant always stop a person with bipolor thats where the coping skills come in handy for me its simple things such as just the other day and every time I think about killing my self I talk myself out of it by saying to my self well I’ll just see what I get for christmas or I can’t go yet I have to finish laying the new floor tile I basically remind myself I can always do it later after I finish all of my projects and God knows I’ll never finish them and as for Lori Drew and this comes from personal experince a person who knows that another person is unstable which she admits she knew megan was weather the law says guilty or not she is ad we all don’t have to worry cuse granpappy told my pappy back in my day son a man had to answer for the wicked things he done its time the long arm of the law laid a few more in the ground send em to their maker and he’ll set em down
and thats all I have to say about that!

megan’s dad on 20/20 just broke my heart…he looks like he is having a huge issue dealing with her death, every time he opened his mouth – he was crying…made me cry, too, dammit…
and the neighbours… they were still in pieces over it too….
i see both sides of everyone’s argument… yes, megan took her OWN life, and she had some mental instability…
but lori drew knew she was insecure, unstable, and seems to be backpedalling faster & faster on what her actual role/involvement was…
if she TRULY cared about megan, her OWN family, her business, her reputation – she prob would’ve been further along to admit her role, apologize for how far it went, how it wasn’t intended to happen like that, show some grief for the loss of a child that used to play in her home… rather than COVERING HER FAT ASS…
i feel for lori drew’s kids somewhat (until i know exactly what the daughter’s involvement was), but lori drew can rot in hell & suffer the consequences of her actions.
i admit i am pleased that justice has been done for megan in a roundabout sort of way!

megan’s dad on 20/20 just broke my heart…he looks like he is having a huge issue dealing with her death, every time he opened his mouth – he was crying…made me cry, too, dammit…
and the neighbours… they were still in pieces over it too….
i see both sides of everyone’s argument… yes, megan took her OWN life, and she had some mental instability…
but lori drew knew she was insecure, unstable, and seems to be backpedalling faster & faster on what her actual role/involvement was…
if she TRULY cared about megan, her OWN family, her business, her reputation – she prob would’ve been further along to admit her role, apologize for how far it went, how it wasn’t intended to happen like that, show some grief for the loss of a child that used to play in her home… rather than COVERING HER FAT ASS…
i feel for lori drew’s kids somewhat (until i know exactly what the daughter’s involvement was), but lori drew can rot in hell & suffer the consequences of her actions.
i admit i am pleased that justice has been done for megan in a roundabout sort of way!

“if she TRULY cared about megan, her OWN family, her business, her reputation – she prob would’ve been further along to admit her role, apologize for how far it went, how it wasn’t intended to happen like that, show some grief for the loss of a child that used to play in her home… rather than COVERING HER FAT ASS…”

Amen LL44, amen. I couldnt have said it better myself!

Misfit, it’s pretty cruel and outrageous for you to sit here and say that people like JUSTAMOM, who has proven by her words and actions to be one of the sweetest and caring mothers, lost her daughter because she didn’t “SPEND TIME ON HER KID”S SELF-ESTEEM”. Do you even halfway understand what a mental illness is? Are you that fucking stupid that you think that all it takes is a parent’s attitude to cure depression or someone who is bi-polar??? Go fuck yourself troll. I never insult people on here who disagree or debate with me, but you are just an asshole. You want an outrageous reaction? You got it bitch!

Oh ,and by the way, according to the neighbor, LORI told her a much different story than what she is saying now. That bitch IS backpeddling!!

“She did sit here in my living room and confess everything to me. She told me that they had pulled an image of a boy off the Internet and that they had created an account using the name of Josh Evans, and she said she knew the last message that left her house that Monday when Megan attempted her life was that, ‘The world would be a better place without you,’” said the neighbor, who asked that her identity not be revealed.

Oh ,and by the way, according to the neighbor, LORI told her a much different story than what she is saying now. That bitch IS backpeddling!!

“She did sit here in my living room and confess everything to me. She told me that they had pulled an image of a boy off the Internet and that they had created an account using the name of Josh Evans, and she said she knew the last message that left her house that Monday when Megan attempted her life was that, ‘The world would be a better place without you,’” said the neighbor, who asked that her identity not be revealed.

Oh ,and by the way, according to the neighbor, LORI told her a much different story than what she is saying now. That bitch IS backpeddling!!

“She did sit here in my living room and confess everything to me. She told me that they had pulled an image of a boy off the Internet and that they had created an account using the name of Josh Evans, and she said she knew the last message that left her house that Monday when Megan attempted her life was that, ‘The world would be a better place without you,’” said the neighbor, who asked that her identity not be revealed.